What occupies the minds of Africans ....dicks and totos

Dude must be a Nairalander.

All those silly attitudes we display on NL have real life consequences.

Amotolongbo:

The guy is a he-goat who thinks every gesture from a lady is seductive and an inviting sign for sexual activity.

In case you don’t know, most ladies in UK give you some smiles, chat and activities to make you feel very comfortable, that is the courtesy they have been trained to have since childhood, though fake and not sincere. If any lady does that in Nigeria, it will definitely be seen as a romantic invitation from a girl. That is the natural British way, unlike the American girls.

The foolish guy thought the lady was “falling” for him, hence the audacity to ask her that question.
The guy is even lucky that the lady didn’t report the case to the authority, then he will understand how to comport in a strange land

Many of you in Nigeria wouldn’t learn until you leave your country to go and disgrace and embarrass yourself and your generation in the western world

Thank you !! They don't understand social cues of the West at all. That's why they always make a mess of themselves and eventually have to find a wife from back home.

Over here, we're taught to smile, make small talk and eye contact. But immigrant men don't get it and think it's an invitation to approach. Or they think you're being cheap.

Dem go japa finish com begin fantasize about white girls punna over there.......The only idea wen dey ring for their head na how to straff white punna.

If you check very well, you would see that the guy was already lusting on that UK lady.

If the lady had told him politely that she hasnt got a dick in her pvssy, next thing the Nigerian guyman from Ojuelegba would start to devise a means to get his own deeq in there first.

I thought that's what people do abroad all the time, talk about se..x

wrongnumber:


What useless culture?

You all should stop saying trash.

These ladies are manipulative. A harmless question can be twisted.

No,I am serious. Find out about the culture.

Remember when you go abroad, you are a stranger in a strange land. And all these foreign countries treat foreigners one kind. They are looking at you one kind. At the end of the day, if you are not careful, problem go start.

After all, even here in Nigeria that we have different tribes, people know that you cannot do X in some parts of Nigeria and Y in other parts of Nigeria.

Welcome to the real world. People have differing ideas unfortunately. Be careful as you jakpa, oga.

She should have get him arrested, why would you be asking such a stupid question? fvck your own and leave the rest for others to fvck

Rickmann:


That guy is a disgrace. Dude forgot he is in a country and society where the law allows women to wield more power than men. she can easily accuse him of harassment or even rape and he ll rot in prison for something he didn't even do.
He is a complete idiot.

Their laws are rubbish . . And that is why their system is crashing in the UK and gradually in US too. .

Anything built around women is built upon an unstable base / foundation that is geared by emotions which can easily be manipulated and most often twisted in dirtiness of mind and evil. .

greenermodels:
you weren't there so you can't conclude, you can't know what transpired, the lady might have talked or behaved in a way that gave rise to that question, you would be surprised by the number of British ladies that would ask a black man if he has a big dick or even ask to see it, family and friends would even ask your white girlfriend if she's with you because of your big dick. We can only know what transpired by hearing the guy's side of the story, you can't judge from only the ladies account.

No matter what transpired, the guy is a shameless he-goat for asking that sort of inappropriate question

When you go to an organized society, you will learn the hard way.

I'm proud of the babe.

Basicend:


Their laws are rubbish . . And that is why their system is crashing in the UK and gradually in US too. .

Anything built around women is built upon an unstable base / foundation that is geared by emotions which can easily be manipulated and most often twisted in dirtiness of mind and evil. .

Just know that as you think their laws are rubbish, they too think your laws are rubbish.

The thing is, when you go abroad, you have to do as they do abroad to an extent. You have to find out about the dos and don'ts

Like now, if you were going to Saudi , would you go with a bible to start preaching the word to Saudis on the street., or carry beer and drink it on the streets of Saudi.? Or would you go to Russia and stand in Moscow and shout that Putin is a thief and a liar, out loud?

Or would a white man come to Kano, here in Nigeria, and kiss his gay husband on the street of the old city of Kano?

If you want to change their laws, then do what it takes to become a citizen, and then agitate for that. Othwerwise, as a guest, you got to follow the rules.

etrange:
And someone is on there supporting him. He said it's a harmless question. So they should sit down and starting discussing if she has had sex? Honestly, the way some of these guys think is just irritating. They are all over Nairaland hiding thier perversion and obsession behind thier anti-women comments. Morning, afternoon and night, they're thinking of women; creating ridiculous threads left, right and center. Very promiscuous bunch.

