ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

Opexzy:
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

While the above statement might sound reasonable and intelligent... Just take a closer look, read it slowly this time, you will see it's garbage from another wannabe motivational speaker or preacher.

meobizy:
If e pain you, you're obviously broke.

isabi2lof:


I'm a good lady , if I was the wrong person, he won't be wanting me back , he wasn't that bad o but ...

DenreleDave:


Your ex wanted you back?

So what's the but?

PerfectStranger:

Is it written on people's forehead who's right or wrong?

Romanoff:
Girl wey you spos to marry, you take am do boyfriend and girlfriend.

Some fell in love with people whose character wasn't marriageable.

When time came for them to marry, they chose level-headedness over love.

If you ask me, ot not necessarily a bad thing. Many who claimed to be in love with each other got divorced after they realised love is not enough to make a marriage work.

For a marriage to work, it takes two people totally committed to each other and making their marriage work.

Olarewaju89:



I'm sorry, have you marry?

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

isabi2lof:


His nonchalant attitude

Romanoff:


With two children sir.

Olarewaju89:


God bless your home dear

DenreleDave:


Stop acting like a child.... I was asking bcox I saw ur signature..

Act like an adult....

What makes you think millionaires no dey this nairaland

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

SmartMen:
I am in this category and I do not feel anything towards the female gender anymore. No excitement, no urge, no zeal, and no energy. I used to be the guy that will compose love SMS, I used to be the guy that love to call often...

and then in 2021, a girl I decided to trust her words cos of the way she came as if she was tired of what other guys did to her, chose to "love bomb" me. that completely broke me cos it scared me as I realized that I had been used to catching "cruises" all along. I realized the betrayal and how I exposed my vulnerabilities.

Anyway, she went with another guy between 2021 and 2022 I did something she never believed I could... it is 2023, and she has been working to get into my life... In fact, she called me in January 2023 to say "Hi" according to her. Of course if you know how women work, you will understand what "hi" mean.

However, I do not feel anything for her or any woman out there, no matter what.

Will I get married? Yeah, I will be next year but not to her.

Will I love the woman I would marry? I would just say I would like her but definitely not love in the real sense like I used to feel or have.

I don't even want any woman to love me either... I am definitely not interested anymore, neither am I gonna chase it.

Good luck to everyone.

DenreleDave:


Hmm.... Mind if I send a dm?

Goodman2023:
You forgot that no one knows the day he or she will get married until the day of marriage...

Let's take Amaka for example,
✓you did not tell Amaka that deciding who she marries is beyond her and it's determined by economic factors.
✓ you did not tell Amaka when she Will get married.
✓you did not tell Amaka how she will know the right one.
✓you did not tell Amaka that some will Mary early, some will Mary late while some will not marry at all.
✓You did not tell Amaka to get a job so that she won't because of hunger jump into a relationship.
✓you did not also tell Amaka who will take care of her needs before marriage.
✓You did not also tell Amaka that even on the day of marriage, it is not over until it is over.
✓Lastly, you did not tell Amaka that some relationships are better than some marriages.

DenreleDave:


Hmm.... Mind if I send a dm?

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

isabi2lof:


The truth is that I'm afraid of NL guys , due to how they perceived women on this forum .

Divoc19:
I have learned that this life is not black and white.
Marriage is not for everyone. Even those that married as virgins have issues some break up.
Our destinies in life are different. Stop looking at your mates and appreciate God for what you have today

1Sharon:

ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.

Sonnobax15:

The plain truth is that most people tend to neglect red flags during dating, thinking that partner will change... Instead,it only ended up damaging them for life,to the extent of having trust issues when they finally meet their soul mates.