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Kubin:
If your husband is doing his responsibility as a man I advice you stay in your marriage.u may probably be the problem he is going outside ,u go the search man phone,na u fuckup

Versitee:
She is the one. I saw their telegram chat. It was awful

mcprince32:
■ The first confrontation is take a 3 days fast and pray if you are born again child of God. Don't destroy your marriage. Discuss with him about it. Then do well give your husband good sex.

Kobojunkie:
Divorce is a legal exit from a marriage. What makes it abominable?

Lawalemi:
Don't listen to divorce promoters. Screenshot messages if possible or wake him up at night and ask him questions. If he apologize, warn him and move on. He will sit up and respect you more. NO VIOLENCE!

Versitee:
I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.

Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.

Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.

I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.

She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.

My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.

I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left .
Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.


I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.

The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".

Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.

I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.

I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)

My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.


To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.


It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.

I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.

Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.

Kubin:
If your husband is doing his responsibility as a man I advice you stay in your marriage.u may probably be the problem he is going outside,u go the search man phone,na u fuckup

adspelite:
I read all your story, it's really a nightmare. But last last even you my sis need JESUS

Missyajoke:
What you're saying is rubbish abegg, a man who will cheat will cheat if you like do almost all sex styles to please him.

Kobojunkie:
1. Your beef should be with your husband, the one whom you swore a marriage contract with, and never with the sidechick please. She may be a low-life but the one who cheated on you isn't that one but your husband, so please never ever debase yourself to level of confronting the outsider.

Do get yourself tested immediately and begin insisting he uses condom with you. Consider what it is you really want out of your relationship at this point. Are you desperate enough to want to continue holding on to the man ---my guess is this may not even be his first rodeo -‐-- or are you past your wits end. The answer should help you in deciding how to confront him about his cheating.

Attasco:
Why given yourself unnecessary high blood pressure. You shouldn't have checked his phone. Marriage counselors have advised women on this same issue times without number,but you women keep doing it and be expecting advise from the general public. Who will give a good advise on this platform that majority of the members are not marriage counselors?

Versitee:
I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.

Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.

Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.

I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.

She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.

My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.

I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left .
Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.


I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.

The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".

Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.

I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.

I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)

My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.


To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.


It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.

I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.

Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.




You are very good in investigation, why not channel this skill to that career, you will excel. however, concerning your findings, i suggest you keep cool, just keep having your facts and evidences packed, the day you will unveil them, it will shook him and his concubine. be strong, but start letting him indirectly about STDs, hiv etc. his brain will start re-formating immediate and he will start using boot with that chick but keep your evidences secrete, a day is coming when you will present them like peter obi presented his evidences for tribunal

dkidd:
How do u know they're having sex? So because he chats someone named Vicky hookup and ur neighbors name is Victoria now means she's the same person U are just an insecure woman. Try to be more tolerant and trust ur husband more. If u still believe they're both knacking each other then get concrete evidence instead of jumping into conclusions because of ur insecurities

Lunar2010:
■ Hmmmmm... Inspector Madam, The Chief Private investigator. Na State C.I..D you suppose dey work. Tell you husband that a stranger gave the girl's hookup number to you. The stranger alleged that she and Vicky were both into the hookup game but they have a small quarrel. That's why she wants to expose her to you, being your neighbor, that she is hooking your innocent husband. After that give your husband the microphone, let him address the press.You are welcome.

Versitee:
She is the one. I saw their telegram chat. It was awful

UDUJ:
■ You always advocate divorce in all threads I see you. And I am very sure you are an unmarried frustrated lady but you want other women to leave their marriages. What the hell is wrong with you?

Mjshexy:
Are you certain she's the one? Yes you finally confirmed he's cheating on you and you need to confront him with the evidence and very importantly check your health status.
If i may help you out, just nicely visit your neighbors house again and quietly dial the Vicky's number gotten from your husband's phone while the suspect is home, at least that should help you in your investigation somehow

rickleye:
Weird I could feel your female energy before looking at your moniker.
Listen some men cheat because they want to others cheat because they are led to it.

Watching porn, flirting, looking at another person lustfully are all forms of cheating.

Some men cheat because they feel entitled. A single woman is boring , she’s not as spirited as before , she doesn’t sneak out . The chase and catch is missing .

Others are forced to because the woman does not address his needs anymore. It’s his cry for attention . A person who used to have quality sex 2ce a week has become someone who gets sex 2ce a month and only if he's “ nice” to her.
When women use sex as a weapon want do you expect will happen.

Find out which category he belongs to. Before you throw out the baby with the bath water.

Anonymous0001:
Don’t divorce him for the sake of your children and let him know that you’re aware and threaten him with divorce but don’t ever make the mistake of Divorcing him because the children will be seriously affected and virtually all men are the same

dkidd:
How do u know they're having sex? So because he chats someone named Vicky hookup and ur neighbors name is Victoria now means she's the same person U are just an insecure woman. Try to be more tolerant and trust ur husband more. If u still believe they're both knacking each other then get concrete evidence instead of jumping into conclusions because of ur insecurities

Ballzproblem2:
Divorce no confrontation

Versitee:
I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.

Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.

Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.

I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.

She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.

My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.

I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left .
Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.


I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.

The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".

Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.

I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.

I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)

My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.


To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.


It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.

I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.

Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.