izonborn098:
Reality don dey dawn on this one small small...
Married women hardly comment or create thread on nairaland.... It is well...
Madam no too stress urself, it is not ur fault...

omoh.......una go jst make people daughter dey cry for here.

IconicR:
I wonder what's the big deal about age30 for women
Well I should be done having my kids before that age sha.

Madam 66
Gisos, Many Lai Alabi Mohammed online nowadays

DonroxyII:
Madam 66
Gisos, Many Lai Alabi Mohammed online nowadays

hahaha 🤣🤣🤣 so you actually believed I'm 66

IconicR:
hahaha 🤣🤣🤣 so you actually believed I'm 66

Lol, I know you are bantering , It seems You are also a recent Grad, Which state you Serve ?

Persephone1:
Nairaland guys have carried the thread on head like agege bread

The gender that doesn't benefits from marriage seems to be the one trying to convince and bully the other gender into marriage.

I tire for Nairaland guys

actually they are. Not convincing you, stop playing.

Lemme tell u what is happening, they are happy seeing u becoming evening newspapers, but when u show some sign of strength to lift the pressure they become disappointed cus they want to always see the pressure on you.

Not that they want to marry you or they want u to marry, they just simply want to see you depressed for the lack of man, so if u come outside to sound like u don't care then they attack u cus they know its either u re lying (98% true) or you re falling off their grips

Animegirl:
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair or a guarantee of happiness or a secured future.

Singleness also has its own benefits while it lasts, but some ladies would rather remain in an abusive relationship or courtship just because they believe they are running out of time and that age is no longer on their side.

Ladies approaching their late 20s and reaching 30 or even 40 think that it should not be heard that they do not have a boyfriend or suitor. Come on, ladies, don't be deceived by any man that you're getting old without children. There are kids out there who want a mother; you can adopt and still live a happy life. Don't be deceived that your beauty will fade away once you clock a certain age, these are lies!

Getting married is not a guarantee you will make it to heaven; we are all going to die, and we won't possibly remember our families we left here on earth.

In fact, there are opportunities for you to engage in, such as further studies, volunteering in social activities that are beneficial to other people, among others. You get to make connections without limiting yourself.

In fact, why most men want you to marry so quickly is because they are scared of the woman you shall become without them.

I'm not saying you shouldn't marry, but don't be pressured by what people say. As you achieve a level of success without a man, you will realize how much you don't need a man to be happy. Please, ladies, live your life for you.

My humble submission

So to u all married couples are in pain. Don't use your unsuccessful relationship to judge all relationships

Rant of an ENP

Persephone1:
Lol everybody with unnecessary pressure

My dear I don't even know why all these pressures.
I've been reading comments on many different topics and I come to conclude that people are really trying to live up to everyone's expectations, when clearly all u need is your own life and pace.
Nairaland has turned to a Battle ground for hate, abuse, gender abuse and etc

Is better they remain single and still be successful than to become tiger in the house after wedding.

Animegirl:
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair or a guarantee of happiness or a secured future.

Singleness also has its own benefits while it lasts, but some ladies would rather remain in an abusive relationship or courtship just because they believe they are running out of time and that age is no longer on their side.

Ladies approaching their late 20s and reaching 30 or even 40 think that it should not be heard that they do not have a boyfriend or suitor. Come on, ladies, don't be deceived by any man that you're getting old without children. There are kids out there who want a mother; you can adopt and still live a happy life. Don't be deceived that your beauty will fade away once you clock a certain age, these are lies!

Getting married is not a guarantee you will make it to heaven; we are all going to die, and we won't possibly remember our families we left here on earth.

In fact, there are opportunities for you to engage in, such as further studies, volunteering in social activities that are beneficial to other people, among others. You get to make connections without limiting yourself.

In fact, why most men want you to marry so quickly is because they are scared of the woman you shall become without them.

I'm not saying you shouldn't marry, but don't be pressured by what people say. As you achieve a level of success without a man, you will realize how much you don't need a man to be happy. Please, ladies, live your life for you.

My humble submission

When i see Young girls from 16 to 22 years wasting their time dating their age mates or doing hookups.... i laugh at them!!!

Smart girls know that they don't have time to waste, so you see them keeping their virginities intact while looking for a serious older dude that will wife them!!!

Before you say jack, they're already hooked and wifed up... then they begin to grow with their husbands both academically, financially and otherwise ♂️

But the stupid ones are all dating yahoo boys, jumping from one club to the another, loosing the sweetness of their pussies in stupid relationships then in their 30's they begin to look for pity!!!! When they are scattered🤦🏾‍♂️

Life is cash in cash out my dear⚠️

Animegirl:
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair or a guarantee of happiness or a secured future.

Singleness also has its own benefits while it lasts, but some ladies would rather remain in an abusive relationship or courtship just because they believe they are running out of time and that age is no longer on their side.

