Rhozabeth:
This is what has happened to most girls! You will just know from their attitude!

Solidkay:
Haha 😂😂😂

@OP I laughed first because you're so wrong,
First of, Experience is the best teacher.

Another thing you must know is that when the real person comes into your life, no matter how much hurt you might have experienced in the past, it'll not really matter, except you've been broken beyond repair, even at that, with time, you'll heal.

The only Clause there is that you might not really commit to the relationship from the beginning.
But with time, you'll find yourself deeply in love again,
Nobody's immune to love.

Let Love Lead!!!!!

saphiere:
lalasticlala ishilove seun justwise Dominique mynd4 rule 2

correctguy101:


Many things Amaka hasn't been told...


Chai, now our dear Amaka is clueless

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram If u know date, how u one take know the right PESIN..


Abi dem de write am for head..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

saphiere:
A quick one. How will one know he's the right person?

Rhozabeth:
This is what has happened to most girls! You will just know from their attitude!

Sonnobax15:

The plain truth is that most people tend to neglect red flags during dating, thinking that partner will change... Instead,it only ended up damaging them for life,to the extent of having trust issues when they finally meet their soul mates.

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

meobizy:
There's no way to get a partner if you don't date. If I follow this advice, I'd settle for anyone who comes my way. No be so life be.

Anny69:
Immediately you see him, his forehead would be glowing and your heart will be beating faster than normal.

saphiere:
dey play

Anny69:
Immediately you see him, his forehead would be glowing and your heart will be beating faster than normal.

MICVOCT:


O ya, share your experience if any.

Anny69:
I was kidding.

bepositive11:
Why give her this much power over you? It takes courage to love again.

I had a painful encounter with a narcissist, but I did not let them turn me into a bitter person. I cut them out of my life completely, but I have taken the lessons with me. I am still open to love, but I am more careful about who. I know what red flags to look for.

When you truly love yourself, no one can hurt you that deeply. The problem is a lot of people fall in love so much that they start loving the other person more than themselves. That is wrong. That is when the hurt and betrayal can be too much to bear.

Love yourself first and only love other people as much as you love yourself. Let go of people who don't reciprocate.

Decolonel:
This generation Z has turned love into something else.

isabi2lof:


The truth is that I'm afraid of NL guys , due to how they perceive women on this forum .

BenedictAbajue:

You dont have to be afraid dear...nice guys like me still exist here.
Proudly GenZ

MICVOCT:


It is allowed, wasn't that serious either.

I appreciate your reasoning!

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

PerfectStranger:

Is it written on people's forehead who's right or wrong?