There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bake should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?

I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhoea!

Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blv he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. Always asking if I v eaten, slept as if I m barbie. What broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.

I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

Goodlady:
There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bakes should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?
I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhea!
Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blvs he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. And what broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.
I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

Lady, you have issues... Tackle them. If you are like this with a baker, what happens when you date one of those creative types like artists? Visit a mental health counselor as soon as possible to help you get past those hang-ups of yours before you go pointing and denigrating others abeg!

Feminist!

Hahahaha..

My younger sister always calls me lazy until she got together with one bank worker and visited him. She came home and was praising her elder bro to high heavens.... Me was like wtf did this girl eat outside?
Me wey even algae coated walls dey irritate. As lazy as I am, I can't stand uncleanliness. That's why I have to pay for someone else to do the cleaning.

Even if there's no money, I don't believe it's an excuse to be dirty and be producing offensive smells. Unless you be werey ..

But Princess GoodLady, you could've tried and change the guy na, you jhus left him like that for another to face same same.

Does that seem fair to the other lady? You no good abeg..

Padipadi:
Feminist!

A simple Google search would enlighten you on how very wrong you are to consider using that term to qualify OP.

Kobojunkiee:
A simple Google search would enlighten you on how very wrong you are to consider using that term to qualify OP.

That girl's a meån feminist!

As you dey date dey break up, ensure that you've got the trinities on or before you clock 33+.
It's unjust for someone to have a body count of 20 and mileage of over 1000 and expect an innocent man to accept her like that

correctguy101:
Hahahaha.. My younger sister always calls me lazy until she got together with one bank worker and visited him. She came home and was praising her elder bro to high heavens.... Me was like wtf did this girl eat outside?
Me wey even algae coated walls dey irritate. As lazy as I am, I can't stand uncleanliness. That's why I have to pay for someone else to do the cleaning. Even if there's no money, I don't believe it's an excuse to be dirty and be producing offensive smells. Unless you be werey .. But Princess GoodLady, you could've tried and change the guy na, you jhus left him like that for another to face same same. Does that seem fair to the other lady? You no good abeg..

Why should she "change" him? Is she a counselor or a maid or something? She is right to leave him as he is so the next person who can love him as he is can come along and have him.

Kingosytex:
As you dey date dey break up, ensure that you've got the trinities on or before you clock 33+.
It's unjust for someone to have a body count of 20 and mileage of over 1000 and expect an innocent man to accept her like that

Same as it is unjust for someone with a body count of 20 and mileage of over 1000 to expect an innocent woman to accept him like he is, abi? Cause from where I sit, it is both males and females suffering all of that together.

I literally go livid on my kids for pressing a toothpaste like this.

It is better to break off a relationship than get into marriage with a wrong person.

Kikikikiki they are coming for you

Trying to understand the essence of the post though. I am glad you know what you want and I wish you the very best.

Leaving a guy because he presses his toothpaste from the middle, i was expecting you to say that he pressed your boobs like toothpaste.

"Little" things irritate me too,so I can relate ;

Not cleaning up the restroom properly after use or wiping your hands or whenever with tissue paper and not disposing it well.

Cooking and messing up my kitchen .
Drinking half sachet or bottle water

But Babe,Let's agree you don't like that guy . One of those "let's give it a trial" people that turned out to be a pig.

Congratulations 🎊 👏

The next break-up will be after 2 days followed by 2 hours. Keep breaking records girl.

Goodlady:
There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bake should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?
I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhoea!
Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blv he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. Always asking if I v eaten, slept as if I m barbie. What broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.
I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

You have serious issues. You better work on yourself before your bodycount gets to 100 and your value falls below zero. Pathetic.

UDUJ:
■ You have serious issues. You better work on yourself before your bodycount gets to 100 and your value falls below zero. Pathetic.

You folks are ridiculous. If her body count reach 100, na your body she use? And what do you mean her value falls? Does your value as an individual equally fall each time you engage in sexual activity as well? Mind your own body's business.

Kobojunkiee:
You folks are ridiculous? If her body count reach 100, na your body she use? And what do you mean her value falls? Does your value as an individual equally fall each time you engage in sexual activity as well? Mind your own body's business.

For an unmarried lady it falls. Now be quiet.

UDUJ:
For an unmarried lady it falls. Now be quiet.

And you base this claim on what exactly given that the same sexual instruments are employed by both the married and unmarried during sexual acts?

Please, go back and review your pre-programming so you don't continue to sound like one of those with screws missing.

Olosho don drop quote.....

Na only broke boys and simps.....

Kobojunkiee:
You folks are ridiculous? If her body count reach 100, na your body she use? And what do you mean her value falls? Does your value as an individual equally fall each time you engage in sexual activity as well? Mind your own body's business.

you always type nonsense on this forum....

Everyone has his/her choice to make......

Biko is there any particular way to press toothpastes?

Goodlady:
There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bake should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?
I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhoea!
Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blv he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. Always asking if I v eaten, slept as if I m barbie. What broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.
I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

Goodlady:
There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bake should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?
I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhoea!
Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blv he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. Always asking if I v eaten, slept as if I m barbie. What broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.
I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

Did you try helping out with his cleanliness before you scampered or you are also lazy and need someone to complement you?

I think you are too petty with the toothpaste bla bla

Yucky.

Every adult, both men and women, should have a sense of cleanliness: know the importance of eating clean food, know how to maintain a clean environment, and know how to clean up after themselves, etc. It sounds like this guy scores a big, fat zero on all counts. And you also say he's a chef, which makes me feel for those eating his food.

As a neat freak myself, you definitely did the right thing dumping him.

Good riddance to bad rubbish.

chinae:


Did you try helping out with his cleanliness before you scampered or you are also lazy and need someone to complement you?

I think you are too petty with the toothpaste bla bla

So I should go and clean house on first day of visit.
If it's my house that was dirty like that, will he clean it on first day of visit?
Haven't you boys learned about first impression?

@OP You should have changed into something comfortable to clean his house and arrange the place to taste the way you want it..

In those days, it's girls that are homely, can clean house and wash clothes that get to have serious boyfriends not like now that civilization has changed everything.
You've not even washed jeans and you are complaining.

chinae:


Did you try helping out with his cleanliness before you scampered or you are also lazy and need someone to complement you?

I think you are too petty with the toothpaste bla bla

What a ridiculous question. The way you've flipped the narrative to blame her as if she's the one at fault is giving narcissism. Secondly, if it was a male friend who visited him, would you ask him the above? But because she's a female, you're saying such. The sexism in Nigeria must be something else.

He didn't care about cleaning his house before her arrival, obviously because 1) living like a pig is the norm for him and 2) he wasn't interested in her enough to want to impress her, and 3) he's just a lazy somebody, but somehow when she got there she should've turned herself into a maid, washing and cleaning everything for him in order to impress him or for what purpose na? Encouraging Pickmeisha behavior is outdated, oga. Lastly, it does not make a man any less of a man to value cleanliness and clean up after himself. Stop encouraging nonsense and worse, blaming women for men's bad behavior.

Ok

I saw following you and I know manna has been doing oloshoo on a very low budget