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Rich4god:
So went to prepare and decorate a hall in a hotel for our friends wedding. We were there into the night of Saturday and also came back Sunday morning for final touches.

I noticed several matured men going in and out of the hotels with young and very immature ladies. Haba....

Yes we all know that these young ladies are into hook up full time. But as a matured man, how can you stoop so low to pick up a girl who is below 18 years. Assuming the ladies self have matured body, like maybe the look older than their age, I can even understand. But these young girl one can visible see that they are so young and could pass for students of SS 1-2.

To the men, plz of you want to pick up ladies, pick up matured ones or maybe those who looks matured by appearance not toddlers.

Let's not be the ones encouraging this hook up because of the little money we give to these girls.

Lol Waste Of Advice.

You are advising logwoods

Seex, One of the most biggest commodities in the World.

Woodshot:
Age of consent is 18. And sex is overrated.

Seriously, sex is overrated.

Evolutionism:
Lol Waste Of Advice.

You are advising logwoods

Seex, One of the most biggest commodities in the World.

The logwoods should kindly go for matured ladies.

mmadu5:
young pussi is the best

Wait for it to mature first.

dkidd:
And u know those ones are juvenile how

When visible one can see that those girls are in SS2 or even less.

Rich4god:
When visible one can see that those girls are in SS2 or even less.

Some girls looks smaller than their age

Rich4god:
Am not saying give up.... am saying go for matured ones.

Well me i still wanto carrryon yansh ing Siofra again Shaaa...she lòok under age but she only 31year old sir!!(no oofencse)

If men should stop doing it, who will?

LarryCork:
Well me i still wanto carrryon yansh ing Siofra again Shaaa...she lòok under age but she only 31year old sir!!(no oofencse)

As long as she's matured, you can keep up yan**"ing her till infinity.

Rich4god:
Confront ke.... it's not like they were dragging the ladies I to the hotel.

Then why are you screaming into our ears then, so we can confront them for you?

You should have stopped them from entering the hotel and maybe scold the young girls na

Gerrard59:
Sequel to these threads (https://www.nairaland.com/7678352/hookup-culture-nigeria-bad-even/1#122971617; https://www.nairaland.com/7680544/what-caused-hookup-culture/5#123045490) where Nairalanders, mostly males, keep complaining about the rise of hookup in Nigeria. I thought it pertinent to outline solutions that will REDUCE, not stop the trend.

The demand for sex by men is rising and consistent. As long as men crave sex and women are the [b]only suppliers, nothing can be done. For hookups to reduce, Nigerian men should reduce their insatiable quest to have sex with random women[/b]. It is like having a department where male lecturers don’t do engage in sex for grades, ladies who are open to such will be forced to read their books whether they like it or not. Men create the system and women integrate into it. To buttress this, when women who have been doing hook-up attain 30+ years, there is a declining demand for their services because sexual service is tied to age and how young a woman is. As a result, she is either forced to retire or accept lower fees. This is because her customers – all men – have either stopped patronising her or are offering less cash. The men control the system.

It is a biological fact (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/#:~:text=Sexual) for men to yearn for sex more than women. Women are literally the only people who can quench this thirst. Some will say it is because of greed, but c’mon! If you own something which is in high demand that is not regulated nor banned by the government, are you saying you won’t charge prices for it? Remember, this demand is consistent and persistent.

Gerrard59:
This brings me to the next solution: social engineering. If you want the women in your society to be chaste, it is your responsibility as the men in that society to insist on certain moral standards. It is why young ladies in the North do not openly practise hookup compared to the South. Even in the south, some regions are "morally" stricter than others. It is the men who set the standards. Recently on Facebook, in one of the states in the south, I read that husbands or older men sleep with secondary school girls who just finished WASSCE/SSCE. When you do so while your northern counterpart marries the same girl, you tell that girl in your society that she can charge for sex. Meanwhile, her contemporary in the north knows that for sex to happen, there has to be commitment aka marriage.

P.S. Sex is not free. You pay at a point.

