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What of the inflated ego?

superemmy:
What a load of rubbish

Once i saw that "Nigerian women are appreciative" i just scrolled away.

uche87:
Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.

I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.

Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing.
Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.

(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:

Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.

(2) Financial independence:

The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.

(3) Beauty and fashion:

UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol

(4) Better opportunities:

Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.

(5) Adaptability:

If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.

(6) Happy Ending:

UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.

(7) Mental stability:

Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.

( Fiscal compatibility:

Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.

(9) Better exposure:

Traveling itself is a form of education. As you pass through places, they also pass through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.

(10) Cooking:

Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.

big lies… the reality is the opposite of what the op has said. Nigerian women here in the UK are the worst set of human beings u could ever meet abroad. Nobody wants to marry them even Nigerian men are dodging them.. that’s y most of them don’t have husbands… they most time remain single and become single mothers and better stil they go back to Nigeria to find jst one man of lower status to marry at their old age.. they are old hags with perished and over used private parts.. no man would want that as a wife… it is only very few of Nigerian women abroad esp in the UK are manageable…..

Eriokanmi:
All these are physical attributes which mean nothing. What of the spiritual aspect? Are you compatible spiritually? Would you guys last as couple and be fruitful in all areas? Most of those using physical and material attributes as yardstick for future partners end up regretting.

Last weekend, I was seeing a client on the island. They're very wealthy. If I mention the name here, this thread go full with attacks but it's not necessary. They have a son who's like 2 feet tall. He's in his 30s. He can't feed on his own. They always shut the door at him each time they're going for events. He's rarely known by the public.

Each time they see this guy, they always feel sad. Before you enter their house, you must go through all manner of security screening as if you're entering an embassy for a visa appointment. The wife is an epitome of beauty. She also schooled abroad as the husband. He's their only son. Marerial things and careers don't guarantee ultimate happiness in marriage.

See God's face before you marry. Also, don't marry because of material wealth or career achievements. Look at those successful people today. They had a history of humble beginnings. I never knew Dangote and Pastor Adeboye were never born of rich parents until I heard their history from Mama ijesha, a nonagenarian who lives at ijeshatedo area of lagos. Dangote came from Kano to lagos as a boy and was squatted by Mallam Maitama who happened to be mama ijesha's first tenant. She showed me their apartment on the ground floor the day I visited her. I bought my land from her son, who asked me to see him on his arrival from the UK. The woman said pastor adeboye once worked part time at her uncle's place, a popular cocoa merchant back in the days. One day, the man had to tell pastor adeboye to stop coming to work there so he could concentrate on his studies and gave him scholarship...many won't hear a story like this but the sweet sides when Dangote's uncle gave him money to start business and all. This generation is too materialistic.

This is a great write up

Gerrard59:
But the majority of those men still don't marry UK bred Nigerian or black women. That's the koko. We're told Nigerian women bad, yet all of them dey think of moving to Nigeria to marry rather than marry Nigerian bred or UK bred Nigerian women.

At the end of the day, most of not all of men would marry Nigerian women. If na so Nigerian women in the UK bad , why are they not marrying foreign women, especially non-blacks?

the ones that grew up there mostly date or marry whites. The ones that just came many don’t have papers and are seen as red flags. Also many whites today don’t want marriage or kids which many 9ja men can’t accept.The work visa ones like tech , doctors and auditors usually go back to marry the girl they left behind. The nurses many are going back home to marry, the other nurses are just there crying everyday say man no dey 😂.

@OP, some homebased go call for ur head o

Lexusgs430:
Till she kicks you out of your house, attempts to block access to your children, accuses you of rape, accuses you of DV etc etc


You go hear am hot....... Marry the wrong uk lady, your own don finish, completely ......... 🤣😭

Dem no dey hia word

Nice article Osahon. 👌👌👌

Written by a manchii that haven't been to the UK , or is in the UK but lives under a rock.

Should I Also List Ten Reasons You Shouldn't?

Seyi Vibez said " iiiishh iiissh, de play ".

RosyIsBlessed:
Typical mindset of greed. So it's all about your benefit because you are a man. This is one of the reasons marriages are crumbling on a daily. Going into marriage with self-centered motive. I just hope no reasonable person take this into accord.

Won't the 'self' be affected in a relationship? Why shouldn't the 'self' making the decision be concerned about whether he is going to gain or lose?

@uche87

Good advice to those lazy youths who don’t have anything to offer or put on the table but are going from one pastor to another, praying to meet a partner or wife that will enrich them.

Awon freebies.

uche87:
Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.

I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.

Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing.
Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.

(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:

Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.

(2) Financial independence:

The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.

(3) Beauty and fashion:

UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol

(4) Better opportunities:

Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.

(5) Adaptability:

If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.

(6) Happy Ending:

UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.

(7) Mental stability:

Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.

( Fiscal compatibility:

Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.

(9) Better exposure:

Traveling itself is a form of education. As you pass through places, they also pass through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.

(10) Cooking:

Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.

Godforbid I marry any woman based abroad, there wahala no be here!!!

Because you guys can't find love in the UK, you guys decided to come with this strategy. It's okay and I wish you guys best of luck 🤞

U forgot to say they become feminist immediately they enter Europe,don't just expect submission from her,cos if want to get it as ur right as the head of the house,she will throw u in the cold without a jacket

U forgot to say they become feminist immediately they enter Europe,don't just expect submission from her,cos if want to get it as ur right as the head of the house,she will throw u in the cold without a jacket

Emmaomotob:
Won't the 'self' be affected in a relationship? Why shouldn't the 'self' making the decision be concerned about whether he is going to gain or lose?

Same self-centered mindset I'm talking about. So marriage is now business that you determine profit or loss (gain or lose)

May God help this generation. No wonder this generation marriages crumble at the snap of fingers.

