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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by BronzeTiger: 1:41pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:


Do you want a video call with the kids?
No, I want a way how we can meet you and the kids to ask questions.
A video call can be doctored these days but kids can be rented. You need to be met physically with proof of your sister, the kids, the family to be spoken to, people to be asked in your community, etcetera.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Waffarianman(m): 1:44pm On Aug 23, 2023
BronzeTiger:






That's because the tales are fake and the OP is a scam.
I can't believe most people actually believe this after seeing the OP withhold vital information.

Yh it's fake and a scammer
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by BronzeTiger: 1:44pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:


Kwara state.
Where in kwara? Ilorin, Malete, Omu-aran. Which side are you guys with your exact location in that LGA? Let's see what can be done.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Abrahamweb(m): 1:45pm On Aug 23, 2023
Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

If places were switched or if they are your kids would you do the same thing.
She's thinking logically and not using her anus to reason like you.
How about if hunger drive them to do something that'll lead to their death or worse?
Not every time you go dey optimistic,use logic to reason things
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by BronzeTiger: 1:47pm On Aug 23, 2023
Waffarianman:


Yh it's fake and a scammer
Let's just wait a little and give the OP loveabove to prove his or her claims because no be today I start to dey use nairaland. I've seen things.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Sholmakem(f): 1:48pm On Aug 23, 2023
It's a good idea if that is really the situation.But make sure you do visit them so they will at least know they are not abandoned.

First go round to check the best Home,at least you will know when children are well taken care of So that you can know where will be best for them..

God will take care of them 🙏and their good destinies will be fulfilled in Jesus name 🙏
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by sonnie10: 1:49pm On Aug 23, 2023
Persephone1:
Send them there but don't forget them
I don’t think she would have visitation rights after dropping them off and signing the papers.
Not sure how it works.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by tctrills: 1:51pm On Aug 23, 2023
Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

If places were switched or if they are your kids would you do the same thing.
After this write up, we hope you will send her small thing. It's always easy to tell others what to do.

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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by DaddyGngeess(m): 1:52pm On Aug 23, 2023
Where is your location and how true is this story? A lot people put up stories like this to scam
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Omoawoke: 1:55pm On Aug 23, 2023
Wodu89:
Your head and motive is not right. You're thinking if the costs of the parenting. What about the returns when they mature.

Your love and loyalty is ingenuine. The kids are not your sister's kids but yours. You're not doing right honestly. You're thinking about what it would cost you not the blessings it can come along with or that they have no one, you're only thinking of not loosing pennies. May God forgive you. By your mentality you have failed Heaven

If places were switched or if they are your kids would you do the same thing.
Chai, expected returns on children
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by AriyaTV: 1:56pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:


There's no father for the first one. She got raped when she was in secondary and my late mother didn't agree to abortion.

How she got pregnant to the second child with a useless man is what I don't understand.

The immediate family of the second man is nothing to write home about. They don't care about the child and they told me this is not the only child he's impregnated a woman with. He's four other children like that from different women who the family care not for.

That is why I said circumstances I'm not ready to explain in details.

If you're willing to take care of those kids and you're not too ashamed to state what you need. Please go ahead and seek for help, who knows we still have good people on this forum at least for the last time before you conclude taking them to the orphanage. Just try.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Clementz0(m): 2:04pm On Aug 23, 2023
life can be tricky,karma is always real op my own penny of advice,I believe you have elders in your family tell them your intentions and reasons let them guide you in making this decision it's about the future not now
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by alizma: 2:10pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod
Where are you from, how can you be reached for verification. try to discuss with some people before going fully into your plan.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by aktolly54(m): 2:14pm On Aug 23, 2023
dawnomike:
Give us d full gist about their dad/ his relatives... We should be able to help from there
The only nairaland can render is someone(one admin or moderator) verify the story and allow people to donate money for them. Even 100naira from thousand of people will go a long a way. And op can set up business to cater for their needs
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by hansomb: 2:17pm On Aug 23, 2023
93. Surah Ad-Duha (The Forenoon - After Sunrise)
In the Name of Allah, The Most Gracious, Most Merciful

1. By the forenoon (after sun-rise);

2. And by the night when it is still (or darkens);

3. Your Lord (O Muhammad ()) has neither forsaken you nor hated you.

4. And indeed the Hereafter is better for you than the present (life of this world).

5. And verily, your Lord will give you (all i.e. good) so that you shall be well-pleased.

6. Did He not find you (O Muhammad ()) an orphan and gave you a refuge?

7. And He found you unaware (of the Qur'an, its legal laws, and Prophethood, etc.) and guided you?

8. And He found you poor, and made you rich (selfsufficient with selfcontentment, etc.)?

9. Therefore, treat not the orphan with oppression,

10. And repulse not the beggar;

11. And proclaim the Grace of your Lord (i.e. the Prophethood and all other Graces).
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Waffarianman(m): 2:17pm On Aug 23, 2023
BronzeTiger:

Let's just wait a little and give the OP loveabove to prove his or her claims because no be today I start to dey use nairaland. I've seen things.


