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Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by loswhite(m): 5:42pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Persephone1:Go and advice your women first that have turned Nigerian men to ATM machine..."needs" 1 Like |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by HellVictorinho6(m): 5:50pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
MyAmericandream: My point is men 4rm other countries have issues too U grab? I suggested rick ross 4 Persephone1 tho At least his music should please her I remember the one titled Pinned To The Cross Have u heard it? Or not? |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by achimendy(m): 6:45pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Persephone1: You're really confused. You said men lack the brain to discern love, empathy, kindness and self care and are also trained to believe financial responsibility is all there's to marriage or relationship. But you fail to understand that we are human beings with different characters, and inasmuch as we relate With each other we will continue to influence each others behaviour, be it good or bad. The reason I said this is because of how your gender has prioritized finance/ wealth in a relationship or marriage than the love, self care, kindness, empathy and emotional connection you're crying about here. Your gender here in Nigeria only believe and listen to the love language of money and wealth, they only see a loving and caring man if he's capable of spending extravagantly on them. They even go as far as despising men who love them genuinely but are not financially strong. That is the new order in today's love world, money equates everything for you women, if you dont possess it as a man you dont have the right to talk about marriage to me. But when they meet a rich man who they only agreed to get married to because of his money or influence, but has robotic character as you said and doesn't give a damn about emotional connection, kindness, empathy and self care as you said your gender will start crying about him not been loving and respecting you women. You can not sow corn and expect to reap mango at the end of the day. In otherwords, blame your gender for influencing the character of today's men all because of material things. All you people care about is money money and money, but you fail to understand that money doesn't equate love, it's something that is perceived in the heart. And money alone can not cover that space in the heart. 5 Likes |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by achimendy(m): 6:55pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Well said bro. I just hope she reads and understands. 1 Like |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Nobody: 6:57pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
After all said on this thread I have reached the following conclusions: 1) The average Nigerian do not read to comprehend. Two key words a bright mind will note are " May" and "Opinion" . Most of the comments are in response are angry barks rather than sensible rebuttals. 2) The average Nigerian man is insecure. Just an opinion from one out of hundreds of female users gave several out of million male users high blood pressure. A simple criticism had most of men bringing out vapours from from all holes in their bodies. 3) Most Nigerian men if not all are hypocritical and can't take what they dish out to women. I can't count numbers of derogatory words used against Nigerian women on Nl but here they are like bulls on colo fighting unseen spirit because a thread called out their bullshit. 4) Nigerian men are just as emotional as they want you to believe their women are. They call themselves the logical being but lack emotional intelligence to handle criticism. They would rather go tantrum way that counter an opinion "logically" In all I maintain my stance " I may not marry a Nigerian Man" if you feel entitled in anyway go hang yourself. Thank you for your time. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by achimendy(m): 7:01pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Goodlady: Can you feed yourself?? 1 Like |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Farfalla(f): 7:12pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
This thread is proof that men aren't synonymous with logic. A majority of you cannot even respond to the points articulated by the OP, or even get curious as to why she raised those points. All I see are just the usual ad hominem responses from the same people who claim to be logical. 4 Likes |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Caleb15(m): 7:42pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
After i don buy Ankara |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 7:50pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
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Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 7:51pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Farfalla:wetin be this??πππ |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Magnoliaa(f): 7:52pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
TheFinesseKid: Here, right here. πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 7:52pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Persephone1:na my fellow men wey dey make big deal out of nothing I dey blame. As for me, I couldn't give a flying Bleep, Deer |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 7:55pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:ππ€£π€£π€£ don't you ever get tired? |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Magnoliaa(f): 7:56pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
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Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 7:58pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:KK. π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Magnoliaa(f): 7:59pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
TheFinesseKid: In here πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£. |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 8:00pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:have you suddenly become mute? π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ Those buckets are for your tears right? Oh wait.. you need me to bring you a couple more, these are filled to the brim?πππππ€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Magnoliaa(f): 8:04pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
TheFinesseKid: You're doing well πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£. |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by NNEVERAGAINN: 8:05pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Jeon:I'm not bitter Jeon, and when did I send you an emailπ€?? |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 8:06pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:Seeing you close to bursting into tears is me doing well? I'm gonna take it as a compliment then. πππππππ€£π€£ |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by NNEVERAGAINN: 8:06pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:Gift? |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 8:08pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
NNEVERAGAINN:π€£π€£π€£ help me ask her. |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Nobody: 8:09pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
TheFinesseKid:You couldn't give a hoot yet you have the most posts on this thread flying here and there like featherless fowl. Abeg gettaout! 1 Like |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Magnoliaa(f): 8:09pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
TheFinesseKid: Good job. You're making a very good use of them πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£. |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Jeon(f): 8:10pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
NNEVERAGAINN: If you are not bitter you won't come on my mention saying trashs because of my options. There are still Women that can lick men's ass. 8 Likes |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 8:10pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Persephone1:π€£π€£π€£π€£ cherre. I made my point like you did. Is it your turn to cry now? π€£ |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Nobody: 8:11pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
TheFinesseKid:Get out! 1 Like |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 8:12pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:πππ now we're definitely in a loop. For the umpteenth time, I'm not crying... Im happy af. How can I be crying when you're making my day?πππ |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 8:13pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Persephone1:borrow bucket from your friend. πππ I can see you're close to tears. πππ |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Magnoliaa(f): 8:13pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
TheFinesseKid: You have an amazing workrate. Keep it up πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£ πͺ£. |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by NNEVERAGAINN: 8:15pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Jeon:So was that enough to lie that I sent you an email request, to make people look like I'm chasing you? Besides, I sent you a request on Tinder. I lost your contact because my phone were stolen. Log on to your Tinder so we can talk more! |
Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by TheFinesseKid: 8:15pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:π€£π€£π€£ I should say the same of you. π€£π€£π€£π€£ Your buckets aren't enough. We need more. While you're at it, please lend madam persephone some. She seems to be in dire need of it. |
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