Amotolongbo:

The guy is a he-goat who thinks every gesture from a lady is seductive and an inviting sign for sexual activity.

In case you don’t know, most ladies in UK give you some smiles, chat and activities to make you feel very comfortable, that is the courtesy they have been trained to have since childhood, though fake and not sincere. If any lady does that in Nigeria, it will definitely be seen as a romantic invitation from a girl. That is the natural British way, unlike the American girls.

The foolish guy thought the lady was “falling” for him, hence the audacity to ask her that question.
The guy is even lucky that the lady didn’t report the case to the authority, then he will understand how to comport in a strange land

Many of you in Nigeria wouldn’t learn until you leave your country to go and disgrace and embarrass yourself and your generation in the western world

Amotolongbo:

The guy is a he-goat who thinks every gesture from a lady is seductive and an inviting sign for sexual activity.

In case you don’t know, most ladies in UK give you some smiles, chat and activities to make you feel very comfortable, that is the courtesy they have been trained to have since childhood, though fake and not sincere. If any lady does that in Nigeria, it will definitely be seen as a romantic invitation from a girl. That is the natural British way, unlike the American girls.

The foolish guy thought the lady was “falling” for him, hence the audacity to ask her that question.
The guy is even lucky that the lady didn’t report the case to the authority, then he will understand how to comport in a strange land

Many of you in Nigeria wouldn’t learn until you leave your country to go and disgrace and embarrass yourself and your generation in the western world

Biglittlelois:



You do not need to generalise because of one person's mistake, it also shows how limited your IQ is.

PaulOtl:
Omo, all of you (especially the ladies on here ) saying that most of you Naija men won't know bla bla till you go abroad and interact with their girls, then you'll know this and that, are just generalizing this thing, jareh.

Not everyone is the same. Some girls will not say " pim " when you address them in a certain way that a Nigerian girl would ordinarily think is only tolerated by them (the Nigerian females).
Since I have lived in the UK before, and have dated, I have the right to state my own observations here.

Are you a virgin was not a question the lady in this article tolerated, but some other white girl will find it tolerable. There's no smoke without fire. What led to it? Were they messing around with lewd jokes. We only heard from one side, and not the other.
Then again, the lady could be a lesbian and a feminist who doesn't condone any nonsense jokes from male folks. We may never know the true picture of things, as far as this case is concerned.
Another angle to loom at it from is that the girl may not find the guy attractive (financially and physically) and was irritated by any form of familiarity that the guy was trying to initiate, hence, the immediate ridiculing.

I don't care what anyone of you says, I'm still going to end up settle down with a non-African lady as my life partner. From experience, they were my best relationships. So to all of you saying " shey you people see that they don't tolerate bla bla bla, they are not is (Nigerian women) that you talk to anyhow and we'll accept it and feel demoralized..." I'm not bothered. Everyone has their own methods of making their affairs work. Some of us ain't newbies in the foreign dating scene ( make out whatever you want to make about this, na you sabi ).

I don't need your quotes or mentions. Neither do I need you likes. Save the back and forth...I know it's hard to resist, especially if my opinion doesn't sit well with yours on this subject.

walozanga:
Madam Comfortable, what lead to the question

Eniitankorede:
Sheer stupidity. Has he ever seen a virgin in maternity ward? A country where girls are being disvirgined at 8 years is what he is asking a grown up whether she’s a virgin? I will give him a million dollars if he sees virgin of that age in UK or anywhere in the west.

Thundafireseun:


Like I said earlier there are 3 sides to every story

1… Her side
2… His side
3… The truth…
Ode please learn to read in between the lines…

We can’t be chatting about a movie for example… then from no where I ask you if you are a virgin….it doesn’t make sense

Except we were chatting about porn … then you shouldn’t feel bad if I ask if you are a virgin

I know you still won’t comprehend my point ODE

etrange:
And someone is on there supporting him. He said it's a harmless question. So they should sit down and starting discussing if she has had sex? Honestly, the way some of these guys think is just irritating. They are all over Nairaland hiding thier perversion and obsession behind thier anti-women comments. Morning, afternoon and night, they're thinking of women; creating ridiculous threads left, right and center. Very promiscuous bunch.