Ladies approaching their late 20s and reaching 30 or even 40 think that it should not be heard that they do not have a boyfriend or suitor. Come on, ladies, don't be deceived by any man that you're getting old without children. There are kids out there who want a mother; you can adopt and still live a happy life. Don't be deceived that your beauty will fade away once you clock a certain age, these are lies!

Getting married is not a guarantee you will make it to heaven; we are all going to die, and we won't possibly remember our families we left here on earth.

In fact, there are opportunities for you to engage in, such as further studies, volunteering in social activities that are beneficial to other people, among others. You get to make connections without limiting yourself.

In fact, why most men want you to marry so quickly is because they are scared of the woman you shall become without them.

I'm not saying you shouldn't marry, but don't be pressured by what people say. As you achieve a level of success without a man, you will realize how much you don't need a man to be happy. Please, ladies, live your life for you.

My humble submission

How old are you? Prolly in your early twenties . Don't worry . You'll grow up too

Evestar200:
You people pressure yourself too much

Nigerians and unnecessary pressure are like Siamese twins joined at the head...in most cases inseparable.

OyeofIkoTuN:
Dey play....
You won't be here typing trash if your daddy didn't play with your mummy or your mother decided to take your trashy ideas.
Spits

Abeg get away with this your trash reasoning. Na because empty headed individuals that think as you do that millions of Nigerian children, are born and abandoned on the streets to fend for themselves, many turning to prostitution and crime as last resort.

victory36:
■ It's 2023, I don't know why people not just women are still so worried about marriage in a world where you can be what you want to be despite your gender. People should rather direct that energy to achieving their personal dreams rather than hinging your happiness and fulfillment on another individual who might even turn out to be the worst person you'll ever meet.

That country would go places if even 1/10000th of the people would reason that way. Sadly, majority of these people have their brain in their loins and can't seem to reason much beyond that.

BItt:
■ Humans are not meant to be lonely, if you have no intention to be lonely and depressed at your old age, it's best you get married.
■ And it's best you get married while still young but since life has no definite path, if you can't get married at an age lower than 30, just make sure you work and have money, men will come

That is actually q lie you were programmed to believe by those equally driven by fear of loneliness. The funny is many of them still end up lonely in their old age since marriage and childbearing is not meant as a cure for loneliness.

2. No such thing either. There are folks who got married in their old age and are doing just find, in some cases, even better many who got married young. The thing is there are no set in stone formulary to these things.

One thing I do know however is that it is better to be single and at peace than to be surrounded by many yet miserable.

Kobojunkie:
Abeg get away with this your trash reasoning. Na because empty headed individuals that think as you do that millions of Nigerian children, are born and abandoned on the streets to fend for themselves, many turning to prostitution and crime as last resort.

Another loafer... Simp

Spits. TUeh

OyeofIkoTuN:
■ Another loafer... Simp. Spits. TUeh

Look at this preprogrammed robot deceiving himself.

Kobojunkie:
Look at this preprogrammed robot deceiving himself.

Dry joke....try harder. For woman only, you can never see the disgraceful simp on important issues

Woman wrapper....eleribu

Taaaa gbafuo .I pass you scatter

OyeofIkoTuN:
■ Dry joke....try harder. For woman only, you can never see the disgraceful simp on important issues

Woman wrapper

How can it be dry when it aptly describes you and your ilk?

Kobojunkie:
How can it be dry when it aptly describes you and your ilk?

Dey play..

Umu ipka....children of the poor

OyeofIkoTuN:
Dey play..
Umu ipka....children of the poor

You are indeed a preprogrammed robot....unable to think outside of your the box you were given
ROFLMAO

At 30+ woman go begin visit all manner of fellowship, church service make she secure her man


All the nice guys she rejected just for nights with the bad guys

Kobojunkie:
I am indeed a preprogrammed robot like my dad....unable to think outside of the box i was given
ROFLMAO

Exactly what I said before about weak Simpsons like yourself..

Hehehehehehehehehehe

OyeofIkoTuN:
■ Exactly what I said before about weak Simpsons like yourself..

Hehehehehehehehehehe

Ignorance remains bliss to the preprogrammed Nigerian, it seems!

Kobojunkie:
Ignorance remains bliss to the preprogrammed Nigerian, it seems!

The OYE is always here for you......All this trashy quotes of yours didn't uplift your life, what's the essence of dishing them out abi your papa na Togo

Cope for ladies still waiting for Mr. Right. Don't worry wait more you will me Mr Right in Heaven.

Persephone1:
Lol everybody with unnecessary pressure

pressure is everywhere even in family setting.

Any 30+ woman that has not yet secured a man should look for sniper and do the needful

Because why TF can't you attract man ??

It's better they remained unmarried than to become tiger in the house

Evening Newspapers consoling themselves

definitely not bt u need to start asking urself serious questions if u have plans for marriage.

I'm not saying marriage is compulsory bt if u have plans for marriage.