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If you tell him again and he doesn't want to stop, set a camera at where you know he normally come to meet you, then record his activities. Save it as a strong evidence and show it to his brother.

Newton2024:
Does that picture looks like a Nigerian to you? That's a Rwandan lady. They are usually tall, dark and pretty

With a protruding forehead too

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Set up a hidden camera to capture his mischievous acts.
Wen ur husband comes back,say nothing and just play his records for him.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Record him show your husband don’t let him stay at your house. He’s a ungrateful fo ol

This is a timebomb waiting to xplode, u better difuse it now b4 its too late

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Report before he rape u

traware:
With a protruding forehead too

You may be right.

Make it known to him that the act disgusts you, please be frank and clear about it. If he continues, try telling your father in-law and ask him to talk to him privately (I'm assuming he is alive and also wise).

Trust me When he knows that 1 or 2 persons knows about him he will run from you.

The guy will rape and kill you, help yourself

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Before you will start mentioning devil name up and down you better sit your husband down and tell him ,and let him figure out what he wants to do with his brother before people will call you devil

kestolove95:
Dress properly always cover it body while Ur husband is away

As if the dress would cover his senses... Abeg

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

. You know you are telling lies. Continue.

The best is to report the issue to your husband the earlier the better!!

He doesn't have a girlfriend?

Stawner16:
Take down your profile picture

Don't mind her. She's telling lies.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Bring your brother to stay with you until your husband comes back

My friend better report ASAP. Wetin be afraid of them becoming enemies for life. They play by the time it backfires on you. Your eyes go open like sabinus own

Emeskhalifa:
You obviously didn't set boundaries initially.

That young man should stop being around you whenever your husband is not around.

You just vent my thoughts, she should warn him with all sense of seriousness and he shouldn't be allowed to come around when ever his brother is away. If she doesn't act fast the young man might frame her up and make the story to be the other way round. I hate guys who doesn't have self control, imagine his brother's wife very stupid guy

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

First warn the younger brother... I mean pass the warning with all seriousness.
Secondly: Give him gap avoid unnecessary closeness
Restrict his movement around you... Your room should be a no no.
If he persist... Set him up to be caught . This is because,you can't report him to his elder brother without evidence.

Chukkychukky:
This is a timebomb waiting to xplode, u better difuse it now b4 its too late

Exactly

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Whaaaaat ?
"So it remains between the two of you without your husband knowing" ?
For even bringing the matter here and not already dealing with it by rebukkng him strongly with a stern warning that you would tell your husband should ymhe repeat it again, says a lot about how weak you are to the said advance, you dey reason am already. Better retrace your step and tell your husband

Install a secret camera in your house and show your husband whenever you need to let him know....the earlier the better, if not that guy will drug you and fu.k the hell out of you one day.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

ask him what he wants from you while voice recording it. Or if he touches you get into an argument with him while recording it do it, fast before you fall for him cos I no even trust you. Telling ur husband he might not believe but with evidence he will believe

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Don't report till he rapes you or you both have consensual sex, you hear?

How I'm I even sure that your husband didn't set you up for the brother to make passes at you.

Do you have kids yet? you didn't mention this. Let it not be what im thinking.

Exmilitant:
Politely tell him you know what he wants, and that he should remove his mind far from the idea because it is not gonna happen.

I don't blame him though, we are in the era of sexuademic most people don't care who they fu.c.k as long as the conji spirit is satiated.

And you might be a hotty to boot.

You have given a good advice. I can't say it better.👍

Less than a month ago you were undecided on if your mum or your boyfriend should stay with you. ( https://www.nairaland.com/7773338/should-let-live-me-mother).
Now Now you Don get husband wey I'm brother dey advance towards. Since na only you waka with all this plenti tales by moonlight, I wantu confirm if you're paid for storytelling by Nairaland

Don't report him directly, look for a movie that re-enact such actions, and watch with your husband whenever he's back, then start a conversation around it, expressing serious worry about it, while emphasizing on the fact that nobody is immune to it, that it better both of you prevent it. Give suggestions and hammer on it.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

report to your husband before he rape u

This girl doesn't look anything Nigerian.

Stawner16:
Take down your profile picture

And you believe that that's her picture

Don't be surprised this is a male with female account catching cruise

I for don slap am commot teeth from his mouth. Let him report the matter. Anofia!

Take down your profile picture

When you brother in law is away tell you husband to buy a webcam(not up to 200k for the complete house,outside parlor and kitchen and maybe Libby. and place in hidden positions in the house so your brother can see things for himself 👍👍