UnfairLife7:
You know nothing man

Biblically it is accepted if you chose not to get married. It is not against God's wish neither did you commit any crime. Go and read your Bible to understand better

Besides, where did you ever hear that if you didn't marry nor have kids you will suffer at old age? Have you not seen old people suffering despite having children? I have seen old people suffering because their children are also poor. Na pikin wey get dey take care of their parents

UnemployedGradu:
please don't put pressure on yourself in marrying early. The economy is bad. I am 28 years graduated from school since 2017, did Nysc 2018/2019. I have been jobless for the past 4 years. Won 390k in bet9ja used it to start laptop and phone repair in Kano state but everything scrambled. Kano is just somehow. I left Kano to Ibadan just to hustle now. Ibadan isn't easy oh. See am not pushing pressure on myself because I have never had a girlfriend for the past 4 years. I would advice you not to put pressure on yourself to marry, just follow your pace. Everyone has different destinies.

jackmrandy:



Let me tell you one thing , even if you like get all the money in this world as a woman, get the best career and profession, investments, if you don't have a child or not looking to have one some day, your whole effort on earth is wasted. As you will not be remembered for anything once you are gone finally and there will be no one to take over your legacy.

AroOkigbo:

Are you over 30? Are you married?

tuzle:
I can't even pressure myself at all. Me that I know what I do to feed myself alone, i will now go and add another person to my bill again, no that can't happen.

jaeyking:
Men crossing age 30 and not owning a house and car is not the end of the world

Persephone1:
Lol everybody with unnecessary pressure

Evestar200:
You people pressure yourself too much

Cromagnon:
don't worry old age is coming
You will learn The hard way

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


The way I ride my above 30 years old side chicks eeh. You will hate me if you are a lady.

Sometime I Pity their future husbands if they eventually find one unlucky chief.

I leave this ladies with a mark & title to remember called 'Empress Reservior Kpekus' (E.R.K1).

Evestar200:
I wish you the same.

I wonder what's the big deal about age30 for women
Well I should be done having my kids before that age sha.

Mayeldah:
All these one man one wife follow cause this problem

Christianity is the greatest contributor of this malaise! Men who can marry two or more should be encouraged

btw, I am Christian, don't quote me if you ain't saying anything nice

Evestar200:
I wish you the same.

Animegirl:
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair or a guarantee of happiness or a secured future.

Singleness also has its own benefits while it lasts, but some ladies would rather remain in an abusive relationship or courtship just because they believe they are running out of time and that age is no longer on their side.

Ladies approaching their late 20s and reaching 30 or even 40 think that it should not be heard that they do not have a boyfriend or suitor. Come on, ladies, don't be deceived by any man that you're getting old without children. There are kids out there who want a mother; you can adopt and still live a happy life. Don't be deceived that your beauty will fade away once you clock a certain age, these are lies!

Getting married is not a guarantee you will make it to heaven; we are all going to die, and we won't possibly remember our families we left here on earth.

In fact, there are opportunities for you to engage in, such as further studies, volunteering in social activities that are beneficial to other people, among others. You get to make connections without limiting yourself.

In fact, why most men want you to marry so quickly is because they are scared of the woman you shall become without them.

I'm not saying you shouldn't marry, but don't be pressured by what people say. As you achieve a level of success without a man, you will realize how much you don't need a man to be happy. Please, ladies, live your life for you.

My humble submission

Persephone1:
Nairaland guys have carried the thread on head like agege bread

The gender that doesn't benefits from marriage seems to be the one trying to convince and bully the other gender into marriage.

I tire for Nairaland guys

jackmrandy:





my post is not evil and also its not intended to shame anyone. facts are different from opinions. everything stated are facts and not opinion. Talking about adoption, even the child you adopted a day will come when the truth will surface and the child will start looking for his or her true parents. This generation we are now, we need not to sugar coat anything. say it the way it is, you need to be strong to survive this era we are now. And talking about those going to get married just because they want to be called mrs, are they blind that the person they want to marry have some flaws they don't like? don't be blinded by love. Out of 10 there is one that have something that she needs and ready to standy by her if she brings her self down to that person.

DND069:


The last part is funny: have money and men will come 😅. This world is too competitive.

Adulthood is a trap!

dealerman:
My sincere opinion to this post are as follows:
Any lady that is past 30yrs of age and still single are due to the following reasons.
1. MOST ladies on these categories are not wife material. There attitudes will discourage you about marriage.
2. They are either too materialistic, irrespsonsible, proud or arrogant.
3. Not yet ready to be under the control of any man. These category are called "The Boss Ladies"
4. Only but a few are under a spell or bound down by spiritual/diabolic powers. They are the list of about 3% of the catagory of ladies past 30yrs and still single.

dealerman:
My sincere opinion to this post are as follows:
Any lady that is past 30yrs of age and still single are due to the following reasons.
1. MOST ladies on these categories are not wife material. There attitudes will discourage you about marriage.
2. They are either too materialistic, irrespsonsible, proud or arrogant.
3. Not yet ready to be under the control of any man. These category are called "The Boss Ladies"
4. Only but a few are under a spell or bound down by spiritual/diabolic powers. They are the list of about 3% of the catagory of ladies past 30yrs and still single.

Persephone1:
Nairaland guys have carried the thread on head like agege bread

The gender that doesn't benefits from marriage seems to be the one trying to convince and bully the other gender into marriage.

I tire for Nairaland guys

dealerman:
My sincere opinion to this post are as follows:
Any lady that is past 30yrs of age and still single are due to the following reasons.
1. MOST ladies on these categories are not wife material. There attitudes will discourage you about marriage.
2. They are either too materialistic, irrespsonsible, proud or arrogant.
3. Not yet ready to be under the control of any man. These category are called "The Boss Ladies"
4. Only but a few are under a spell or bound down by spiritual/diabolic powers. They are the list of about 3% of the catagory of ladies past 30yrs and still single.