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Smartguyboy:
Next time just look for hookup site to make your choice and pay less base on your location.

that money he spent for don give am 2 clean babe for 2 night.

you didn't act dominant enough for her,by dominant I don't mean violent,i mean it like a father daughter relationship,if you would hold her,then go ahead and hold her if thats what you want to do,if you want to kiss her,then go ahead and do it , without asking or being shy of your intentions, take charge of her,tell her what to do with a straight face, guide your emotions,be firm to be frank she felt you were too loose around her and the dominant alpha took over,when you are ready to splurge your cash on a woman beter have the will to put her through the process.hardluck no dey give them chance like that,na so e dey sweet most of them.again she wasn't acting on purpose,its a n average ladies intuition to behave like that with a guy she finds offensively comfortable,you soon become like peers and end up in the friend zone.

U Bleep up...u for collect the swimming trunk u bought for her...... make the new guy go buy her another one..
But u be mumu sha oo
Girl wey u never Bleep...u dey go impress her...

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

This is what Nigerian calls "BAD MARKET "

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

Bros,

Abeg I need 5k.

Thanks

91278..55246 Opay

advanceDNA:
At least u don learn.....

If u give ur mama...u go collect correct prayer

But now,wetin,he collect? Na curse? Oh boy,you past justice funmi o.

Lurdd:
I dey give mama but true true I Neva I gather this kine money wey I spend today give am once

My people say,the first money gathered by youngster, is always been wasted on moimoin and non essentials.if I be your papa,l go cane you so tee,your brain go reset,and get corrected.

Wodu89:
I disagree. Don't let people mislead you against loving. You did nothing wrong. She's acting her age and would come to realization after the opportunity is gone. You did well. You only would need someone that matches your energy. There's no shame in your noble deeds. You didn't fuckup.

That's right! Keep on deceiving the lad.

@siofra

The most important question is, Are you tall??

Asking from experience.


@me
Experience as how? So you have done this type of thing to son of man before? Siofra, siofra.... siofra.

Smartguyboy:
Relax na dem two chop the money

Which money....u think say the guy go wake up dey carry uber, dey chop thousands of naira worth of food....dey swim for pool...

advanceDNA:
Which money....u think say the guy go wake up dey carry uber, dey chop thousands of naira worth of food....dey swim for pool...

But no be by force na him lose guard
Before you take girl out una for don discuss how the fučk go be first.
This days each time I take a lady out we go always end up my house.

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel i.what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

Baptism 101.

You cannot negotiate genuine desire. If e didnt dey, e didnt dey.

lilvicky68:
Stop dating girls below 26years, majority will stress you

He is 23. Na 30 year old ladies him go date ni?

Smartguyboy:
But no be by force na him lose guard
Before you take girl out una for don discuss how the fučk go be first.
This days each time I take a lady out we go always end up my house.

Na now e no be by force abi.....
But if na the guy fvck am waka now..or she get bele...the guy tell am say no be force u spread leg....una go say shebi e get sister for house..

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

Lmaoooooo!!!

Werey!! She took you to the cleaners!!! You spent all this dough on a girl who is not even your gf yet and you drank yourself to stupor afterwards? You see just how weak you look and you think she'll like you?

Join the redpill and thank me later

Wodu89:
Stop leading him the wrong path. We have already way too much 30-45s without marriage or relationships. Stop teaching him to be unemotional and loveless.


If maturity leads, you ought to preach forgiveness, moving on and not leading him to unleash the beast. It's wrong. Red Pilling is about emotional mastery and not suppressing the human soul till it becomes a wood

Shüt dafuq up,you simp-witch!!!

I'm a redpiller and I'm not soulless, but logical. So because there are so many 30-45s out there, men should wife up hôes? WTF!!!

Wodu89:
There's no shame in love. Only watch out for such behaviors. If people don't match your energy both male and female, withdraw. Don't overspend too. You'll find who values you even without anything

Jesus fuqin Christ!!!

Where do you live? I wanna collect your phone!!!

Hey chap,

IRMC

marsup:
You did good...

hahahahahaha

Even his ancestors would be ashamed.
Those resources would have done better on close relatives and friends.