[b]Another is poverty. The poorer a society is, the greater the number of women engaging in hook-ups. Women are demisexual, but when push comes to shove, they resort to sex work. Because there is a demand. Patronising sex workers is cheaper in poor countries compared to rich nations. The common theme here (https://www.nairaland.com/7496716/what-exactly-does-one-enjoy) was that sex is cheap in Nigeria. But ask your paddies whether patronising sex workers in Canada is cheap, and hear/read their responses. [b]The solution is to ensure your society becomes very prosperous. In return, your women will have fewer reasons to engage in hook-ups. Fewer reasons because even in prosperous societies, hook-ups still exists. Because, remember, sex is natural. There is a demand, and demand doesn’t exist in a vacuum. [/b]Unfortunately, Nigerian men have not been able to create a prosperous society (https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women).

Rich4god,

There is nothing new in what you have stated that I have not mentioned. To those who objected to my thread, I wonder what they have to say this time.

Gerrard59:
Rich4god,

There is nothing new in what you have stated that I have not mentioned. To those who objected to my thread, I wonder what they have to say this time.

It's doesn't portray a good image on a matured man whose sexual partner is a child that he could father.

No shame at all.

Rich4god:
It's doesn't portray a good image on a matured man whose sexual partner is a child that he could father.

No shame at all.

That is a grey area sha. What do you say about Razak Okoya who married a one time Miss Unilag who was in her early 20s while Razak was in his 50s? Ned Nwoko nko?

The issue here is going after girls in secondary schools, and most likely below 18 years.

Rich4god:
So went to prepare and decorate a hall in a hotel for our friends wedding. We were there into the night of Saturday and also came back Sunday morning for final touches.

I noticed several matured men going in and out of the hotels with young and very immature ladies. Haba....

Yes we all know that these young ladies are into hook up full time. But as a matured man, how can you stoop so low to pick up a girl who is below 18 years. Assuming the ladies self have matured body, like maybe the look older than their age, I can even understand. But these young girl one can visible see that they are so young and could pass for students of SS 1-2.

To the men, plz of you want to pick up ladies, pick up matured ones or maybe those who looks matured by appearance not toddlers.

Let's not be the ones encouraging this hook up because of the little money we give to these girls.

How are we sure you aren't the person that took a 15yrs old girl to a hotel.

Wahala!

Rich4god:
So went to prepare and decorate a hall in a hotel for our friends wedding. We were there into the night of Saturday and also came back Sunday morning for final touches.

I noticed several matured men going in and out of the hotels with young and very immature ladies. Haba....

Yes we all know that these young ladies are into hook up full time. But as a matured man, how can you stoop so low to pick up a girl who is below 18 years. Assuming the ladies self have matured body, like maybe the look older than their age, I can even understand. But these young girl one can visible see that they are so young and could pass for students of SS 1-2.

To the men, plz of you want to pick up ladies, pick up matured ones or maybe those who looks matured by appearance not toddlers.

Let's not be the ones encouraging this hook up because of the little money we give to these girls.

Why can't you advice your fellow gender and also tell the implications of what they're doing, must you put the blame on men? Nobody force them into hookup

Qatar2022:
Why can't you advice your fellow gender and also tell the implications of what they're doing, must you put the blame on men? Nobody force them into hookup

Who be my fellow gender.

Gerrard59:
That is a grey area sha. What do you say about Razak Okoya who married a one time Miss Unilag who was in her early 20s while Razak was in his 50s? Ned Nwoko nko?

The issue here is going after girls in secondary schools, and most likely below 18 years.

It is understandable when you go after a lady who is above 19-20... but when you are seeing a man, walking side by side or driving into a hotel with a girl whom by just looking at her you will be guessing if the girl is up to 17 years.

That's a shameful act. Am not against men carrying ladies for what ever they want. But at least, let them go for ladies who are matured. 20-25 years is ok.

Dshocker:
How are we sure you aren't the person that took a 15yrs old girl to a hotel.

Lol.....

That's not my kind of thing.