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Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks(op): 8:29am On Aug 10, 2023
kakaaa77:
that is some serious advice you just drop' but the wig in their head will not let it pass through
Fact! 💯
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks(op): 8:38am On Aug 10, 2023
Originalsly:
Girls are diplomatic. Did the friendship meet the level where you can ask her out for a date? If yes ... then you should know she will need transport fare. If no ... then she thinks you are very stupid to ask her out and she'll try to make you pay for being stupid. These are the girls that ask for tfare... and will only show up if it's to dinner ... may likely bring along a friend ... and order the most expensive dishes and wines.

Some guys get their ego bruised when babes do this .... and instead of simply moving on .... would jump on SM and be bitching. This transgender thing is no joke.... guys transgendering and don't even know.
Generally, a Nigerian girl doesn't need to be friends with you before she bills you or asked you to send her money for transport fare. Dude it's highly common among Nigerian girls.

How can a girl thinks a guy is very stupid for asking her out? I don't understand. Won't she get married? If she doesn't intend to get married let her sit her ass down in her father's house and grow old there. Let her outrightly keep rejecting men and making mockery of herself through collecting transport money.

Dude , gone are days when a guy asked a girl out and she'll come along with her fellow hungry entourage and her family members, let alone going to order expensive dishes, dude the moment a man discovers she's with an additional liability like herself, he dumps her ASAP and move on. So wetin u dey talk? Except of course you're talking about SIMP men
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by motionarena: 8:39am On Aug 10, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Perhaps you misread the post!

Read the post carefully, this time around read it slowly for proper understanding. Na working class girls dey bills pass. Those ones will rather diè than to spend their own money. So WTF are you saying?
You never categorically mentioned working class girls in your post
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks(op): 8:43am On Aug 10, 2023
motionarena:
You never categorically mentioned working class girls in your post
Oga generally girls asked for transport money wether working class or not. It is their ideology. The level of entitlement mentality has eaten deep in them.

You talk about working class girls as though they're exempted and I just told you that na those working class girls dey bill pass. They'll rather diè than to spend their own money! So WTF are you saying again?

Oga an average Nigerian girl will rather diè than to spend her own money. Whether working class or not
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by motionarena: 9:17am On Aug 10, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Oga generally girls asked for transport money wether working class or not. It is their ideology. The level of entitlement mentality has eaten deep in them.

You talk about working class girls as though they're exempted and I just told you that na those working class girls dey bill pass. They'll rather diè than to spend their own money! So WTF are you saying again?

Oga an average Nigerian girl will rather diè than to spend her own money. Whether working class or not
Not all working class girls are exempted.
I have dated a couple who didn't request for tfare when we go out.

But most students that I have date always request for tfare
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Originalsly: 9:25am On Aug 10, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Generally, a Nigerian girl doesn't need to be friends with you before she bills you or asked you to send her money for transport fare. Dude it's highly common among Nigerian girls.

How can a girl thinks a guy is very stupid for asking her out? I don't understand. Won't she get married? If she doesn't intend to get married let her sit her ass down in her father's house and grow old there. Let her outrightly keep rejecting men and making mockery of herself through collecting transport money.

Dude , gone are days when a guy asked a girl out and she'll come along with her fellow hungry entourage and her family members, let alone going to order expensive dishes, dude the moment a man discovers she's with an additional liability like herself, he dumps her ASAP and move on. So wetin u dey talk? Except of course you're talking about SIMP men
Bro ... it is stupid to ask a girl out if you haven't reached a certain level of friendship. If you're at a bus stop... and see a girl for the first time... wouldn't it be dumb to go ask her out? You may ask who does that ... but trust me a lot of guys do.... especially the ones that carry red pillar on their head.
Girls being selective doesn't mean they don't want to marry. Then there are girls that will exploit men with money... if you can't afford to send tfare then they figure you are broke and move on.
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks(op): 9:36am On Aug 10, 2023
Originalsly:
Bro ... it is stupid to ask a girl out if you haven't reached a certain level of friendship. If you're at a bus stop... and see a girl for the first time... wouldn't it be dumb to go ask her out? You may ask who does that ... but trust me a lot of guys do.... especially the ones that carry red pillar on their head.
Girls being selective doesn't mean they don't want to marry. Then there are girls that will exploit men with money... if you can't afford to send tfare then they figure you are broke and move on.
A girl who asked for transport fare is a very useless girl - pastor Mrs okonwko (na woman talk am bro, no be me)

Any girl who asked for transport money is a hook-up girl. No cap! She should be upfront and tell the guy how much she charges.

Dude you don't need to be friends with a girl before asking her out, u no Wetin friends mean? Dude become her friend and watch her friend zone you instantly. Na friend zone for her list you go dey, just viewing her status and you'll never pass that stage. Dey play!

