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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by BigYash: 6:24am On Oct 11, 2023
She should get the one her money can afford.. If you finally marry her,na so she go dey pressure you?
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Nobody: 6:38am On Oct 11, 2023
O tseba eng ka dilo tsa marato wena? grin grin grin
BigYash:
She should get the one her money can afford.. If you finally marry her,na so she go dey pressure you?
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by BigYash: 6:40am On Oct 11, 2023
Samantha124:
O tseba eng ka dilo tsa marato wena? grin grin grin
Samantha what exactly is the issue? Go straight to the point?

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Nobody: 6:48am On Oct 11, 2023
Akere o rile ke bolele leleme la ko gae, bjale ke a le bolela...😂😂😂
BigYash:
Samantha what exactly is the issue? Go straight to the point?
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by kakaaa77: 7:05am On Oct 11, 2023
too me there's only one option' on to the next one, at the age of 31 you can't get your priorities right as a lady I don't think you will ever get it right again,

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by lordnkem000(m): 8:10am On Oct 11, 2023
Guys we're truly going through alot in the hands of today girls.
My happiness be say most of them get brothers too and another girl go do same to their brothers

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:45am On Oct 11, 2023
Kooldon:
I love guys that are making their women happy no matter how difficult it looks. OP send me your aza so that I send the 80k to you. Pls dont tell her that your gf gave you


No man has to displease himself in order to please a a lady, that's a wrong ideology.

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:49am On Oct 11, 2023
Gaspardd:
All my relationships, I always make it clear from the beginning that I work as a grass cutter in my company. The ones wey go stay, their billing no dey pass 2k.


Hahahaha, this is lovely.

The gold diggers will naturally run away.

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by koladata(m): 10:04am On Oct 11, 2023
lol
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Angrigowt: 10:06am On Oct 11, 2023
My iPhone 13 sef hardly goes out. Ever since I lost my 350k worth of iPhone.men my eye tear.

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 10:09am On Oct 11, 2023
As an experience master,na so one bin tell me to complete money for her to buy iPhone.she was not my gf because I never asked her out..we just started knacking after she worry my life so much.i tell am say I go give am 20k.she pick serious offence .I kuku keep my money.i happy die. grin

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by 6ixVille: 3:17pm On Oct 11, 2023
Why the blackmailing tho...the entitlement mentality is what drives me nuts when it comes to dealing with an average naija babe, especially when they offer nothing.

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by obaidan: 3:19pm On Oct 11, 2023
Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.
In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.
I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.
She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.
She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.
dey whine yourself...something wey u go still buy..if u no ready buy am, u no go open thread to disturb us.
meanwhile are u sure she's even serious with you, 31yr old ladies put pressure on their guys for marriage, your own 31 yrs old dey put pressure on you for iphone...oga u sef think am na

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Skindiveaa7: 3:19pm On Oct 11, 2023
😂😂 I doubt if better woman still they say, Eberything now an beneficial
advanceDNA:


Oh..u even use a 90k phone??.....hahahahaha she obviously doesn't give a fvck... Na baddie u dey follow roll...

Of course they don't think.... Why would they bother to think when they want to spend money they didn't work for.

Women are very smart ...they understand money is hard to see and will hardlly spend their hard earned money on phones, wigs and the likes

The day babe tell me make i give am 60k make she for add by wig....I tell am I nor get for now...the wéréy tell me say make she lend me the 60k now..say when I collect salary I go pay am back....Na that day I don't understand how these modern babes dey reason....

Baba..just relax ...u go meet better woman ...Dem not too plenty oooo ..but if you no too focus on big yansh, bobbiii, olosho vibes, artificial beauty with bucket of paint for face, u go jam better woman

Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Kutunban: 3:19pm On Oct 11, 2023
Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.



Ditch her you'll appreciate your decision.
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by kuntash: 3:23pm On Oct 11, 2023
Godoverevery:


Bro...... came back from church one Sunday and met an empty kitchen with some of my properties gone.

Guy I think you might need to check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Even though phone pressure from women are almost a normal these days , but if you smell desperation, move !

