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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by chccho(m): 8:19pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Easier said, if u weren't emotionally involved/attached to the person but if u were trust me that thing dey pain ehn!!?? 7 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Jewessgratitud3: 8:20pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
chccho: You'll sha move on. . |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Acidosis(m): 8:21pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
blessingnenye: You sure? |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by chccho(m): 8:40pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
NACE13:Its funny how this just happened to me last month and I am just getting over it after some weeks Mehnnn, Ghosting dey pain oooo!! Especially when u know u did everything right and were doing your best to tick all the right boxes then Boom!!! Somebody just disappears nafter getting so emotionally attached, going out on dates, spending money and probably falling in love that thing cuts like a knife!! In my case we could talk from now till forever, never got tired of each other, connected on the same wave length, liked each other, went out on dates and i was beginning to tell myself "e be like say i don find wife oo! If we can work it out I go just propose!!! Hmmn!!! I noticed something about some ladies, some can easily be carried away by the most trivial things. Most times when a lady ghosts u, there's a very high tendency she's already talking to someone else and carried away by rubbish but they don't realize it until it blows up. If u were genuinely interested and vested in someone and had great plans for the person and the person ghosts u, just take it, ITS FOR YOUR GOOD!! it's gonna hurt for a while but u gotta move.. The wrong person has to go for the right person to step in. One day they will look back and regret, u will also look back and be glad they ghosted u.. Shalom 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Rhozabeth(m): 8:41pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Dimaya:Your response is apt!!! I can testify to this! Funny enough, the girl and I are still together but with much much less commitment from my side. If I see u, I see u, if I no see u, I eraze u from my mind. And am doing this with serious caution!!! 8 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
I know this doesn't apply to me but I will love to derail by sharing my experience as a ghoster(mind you it was not a partner but prospective bf) I realized that I will always be struggling to prove myself to him. He had those redpill traits and saw posts of him that I personalized I just couldn't reconcile it. You are vehemently preaching against my type online and sharing your prejudice, so what singled me out from those you have shown aversion to? How could I cut off from him? What excuse could I give? If it's a short or poor man or has a flaw or something I would tell him. But here,there was nothing I could accuse him since he only shared his opinions and didn't wrong me. If he asked why I no longer want to speak with him,what will I say? So I had to ghost him. Or maybe I was insecure . I don't know. It is fear that made me do it. It is the easy way out. No drama,just quietly go. It takes strength to communicate. And I am conflict avoidant,I will run from who / what I feel overwhelms me. Maybe I was a coward. Maybe I should have been bravery instead of cower away 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by chccho(m): 8:48pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:We all feel and can handle pain differently! Some people can snap out of it in just a few days and some can get trapped in it for a much longer time,for some it could even affect them mentally.. As for me i have learnt to build the muscle and threshold to absorb and move on. E no easy sha but, all of us go dey alright Las Las 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by haybee2018(m): 9:05pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
I get Doctor's degree for this field ...i just dey pray make he commot for my blood. . . Ah fit ghost your ghost if possible 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by narite: 9:05pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Scarrr:It does not take money to have ladies. You just have to give them little while giving them expectations that bigger is coming. In the meantime you shower them with attention. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Gentlesoul2021(m): 9:11pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
blesskewe: He need the coochie again... Bw wise... |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Jewessgratitud3: 9:20pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
chccho: True. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by drimzsmoke(m): 9:26pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
tunjilee003: Bi |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by AhmadJamil(m): 9:31pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
concho: You are waiting for your girlfriend to give you money? What a LOOSER 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by AhmadJamil(m): 9:39pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Uchemus: Please ask the dumb fuy |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Negroid001(m): 9:45pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
BreezyRita:Coming from someone who ghosts women a lot. It's insecurity that makes us ghost y'all. We want to serve you the breakfast and not the other way round. It's a bad habit I've managed to break sha. May God help us all |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by drimzsmoke(m): 9:46pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
narite:Lolz...you just described low self esteem girls who are probably jobless 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Zonefree(m): 9:51pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Uchemus:That guy is probably a scammer. I don't think there's a way half plot of land can contain 4 bedroom bungalow and still have enough space for 4 vehicles. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by narite: 10:02pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
drimzsmoke:Regardless of the name you bestowed upon them, the process works. A man just need to deeply understand he his the one been seek for not the other way round. Only few men out there probably understood this. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by DANIEL5050(m): 10:08pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
This is the exact thing I have been experiencing lately. Been dating this lady for close to 3 years now and all of a sudden she started ghosting me. Perhaps, it's because I'm still a student and I'm not funding her I don't really know. That sh*t sucks... 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Rooneyx(f): 10:15pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
The guy na real MUGU and a MUMU. My dear chop him dry like okporoko blesskewe: |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by blesskewe(f): 10:17pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
NohurryInLife: It hurts though, when you're so used to someone and the person Just poof Haba na 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Scarrr: 10:28pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
narite:lol I no envy u.. it's too much work, with all the things I carry fr mind and head . Make I still con add multiple women and their baggages |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Dancebreaker: 10:34pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
NamelessOGBENI: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Silentgroper(m): 10:34pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
#scoffs ... Well as an introvert, i dnt do much talking.. So i do this instead.. It wasnt my fault though. She seemed disinterested and i did d needful. Why she kept blowing up my phone was what i could nt wrap my head around.. Kept sending series of mssg to my whatsapp saying i'm heartless, nahhh, made my heart hardened d more.. I told her all d while she was coming for me " look if this shiit aint mutual then it's D.O.A for me" bt it was mutual bt i wasnt understanding her anymore and she wasnt saying nothing so i bounced.. I felt bad after a while though.. It's still never was my fault.. we on good terms nw btw.. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by narite: 10:39pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Scarrr: Man constantly worries about tomorrow, that he forget today and when tomorrow comes, he wishes he could go back to yesterday. He lives as if he will never die and died as if he as never lived. Free yourself from earthly bondages, it great to have goals but it should not be a must do or die thing. Enjoy and savor the present, experience is the only thing you will take away from this life. So my friend fill your life with experiences as much as possible. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Emaprince: 10:40pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
Sakobaba:When better 4bedroom semi detached duplexes for lekki dey go for 70m. Na ordinary 4bedroom flat in a local place like ipaja you dey sell 45m. Ordinary flat o..and with that tight space I'm seeing. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Dancebreaker: 10:41pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
BreezyRita:Sorry dear. It is well. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Silentgroper(m): 10:46pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
drimzsmoke:BI's My preferred choice of partner these days. Dnt ask me why.. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Hassanmaye(m): 10:49pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
concho:Very selfish gender men should wise up 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Hassanmaye(m): 10:50pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
MadeMan01:. good boyy |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by Silentgroper(m): 10:53pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
AhmadJamil:stfu pussio.. Y d bloody ef is she is partner if she's nt suppose to or shouldnt.. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted By Your Partner? Share Your Experience. by NACE13: 11:02pm On Jul 30, 2023 |
KingEarnest:Yes, he is. I wonder where he is now though. To some, he is a hero. To a few, he is a Misogynistic maniac but to all, he is a Legend! 11 Likes 3 Shares |
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