It'll interest you to know that most girls if not all loved when a guy asked them out instantly when they're meeting for the very first time. Esp when they consider the guy hot and attractive (this is where the billing of transport fare comes in). Have you noticed most girls rejects the idea of you coming to pick them up yourself or sending Uber to pick them up? They prefer and insist you send the money to them. What does that tells you?

Oga there's nothing like girls being selective! They're just living in delusions that a man MUST foot their money for transport. They never ready for life. I hope she'll still be selective the moment she hits 30 and above
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks(op): 9:43am On Aug 10, 2023
Originalsly:
Bro ... it is stupid to ask a girl out if you haven't reached a certain level of friendship. If you're at a bus stop... and see a girl for the first time... wouldn't it be dumb to go ask her out? You may ask who does that ... but trust me a lot of guys do.... especially the ones that carry red pillar on their head.
Girls being selective doesn't mean they don't want to marry. Then there are girls that will exploit men with money... if you can't afford to send tfare then they figure you are broke and move on.
Dude if you have any girl who asked you to be her friend, you better dump that girl now and run for your life. Life isn't nollywood.

She's using you as a backup and second option should anything goes wrong with her current relationship. Na friend zone you go end.

"I can't date you but we can be friends"

That's a statement of a woman who's about to useless you
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Originalsly: 9:49am On Aug 10, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Dude if you have any girl who asked you to be her friend, you better dump that girl now and run for your life. Life isn't nollywood.

She's using you as a backup and second option should anything goes wrong with her current relationship. Na friend zone you go end.

"I can't date you but we can be friends"

That's a statement of a woman who's about to useless you
I can see you will have problems dating women or having any lasting relationship.... very likely to be a stepping stone relationship.
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks(op): 9:52am On Aug 10, 2023
Originalsly:
I can see you will have problems dating women or having any lasting relationship.... very likely to be a stepping stone relationship.
Read the below with serious meditation.

Dude if you have any girl who asked you to be her friend, you better dump that girl now and run for your life.

She's using you as a backup and second option should anything goes wrong with her current relationship. Na friend zone you go end. Your type keep hoping, praying and dreaming for the day God should touche her so she can offer you the honeypot. Bro you go wait tire!

"I can't date you but we can be friends"

That's a statement of a woman who's about to useless you
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by LarryCork: 10:23am On Aug 10, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Dude, I'm not the cause of your frustration
TOO LATE TO APOLOGICE SIR....u create dumb thread sayin all nigeria women are dumb so we ask u a simple questions: does it mean yor sister is dumb? dats not a rude questions sir. its a simple questions. is yor sister dumb, yes or no sir? (no ofeinse) angry
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by kalufelix(m): 10:38am On Aug 10, 2023
talented321:
Normal''
The problem is not from girls'' it is from men who think with their dick and now it has become a culture in nigeria.
It is left for the few real niggas to know their worth'' that nothing come out from pussy except the 5minute pleasure.
Men overrate sex too much and don't have patience once they think about sex.
You are a real nigg@...thirsty men without self control are the problem...
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by kalufelix(m): 10:43am On Aug 10, 2023
Babaken:
Imagine i inviting my old time friend a Lady I know her very well she's a working class lady whom I respect so much she's cook or sorts of stories that she don't have transportation when she know that if she comes there's no way I won't multiply her transportation by 4 or 5 .

As that one is not enough she call me 3 days after that she and her sister that's staying with her is admitted at the hospital that the money she's having is not enough I should send her some money for my mind I say see this one you don see ATM machine since then I haven't call or chat her again before she will tell me her house rent is expiring next week she already told me her television is not working haba.
Some ladies should try to package themselves small.
Crazy! .. real crazy!! ...the entitlement mentality is becoming alarming..
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 10:47am On Aug 10, 2023
Error401:
Lol, you dont have to be married, you can choose to be one of the evening newspapers on here.
If my life as an evening newspaper is better than yours, then why... I will gladly be an evening newspaper...
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by izonborn098(m): 10:58am On Aug 10, 2023
Talented321 and puss360, should invite me to una wedding
Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...
Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post grin grin
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by GoodRocks(op): 11:10am On Aug 10, 2023
LarryCork:
TOO LATE TO APOLOGICE SIR....u create dumb thread sayin all nigeria women are dumb so we ask u a simple questions: does it mean yor sister is dumb? dats not a rude questions sir. its a simple questions. is yor sister dumb, yes or no sir? (no ofeinse) angry
Dude, I'm not the cause of your frustrations. Look for a simp Dude to vent your frustration on so you can both exchange words and insult each other
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Countyguy: 2:32pm On Aug 10, 2023
Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...
Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post grin grin
Nor kill me with laugh ooo, Small Children with entitled mentality too full this forum.
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:04pm On Aug 10, 2023
GO0DHardDick:
Ok, so it is the guy that should spend his own money on the stranger? Dude I can bet my balls that girls must have eaten your money very well before. You don't need to tell a girl to pay her own transport fare. Common sense should tell her this.

