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Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 11:09am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Cloudflare: That is the reason I said you dated one of those Nigerian girls and not a covert narc. A covert narc is like an eagle, she monitors you often, knows when to roll on the floor to apologise, even give you the said attention, all this she know what she is doing. Most of them start changing when you get married to them. This girl at a stage in the relationship will beg and beg, and make it look like she will die if I leave, all was to get me deep and committed. They disguise as that dream girl you want, and when they get you, they start destroying you. You are not strong than man that were once destroyed by female narc. I doubt you have ever dated a covert narcissist. 5 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 11:13am On Jul 14, 2023 |
dunga09: Didn't you notice those signs early before wedding her? I know she pushed you for marriage early with her love bombing. I almost did same mistake of marrying her. Sorry for your experience. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:15am On Jul 14, 2023 |
vickydevoka: I agree. But, "usually" should be the word, not "always". |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by achimendy(m): 11:22am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Saintinoo: Don't describe that as emotional strongness but inaction on your part. Secondly, telling me to get into a relationship them and see is very funny and senseless, because you believe every man will behave thesame way you did. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:24am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Igboid: He is. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:25am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Cloudflare: You're a narcissist too. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Xtopherprince(m): 11:27am On Jul 14, 2023 |
poshestmina: Have got this live in girlfriend. She was previously staying with the brother, he couldn't afford rent so she moved in with me. Been footing her bills but damn girl is never appreciative. It's always all about what she wants and nothing else. Gets angry over petty issues. She's only got male friends, and when I object she limits how often she always visits them, it's silent treatment for a week. Got her a job last month at a friend's company to keep her busy atleast, Immediately she got her first salary she stopped going. Dude had to call me to ask why she stopped, I wasn't even aware. Confronted her bout it and we've not been on speaking terms since. Recently told her I'd stop footing her bills and she should look for someone else to stay with by the end of this month. Really can't deal anymore... 6 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:31am On Jul 14, 2023 |
megabank: Truth. Everyone claims they dated a narcissist or are friends with one but are never narcissists themselves. Laughable. The truth is, everyone has a trait/tinge of narcissism in them. Everyone. 3 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by achimendy(m): 11:40am On Jul 14, 2023 |
Saintinoo: From your write up I already know the kind of man you're. That guy you replied to is also saying the exact thing I told you in my previous comments, but you still don't want to accept that you're a simp. And the funny part is that, you want every man to believe that no man can handle a female narcissists just like you. It is very very wrong of you to think that way. Have you ever thought of Male narcissists b4?, or a Male and female narcissists dating each other b4? Have you thought of what will become of their relationship , or you believe is only women that are designed to be narcissists?? If you've ever thought of this I don't think you will be saying all this things you're saying. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Cloudflare: 12:30pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: It takes a narcissist to know one 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by goldust777: 12:31pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
achimendy:He is not a simp narcissist get level there is surface narcissist the average Nigerian girl and pathogical or deep narcissist this are the real demons in humanskin that can send you to aro or yaba mental asylum/mental hospital by merely dating,marrying or being very close to them 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Cloudflare: 12:35pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Saintinoo: That's emotional manipulations and being clingy. Everything you wrote above is called emotional manipulations. You mistake emotional manipulations as narcissist? Dude girls like the one you wrote above are highly manipulative. Dude a girl who's narcissist Won't beg for your attention at all, she won't beg and beg you in the relationship. Na you sef go dey beg her just like the OP did. U will be the one that will always apologize to her just like the OP did. I dey tell you say u no fit handle the narcissist wey I don deal with before let alone banging them. Re-read my comments again to understand my point. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by QueenVaji: 12:38pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
BobbieZion: If you catch them lying even red handed then u have started another war cos they rather die that to admit...i call my ex devil 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Degrezhaa: 12:39pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
pansophist: Can you tell me some of the traits of narcissists and how to spot them from afar. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by goldust777: 12:53pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
achimendy:Nigerian veteran Nollywood actor saint obi wife was a female covert narcissist go and google what happened to saint obi and where he is today |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by vickydevoka(m): 2:21pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Yes. You are right |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Munzy14(m): 3:34pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
poshestmina:The worst punishment any human will do, is having an affair with a Narcist. I call them master manipulators/people users. They only love themselves. 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by DonroxyII: 4:20pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Saintinoo:Learn Your Lessons & Handle Your relationship Better next time .... A Man Must Be Ready to Manned His Woman or Get da Fvck Out ! |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by true2god: 4:36pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
BobbieZion:My great OG, I love your write-up. Your last paragraph got me cracked up; My former evil Patience may God punish you wherever you are; the greatest narcissist and psycho bitch of all time. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by achimendy(m): 5:21pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
goldust777: What makes you think every man is like saint obi? |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by 6ixT8: 5:25pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Fazefaze sup? |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by 6ixT8: 5:29pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Till one banny like that begin dey try press how lean I becomes. I'd to call her out to her toxicity. Babe begin para. I have to keep her at arm length. Many people dey lean already for this country wey we gather dey, no one need reminder. |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by achimendy(m): 5:49pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
goldust777: Why do you only think of female narcissists? Have you ever thought of male narcissist too?? |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by QueenVaji: 6:03pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Saintinoo: Do you stay in aba? That virgin part is a typical weapon of covert narcs...as they want u to believe they are too perfect Baba honestly speakin eh, Am really scared reading all that you wrote up there and also with other peoples experience...its as if we dated the same girl and to make matters worse, i still want to go back to her after 5 months we broke up already 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Olufemiolaolu(m): 6:05pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Narcissists are slave drivers. They always want to debase someone. They are highly manipulative too I hate their personality because they are demons. 3 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by DonroxyII: 6:33pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
achimendy:He was Bombed ... He need to Work on His Emotions ... He was Overtly attached & Once a Smart Woman Discovers You are Weak for Her(Even if You are Truly Weak, Don't Show Weaknesses) .. She Will Use Your Head Play Snoker Small Before Tossing You Away or Pitying Your SillySimping Ass to Help You .... Simply Be a Man & Define Your Tolerance & Endurance Levels before taking Decisive Actions Then You shall Be OK! |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by DonroxyII: 6:36pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Xtopherprince:... You Say You be Prince .... The Average IQ of a Prince is full of "Wisdom" & to Cap it You must have Innate Powers But to be Run Street .... Omoh, Where your kingdom from |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Perfectman91: 8:58pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Holluwhakemmy: Omoh, such is life o 2 Likes |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 9:26pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Cloudflare: No need replying you dude, sure you must be a male narcissist too. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 9:28pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
goldust777: Leave those guys, they claim strong on social media while they beg ladies for sex online. Victims of covert narcissist are medically advised to seek therapy because that shit is a terrible disorder, to them everyone but them is a simp. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 9:30pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
QueenVaji: They will start a war, if you catch them lying until you apologize. I don't wish NY worst enemy such experience. 1 Like |
Re: Ever Been In Relationship With A Narcissist, Share Your Experience. by Saintinoo(m): 9:36pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
QueenVaji: The best us to go no contact, remove every means of reaching her, I am doing that now, it is not easy, I went back after two months of ghosting her, that was when the real her came out. I had to go back to ghosting her and decided that it was over for good. It is the love bombing that makes you go back, when you think of how sweet she have been in the past, you feel you might not get another girl like her. I think one better way of forgetting her is to get a woman that have more that what she has, and seek help online. 2 Likes |
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