Bro E no get anything to prove the Op is a scammer
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by toprealman: 2:17pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod
I know someone that can adopt them
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Wodu89: 2:18pm On Aug 23, 2023
K9blunt:



You're not thinking right and whoever listens to whatever advice you give will end up destroyed.

The op mentioned she will end up homeless without any hope of accommodation, feeding is a huge problem and other hardships. You're talking about blessings... You sick people with poor mentalities think shallowly that there are Blessings to having children with no means to cater for them, all these children wandering about begging for food, money etc... Even end up being a menace to the society, where is the blessing?

You just open mouth Wa! Nonsense and it's relatives.


It's not my fault you're from a damaged family without keen understanding of what family life should look like
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Desusi: 2:21pm On Aug 23, 2023
Mindlog:


You have to explain the circumstance of their birth.
That's the koko she's hiding why?
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by sensaraj(f): 2:22pm On Aug 23, 2023
I can take care of them if you are serious about it (no scam pls)

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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by temiflex01(m): 2:23pm On Aug 23, 2023
GboyegaD:
You can take them to the orphanage and try to support the orphanage as much as you can. Let the management know you would appreciate they don't give them up for adoption as you are coming back to pick them once you are in a good place.

Definitely you don't know what orphanage home is all about. When you gets there, read the documents you're signing, then you understand better. undecided undecided

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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by dododawa1: 2:24pm On Aug 23, 2023
Assume If you born 5 children without husband
You will take them to orphanage
Your brain needed reset aje.
Oga keep them or take them to d father family.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Oladat(m): 2:28pm On Aug 23, 2023
I don't think that OP is saying the entire truth here, because there are several questions that beggars answers in your write-up...
1. Your sister,according to you,died last month and the rent has now expired. So within a month of your sister's decease, you are going homeless. Does that mean that you've been living on your sister's charity before now?
2. As in the case of Muhammad and the montain, if your relatives aren't coming for the kids, what stops you from taking the kids to them?
3. What about the father of the kids?
Please I am begging you in the name of whatever you believe in, let the orphanage be the very last option. It should be at the bottom of the options barrel. If you've ever worked with/for some of this orphanages, you won't pray for the kids of your very worst enemy to pass through them, never mind your own nephews.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Machinegun91(m): 2:33pm On Aug 23, 2023
Stop lies
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Father4all: 2:36pm On Aug 23, 2023
If you take them there, you are a wicked person. Just manage with them
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Princeton92(m): 2:39pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:

There's no father for the first one. She got raped when she was in secondary and my late mother didn't agree to abortion.
How she got pregnant to the second child with a useless man is what I don't understand.
The immediate family of the second man is nothing to write home about. They don't care about the child and they told me this is not the only child he's impregnated a woman with. He's four other children like that from different women who the family care not for.
That is why I said circumstances I'm not ready to explain in details.

HOW OLD ARE THE KIDS?
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by SGANIVA(m): 2:47pm On Aug 23, 2023
Which state are you, gender of the children
And the circumstances you are talking about , are the disabled ?, maybe i can adopt one or,if you are closer maybe award them scholarship
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by akpunda86: 2:49pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod


Don't say that again.are u in the east.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by achimendy(m): 2:50pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod






First of all where is their father, and their father's relatives or parent ?? You need to provide answer to those question. But if they have a deadbeat father then I'll advise you to take them to orphanage home, but don't forget them.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by StrongAlphMale: 2:56pm On Aug 23, 2023
Loveabove:
I need your say on this please

Explain the circumstances surrounding their birth. Where's their father? Take them to their father.

If you're not ready to give details, then you never serious.
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Kobojunkiee: 3:00pm On Aug 23, 2023
TrainPark:
Where do you live?
I might be able to help you with the kids?... would you let them be adopted?
Adopted ke? She is looking for a place to have them stay temporarily and the best place is a legally run orphanage. undecided
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by enemyofprogress: 3:23pm On Aug 23, 2023
Op stop lying. The two children are yours, you're their biology mother

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