Dude, it's a date for god's sake not an avenue for her to manipulate the guy and try to play smart. Haven't you seen situations where a (SIMP) guy sends a girl money for transport fare and the girl ended up blocking the guy thinking she's smart or has cashed out?

Omo bro, no need for the long write up, a Poor broke girl who cannot afford her own transport fare has NO business entering a relationship at all, let alone talking about marriage
again, you can approach anybody you desire but dont expect them to spend on you (before they even know who you are and/or what you desire from them).

here is a simple clue: if "you" want to get to know someone, then "you" have to make the first move....and if a woman wants to get to know you, then SHE has to make the 1st move. in what world do you live where YOU want to get to know someone but THEY have to make the 1st move?!?!?!? bro, you are living in lala land! dating is about a succession of events, and someone has to get the ball rolling somehow someway.

but as i stated earlier, if you want a woman to go dutch, then let her know straight from the get go and if she is against it, then move on with your life,...no need for wahala (as if all women need to be the way you desire)
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 10:20am On Aug 14, 2023
How do you know its better than mine?

Puss360:
If my life as an evening newspaper is better than yours, then why... I will gladly be an evening newspaper...
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 10:24am On Aug 14, 2023
Error401:
How do you know its better than mine? I will only agree to that if you are a career woman and worth more than 2m. You are a woman so I set 2m for you as a standard to reach.
Eww poor you... You think Better life is about millions... Sorry...
I might not have it much, but I'm better than you....
So rest please...
Today na Monday 🙈
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 10:26am On Aug 14, 2023
Lol sorry, life is not about million actually, but life is hard without the millions. No hard feelings dear. I wouldnt like to throw jabs on a woman.
Have a blissful day ahead.
Puss360:
Eww poor you... You think Better life is about millions... Sorry...
I might not have it much, but I'm better than you....
So rest please...
Today na Monday 🙈
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 10:28am On Aug 14, 2023
Error401:
Lol sorry, life is not about million actually, but life is hard without the millions. No hard feelings dear. I wouldnt like to throw jabs on a woman.
Have a blissful day ahead.
U welcome
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 10:33am On Aug 14, 2023
Which part of South west are you from? Im from Osun State
Puss360:
U welcome
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 10:35am On Aug 14, 2023
Error401:
Which part of South west are you from? Im from Osun State
South west isn't my state it's my current location...
So I am "In" Lagos
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 10:42am On Aug 14, 2023
Lol, Lagos? I wouldnt live in Lagos for any reason. Would like to know you if you dont mind? maybe we can make Nairaland couple front page in a couple of years shocked
Puss360:
South west isn't my state it's my current location...
So I am "In" Lagos
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 10:45am On Aug 14, 2023
Error401:
Lol, Lagos? I wouldnt live in Lagos for any reason. Would like to know you if you dont mind? maybe we can make Nairaland couple front page in a couple of years shocked
Nairaland couple and you aren't ready to live in lagos... Lol.. Lagos is my home for life o,😂😂
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 11:02am On Aug 14, 2023
Lol, a knife on my neck, I wouldnt live in Lagos. My families lives in Lagos though. And I did a couple of trainings in Lagos for few months. I dont like troubles and emotional trauma, Lagos gives double of that. It's a very lively place to live, but for me, I love my privacy. A kind of simple life.

What is your definition of a perfect date?

Puss360:
Nairaland couple and you aren't ready to live in lagos... Lol.. Lagos is my home for life o,😂😂
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 11:04am On Aug 14, 2023
Error401:
Lol, a knife on my neck, I wouldnt live in Lagos. My families lives in Lagos though. And I did a couple of trainings in Lagos for few months. I dont like troubles and emotional trauma, Lagos gives double of that. It's a very lively place to live, but for me, I love my privacy. A kind of simple life.

[/b]What is your definition of a perfect date?[b]
🤐🤐🤐 don't get too carried away...this is a public place
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 11:08am On Aug 14, 2023
Would you give me the honor of a personal contact?

Puss360:
🤐🤐🤐 don't get too carried away...this is a public place
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Puss360(f): 11:13am On Aug 14, 2023
Error401:
Would you give me the honor of a personal contact?
🤐🤐🤐
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by youngfocus(m): 11:58am On Aug 14, 2023
Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...
Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post grin grin
How man guy u don initiate hangout with that u pay for his tfare,relationship should b mutual not one sided.is just that our society make it man duties to be initiating hangout.
I guess it will b good if Guy stop asking girls out make the human race go into extinction as u no get sen*se rubbish place value on all that ur smelly pussy I pity ur boyfriend
Re: My problem with Nigerian girls by Error401: 11:58am On Aug 14, 2023
I understand you. Would you like to continue on telegram? Its anonymous as you can hide your phone number, add via usernames, chose to block incoming calls and delete messages easily till will get to know eachother better and consider whatsapp a viable option?
If you agree, I will quote you my Telegram username.

Puss360:
🤐🤐🤐
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