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Any Man Who Asks You What You Can Bring To The Table Does Not Have Intention Of Marrying You – Nigerian Lady

In a powerful statement that struck a chord with many, a Nigerian lady spoke out against the infamous “table test” that some men subject women to in the pursuit of love. The lady firmly believes that any man who asks a woman what she brings to the table may not have the best intentions for her. Instead, she advises women to be cautious and steer clear of such individuals, as they might only seek to use and discard them.

With her signature humor and wisdom, the lady emphasized that a responsible man, genuinely looking to build a meaningful future with a lady, would never resort to such tactics. She stressed that every woman has an abundance of qualities and values to offer and it is not a fair measure of love to be judged by what they can “bring to the table.”

Her message resonated deeply, empowering women to know their worth and seek relationships built on mutual respect and understanding. True love, she highlighted, is about cherishing each other’s uniqueness, dreams and aspirations rather than tallying material possessions.

Her heartening advice is a reminder that women should be celebrated for their character, intelligence and inherent qualities, rather than being reduced to superficial questions. Her words have sparked conversations nationwide, encouraging men and women alike to approach relationships with sincerity and authenticity.

In a world that often pressures individuals to fit into predefined roles, her message stands as a rallying cry for embracing true love, free from judgments and unrealistic expectations. As her words reverberate across the nation, women are finding the strength to recognize their inherent value and seek partners who appreciate them for who they are.

In the face of the “table test,” she urges all women to stand tall, assert their worth and choose partners who recognize their greatness beyond materialistic demands. As her empowering message spreads like wildfire, it becomes clear that true love is about finding someone who cherishes the essence of who you are, not just what you have to offer.

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Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

Majesty7:
If you are so sure of yourself, post your real picture. People who I know that normally shouts like castrated goats like you are always bold. Be bold enough to show yourself and make yourself known

Make myself known how? Even the owner of the forum does not make his face known.
You need my face so you can come and attack me physically because I have chosen to speak up for my gender?

During lockdown in 2020 I do post my pictures here because I thought it was a forum with sane beings not until your fellow unfortunate nairalander male bastard started using my pictures to troll so I stopped.
Go get a life and tell your men to stop with the rape.

Lazy ass

Must these people let the world know they are this dumb?

olosho/liability don drop quote. peme for your papa house

you nigerian ladies make fools of yourselves and wonder why men don take you serious.

even nlfp.mod don tire for una matter.

But you will ask a man how much money he has in his bank account.

But a man can easily make that judgment without needing to ask.

Men bashing thread

Mumu@ assumption. Who likes liability?

Time has gone when women rely on men to take care of them and their children.

We go to the same school, graduate at the same time and got employed in the same offices and fields. Most of us are better placed than our husbands hence why must there be this dichotomy on who takes care of the family?

Is like most people especially women intend to go to the grave with their money. Spend the money on the family including on your husband and make sure the children are better placed than the parents.

Family first.

For a man to ask you what you bring to the table, he must have taken a full assessment of you and concluded you probably don't have anything to offer other than your body.

No sensible man will ask a hardworking lady that kind of question, whether she's made it or not.

By popular demand and for emphasis: men don't want liabilities!

truly any man who asks that question has a persecution complex. victim mentality

Double standard
You wan marry Richard but you cannot afford recharge card.

Sharpsharp00123:
Must these people let the world know they are this dumb?

Lalasticlala nlfpmod rule 2. Insulting someone.

Okey nah

So that we go dey enter into a "Parasitic affairs" in the name of Marriage.

You must state what you can bring to the Table if not "kitchen and the other room"

Even the Kitchen, most of them have zero know how of it .

saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

Liability in disguise. Rest, you've tried

Well it's a simple question....

A harmless 1 4 that matter .

saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

Why do you want to know his earnings?

Broke ass girls on nairaland

Tell me Dat rubbish, then I'll walk away...

You don't have money and you want to date...
If it's only men that brings things to the table, then you as a man , marry another man so you both will bring things to the table....

Ndi ara....

Let the men BREEEEEFFFFFFF!!!!

Well if you have something to offer a man won't ask you what you have to offer, simple.

No marry because of pity

see irony o.

But this same question has been the scale women use in assessing suitors from ages to ages.

Now madam is dropping seminar when the table turned around a little.

Please wake me up.

You are a fool and more

Dd

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Puss360:
Tell me Dat rubbish, then I'll walk away...

You don't have money and you want to date...
If it's only men that brings things to the table, then you as a man , marry another man so you both will bring things to the table....

Ndi ara....

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I have two harmless questions for you

1.. how old are you??

2… Is your mom comfortable been a liability in your father’s house??

The question unserious men ask and they know the calibre of women they direct that to. It's not a general something

What can you bring to the table simply means what are the benefits of marrying you. What can I get as a form of benefits from being with you. It doesn’t have to be money. There should be great qualities that you can bring to the relationship.

Yeye..

You need mental rehabilitation.

saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

Puss360:
Tell me Dat rubbish, then I'll walk away...

because you have nothing

saphiere:
Run! Run!! Run!!!
My sister run away from the following men..

1. The ones who ask you what you have to offer. These are irresponsible men. They are looking for who to shift their responsibilities to. If not, why would they ask such a dummy question.

2. Men who are interested in your past than your future. Always asking you about your past life. These ones are not ready for marriage.

3. The ones who always want to have their way between your legs whenever you visit them. They can never marry you. It's that sexx that is keeping them.

4. The ones who do not tell you their plans. Always being secretive. You are not important to them because I see no reason a man should keep his plans away from the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with.

5. The ones who tell their parents almost every about them. They want to eat rice today mum will know. The want to send you 5k their daddy will know.

6. The ones who can't introduce you to their friends. They will not marry you.

7. The ones who do not want you to know their earnings. Run o.

If you are so sure of yourself, post your real picture. People who I know that normally shouts like castrated goats like you are always bold. Be bold enough to show yourself and make yourself known

Puss360:
Tell me Dat rubbish, then I'll walk away...

Yeah..

Like Craig David..