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Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by tydi(m): 5:28pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Chiquitq: So this is you Benny using another Monika.. I will write a book about our separation cus you choose to leave the marriage yourself |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 5:29pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Amumaigwe:In your mind now I can control the action of people who sign on a platform I don't own. That's why there are moderators. You guys call your self Gen Z and are very opinionated. You guys are the perilous generation the bible is talking about - selfish to the t, hateful, lovers of pleasure rather than God |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 5:30pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
femmoy:After 15 years of marriage ππ π€£π€£π€£π€£ the thing pain una. If you become a tenth of who my husband is, You have made it in life. All this Mummy's boy that don't know what it means to be a man and a correct husband. What do we do to you? You and the girls of this generation, you all fit each other 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 5:33pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
femmoy:I had one account with the moniker totalabi which I opene in 2006 but forgot the password and couldn't reset the password due to glitches then. 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 5:38pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Idaytesj29:Did he tell you he is the one solving her financial problem? The mistake you all make is thinking marriage is about cooking, washing clothes and sex. and getting financial rewards for doing all that. All those things don't make marriage. If he is married to Beyonce or Serena Williams who go on tours everytime - do you think financial rewards is all he can provide them in exchange for them doing the house chores. You guys should step up and reason with the mindset of an advanced human being. Poverty too full una mind. Imagine still putting hot water in the bathroom when there is water heater. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 5:44pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Amumaigwe:Na since Abraham time and Jacob time house girls dey elevate. Na the tribe of men dey disloyal to their wife. Sarah called Abraham Lord still he sleep with Hagar. Some men, even if you handover your two eyes to them, they will stray. They have no control of their libido. Despite David being King feared by everyone, he still go carry another man wife. No be matter of house girl snatching Madam husband. If a man is useless, he is useless period 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Nextt: 6:06pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Osanoghodua1: As far as I'm concerned your submission is the one statement worth my time going through this thread. Yours is the ONLY wise comment on this issue. I am in agreement with the bolded. It is as if you made a photocopy of my thoughts on issues like this. God bless. 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by matrix199(m): 6:10pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
I earn 6 digit income monthly. I'm highly educated... I'm very Manny... I'm blessed with a pleasant voice... I'm a survival.... Trust me, it's her lost, not mine! |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by aswani(m): 6:42pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Here she comes to conflate a simple enough issue and twist it in such a manner that someone with a valid opinion has to answer a million of her questions in a manner that his opinion wasn't intended to potray. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by smartr: 6:50pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
You need heavy gbola. Good luck 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by smartr: 6:51pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
matrix199: Hope the 6 digit no be 100k π Any man not earning 7figs monthly should stay single π |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:22pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Nisland:Nawao, 9 years a woman left you and you have not been yourself for all those years? How una take dey be like this? Even if Iβm married to the queen of America, and she leaves, I will forget about her in 3months. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 7:25pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Nisland:There is nothing wrong with being single so long as you are still enjoying your life. And I am not talking about sex and prostitutes. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Charly68: 7:29pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You are very lost and sick upstairs if not you won't be attacking me on this page as if my advise is for you. Let the wise heed the voice of wisdom but as for you,I could perceive you are in deep depression already, please don't contaminate the innocents |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 7:50pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Charly68:Look at this liar thinking attacking me, and not the message, in some way diminishes the facts stated. You church people... na una way. Always coming up empty and resorting to silly attacks when confronted. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by olaJako(m): 8:17pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
If you have to seek counsel from nairaland for your better self then you wrong. Spend quality time developing you off here and remain focus on a goal. I come in PEACE |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Umadam: 8:24pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Do, so that we can know where to make judgement from, one dont learn to work in the middle of the river, we start from the bank. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Idaytesj29(m): 9:36pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
