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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by luminouz(m): 8:46am On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
Let somebody shout Hallelujah!!
Luminous said women can love!!! Hallelujah grin grin grin

Abi Nigerian women aren't women? Please explain now before I rejoice too much grin

Perse go away jor!!! Who is talking to you? Long mouth!!!
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by luminouz(m): 8:49am On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
This has nothing to do with SA men, but has everything to do with how you guys settle for leftovers when you get here and then lie to your fellow Nigerians in Nigeria of how most SA ladies go for you.

Even luminouz was already acting like the spokesperson of all SA ladies by generalizing just because of one SA lady he's been with... grin grin grin

The way you keep mentioning my name is weird. I'm done with the conversation na. I sha don tell you say I don't do leftovers, this Alpha male gets the best of women of any race. Now go cook some food for your boyfriend
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 8:56am On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


They can never pick a stand. Wasn't it same dude saying women are the same all over the world on that UK thread?? Now women can love because he wants us to believe one loved him.

Haqhaqhaq!!! grin grin grin
If you want to know how dull these guys are engage them before a post or two they are already uttering gibberish and contradictions. I thought I read the post upside down at first grin So luminous who believe all women are the same and incapable of genuine love is here trying to convince Sam that her fellow South African WOMAN loved him genuinely. Like what's that? Inferiority complex? Anxiety to always proof everybody wrong or he's yet to get the full grasp of his redpilling shiit? Lol grin grin grin

These people are dumb no be small grin grin . Funny enough let him drop such post on the redpill thread immediately after posting that all women are the same, the fools there will still cheer him up. grin grin grin .

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by PoloG: 8:57am On Nov 02, 2023
Lionessza6:


LMFAO. Very well, when are you going to start repairing that bruised ego ? grin grin
bruised ego? undecided

You think i care about ugly hiv carrying SA bitches like you? cheesy

Check my comment history, i barely remember that a country called SA exists

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 8:59am On Nov 02, 2023
luminouz:


Perse go away jor!!! Who is talking to you? Long mouth!!!
Are Nigerian women capable of love or we are the hybrid of human race . grin

You contradict yourself too much that sometimes I wonder if you don't see it.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 9:00am On Nov 02, 2023
Okay, Mr Spokesperson of all SA ladies...🀣🀣🀣
luminouz:


The way you keep mentioning my name is weird. I'm done with the conversation na. I sha don tell you say I don't do leftovers, this Alpha male gets the best of women of any race. Now go cook some food for your boyfriend

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by luminouz(m): 9:02am On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
Are Nigerian women capable of love or we are the hybrid of human race . grin

You contradict yourself too much that sometimes I wonder if you don't see it.

Date me first na and we will see!!! πŸ˜›

Your blood is always too hot!!! Take a chill pill biko. You already calling your partner for validation and insulting me join. Kai!!!
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Lionessza6(f): 9:03am On Nov 02, 2023
PoloG:
bruised ego? undecided

You think i care about ugly hiv carrying SA bitches like you? cheesy

Check my comment history, i barely remember that a country called SA exists

You're trying too hard grin grin grin grin.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by luminouz(m): 9:05am On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
If you want to know how dull these guys are engage them before a post or two they are already uttering gibberish and contradictions. I thought I read the post upside down at first grin So luminous who believe all women are the same and incapable of genuine love is here trying to convince Sam that her fellow South African WOMAN loved him genuinely. Like what's that? Inferiority complex? Anxiety to always proof everybody wrong or he's yet to get the full grasp of his redpilling shiit? Lol grin grin grin

These people are dumb no be small grin grin . Funny enough let him drop such post on the redpill thread immediately after posting that all women are the same, the fools there will still cheer him up. grin grin grin .

Here I was thinking we can have a chat devoid of insults and name-calling today.

My last reply.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nice2023(m): 9:06am On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
This has nothing to do with SA men, but has everything to do with how you guys settle for leftovers when you get here and then lie to your fellow Nigerians in Nigeria of how most SA ladies go for you.

Even luminouz was already acting like the spokesperson of all SA ladies by generalizing just because of one SA lady he's been with... grin grin grin


Left over yet u people get jealously angry when those women run after Nigerians.

Well,the only normal person in South Africa is Julius Malema.

U that I know have started losing ur senses.

Soon u will become a leftover like ur peers it's just a matter of time.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 9:07am On Nov 02, 2023
Lionessza6:



You said it all. This is why the most successful* marriages between black & white people are almost always black f vs white m. The white dudes go for the refined and independent among us but the opposite is the case for our brothers grin, they usually take what the white men are done with or never showed interest in and they will let us know about this rare find even if we show them we could care less grin grin. Some black dudes really need counselling, the white men really fckd them up and I don't see them recovering from this for atleast 3 centuries grin grin. Look at mentally chained slaves like Taye Diggs with all his money and recognition, when he married his second rate white woman he had to come for black women....throwing shades and all to strengthen his transactional marriage with massa daughter grin. Pathetic lots. It's very clear that most ain't dating the woman they claim to be inlove with but the race or country and they think other races will ever respect us? angry. What a bloody let down .