Thundafireseun:
Very simple question

Yes I’m a virgin…. No I’m not a virgin

You didn’t tell us how you were trying to make him feel comfortable… buh you rushed to social media to tell us the part where he asked about your sexuality

Fear daughter’s of EVE …. They are always playing the victim card

Modified… reminds me of the song 🎵 No woman No cry

Eniitankorede:
Sheer stupidity. Has he ever seen a virgin in maternity ward? A country where girls are being disvirgined at 8 years is what he is asking a grown up whether she’s a virgin? I will give him a million dollars if he sees virgin of that age in UK or anywhere in the west.

PaulOtl:

The story is half-baked... Trying to make the fella comfortable...Were you supposed to be intimidating to him in the first place? Or what exactly was she trying to do...
Such a condescending kind of approach.aybe she expected the brother to be intimidated or humbled by her presence ( as a foreign chick, lol ), but guy man was rather outspoken and gave her a piece of his obscene mind instead
Chia...Naija I hail y'all. No chills.

Thundafireseun:

ur father
You too have sense

Did you ask what they were Discussing in the first place??
Learn to ask reasonable questions about a problem before jumping into conclusions like a goat that you are

IbnB:


You're stupìd too if you disregard cleear evidence in favour of racial pride

You're part of the problem -generally low IQ engendered by mental laziness and selfishness

1Sharon:


Since you said you live in the UK, you've either chosen not to integrate or you're new.

You should know that white men hardly ask that kind of question. It's often african or Arab men that obsess over things like that.

You should know what she means by making him comfortable. She was probably smiling too much at him and he mistook that as invitation to approach her and start misbehaving. Not just Nigerian but immigrant Indian men are not used to women being friendly to them. That's why they're the demographic that's often charged with crimes. That's just the truth abeg.

Wujio:




Will you keep quiet dia or i blow up your phone. Who are you to label a question as peoples obsession. If uoure a hoe, deal with it. Let same people seeking other sane people ask whatever question it pleases them to ask

1Sharon:


How much do you have in your account?

How big is your dick?

Amotolongbo:

The guy is a he-goat who thinks every gesture from a lady is seductive and an inviting sign for sexual activity.

In case you don’t know, most ladies in UK give you some smiles, chat and activities to make you feel very comfortable, that is the courtesy they have been trained to have since childhood, though fake and not sincere. If any lady does that in Nigeria, it will definitely be seen as a romantic invitation from a girl. That is the natural British way, unlike the American girls.

The foolish guy thought the lady was “falling” for him, hence the audacity to ask her that question.
The guy is even lucky that the lady didn’t report the case to the authority, then he will understand how to comport in a strange land

Many of you in Nigeria wouldn’t learn until you leave your country to go and disgrace and embarrass yourself and your generation in the western world

Wujio:



Enough to buy your entire lineage stugot

oz4real83:
Why do most ladies that make accusations against men behave the same way? After posting their accusations, they will post sexually-suggestive\explicit pictures by the side of their accusations? Mason greenwood accuser, Antony accuser, Ronaldinho accuser, Daniel Alves accuser, this UK accuser, Thomas Partey's accuser, Ryan Gigg's accuser, Benjamin Mendy's accusers and so many other female accusers, the same format of posts

1Sharon:


Since you said you live in the UK, you've either chosen not to integrate or you're new.

You should know that white men hardly ask that kind of question. It's often african or Arab men that obsess over things like that.

You should know what she means by making him comfortable. She was probably smiling too much at him and he mistook that as invitation to approach her and start misbehaving. Not just Nigerian but immigrant Indian men are not used to women being friendly to them. That's why they're the demographic that's often charged with crimes. That's just the truth abeg.

Not just women, but people in Nigeria hardly smile at others.

The6thAustralia:


Sex is normal and infact its not a strange factor... It's funny people believe whatever they read on the internet

Bharekta:
A 21-year-old student has sent her Flatmate [male Nigerian student ] packing for asking her an intrusive question whilst she was only trying to make him comfortable.