Samantha124:
My sister paid half of her bride price... No one knew about it until one day her drunk husband told everyone everything.. .. She was so embarrassed.

Amajuoyi44:
I hardly seen or hear that ladies gives their man money to pay their bride price


Why can't such happen?

"Why can't such happen?"

Shame on you for even harbouring such thought, not to talk of creating it as a topic! Tueh!

Can you bear a lady's surname?
Once she brings the money, it's as good as she's married the man. Did you consider that?
Are you even a man?

Puss360:
hmmm

I just dey imagine how dat marriage wan be??
I give man money to pay my dowry... So now, who come marry who?. Coz as the case be, na me marry myself o ....
Well... I can give the man money on condition say, no neck for the marriage.. our two go be head of the family

talented321 re u okay with dat

You're wickED

Funny enough, lots of ladies / women do this but would hardly say it outside. They know themselves. They don't mind BRINGing the money, while teling the man to tell His people it's His.

Most times, such women gets used because na from then dem go start the SPENDingS. I'm well aware in some homes, it's the woMan who's carrrying the family mostly financially. Much blessings to such women who do such, yet allows the Man to BrEaTh

Lol''' depend

Fiscus105:




Must you do wedding during the time things went sour for u ni?

Things happen for a reason and circumstances.

Reinamaria:


"Why can't such happen?"

Shame on you for even harbouring such thought, not to talk of creating it as a topic! Tueh!

Can you bear a lady's surname?
Once she brings the money, it's as good as she's married the man. Did you consider that?
Are you even a man?

No, he's a tranny!

Goodlady:
Se ori man naa o buru? Hope the man isn't an unfortunate one?
Why ll you fail in your first responsibility?
The wedding ll hold when the man's financially buoyant and it must not be long.
Borrowing a man to pay for my bride price is the beginning of SAPA in the marriage.
Men, there are some things you must not fail with in life. Handling your wedding well is part of it.

i agree with your message but youre the wrong messanger. we hereby take your message and discard you the fellow messenger

This is just between the two partners. Whatever that comes out is acceptable..

omooba969:


No, he's a tranny!

Most likely.

Amajuoyi44:
I hardly seen or hear that ladies gives their man money to pay their bride price


Why can't such happen?

Why should we?
It shows desperation and low self-esteem

It's not proper please. Iv seen a marriage like that. The man doesn't have respect for the woman. He beats her any form of argument or discussion. Now the woman has left the marriage.

Goodlady:

Stfu!
There's nothing like evening newspapers.
The older the wine, the sweeter it is.
Just last Saturday, a 46yrs old woman got married to a 40yrs old man in Lugbe area, Abuja. Everyone ll get fulfillment at one time. Cos I reject your short, black and broke destiny no mean say I go tey before I marry or reach Age 90 like Sarah before I born.
All you boys here dissing women with your childish threads, na una Mama's bweast una dey drag like madman own. You all should get a life.

Lamentation of a broke frustrated evening newspaper!

1Sharon:


Absolutely so. It's the reason why some Nigerian men are misogynistic.

Since they paid for your head, they feel they are entitled to do whatever.

A similar thing happens when Nigerian men are the breadwinners.

He who pays the piper dictates the tune.

Oh okay...

Puss360:
hmmm

I just dey imagine how dat marriage wan be??
I give man money to pay my dowry... So now, who come marry who?. Coz as the case be, na me marry myself o ....
Well... I can give the man money on condition say, no neck for the marriage.. our two go be head of the family

talented321 re u okay with dat

Actually there is no head of the family it's 50/50 know this and have peace ✌️

omooba969:


He who pays the piper dictates the tune.

Exactly. Why I said bride price needs to be abolished.

saphiere:
Why should we?
It shows desperation and low self-esteem

You'll remain in your father's house forever!

Are you better than beautiful Indian girls who usually pay their men's Bride price? All the NL evening newspapers without sense, always talking carelessly.

Goodlady:

Stfu!
There's nothing like evening newspapers.
The older the wine, the sweeter it is.
Just last Saturday, a 46yrs old woman got married to a 40yrs old man in Lugbe area, Abuja. Everyone ll get fulfillment at one time. Cos I reject your short, black and broke destiny no mean say I go tey before I marry or reach Age 90 like Sarah before I born.
All you boys here dissing women with your childish threads, na una Mama's bweast una dey drag like madman own. You all should get a life.

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I guess Tokunbo cars don't exist. We cannot deny their existence because your neighbour just bought one.

Just saying...

Above 35, a lady has a high probability of having a child with birth defects. Why would anyone do this to herself?

Wanna have children? Do it at your prime--best before 30. Facts don't care about feelings.

/

1Sharon:


And being condescending while doing that.

No woman should rely on a man 100% for finances, that's why they do shakara and talk down on you.

To chop man money dey sweet na.

Reinamaria:


"Why can't such happen?"

Shame on you for even harbouring such thought, not to talk of creating it as a topic! Tueh!

Can you bear a lady's surname?
Once she brings the money, it's as good as she's married the man. Did you consider that?
Are you even a man?

his comment pain you oo

talented321:
Lol''' depend Things happen for a reason and circumstances.

No, that's abnormality. Infact, I can't take money from family members to pay dowry, it must be money from my sweat.

That makes me a man, I mean head of family.

A man must be financially buoyant before going into marriage. If you can't pay bride price, what would you be able to pay; house rent, baby things, feeding .........
There are too many things to pay for in marriage, and bride price is just token. No matter how rich a woman, the husband is still the financial driver.

GO0DHardDick:


You'll remain in your father's house forever!

Are you better than beautiful Indian girls who usually pay their men's Bride price? All the NL evening newspapers without sense, always talking carelessly.

That is India. This is Nigeria.

1Sharon:


Exactly. Why I said bride price needs to be abolished.

It's our tradition and I don't see those gluttons abolishing it any time soon.

some comments im seeing saying that bride price should be abolished i just laugh. even if i dont pay your bride price as long as im housing you and you bear my name i still own you. bride price is just like giving a gift to the daughters family out of respect or saying thank you.

clowns everywhere

omooba969:


It's our tradition and I don't see those gluttons abolishing it any time soon.

It's just hypocrisy. Women use to drink dead body water but they stopped that.

This one favours them so they'll look the other way.

NO. I feel it has spiritual implication.

Something Siofra and co. Will jump into.
45 no be beans.

Amajuoyi44:
I hardly seen or hear that ladies gives their man money to pay their bride price


Why can't such happen?

Ahh! No ooo!

Amajuoyi44:


there are some girls that can do such thing

Stop creating nonsense topics, and spreading false narratives to excuse your inadequacies and make you feel good.

Stop with the manipulations, and emotional blackmail of females due to your insecurities/shortcomings.

Face and conquer your inadequacies instead.
Hustle harder!!!
Think like a real man!!! Be a real man!!!

Men, endeavor to pay it yourself, if you can't then don't proceed with the marriage until you can.

Don't let any mu mu girl drag your authority with you just because she managed to give you small change out of the money you spent on what you're ordinarily expected to spend.

Be a man and let your HEAD be a firm one and not a shaking one.

1Sharon:


It's just hypocrisy. Women use to drink dead body water but they stopped that.

This one favours them so they'll look the other way.

It cuts across all tribes in Nigeria, it's our tradition.