We know how they roll. I have seen the SA girls that always run their mouths on Naija men. They are all over TikTok and Samantha isn't far from the truth in her analysis. Ask that one what his lovely SA ex-gf does. You would think he copped a South African doctor or pilot. See him openly admitting to giving her money, but she rejected it. So if she accepted, naso redpiller money for go. Yet they would be online telling other men not to give money to women they are not married to. Na mumu dey take their advice! grin grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 9:09am On Nov 02, 2023
Persephone1:
If you want to know how dull these guys are engage them before a post or two they are already uttering gibberish and contradictions. I thought I read the post upside down at first grin So luminous who believe all women are the same and incapable of genuine love is here trying to convince Sam that her fellow South African WOMAN loved him genuinely. Like what's that? Inferiority complex? Anxiety to always proof everybody wrong or he's yet to get the full grasp of his redpilling shiit? Lol grin grin grin

These people are dumb no be small grin grin . Funny enough let him drop such post on the redpill thread immediately after posting that all women are the same, the fools there will still cheer him up. grin grin grin .

One of the few women capable of love found her way into the arms of a redpiller and guess what, she's still an EX. She didn't get the ring.

Haqhaqhaq!!!

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by SuperOnyi: 9:10am On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
That's why she's now your ex because it wasn't going to last anyways.

She was never going to settle with you because deep down she was expecting you to be her ATM.

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Why are you so pained about this? So SA ladies are Martians that can't fall in love genuinely with earthlings like Nigerians. Well, prolly because they need more than oxygen to survive. You Africans be actin' up all the time...

I can clearly see what you're doing... Anyway, that ain't my problem. undecided

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Lionessza6(f): 9:13am On Nov 02, 2023
Myer:


Well said. A man is a provider by design and should be able to provide. But when all his value is hinged on only financial provision, there's a problem.
Some women have money and all the value is the attention the man provides.
Some value the knowledge he provid3s
Some value the protection he provides.

Basically money is important but that's not the only value a man or a woman provides.

Exactly my point. Relationships centred around money are always shaky and there's always some resentment somewhere from the partner who is "oppressed" with the material staff. I notice that a lot of Nigerian men are scared of taking their wives to much more liberal countries where they will be earning and co-proving with him , I believe this has a lot to do with the woman now having an equal say on issues involving the family , she can nolonger be dictated to now grin. This will obviously wreck the esteem and identify of the man as he has always believed that his woman is his possession and not partner in the marriage. And ofvourse the marriage will be up in flames as he can nolonger identify himself in the marriage, his whole identity is put in question in the marriage. Money alone cannot build relationships and respect.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 02, 2023
Who gets jealous of prostitutes running after you?🀣🀣🀣... In fact, I think you guys are doing a very good job cleaning the dirt off our SA streets.

Keep up the good work and make sure you return to Nigeria with them because they're of no value to us...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Nice2023:



Left over yet u people get jealously angry when those women run after Nigerians.

Well,the only normal person in South Africa is Julius Malema.

U that I know have started losing ur sense.

Soon u will become a leftover like ur peers it's just a matter of time.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by SuperOnyi: 9:18am On Nov 02, 2023
luminouz:


She turned it down repeatedly!!!πŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

So my case is now not a majority? Do you know of hundreds of others like me who prefer to keep quiet and let people like you misgeneralize? Where did your majority statistics come from, the journal Nature?

Samantha, you lost this one....just go and rest. One more advice, stop looking down on your own women. That's some weird shiit.


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This is exactly the comment I was expecting from you... I kept hitting my oversized head on the wall because of her wishy washy and dumb comments....

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Lionessza6(f): 9:18am On Nov 02, 2023
TinubuThief:

Their is nothing special about South Africa ladies that are ugly like shirt and full of HIV. I don't want to die young abeg

LMFAO. Painment grin grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Silentgroper(m): 9:19am On Nov 02, 2023
Rahkman:
yes ur celebrity tshego manche that married bnaira she's a xhosa woman
Dbanj married one too. Dunno what tribe she's from..
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by SuperOnyi: 9:20am On Nov 02, 2023
luminouz:

K

shocked

grin grin πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Myer(m): 9:23am On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
So it's okay for the op to lie by saying most say ladies go for Nigerian men, but now it becomes an issue when I tell the bitter truth by saying it's mostly SA prostitutes who go for them?