dealslip: And how many Beyonces do we have in the world? And do these Beyonces goes on tours every hours of their life? I bet that it will shock you that she sometimes make meals for JayZ on special occasions despite her tours and wealth that you are using as alibi and she gives him more sex than many local forming posh Nigerian women give to their husbands. Cos if she doesn't, they would have divorced a long time ago. Okay, what makes marriages work if you remove all of that from what you can offer your man? So, what's the usefulness of a woman in a marriage when she can't offer sex, can't do laundry sometimes, can't help with his jacket after a days job or put on the heater for him? (Not every home has a water heater, some that do doesn't have electricity to power it, some are just taps and that's the reality) Mind you, the money you women get from us is not a reward for doing all that. We are simply taking care of you and doing our responsibilities. But all of the above, are just ways to show that you care about us, love and honour us. So, if as a woman, you can't do all of these to bond and honour your husband, what's the essence of your presence in a mans house as a wife? To watch soap operas? Common, you can enjoy that without having to get married. So, don't expect that solid love from him either, if you can't come down from your high horse and honour that man as the Bible demand or even punish him by getting married to him. Cos such marriage is a punishment for the man. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Ashawoman82: 9:53pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Chiquitq:well said |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Cutehector(m): 9:55pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Women dont miss men, they only miss what they were getting from him.. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Fiscus105(m): 4:58am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The verses you quoted, how did it against marriage? Just like that guy said, u really sick upstair. I will advise you to give your Bible for Bible scholar to sit you down and purge you off of heresy. If Muslim see this now, he too would go out and be misleading people. In Luke, Jesus was talking about the dead who have ressurrated , and expecting to enter paradise, ............now, is dead do marriage? Did they do marriage in paradise? Even at that, Jesus still not condemn marriage. If you are impotent or not being able to marry for whatever reason, you should have come clean on I rather than misquoting Bible to cover up your problem. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Kobojunkie: 5:02am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Fiscus105:Why una brain no fit logically connect the dots at? In the same passage that is Genesis 3 vs 16 - 24, God equally cursed the works of men, as well as the lifespan of man, does that equally mean God is against man working to feed himself or that God is against man living life altogether? Don't bother responding at all and this is instead an attempt to force you to begin to properly reason all you read especially in Scripture. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Kevineleven(m): 5:36am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Realashbobby: You need a new man friend to fill the vacuum, how cute are you? May be we can, you know, unless you are not cute. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by BALLOSKI: 7:40am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Realashbobby:You sounded like you did what led to the divorce. Hit the gym to keep fit, to clear your mind and focus on your son for now. You women don't think of repercussions of your action, especially when you use harsh words on your men. If you still miss him, i'm sure he wasn't an abusive man. I believe some people influenced or goaded you... They're not here for you now. May God be with you. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Collinsville5: 7:40am On Nov 05, 2023 |
Realashbobby: Just calm, time will heal you, but also be open to possibilities of meeting someone, or just focus on your son for the now. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by grafixdon: 10:54am On Nov 05, 2023 |
crackhaus: Baba want nack |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Tzar(m): 4:15pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
I am Yoruba. Well I only said my opinion from over 40years experience of dating and I have lived long enough in the West to tell you even in todayβs woke madness here, single women with children are having a hard time finding a high value man to marry them. It is not impossible to find a man, but a single mother will usually have to settle down for a simp, lower value man or a polygamous/ very old man. Most and not all of them are compelled to date down, not date up like women always want most times. TheMostComplex1: |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by femmoy(m): 6:38pm On Nov 05, 2023 |
dealslip: Senseless comment, from a senseless person |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 10:47am On Nov 06, 2023 |
femmoy:God bless you too |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Amumaigwe: 5:54am On Nov 09, 2023 |
dealslip: Any woman that defends other troubled women misdemeanor suddenly claims to have an excellent husband: that is such a man that tolerates shittier attitudes than that of the troubled woman. Soon, jungle will mature and someone will register with an alternate monika to lament about her husband in an attempt to escape from shame from lies told using the original monika. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 9:21am On Nov 09, 2023 |
Amumaigwe:Life is not how you see it or wish it should be. You think everyman thinks alike - some have sense and some don't. My husband isn't a child like many of you here. He also has sense and will never turn another human being into a bag of sadness. He also knows how to earn a woman's respect. You people will just look at a woman and want to reduce her into your house girl. Your low self esteem will be pushing you to disempower her rather than empower her. You think the likes of Dora Akunyuli, Ngozi Okonjo, Ibukun Awosika became powerful women in Nigeria because their husbands were giving them monthly stipend while they cook and wash pants. They were married to real men who saw potentials and supported them not insecure ones like we have in this generation, who think giving a woman money makes you Lord and Master. I will continue to speak against the abuse of women either emotional or verbal or physical. We don't need to be pretending we say it as it should be. If your unsecured mind feels attacked, then it's time for you to step up 1 Like |
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