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Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Justkatty(f): 10:17am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Op must have moved on by now, but if you've not, I wonder why. This life too short for one creature to frustrate your mental health. 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by gucci20(m): 10:18am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: It's not easy though, loneliness kills faster than anything. But, still trying to look for that right woman. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by kaymart: 10:18am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Unclekayfarms:100 percent she is insincere. She must have fraustrated the poor guy till he couldn't take it no more 7 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by NNicewitchh: 10:18am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby:channel your energy on other things,wakeup,stop pondering on your the past with him just start all over again 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Realist777: 10:20am On Nov 04, 2023 |
God will be with you[/quote] Chief protocol officer has said it, God will be with you. Just ask, when is God going to be with you? |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Smartguyboy(m): 10:21am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Men will always bounce back but women will turn to low key olosho. 12 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by NNicewitchh: 10:21am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby:channel your energy on other things,wakeup,stop pondering on the past activities with him just start all over again 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by WINDSOW(m): 10:21am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby:Maybe na your character make him japa. Anyways, take heart and focus on your goals. 5 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by DrObum(m): 10:21am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Chiquitq:Once relationship or marriage no work for una, the word narcissist go full everywhere. I’m not saying that your partner wasn’t wrong ooo but why is that? 7 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Olumaeme: 10:21am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Well, it usually depends on what led to the divorce and how it ended. I know for a fact that divorce takes time, at least 1-2 years, how you were not able to make amends should be enough for you to move on. You see, women need to understand that, they are most likely to suffer more when there is a divorce and should try by all means to ensure their marriage works, and it's starts from choosing a very good man as partner. You have to move on still, find a good hobby that you enjoy, find problems in your life and try to solve them, improve on your finances, join groups and meet people and it will be better with time even if you may not be totally recover depending on your situation. But you need to tell him to come take care of his son. That is his responsibility! Looks like he's an irresponsible man, because why abandon your child? 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Nweike1: 10:22am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Mysteriousworld:100 💯 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by tunwumi: 10:22am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: Hummm what has been 4ked can't be un4k. You will always remember him, for good and bad moment you had. But the divorce, I guess, is good for both parties. He's your addiction and the fastest way to get out of one is to replace with another. Get yourself busy with something else, but once you see the boy everything will flash. 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by babtoundey(m): 10:24am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: I understand the pain and emotional breakdown. If one can find it hard to cope with a breakup in the relationship one has invested productive time and resources, how easy will it then be to cope with breakup marriage. I will just advise that you forget him entirely has he has forgotten you. Move on. Don't let your memory of him slow you down. It will be a hard thing to do, but you have to do it. The thought of him will keep messing with your sanity. But you owe yourself the debt of not letting him praise God for taking taking this decision when he sees you later. Make him hate himself and hope in fain to be with you again. The only way you can achieve this is by investing in your personal growth. Don't stop living. Live fine and live well. Take heart, God is with you. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by DrObum(m): 10:26am On Nov 04, 2023 |
[b][/b][b] Dufil:You’re based in Ibadan, as joy giver wey you be nah? 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by ozo13(m): 10:27am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Unclekayfarms:haba nana. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by thinkmoney(m): 10:28am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby:Where are u based |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by bonnyhope: 10:29am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Unclekayfarms: Can you fix it if she shares it? |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Babaken(m): 10:30am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Unclekayfarms:you are right for a man to forget his wife and son without asking how they are doing the man most have be seriously heartbroken. 6 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Possessedkid: 10:30am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Save up funds and travel , make sure you have a good career or business When you get there , connect with a yt nigger and hop on his weiner then make cute babies then divorce him and get half of his wealth. Don't forget to thank me later |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by akaahs(m): 10:32am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby:U see as a man little things matter to us. Things u women think aren't important are d the things u neglect and don't give serious attention to. For example, i came back from a journey yesterday, my wife didn't cook and was given a complaint that she had a hectic day, i didn't argue. I went out and bought bread, asked her to prepare egg for me, this woman refused, she still gave the same complaint of tireness. I vexed, so many things going through my mind the whole night. This woman don't give me enough sex, she don't often cook for me, she don't wash my clothes. She practically don't do anything that ll make me to always run to her. Today, if divorce her, do you think i ll look back?? Im not interested in ur story but what am trying to say is, in ur next relationship pay attention to the little things he complaint most. U have no choice than force ur self to move on, concentrate on ur son and work, try to be in the company of ur family always. Peace. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 10:32am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Saccharine:This is so apt!! To be honest Nairaland has the highest number of foolish people on a forum. I have been on Nairaland for almost 17 years and I saw it descend from an intellectual forum to a cesspool of filth, toxic and extremely foolish forum. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Sharpsharp00123: 10:33am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby:shebi we told u that time that u made a very grave mistake by arresting your brother in law, many mugus told u to leave the marriage n face your career Oya continue facing your career now 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by bonnyhope: 10:33am On Nov 04, 2023 |
IamRichards: As if you are in the position to fix anything there Shm..m I blame those bringing their personal life issues to online that is flooded with underage 1 Like |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Godfullsam(m): 10:33am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Saccharine: Which of the crews do you belong. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Osanoghodua1: 10:33am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Actually, God hates divorce. This is why God wants you to be led on whom to marry, any pastor teaching that after Adam accused God of the woman he gave him leading to his fall that God has since stop giving wives that it's now whosoever finds a wife" trash and fake. If you need to hear God in 5yrs on the choice of your spouse, wait till then, the choice of your spouse determines the quality of your life here on earth and 98% will determine your eternal destination. On the issue on how you move on after divorce: I'll give you a guideline once I see the chronicles that led to the sudden divorce and the man not taking care of his son. It's the highest level of irresponsibility to not take care of your children even though you're divorced. Young brothers and sisters yet to marry, don't look at beauty and finance, if you need to fast for days to secure the voice of God pls do. I was led of the Holy Spirit to marry my wife, I was led in my heart, The Holy spirit had a conversation with my spirit and I heard it in my heart not ear okay? Today, people think she's my younger sister. It's heaven on earth since day1, she submitted her salary to my hand while was was on a paid job, I bless it and hand it over to her again, sometimes I took 1-3k and usually I feel very shy this is as a result of thorough Sunday school teaching. I am not telling you to submit your salary to a gambler, womaniser, scammer or a trick star, no! Wisdom is profitable to direct. 2 Likes |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by dealslip(f): 10:34am On Nov 04, 2023 |
akaahs: You don't need a wife, what you need is a house girl. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by smasher1(m): 10:35am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Realashbobby: As long as their is a child linking you too up, you won't forget him. But you can move on, even without a child, no one forgets the other person. Just move on and feel less guilty even if you are the one at fault. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by smasher1(m): 10:37am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Nisland: I feel your pain. I understand you perfectly. It's not easy moving on. |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by omoyankee3(m): 10:37am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Find a young chick that'll help you cope...but don't wife her o |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by omoyankee3(m): 10:39am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Find another man to help you forget |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by bonnyhope: 10:40am On Nov 04, 2023 |
Chiquitq: How old are you You want to maintain celibacy .....no sexual urge? |
Re: Moving On With Life After Divorce. How Do You Cope? by Babaken(m): 10:40am On Nov 04, 2023 |
kaymart:they realize their mistakes when it's already late. 2 Likes |
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