Can you see that you're being biased?
You were right by saying "Most" however, you made it seems like all SA ladies that got involved with Nigerians were gold-diggers and prostitutes. You even argued when someone here (luminous) said he dated an SA lady who was not a gold-digger.
So you're probably right that Most SA babes that date Nigerian men are gold-diggers and pros but the point is, it is not All.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Myer(m): 9:24am On Nov 02, 2023
Lionessza6:


Exactly my point. Relationships centred around money are always shaky and there's always some resentment somewhere from the partner who is "oppressed" with the material staff. I notice that a lot of Nigerian men are scared of taking their wives to much more liberal countries where they will be earning and co-proving with him , I believe this has a lot to do with the woman now having an equal say on issues involving the family , she can nolonger be dictated to now grin. This will obviously wreck the esteem and identify of the man as he has always believed that his woman is his possession and not partner in the marriage. And ofvourse the marriage will be up in flames as he can nolonger identify himself in the marriage, his whole identity is put in question in the marriage. Money alone cannot build relationships and respect.
QED
Aptly said.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Magnoliaa(f): 9:25am On Nov 02, 2023
Misogyny is a very funny thing. Because while it is consistent in hating women across board, the terms and standards hilariously differ.

I remember a viral Twitter thread by an SA man with the words "the moment you start hating your girlfriend." And men from all walks of life, mostly South African men, contributed to it.

I am sure it'll be going down as a classic hallmark of misogyny in real life.

It's also noteworthy that the phrase "men are scum" gained prominence due to the femicide scourge in South Africa.

Nigerian, South African, Indian and Somali men are always dragging the global top 5 spots for being misogynistic, so it is safe to say that these men aren't necessarily better than the other. By and large.


So, one person wants to have me believe that the same women that SA men hate so much, in light of the context above, are the same women that are the apple of another group of men's eyes?

SA men hate their women just as much as 9ja men hate their women, and justifiably so in the heads, and you people are here fantasising about them and about them liking you LMAO?

I mean the men over there see those women exactly the same way you see Nigerian women, but for reasons I dont know, you think these women are great and that is why I said misogyny is funny.

Craziest of all is the cognitive dissonance it'll demand of you to think foreign women are of better standards to us, but you think other foreign men should not cherish us...

Mtcheeeewwww... it's early Thursday morning, abeg.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by SuperOnyi: 9:28am On Nov 02, 2023
PoloG:
help me ask the stupid op wey create this thread..

wetin SA girl get to offer me wey nigerian girls no fit offer me?

anything make me leave nigerian girls na white girls straight.

grin

Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Lionessza6(f): 9:32am On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:


We know how they roll. I have seen the SA girls that always run their mouths on Naija men. They are all over TikTok and Samantha isn't far from the truth in her analysis. Ask that one what his lovely SA ex-gf does. You would think he copped a South African doctor or pilot. See him openly admitting to giving her money, but she rejected it. So if she accepted, naso redpiller money for go. Yet they would be online telling other men not to give money to women they are not married to. Na mumu dey take their advice! grin grin

LMFAO grin grin. Very funny characters these online redi pillars grin. One thing I notice about the SA women on the vids mentioned is that they'll never say " I love Chike my boyfriend " or " these are the characteristics I love about Tunde" , it's always " i love Nigerian men, they take care of women, they'll pay your rent and give you gf allowance " grin grin grin grin grin. What happens when he cannot rent her " love" anymore? grin grin . " love" over grin grin. She bounces to look for the next Nigerian maga to rent her grin. Another thing, women with value will never go online to promote themselves as prize to be won by the highest bidder grin....they're are quietly enjoying their gbolas in peace grin grin. Broken women who need validation and attention are all over social media devaluing themselves. I remember another one who was heavenly bashed by SA women on YouTube for claiming we love Nigerian over our men in SA....I think the right term should have been hellishly bashed grin grin grin. She took down the vid and made another one claiming she was payed by Nigerian yahoo boys to make the vid, not far from the truth if you ask me, because another Kenyan one made similar claims some time back. Men with value don't need promos grin....their deeds speak for themselves, same with women.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 9:32am On Nov 02, 2023
Magnoliaa:
Misogyny is a very funny thing. Because while it is consistent in hating women across board, the terms and standards hilariously differ.

I remember a viral Twitter thread by an SA man with the words "the moment you start hating your girlfriend." And men from all walks of life, mostly South African men, contributed to it.

I am sure it'll be going down as a classic hallmark of misogyny in real life.

It's also noteworthy that the phrase "men are scum" gained prominence due to the femicide scourge in South Africa.

Nigerian, South African, Indian and Somali men are always dragging the global top 5 spots for being misogynistic, so it is safe to say that these men aren't necessarily better than the other. By and large.