Those guys are Tinubu supporters. You can imagine

Something must have led to it before the dude asked her such a question. He can't just ask her that without any conversation leading to that.

McStoic:


So she being a female shares a flat with a male? No one is taking note of that..

That is the culture. Women and men can live together and nothing happens. I've lived with 3 men before.

Same foolish lots are the ones giving Nigeria bad name out there and will be the ones calling Nigeria "sh*t hole"
U can imagine the Indian asking if the guy isn't from India

Before you relocate to the west, there are certain questions and remarks you must be try to shun from.
You don't compliment a person by telling them that they are enjoying because they are fat or chubby.Ladies especially are very emotional and sensitive, you don't talk or make remarks about sexual things to them when you are stranger.You can loose a job just by so.
Hope the brothers learned a lesson.

Curse777:
Sexual predator hunting for prey... Will the guy be comfortable if some random strangers ask his own daughter or wife if they her virgin or if they have tight vagina

What if Bobrisky also grab the guys dick and ask how big it is

PaulNwosu:
You see this current batch of slaves that just arrived the UK from Naija, many of them will end up in jail.

Always acting like they are sex starved. One was just jailed today for raping an 18 years old girl 6 weeks after arriving UK.

Bharekta:
A 21-year-old student has sent her Flatmate [male Nigerian student ] packing for asking her an intrusive question whilst she was only trying to make him comfortable.

This is one sided. She didn’t tell us the conversation that led to that question. He can’t just ask you that question from the blues

Bharekta:
A 21-year-old student has sent her Flatmate [male Nigerian student ] packing for asking her an intrusive question whilst she was only trying to make him comfortable.

She may have done something that made him ask her such question.
How is she helping him to feel comfortable ?

I'm happy she reported and he's getting moved so we don't have to hear he raped her


Some Nigerian men will have to learn the hard way outside the shores of Nigeria where they can get away with everything nasty they do.

Lol. Everybody dey shalaye and fight on a post that have been confirmed not true.

It's a catfish account doing the stupidity they are meant for on twitter. They even brought out receipts where the same claimed yankee woman dropped naija account number (with a male name) for giveaway sometimes ago

The mod who allowed this on the frontpage is just a anyhow person looking for traffic for the site without confirm the credibility of the story.

I miss the old nairaland fp tbvh. Just yeye news every now and then on here these days. Seun please don't allow anyhow people mud your great work.

I don't know if I'm being conservative but why is her flatmate male? I definitely won't be comfortable with such an arrangement.

She never answer the question. Has deeeeiiiik been in her vagina?😯🙂.

Before going abroad, you need to know many things.

1. Be careful with women
2. Avoid the female gender if you can
3. Flee from oyinbo women
4. Respect yourself when it comes to women
5. Women problem can get you deported carelessly.

Ok we need to hear the guy's side of the story as well
I don't trust this h0€$

Bharekta:
A 21-year-old student has sent her Flatmate [male Nigerian student ] packing for asking her an intrusive question whilst she was only trying to make him comfortable.

I wont be surprised if the man is one of the headless mobs

The guy na Swine.

Ishilove:
I don't know if I'm being conservative but why is her flatmate male? I definitely won't be comfortable with such an arrangement.

Here in UK you can share flats regardless of the gender.

A flat can have 4 rooms and sharing is common especially around students.

I also know first hand how manipulative their ladies can be.

That Nigerian boy representing us in a bad way is a disgrace. He should be thanking God he's lucky it didn't generate to rape or assault. Moreso, is he so dumb to judge the girl as someone who's in to giving cheap sex?
Girls like these are traps to men. Especially to blacks or any successful man. See her name, h&llokitty4eva6 meaning Hello Kitty Forever 6.
Some boys need to control their sexual urge else their destiny ll be cut short!
Who knows what the dragging may degenerate into now?
UK wey no dey play with sexual matters!

The6thAustralia:
they just want to use Nigeria to trend. And for a fact, you can't have your flat mate to be moved

See this one… go and live with a female in an apartment abroad and ask her intrusive questions and see if they won’t butt you out of that apartment.

Na why dem dey easily accuse you Nigerian men abroad of rape and sexual assault because it is always difficult to prove your innocence because of the way you people are so perverted!!