Lurdd:
Women what are your problems exactly..If I no spend now, una go Still complain

You are their problem.

Lurdd:
I met this girl November last year
I was coming back from work when I saw her, so I decided to woo her..
So I started like hello excuse me the we chatted along..so I got her number and called her in the night, guess what she was already waiting for my call, then we got to know each other more..later on I asked her if she has a boyfriend she said no...so days later she was like feeling guilty of lieing she then told me she has..and he is in Abuja. That I should not mind there's nothing serious blw them that she's trying to cut him off...I said ok, and didn't care much about that..so on 31st we went out and on a date.it was about 8pm when we were about to leave..we heard gun shots around the hotel and the hotel management locked everywhere saying that cult boys are disturbing in the street.
So she asked me if we could lodge till morning that she's scared of leaving.
I said ok..paid with my credit card and we lodged that night...so as I was sleeping and had nothing in mind cus that was our first date ..so around after 10 I woke up to pee,I was surprised to see her completely naked and leening on me as I slept wearing only boxers..so immediately I saw that, I was moved and body changed I called her name and she answered and said she could not sleep.. I said Jesus quietly as I stood up heading to the toilet. What is this oh God as I was staring at my already hungry angry d*ck..it's been three years since I've had sex..what will I do now as I tried calming my d*ck down but all my efforts proved abortive..
Just as I was thinking, I heard her calling me that she's scared..my God what is this, I then came out and went to the bed she the kept her arm around me as I lay silently thinking..
On a second thought I kissed her first, before I could know what was going on, she rode me like a bicycle, pounced on me delt with me mercilessly...so today I was thinking to myself that I don't need this ...like this girl has come to make me loose focus, and concentration this year and in life...just when I was thinking she called me.
Kept calling till 24 missed calls she saw me online, texted me I didn't reply...she called me again I picked and told her I don't want this anymore she cried kept crying that I have used her, I tried to console her she refused.. saying all men are the same bla bla bla, I used her this and that, but deep inside me I know that I didn't use her.. it just came to me this morning that I don't want this..this year
I apologized that I was sorry..but I don't want distractions this year...
Nairaland did I do wrong to her

Lurdd:
Bro this was supposed to be date..
While at the eatery I told her my intentions which she said she will think about.

Why did you not also tell her that you will think about getting her swimsuit and pay for her swimming

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

Give me the girl number, let me talk to her for you.

madscientist88:
you didn't act dominant enough for her,by dominant I don't mean violent,i mean it like a father daughter relationship,if you would hold her,then go ahead and hold her if thats what you want to do,if you want to kiss her,then go ahead and do it , without asking or being shy of your intentions, take charge of her,tell her what to do with a straight face, guide your emotions,be firm to be frank she felt you were too loose around her and the dominant alpha took over,when you are ready to splurge your cash on a woman beter have the will to put her through the process.hardluck no dey give them chance like that,na so e dey sweet most of them.again she wasn't acting on purpose,its a n average ladies intuition to behave like that with a guy she finds offensively comfortable,you soon become like peers and end up in the friend zone.

Bro you didn't get it
She avoided me
She felt me touching her and moving her around was a disturbance, that's why I her by herself

Vision101:
@siofra

The most important question is, Are you tall??

Asking from experience.


@me
Experience as how? So you have done this type of thing to son of man before? Siofra,
siofra.... siofra.

Am very tall
Like 7ft

Lurdd:
Am very tall
Like 7ft

Then she's not attracted to you. You may be very handsome but she's just not attracted to you. Maybe you can try your luck again, don't seem desperate and don't be a rude ass misogynist.

siofra:
Then she's not attracted to you. You may be very handsome but she's just not attracted to you. Maybe you can try your luck again, don't seem desperate and don't be a rude ass misogynist.

Siofra
Wow ur my crush on nairaland
Thanks tho.

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

Ten is happening.

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

You are still young. Here is my advice for you.

Remember that you are the prize. If you are going on a date with a girl, you don't need to buy food.

A drink and a snack is more than enough.

Any girl that wants food is hungry, and you don't need a hungry girl in your life.

If she insists, make sure she settles it from her own pocket.

