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Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by fourboys: 1:34pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Mtcchh |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Anny69: 1:35pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
saphiere:Immediately you see him, his forehead would be glowing and your heart will be beating faster than normal. 1 Like |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by LUAN(m): 1:36pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Most people are not dating to know if the person is the right person, they are just dating for fun, sex, and the financial benefits. A girl told me she enjoyed it while it last. She doesn't care about the outcome, provided she got the sex the financial benefits, and the attention which is what the enjoy most 2 Likes |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Blitzking: 1:37pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Never marry a damaged woman.. and never marry an irresponsible man for peace of mind |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by jaxxy(m): 1:37pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ebubeson: How can u marry without dating? what u should be telling people is how to date properly or date the right people. Not that they shouldn't date and marry a stranger. 2 Likes |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by BarrElChapo(m): 1:44pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ebubeson: B.S. |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by saphiere(f): 1:46pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Anny69:dey play 1 Like |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Fortune118005(m): 1:46pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Hmmm! True talk |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Anny69: 1:51pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
saphiere:hehehe. |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Padipadi: 1:52pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:Watching out for red flags helps to choose wisely most times. If you are settling for someone, it means you are ready to overlook red flags and some red flags may disappear naturally as the relationship progress. Meanwhile, sonnobax15, is this your 15th account on this site? |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Anny69: 1:52pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Fortune118005:True talk ko... Lol. Go and marry a stranger. |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
True Love does not change but in this dispensation, people take True Love for granted. They will even think you are a fool (Mugu). ebubeson: 1 Like |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by isabi2lof: 1:54pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
My intention was to get married right without dating every dick and harry but now I dey low-key, relationship problem is too much these days |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Fortune118005(m): 1:55pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Anny69:I don't want to marry a stranger oo.... I just reread what the OP posted and I began to think how possible it is to get married without dating or courtship... |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by DenreleDave(m): 1:59pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
meobizy:Who told u millionaire no dey nairaland? |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Fiscus105(m): 2:00pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ebubeson: U said it all, some ladies desired to date one guy before marriage, but because of wrong choice of players, she might end up with up to 7 or more body counts before she finally settled down. The sexual experiences from different guys may not let her enjoy her marriage eventually. If she finally settled down with average husband in term of sexual skills, attention or spending for woman. Such wife needs God grace not to look outside after marriage. |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by DenreleDave(m): 2:00pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
isabi2lof:what if you are the wrong person to the right man? |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Noaim: 2:02pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ebubeson: If you don’t date around before settling down, how would you know different behaviours, where to draw the line and establish your tolerance level or limit. You may be treated like trash and be used to it while considering it as normal due to lack of prior experiences with the opposite sex. First hand experience in relationships enables you to know people very well than relying on the fake display of affection or lies most couples portray superficially. As a guy man now, having dated some of the most beautiful, kindest and absolutely terrible girls/women, I can easily spot a trash from a distance and know when I’ve had enough and to end a toxic relationship. Experienced women could also easily save themselves and excuse themselves from deadly relationships/marriages when necessary. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Anny69: 2:04pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Fortune118005:Exactly. |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
The problem with idiots on this forum is that when susbstancial and life saving advice drops,the wise will see it at a lesson to themselves and engage in sober reflection. The foolish(men) will start pointing accusing fingers and saying it applies to women alone. So what applies to you men? Money?(you will complain that it should apply to both genders not just you). Decency/discipline in relationship and careful choices in relationship (it also applies to women alone). What on earth applies to you that you can learn from? Or are all lessons for women alone? You think it is normal that a male graduate of engineering will be doing POS business or photocopying or selling gift cards or cutting bet slips or asking how to Japa with 2 million naira( the flight ticket to Australia and new Zealand only), or complaining that 4k($5) a day on meal is too much? Your counterpart abroad that are not as educated as you are live better. Even the nerds and dorks with large glasses abroad have a lady that loves them and loyal to them but you have to use money to collect a girl number(not even date) or naive girls agree to come spend weekends over because of the Netflix in your house and carton of indomie and generator. You have seen the above as normal and have accepted that mediocrity as a norm then turn to women to rise above their mediocrity? You are not ready for any change in your condition 1 Like |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by meobizy(f): 2:07pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
DenreleDave:If e pain you, you're obviously broke. |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Prechgold1180(m): 2:24pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Savedday2: Gues ur mum was once an ashawo If not I see no reason why u will just tag all Nigeria girls as ashawo Wtf 2 Likes |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by isabi2lof: 2:29pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
DenreleDave: I'm a good lady , if I was the wrong person, he won't be wanting me back , he wasn't that bad o but ... |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by cyprus000: 2:33pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
saphiere:So this kind of comment hurt you, but you usually make worst comment than that guy you're calling mods on. Bareface hypocrite. 1 Like |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Kizzygentle: 2:37pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
B |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by SmartMen: 2:44pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Rhozabeth:It happens to all, both men and women. 1 Like |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by KanoSeller: 2:45pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ebubeson: absolutely right. |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by djon78(m): 2:48pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ebubeson: Story story What of those that married the wrong partners and later moved on They can still go on to find a better partner It's more about each Individuals personality and how they view life That you had a wrong previous relationship Shouldn't cloudy your next relationship I believe the wrong previous relationship rather makes you wiser, and teaches you how to note bad individuals and ways to have better relationship I had a very bad experience in my previous relationship But it never beclouded my view and perception Rather it taught me very good lesson I don't even regret the previous one I am grateful I experienced it It made me Wiser There is this Igbo Proverb: Ogori nuo di nabo omalu nke ka mma When a woman marries two husband's She will know the better one |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by kingthreat(m): 2:49pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ebubeson: You cannot predict the future of any relationship. Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage. 1 Like |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by Juniorangel(m): 2:49pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Truth is, if you never heal from what hurts you, you will still bleed on people who did not cut you. |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by djon78(m): 2:53pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: So what's this your drift really about??🤷 |
Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by TOPCRUISE(m): 2:55pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Many will hate this thread. They believe they must sample and cast their bread on many waters before choosing the swimming pool that suits them. Alas they end up in Atlantic Ocean. 1 Like |
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