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by 6ixVille: 3:23pm On Oct 11, 2023
Relax comrade lol
Nicepoker:
Op move this topic to crime section first.
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by KillahPriest: 3:24pm On Oct 11, 2023
Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.


if you're not ready for a relationship then don't go into one. If you can't spend money on a woman you claim to love then who will you spend it on ? You're even lucky she has most of the cash already, why can't you just give her the 70/80k balance ? If you don't have it then tell her it's not available. I no dey understand guys of nowadays I swear

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by obaidan: 3:25pm On Oct 11, 2023
BigYash:
She should get the one her money can afford.. If you finally marry her,na so she go dey pressure you?

she no ready marry d guy...she jus dey use d guy fund her lifestyle

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by BigYash: 3:27pm On Oct 11, 2023
obaidan:


she no ready marry d guy...she jus dey use d guy fund her lifestyle
Truth

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by emkz: 3:28pm On Oct 11, 2023
After buying her iPhone Promax, be prepared to sponsor her birthday. After sponsoring her birthday, get ready to pay her brother's yahoo yahoo training initiation fees. After that, you'd bear the cost of her great-grandfather's friend's inlaw's 57th year death anniversary.

Then one day, you'd have sense. That is the day of your liberation from relationship manipulation.

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Munzy14(m): 3:30pm On Oct 11, 2023
Godoverevery:


Bro...... came back from church one Sunday and met an empty kitchen with some of my properties gone.
And you are currently dating same type of woman..

You may wake up one Sunday and realize say she don move you enter village..🤣🤣🤣🤣

Use your head.. A 31year old lady that is still thrilled by an Outdated Mere cellphone is terrible.

What will 21yr old ladies do then?.

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by happney65: 3:34pm On Oct 11, 2023
Why would you be dating a 31 year old in the first place and talking about changing phones? Why?

An evening newspaper for that matter. Na so one of my guy told me he was dating a 37year old too and that she still dey do wayre just like your case too. I was like what is wrong with you?

Habaa!

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Godoverevery: 3:37pm On Oct 11, 2023
Munzy14:

And you are currently dating same type of woman..

You may wake up one Sunday and realize say she don move you enter village..🤣🤣🤣🤣

Use your head.. A 31year old lady that is still thrilled by an Outdated Mere cellphone is terrible.

What will 21yr old ladies do then?.

My brother.........am just tired.

She came over to my place yesterday night unannounced and I told her my mind straight up.

This lady actually told me she asked me cos she wants to be faithful!!!!.....lol

She left this morning without saying goodbye and I hope that the end.

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by adonaimart(m): 3:38pm On Oct 11, 2023
;Na her second cum meet u so, so run grin grin
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by judeolokor(m): 3:38pm On Oct 11, 2023
bro u have said it all u should expect more mature things from a 31 year old
by now her conserns should off materialistics things
and you def call am sidon talk better sense for her head rfactory rest her brain
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Wealthoptulent(m): 3:39pm On Oct 11, 2023
Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.



Na ur own CALLLING BE That OGA, na Upgrade class u dey RUN
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Chetas81(m): 3:39pm On Oct 11, 2023
Kasdat5:
Before I give my advice , tell me how the last case ended . Inflation don make advice don cost dis days o.
YOU GUYS WON'T FINISH US WITH LAUGHING COMMENT ON NAIRALAND

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Chetas81(m): 3:40pm On Oct 11, 2023
Wealthoptulent:


Na ur own CALLLING BE That OGA, na Upgrade class u dey RUN
from Instagram messenger
Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by Godoverevery: 3:41pm On Oct 11, 2023
happney65:
Why would you be dating a 31 year old in the first place and talking about changing phones? Why?

An evening newspaper for that matter. Na so one of my guy told me he was dating a 37year old too and that she still dey do wayre just like your case too. I was like what is wrong with you?

Habaa!

Shabi i think say 31yr old go dan see life and be more matured.

Nah her parents cos am.

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Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by TrainPark: 3:44pm On Oct 11, 2023
Godoverevery:
Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now.
She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money.
She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met.

In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again.

I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office.

She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance.
From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice.

She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities.




A 31yrs old is too old for a meaningful relationship. She will just use you.

Don't spend money on a girl that you cannot afford to set on fire.

Bounce out of that relationship as if armaggedon is upon you.

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