I have this friend that lives in Germany (lets call him John). I connected John with a Nigerian girl in the UK in 2019. They matched and vibe well but as soon as she knew that he is not a German citizen or with PR, she just jilt the guy.

I was in the UK last summer and met with her. She was still single. She asked about John, and I told her that he is fine, done with his masters in engineering and works for Bosch. He is also a German citizen now.

It was few weeks later after my holiday John told me that she has been disturbing him since for a relationship, citing all kinds of excuses as reason why she suddenly cut off. Excuses such as mental health, dealing with personal and family issues etc.

But John is not an idiot. Anyways, John already moved on and will get married soon to his Ivorian/French fiance. I will be a best man for sure on his wedding. Na my sure paddi.

What I've seen in the UK few times I was there is the need to outsmart the other. The girls won't be with a guy that is just coming up. They date/marry for interest. That's the story of most.

They don't think ahead. If you do Uber today, then in their mind, you'll do Uber forever. It's either a ready-made or nothing. Working together with a guy and build up is almost an abomination. They don't build, the move in.

Whatever.

bonnyhope:
Can't someone stays here in Nigeria and date them?

When it works out then we can marry officially and join her there

You stand less chance, Nigerian woman travel down to Nigeria to marry you and bring you over?

The discouragement from her family will be Pro Max, bring you over to the UK when her own brothers still dey Nigeria?

A guy who is already here in the UK on a post study work visa stands a better chance,

As a guy, I can never encourage my younger sister to go back to Nigeria to marry and file for the guy, to come join her......I don't have time for 24/7 drama.

This article is giving "PR"

pocohantas:
Funny thread. Men and women would marry themselves if they deem themselves compatible and "in love".

I have male and female friends in the UK. The major problem I see is they are overly cautious of themselves and no relationship would ever work where both parties are trying to be "smart".

100%

Everybodi eye don open. People are no longer willing to be vulnerable. And this relationship/marriage thing hardly works where partners refuse to adjust their age-long norms and regulations.

Run. Brothers, run.

Be a passport bro. Get your passport and run.

pansophist:
I have this friend that lives in Germany (lets call him John). I connected John with a Nigerian girl in the UK in 2019. They matched and vibe well but as soon as she knew that he is not a German citizen or with PR, she just jilt the guy.

I was in the UK last summer and met with her. She was still single. She asked about John, and I told her that he is fine, done with his masters in engineering and works for Bosch. He is also a German citizen now.

It was few weeks later after my holiday John told me that she has been disturbing him since for a relationship, citing all kinds of excuses as reason why she suddenly cut off. Excuses such as mental health, dealing with personal and family issues etc.

But John is not an idiot. Anyways, John already moved on and will get married soon to his Ivorian/French fiance. I will be a best man for sure on his wedding. Na my sure paddi.

What I've seen in the UK few times I was there is the need to outsmart the other. The girls won't be with a guy that is just coming up. They date/marry for interest. That's the story of most.

They don't think ahead. If you do Uber today, then in their mind, you'll do Uber forever. It's either a ready-made or nothing. Working together with a guy and build up is almost an abomination. They don't build, the move in.

Whatever.

He dogged a bullet.

who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.

just imagine the useless statement, oniranu olofo persi

uche87:
Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.

I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.

Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing.
Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.

(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:

Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.

(2) Financial independence:

The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.

(3) Beauty and fashion:

UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol

(4) Better opportunities:

Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.

(5) Adaptability:

If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.

(6) Happy Ending:

UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.

(7) Mental stability:

Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.

( Fiscal compatibility:

Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.

(9) Better exposure:

Traveling itself is a form of education. As you pass through places, they also pass through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.

(10) Cooking:

Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.

Felimax:
Beautiful article!
I don't know why my friends in UK thinks otherwise.

This post is a sponsored advert by UK single women

ednut1:
This one is doing PR for Nigeria women in the Uk. If they have all those qualities listed up there men will be rushing them. They are mostly being avoided for obvious reasons 😆. The average Nigerian woman abroad has this over inflated ego just because she don japa. Tufiakwa

And the ones who decived you in Nigeria, by the time you marry them and take them top the UK, wont they develop this same inflated ego. It is the same thing will igbo men going to their villages to marry village women and taking them to the city, only for the women to tear eye in the city and start sleeping artound with different men. A bad woman is a bad woman, anywhere anytime.

Franzinni:
Op JJC dey worry you, don't forget the fact that you are the wife and she is the husband, and she can kick you out of your house if she likes , the western women are beyond repair heck most women with social media is a NO NO!

Just hit and run or be intentional with your relationship with them becasue like it or not they are intentional with thier relationship with you

Same with the one you marry here and carry over there.

superemmy:
What a load of rubbish

Garbage-grade my broda!

fxexperts:
Same with the one you marry here and carry over there.

exact same o ... Infact the ones you carry over thier are even worst becasue they quickly become power drunk and end up staring down the barrel of a gun in the hand of a frustrated man who has snapped ... All I am saying is, it is avoidable unless you want her for kpali then you tie your belt and enter knowing fully why you joined the union... But if for blind love ... Hmm

ednut1:
the ones that grew up there mostly date or marry whites. The ones that just came many don’t have papers and are seen as red flags. Also many whites today don’t want marriage or kids which many 9ja men can’t accept.The work visa ones like tech , doctors and auditors usually go back to marry the girl they left behind. The nurses many are going back home to marry, the other nurses are just there crying everyday say man no dey 😂.

False.

Damasco:
This one nah JJC for UK, when they call police and kick you out of the house, whilst paying child support your eye go clear

Look are this one. What do you know about kicking a man out of the house.

If the man's name was on the lease how can he be kicked out of his own house ?