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My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Ijelenwanyioma: 11:38am On Jul 18, 2023 |
I am legally married to this man and we have 3 sons together. Recently he purchased some land which he actually told me about but when I checked the documents of all the land I only saw Mr(his name in full) and not Mr & Mrs (his name and surname) or Mr (his name ) and Mrs (My name ). This really gave me great concern and when I asked him, he told me it doesn't really count because the properties also belong to my children. Later he started accusing me that I am nursing ulterior motive in my heart and maybe I want to take over the properties which is blantly lies. I just want to feel ownership of the land too Please am I overreacting on this issue truly or my husband is planning something behind me ( maybe remarrying) 16 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by slimjohn2k5: 11:42am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Your first comment calling your husband 'this man' shows u r overreacting and worry from bad advise. You have kids, even if your name is not on his will, your kids name are so y worried? 552 Likes 38 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Omihanifa: 11:46am On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: You are being petty Why are you so bothered that the land documents didn't carry your name or mr& Mrs? You think say we men never wise up? 439 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by iammo(m): 12:00pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
You scared your husband... He bought his own property with his own money and he is still alive and you want to claim it He must be thinking you want to end his life, I am sure he would exclude you from his will He won't even make you his next of kin . 475 Likes 31 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by JealousCobra(m): 12:03pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: Can you imagine from the bolded, the man knew whom he has as a wife 😎 No decorum. 355 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by madridguy(m): 12:14pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Yes madam, you are overreacting on the matter. I like your husband. He is truly an African man. 298 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kooldon(f): 12:21pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Madam pls how much did you add to his money in the purchase of this land? 476 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by tyup(m): 12:29pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: The money he used in buying the land, was it a joint contribution. If yes, how much did you contribute?? 246 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Diligent1(f): 12:30pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:My husband bought a land with his own name and I never think about it for once why he did not include Mr& Mrs. If I buy my own, he cannot expect me to include him. 250 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Ijelenwanyioma: 12:40pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5:Honestly sir I didn't mean any disrespect. I initially addressed him as my husband in the beginning and calling him "this man" is like saying "this my guy" . Atimes he call me "you this woman" at home too. I am sorry please if it sounds disrespectful but he's a man and still my husband 133 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Ijelenwanyioma: 12:41pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
tyup:He bought it with his money. I didn't contribute to it and even when I offered to give him at least a million (just want my money to be part of it) he said I shouldn't worry 60 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by duro4chang(m): 12:42pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Nothing to worry about 10 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by CLATHRIN: 12:49pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: Make him shaa write will, that is the most important for me. As a man, he has to write a will that includes you and his kids. As I dey, I no fit marry person wey I no fit trust to write her name for will even if say na one plot of land I get. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by yarimo(m): 1:02pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Madam did you contributed in buying the land ? If no you are overreacting 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by 1Sharon(f): 1:50pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Maybe he believes you're not his family. 9 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Sharpsharp00123: 1:53pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:y not use that your 1 million naira to buy land n put your name on it? 236 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Ijelenwanyioma: 1:59pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Sharpsharp00123:But you know a million naira can't buy land in any good location. Thanks for your contribution anyway 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Ijelenwanyioma: 2:00pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
1Sharon:You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Waffarianman(m): 2:11pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Women with their wahala sef the land it's still your land and the children why worrying. Just free your mind okay everything will be alright 49 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Sharpsharp00123: 2:19pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:then u save up instead of feeling entitled 109 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Tfinal: 2:45pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:if you are me then u would have kill urself. I worked so hard to build a supermarket and he claimed it, I paid 9m out of 10m for a landed property and he still claim it and his even accusing me of being jealous and petty. 18 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by vincenteger: 2:49pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Your Insecurities is killing you. Your husband is now refer to this man It's obvious you don't even love him and yet you want your name on the land documents. 46 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by youngreva(m): 2:50pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Lol Igbo women Always entitled with ulterior motives I hail una igbokwwenu 32 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by negaiyke: 2:53pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: From experience, I know that whenever a woman wants to report an issue, she will only tell the part that would draw peoples sympathy... Look you're an Igbo lady (I guess from your profile name caption).. Any Igbo man knows that you must always add your wife's name to properties, if not, when you gone, in-laws would flex muscles and leave your wife and kids nothing. Since your case is different, I believe that maybe: 1. You have taught him a lesson from a previous case of joint ownership of properties (maybe you guys bought a car or any items together before that he now regrets doing). 2. You have done same to him before now (you bought something without carrying him along)... you may deny here but in your heart you should know. 3. You may be warming up to people that scares him (say maybe a troublesome in-laws or friends) as such Oga wants to play safe My recommendation: 1. Land or properties title can be changed or updated any time, just work to build back your husband's trust. 2. Stop or keep away from whatever gave him that scare of including you to his common wealth. 65 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobojunkie: 2:58pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:You are right to be concerned given that marriage laws in Nigeria remain nothing to write home about. Sadly, since he has already bought the land in his name there may not be much you can do about it. These sort of issues are best addressed beforehand not afterwards. And please note that your husband's decision to purchase without including your name is not to be blamed on you. You are married to him and are not just some woman leasing his time. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by soke02(m): 3:13pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:before the land issue did u notice anything strange from him? or have u done something to make him not trust u? 4 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by jmoore(m): 3:15pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
You have trust issues. There is nothing wrong in what your husband did. You did not contribute a kobo for the purchase of the land. If I am your husband, I will also accuse you of having an ulterior motive. You claim you have I million and you can't buy a land in a good location with that amount. A village today can become a good location in the next 20 years. If you have money as you claim, go and use it and buy your own land. My Dad registered all his properties in his own name and my mother never complained about it. 43 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Reinamaria(f): 3:28pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Start making your own future plans now. Secure your future. 10 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by NoToPile: 3:30pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: No problem since you want a property too and you seem to have the funds. Buy a land and develop gradually. Now you know his stand on such issues. At least he rejected the money, some will collect and still buy the property in their name only. Also some men don't see their women as family, only their children is their blood. In this age that uncles will leave the children with nothing because it's 'our brothers property' you have a right to be concerned, ignore the you are over reacting comments. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by BigBlackPreek(m): 4:03pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
una marriage wahala no dey ever finish 2 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by meobizy(f): 4:03pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Vex by buying your own piece of land and/or building. 10 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Sirchiboy: 4:04pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:.. You are a 😆 4 Likes |
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