@op, no woman should give me stress o. I have discovered that the women who didn't stress me while doing the chase, were the ones I had blissful relationships with.

I love challenges, but nor be women own.

1Sharon:


I say this exact same thing but when I do, I'm called a man hater, why is that?

People don't like to hear the truth, especially when it is coming from an unexpected source. Maybe you have been challenging their masculinity in a bad way

Acidosis:
Many guys chase for fun. If you're a woman, always accept the fact that at least 85% of the guys talking to you about marriage are LYING/UNSERIOUS, including those begging you to visit their mothers (the greatest scammers).

More so, many guys talk to multiple women at the same time. So, saying YES to a man is not an end in itself. You'll need to conquer other women he approached while you were "wasting his time." This is the reality out there.

Women think that they are the prize (nice!) but, seriously, the average man out there is a gamer. Again, this is the reality but it's okay to dwell in denial.

blessingnenye:
Why do men withdraw after the chase?

The appropriate word is SOME MEN. Most times it's the motive behind the chase. Before you say yes, try to know the motive behind his chase.

Acidosis:
Many guys chase for fun. If you're a woman, always accept the fact that at least 85% of the guys talking to you about marriage are LYING/UNSERIOUS, including those begging you to visit their mothers (the greatest scammers).

More so, many guys talk to multiple women at the same time. So, saying YES to a man is not an end in itself. You'll need to conquer other women he approached while you were "wasting his time." This is the reality out there.

Women think that they are the prize (nice!) but, seriously, the average man out there is a gamer. Again, this is the reality but it's okay to dwell in denial.

Omoo. No truer words has been said. I love ur honesty. So much wisdom

LastProphet:


1. Boys and men are 2 different things, so if you with a boy expect that. Matured men value any lady that's with them. Don't confuse boys and men
2. A lady I toasted later turned out to have flat breast like pillows, she lost value in my eyes because I didn't expect a 26yr old at the time to have flat boobs and the way she use bra to hold it up you would never know. So a lady has to be real, don't be too fake

Sagged breasts can be from gene sometimes. Its not an excuse to ditch a woman. Mk she no wear bra again abi wetin. Which one be fake life inside again

sonofthunder:

I don't believe you. Did you play hard to get?

kinda

There really was no interest initially bitch

b0rn2fuck:
If after knacking, you will realise all hole are the same things and it beauty of skin doesn't determine how sweet it is.

Yeye man, where u go since?

You no longer everywhere on here..

Na King Tinubu cause am?

Talk make I help you report am to the gods...

blessingnenye:
Why do men withdraw after the chase?

I'm not attracted to women anymore,I'm more attracted to money and personal growth.

The juice ain't worth the squeeze

After spending so much effort, only to realize the outcome wasn't worth the effort, you cut your loss and move on

blessingnenye:
Why do men withdraw after the chase?

blessingnenye:
Why do men withdraw after the chase?

I know the reason.
I'm a typical man, and it's like this:

From afar, a man sees the lady that fits his liking.

Coming closer and wooing this lady, he gets to see her clearer and vividly.

Most times, this lady is discovered to be ridden with baggages of traits such as:
-having too many men in her life (this new observer/guy may be the number 100+) while a real man likes to "own" his woman and be faithful to her;

-being disrespectful...;

-being egocentric;

-being fake in Some ways;

-some lies discovered,

Candycrushy:

Sagged breasts can be from gene sometimes. Its not an excuse to ditch a woman. Mk she no wear bra again abi wetin. Which one be fake life inside again

Wearing bra on a normal is different from aggressively pulling up the boobs with bra. When you create a very high expectation for those that like standing breast what do you think will happen after they see something different? There are men that don't care for standing bres so why not be yourself or something close to it so you attract your type? And lastly, flat bres from genes is very different from what we saying we

wunmi590:


There's no man that will chase a woman and back/loose interest after all the shakara and time the individual has invested on such adventure...

If such happened, is either the man 👨 is only chasing you because of your pekus or just for a personal reason best known to him...

. Which time is worth one loosing his Peace .


Peace is above love ,time ,Pekus ,When a Woman Brings out Attitudes that would Destroy a man peace na to Japa ....When a man dies ,Woman won't join him in the Grave so No time invested is worth it

The lost of interest comes up when the lady is no more humble but want to control the man, because she feel that the man is now dying after her pvssy. As a result, she want to behave anyhow. By then the man will begin to see the real person behind her facade and will begin to loose interest

If she too prove hard get or she's too easy to get lol but that was then sha.

Shal0mmy:
I tire o.
My boyfriend tried to do this kinda thing to me after giving him my body.
But he stoped after i threatened him with juju
He now holds me tight

YOU ARE A FOOL FOR GIVING HIM YOUR BODY WHEN HE HAS NOT MARRIED YOU...U ARE TOO CHEAP!!!

A man may have high expectations about a lady that made him chase after her but once he gets intimate with her and discovers that her interior falls below expectations, he loses interest in her.

A smelling private for instance could put a man off.

Shal0mmy:
kinda

Lol.... That's why he acted so I guess.

Our generation is alittle bit different from that of our parents and most times, playing hard to get makes a man to lose interest as it's easier to reach out to alternatives and he probably doesn't want to be taken for a ride.

Guys will hold out mostly if they came to conquer or the lady is actually worth it.

Are you guys still together?

Johel:


I'm not attracted to women anymore,I'm more attracted to money and personal growth.

You will live longer .

FacilitatorLekk:
Sometimes we discover she ain't worth it after all.

yeah that’s true u have said it all, most are completely empty I swear, nothing to offer at all at all

Edusouls:
yeah that’s true u have said it all, most are completely empty I swear, nothing to offer at all at all

Some are priceless though, not easy to get, or maybe going to the right places.

FacilitatorLekk:

Some are priceless though, not easy to get, or maybe going to the right places.

well that one is just faith and luck

placeofallure:


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Edusouls:
well that one is just faith and luck

Yeah most definitely, fate and luck.

I toast babe she agree today, the next visit na billing she carry come for this kind Tinubu Regime person want make I feed her abd her family.. I lost interest on her Asap..

blessingnenye:
Why do men withdraw after the chase?

Just don’t bill him and see how he will stick to you. Spice up the relationship by doing things a Nigerian lady hardly do. To marry in Nigeria is very easy. Any lady who has a job is ought to marry. Choose your man carefully, that’s it.

Nigerian lady will make money and remain single, a white lady will make money and look for a life partner. This money we will all die and leave it, so why is entering some peoples head.

Acidosis:


People don't like to hear the truth, especially when it is coming from an unexpected source. Maybe you have been challenging their masculinity in a bad way

Now I know.

I can see men saying you've exposed their secret or violated the bro code.


When women say these things, they're quick to get defensive or tag us feminists misandrists.

Candycrushy:

Sagged breasts can be from gene sometimes. Its not an excuse to ditch a woman. Mk she no wear bra again abi wetin. Which one be fake life inside again

They're stupid. They say any young woman with sagged breasts has slept with alot of men.


There are no sources that confirm this. Nobody says that outside Nigerian circles.

Ten06:
The lost of interest comes up when the lady is no more humble but want to control the man, because she feel that the man is now dying after her pvssy. As a result, she want to behave anyhow. By then the man will begin to see the real person behind her facade and will begin to loose interest

Why does that loss of interest always come after sex?

IconicR:
Unfortunately this is the mindset of 98% of young men. Na who enter una trap no wise. Matured men reason better because their life already has direction.

the only male feminist on Nairaland