So, one person wants to have me believe that the same women that SA men hate so much, in light of the context above, are the same women that are the apple of another group of men's eyes?

SA men hate their women just as much as 9ja men hate their women, and justifiably so in the heads, and you people are here fantasising about them and about them liking you LMAO?

I mean the men over there see those women exactly the same way you see Nigerian women, but for reasons I dont know, you think these women are great and that is why I said misogyny is funny.

Craziest of all is the cognitive dissonance it'll demand of you to think foreign women are of better standards to us, but you think other foreign men should not cherish us...

Mtcheeeewwww... it's early Thursday morning, abeg.

She loved one of our Nigerian redpillers.
He gave her money repeatedly and she turned it down. But she took flowers and gbola. I bet she has started a garden with the flower and he has left her for a South African simp to ring it.

The problem with their hot takes is, they spare no one and like you said, there is no consensus on which women should be exempted.

Less than a month ago, this same redpiller emphatically said WOMEN ARE THE SAME ALL OVER THE WORLD. HYPERGAMOUS AND ___

Today he was lucky to find one that loved him.

grin grin

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 02, 2023
The bottom line is that I didn't use any generalization anywhere.

And it's not my fault that Nigerian men in SA have a taste in certain SA women.

Even luminouz admitted to trying to corrupt the SA lady by attempting to pay her like a prostitute, but she turned the money down.
Myer:

You were right by saying "Most" however, you made it seems like all SA ladies that got involved with Nigerians were gold-diggers and prostitutes. You even argued when someone here (luminous) said he dated an SA lady who was not a gold-digger.
So you're probably right that Most SA babes that date Nigerian men are gold-diggers and pros but the point is, it is not All.
Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by SuperOnyi: 9:34am On Nov 02, 2023
TinubuThief:

Lady, you talk too much! At times, resist the temptation to talk nonsense just for the sake of talking. I hold you to a high esteem here but a times, you disappoint. Anyway , all women are the same after all. That's no exception.(Fish brain)



shocked



grin


You sef dey notice am

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Magnoliaa(f): 9:34am On Nov 02, 2023
Why do you think so low of SA women anyways, ain't you one?

SA men think so low of SA women, it's not a problem. Let a woman show or repeat the same misogynistic garble y'all have parroted about women and it's "she a woman hater who thinks less of women."


If it was a South African man who was telling you this about their women, I know you wouldn't have the mind to defend it. If a South Africa man was taunting you about wanting their women, you'd take it as an affront on your ego and disagree that you don't really want SA women anyway- they're this or that.

As usual, anything to always be on the other side of anything women are saying.

You don't mind contradicting your previous stances a hundred times, so long as you get to disagree with a woman. It's ingrained in you guys' DNA to do so at this point.

If it was a Nigerian woman who "thinks so low of other Nigerian woman", you'd hail her o. You'll call her different; you'd call her intelligent; you'd call her honest. Just because it aligns with your bias.

Don't you people like women who say the truth about other women anymore?

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by SuperOnyi: 9:38am On Nov 02, 2023
Samantha124:
The bottom line is that I didn't use any generalization anywhere.

And it's not my fault that Nigerian men in SA have a taste in certain SA women.

Even luminouz admitted to trying to corrupt the SA lady by attempting to pay her like a prostitute, but she turned the money down.


shocked



Ma'am, shut up! He never said that, you were the one that brought that up and he replied informing you he tried to give her money so many times and she rejected! How's that an attempt to corrupt her? grin Jesus Christ!

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by Magnoliaa(f): 9:41am On Nov 02, 2023
pocohantas:
She loved one of our Nigerian redpillers.
He gave her money repeatedly and she turned it down. But she took flowers and gbola. I bet she has started a garden with the flower and he has left her for a South African simp to ring it.

The same set of men will have you believe that if a woman is not demanding anything from you, financially and in other ways, then she is getting it from somewhere. grin

So our in-house redpill expert thought that a non-demanding woman actually wanted him because she liked him genuinely, not because she's getting her (material) needs met somewhere hence she's not bothering him?

Okokobioko!

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by SuperOnyi: 9:42am On Nov 02, 2023
luminouz:


K



Bro, sorry for the many mentions but you just made my day grin.

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Re: Main Reasons Why Most South African Ladies Prefer Nigerian Men by pocohantas(f): 9:43am On Nov 02, 2023
Magnoliaa:


The same set of men will have you believe that if a woman is not demanding anything from you, financially and in other ways, then she is getting it from somewhere. grin

So our in-house redpill expert thought that a non-demanding woman actually wanted him because she liked him genuinely, not because she's getting her (material) needs met somewhere hence she's not bothering him?

Okokobioko!

I have never taken that Ibadan redpiller in particular serious.

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