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Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Kalatium(m): 7:49am On Nov 27, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Fair or not there is alot of truth to it 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Iwantpeace: 2:15pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Saccharine:I tell u most solemnly..it's so sad 4 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Twenty8: 2:52pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
FanOfMyself:She's so emotionally illogical. 3 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by BadBitch(f): 3:28pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Realashbobby: I read what you posted about what led to the divorce. My very close friend recently experienced the same thing. Hers ended after 5 months of marriage. Her ex was physically and emotionally abusive, she didn't even want to leave until the man asked for a break and eventually called it quits. I was happy for her. A failed marriage is better than lifelong suffering and depression. Recovery is also not easy. I would be honest, nine years is a lot of time and memories. A man who would neglect his child and blood because he has fallen out with the child's mother, is worse than a beast. Find a friend/friends, that can always talk to you, listen to your rants, and encourage when you start to remember the past. You need a support system right now. Engage in activities that make you happy, eat out, visit new places, make new friends, start a side hustle, find a community to support you most importantly. Recovery won't happen overnight, it's going to take time, live every day as it comes. There's light at the end of this tunnel, Beloved. 13 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Saintmary(f): 7:14pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Realashbobby:If a person does not want you, simply subtract yourself from their equation. Take pleasure in the good things like your son. Make yourself happy. 5 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Gloriagee(f): 7:32pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
What an interesting 'international man'. Abeg make we hear word. internationalman: |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Gloriagee(f): 7:34pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
@ op - you don't have to sign the divorce papers if you are not ready to. Priotise your mental and emotional health. Seek out joy in the littlest of things. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Dufil(m): 5:01am On Nov 28, 2020 |
Realashbobby:If you want a different feeling, try a different thing. But be warned about guys or married men, who may use this against you in future. Discreetly have fun and avoid stories about your husband. The way to a woman's heart is her ears. Shut down your ears about things that make you crave for him. Open your ears to something new and you will get over it in the shortest time. I'm based in Ibadan. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by crackhaus: 8:53am On Nov 28, 2020 |
Dufil: 14 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Dufil(m): 9:47am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by CsRockefeller(m): 10:21am On Nov 29, 2020 |
I have heard of unfortunate life incidents that can equal to a death sentence and getting a divorce isn't among d top 10. Move on!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by waleademolaa: 9:27pm On Feb 09, 2021 |
Realashbobby:You sent me a DM, I can't access my email, reach me on |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Exceed15: 11:04pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Realashbobby: I pray for strength and grace to receive answers to your prayers. For with God nothing will be impossible . 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Exceed15: 11:06pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
Chiquitq: I see why he left you. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Exceed15: 11:12pm On Jul 28, 2023 |
BadBitch: Were you in the marriage? Madam judge! 3 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 1:22am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Realashbobby: You are a product of your society and making a big mistake and you may also be having a very low self esteem. You need to work on your mind and yourself and be open to relationships. You will wake up in your 60s and realize life has passed you by. This person is gone for life and not coming back and the earlier you realize the better. I have a family friend who is a mother of 3, the husband had left some 5 years ago and we are trying to encourage her to work on herself and start dating again. She heede our advice and is in a relationship now and working on her self esteem. I am in a long term marriage but it is not the be all and have all. If my marriage fails, i will encourage my wife to be open minded and date other people while i move on. Life is to short. 3 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by GVTAsiwaju(m): 4:44am On Jul 29, 2023 |
It is not easy.... People would even mock you to your face. If you are the honest type and trying another relationship, at every slightest provocation you partner would mock you. You will start hearing; "I seeeeeee" "No wonder she left" "No woman can stay with you like this o" "Now I know ooo" "Tokunbo wife/husband" 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Newborn27(f): 5:59am On Jul 29, 2023 |
Hmmmmmmmm Dear Op, My only advice for you is to make sure you're always busy...get your hands on something productive to make ends meet for yourself and son. Watch the kind of company you keep... avoid downers and be optimistic. If it were meant to be...he wouldn't have left irrespective of what might have transpired amidst you. Appreciate your son... work on yourself...step up in every facet of life and be very careful going into another relationship in haste..... they've gotten nothing to offer than few minutes sex and cash... your son wouldn't be proud seeing you exchanging men. Give it time... you'd overcome and attract the best man and things life had In store for you. I wish you all the best Sis. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Mysteriousworld: 9:13pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Realashbobby: The problem with women is that they wont listen while the man was warning them... Change or ill..... Women just believe you're trapped because you married them... Now its too late... Remember how you argued with him, remember how unsubmissive you were while he was warning you... Even begging you to honor him , or at least mot disrespect him... Its well. May you find yours. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 9:34pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Mysteriousworld:I hope you feel this same way when it is the woman who up and abandons the man in marriage instead. 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 9:35pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Realashbobby:OP, it has been about 3 years since the incident, how have you been coping? Hope you have been working on yourself and moving on peacefully with your life since then. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Klass99(f): 10:29pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Mysteriousworld: 9:20am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Woman don break my heart before... Never again.. I dont mean to judge, but i realized that lack of submission by women is the problem with most marriages... They want to eat their cake and still have it... Just honor him and see him love you. The bible tells the woman to first submit... Then the man should love... Thats because the love automatically comes when shes submissive ...(exemption of some werey men) 14 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Quality20(m): 10:10am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Just go for a new partner who isn't gonna be abusive 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Curse777: 10:11am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Go for counseling to properly heal... It's not a easy journey with heartbreaks but once you heal you become a better version of yourself |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Realist777: 10:11am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Unclekayfarms:Exactly |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Dougad: 10:12am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Omo nairaland mods dey very foolish. For no reason, these bastards just carry 2020 post enter FP 4 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by mukthar2000(m): 10:12am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Dey play, u better talk the Truth. Divorce u just like that and never look back? 4 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Godfullsam(m): 10:14am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Goan look for work to do. Keep yourself busy and with time, you will get over it. How ever the feeling will stay longer if you are the cause of the divorce. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by peacettw: 10:14am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Embrace the feeling. Dont fight it. It may sound counterintuitive but trust me when I say that you will heal faster this way. God's grace |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Almiron: 10:15am On Nov 04, 2023 |
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Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Angelfrost(m): 10:15am On Nov 04, 2023 |
The fact that you are heaping all the blames on the man says a lot about you. Most divorces are never one-sided, just as marriage can never be one-sided. Meanwhile, you might want to go for counseling and psychotherapy. This will help you. 3 Likes |
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