Whatever she orders, let her pay for it. For instance, you shouldn't have paid for her Uber.

If you had wanted to help, you could have paid 50% and leave the rest for her.

She was ordering you around like a kid and you were obeying like the mumu you are.

She obviously doesn't like you. It's not about your clothes. You were too nice and girls don't like nice guys.

By the way, stop dressing like Yahoo boys. It's a big turn off to most ladies.

We learn from experience and I hope you have learned.

I repeat, stop feeding girls in the name of going on a date.

A girl that genuinely likes you wouldn't mind drinking malt just to know you better.

You tried, I’d give you 3/10, at least for spending 30bg lol. Don’t mind me laughing at ya tho, and don’t let anyone stern OT here make you sorry. E don go.


Meanwhile, if you got the time, Search Ubunja and read a particular thread “chosen”

Since I read that shiii, my game changed for real, I’d just relax and choose from the numerous green light I see.

You’d hardly need to impress any girl who had already chosen you.

Good luck mate.

You tried but not too bad because you are a starter. You didn't have the experience.
Another thing I can see us that you were not the one who started the relationship she had you where she wanted you. Next time learn how to take charge.
After a nice day at the eatery politely disagree on the swimming. Tell her that will be for next time and no need of excuse like bcoz of money.
Tell the guy that asked you the truth and walk out like you did.
She go meet her type, then I am tempted to ask if you actually asked her out because if you didn't then she may be right you are just her friend.

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

dbestuncle:
You tried but not too bad because you are a starter. You didn't have the experience.
Another thing I can see us that you were not the one who started the relationship she had you where she wanted you. Next time learn how to take charge.
After a nice day at the eatery politely disagree on the swimming. Tell her that will be for next time and no need of excuse like bcoz of money.
Tell the guy that asked you the truth and walk out like you did.
She go meet her type, then I am tempted to ask if you actually asked her out because if you didn't then she may be right you are just her friend.

Dem dey chop man money without knowing what the game is about ?


He needed the experience

Lurdd:
There's this girl I met..
I sheepishly fell for her after few romantic calls from her
She's fair and pretty.
Then I decided to take her out today,she took a cab which I paid 2k. so we went to an eatery.. then I bought rice and chicken and some stuffs we ate..the bill was 13500, after we were done around 2:35 we left there, she said she wanted to go swimming I then took her to a fancy hotel with an Uber 3k.. on getting there she saw a guy she knew, they exchanged pleasantries which I didn't care about.. turns out that the guy came to swim as well...the swimming was 4k each for both of us.. that's 8k plus the swimming trunks I bought for her that is 3500k...so we freshened up and jump into the pool, i noticed she avoided me inside the pool, always wanting to play alone, and avoided me touching her then I left her on her own..and was swimming alone and having fun, I came back again for her to notice me, she still snubbed me...I left her alone and sat down near the pool when it was raining and there was this cold that pulled me down as I was shivering... meanwhile she was still inside the pool having fun all by herself... until this guy we met when we came.. went inside the pool..I then saw them interacting and I was annoyed..not until I saw him backing her and carrying her around inside the pool while they have fun... Not once not twice, she later came later came to me and ask if I was feeling cold I said yes she said sorry and went back inside the pool...to cut the story short, while I was sitting all by myself interacting with some guys, that guy she was playing with came and told me that my girl said that I was just a friend that he wanted to confirm himself, so he will know he's not offending anyone.. I felt like an idiot, as I went to the dressing room and put on my clothes and left scene looking foolish as she called me back..
On my way back home I bought magic moment vodka.. and drank myself to stupur
Am still high while typing these... What is the problem..I put on an expensive VL shirt with a jogger I bought 21k a slippers of 7k, I sprayed a very nice perfume. I have a very nice facial look...what was the problem if I may ask, I avoided girls like plague all my life and gave this one chance and she made me a fool, am only 23. I think I've learnt my lesson.. my deepest regrets was the whole money I spent, it should remained in my account.. girls fear my return.

I really feel embarrassed 4 u by reading your story.

Moral be careful going out with random girls they can disgrace u I have had my experience too but not as bad as yours