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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Fearyourcreator: 2:39pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
frozen70:Imagine ... Make a bachelor marry single mother ... Lolzzzz ... |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Fiscus105(m): 2:41pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Honeydenz: Are u now blaming the frustrated he-goats that hunting for pusssies to bang or foolish hoes, that open pusssies for complete jobless guys. Tall guys, handsome guy ,six pack. Without money and good behaviour to make ur marriage enjoyable, you would taste hell on earth. Not tangible job, yet open legs for him, anyway I hardly pity woman sha. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by IamHonourable1: 3:12pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Your sister is the one the man should be worried about here and not vice versa |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by ThatCEO: 3:13pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Persephone1: Spoken like a true feminist Here is another angle. The man was responsible enough to at least marry someone the right way. The girl's sister gave it away for free, which makes her pretty irresponsible. She won't let her daughter marry a man with a child, but she wants someone else's son who has never had a child to marry her own after one daughter. Women overinflate their true worth. She is an adult, n she can do whatever she wants but the person currently pricing the goods looks like the best she can get. But if she feel she can do better, who am I to stop her? 4 Likes |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by IamHonourable1: 3:23pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
This may sound out of point, but where was your sister staying before she broke up with her man? |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by enemyofprogress: 3:46pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Run oooooooooooo With the way things are going in this country now, dating a food seller is better than dating a graduate fa 🤷🤷😜😋🤣🤣🏃🏃🏃🏃 |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Myer(m): 3:51pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Lamanii22:Every thing has it's Pros and Cons. They're both single/divorced for a reason. They both have to allow themselves to heal first other wise.. fry pan to fire. But if they've learnt the necessary lessons from previous relationship and healed, they're going to be able to understand and support each other better. Most importantly, they should please put God first. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by BreconHills(m): 4:20pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5: Bolded is rarely true. Both parties are heavily motivated to succeed. It can work. It depends on the same thing as for two single people. Depth of relationship and common vision. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Tunagee(m): 4:37pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
ScamHunter: I agree totally about not marrying a divorced whose spouse is still alive, but person go wait till the ex spouse die? If the ex spouse no die or has remarried nko |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by haslaw(m): 4:37pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
HumbleTrader: Be realistic... How many young men will marry a single mother in her thirties. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by haslaw(m): 4:42pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Saintmary: Remember the sister is also a single mother in her thirties and her options are slim. She should consider herself lucky a man is even asking her out sef. cc : Lamanii22 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by worksmart(m): 4:56pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
How old is your sister and how old is the divorced man she wants to marry? What is the reason he divorced? How long did his marriage last? Does he have children? How many? How financially buoyant is he? How financially buoyant is your sister? How long have they been dating? Answer these question then I may be able to form an opinion and possibly advise you. @ Lamanii22 |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by baralatie(m): 5:18pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Lamanii22:Once bitten twice shy |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by litaninja(m): 5:28pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
lol The mother is being choosy over her single-mchooseyother offspring. lmao. Lamanii22: |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Exceed15: 5:52pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
The man is divorced and well established but simply said your sister is a single mother "though ".. na almost same boat dem dey o. Infact I fear single mothers more . They carry bitterness, baggage, anger and regret around. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by frozen70(f): 6:06pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Fearyourcreator: One man's meat is another man's poison |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Fearyourcreator: 6:10pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
frozen70:Which yeye poison |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by theamazonguru(m): 6:35pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
HumbleTrader: Remember she is also a single mother. Which young guy in his right senses should want to get married for the first time in his life and will settle for a single mother. Even if he likes her the family will oppose it. Just the same way her own mother is opposing her from getting married to a divorcee. Make them wait till she grow old now. Why didn't her baby daddy get married to her if she was that good. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by pharmaking: 6:37pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Single mothers and divorced women are both cobras under the blanket. Their bite is deadly. They never forgive not forget. Filled with venom of vengeance.The divorced man is the one I pity here. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by tonymyke4life(m): 7:27pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
I think the man should look for another girl to marry. If the only reason ur mum is against ur sister who's a single mum marrying Him. Let the man breathe. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Peterprecious1(m): 7:35pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by benzion72(m): 7:58pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Perfect combo Divorce and single mom them be 5 and 6 |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by naijapikin2(m): 9:41pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
All these advice you are getting on nairaland will your sister agree to abide by them |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Consciousmind01(m): 10:24pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
Lamanii22: Divorce does not end a marriage, only death ends a marriage. As long as the divorced man first wife is still living your sister should not bother herself marrying such man. Since your sister is a singer mother and she has never been married before she has to look for a man that has never been married before which is acceptable in the sight of God. If she go ahead and marry the divorced man, in the sight of God she’s not married but only committing fornication while the man is committing adultery (since the man is already married before). Luke 16:18, Roman 7:1-3, 1Corinthians 7:10-11. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by davidadenrele: 4:56am On Dec 01, 2023 |
Hello, The fact that a man is divorced does not make him an evil man, as humans situation and circumstances can make us victims of life challenges am sure the said man would have informed your sister what transpired, and am also sure your sister would have done her thorough investigation If the man he's about to get married to he's speaking the truth and he's anything to believe however your mum has every right to her own opinion as a mother I will advised your sister to humbly go to your mum and inquire more what are your mum fears and reasons sometimes what an Elder sees while sitting a young child can never see it, even if he climbs an iroko tree let your sister tread carefully the words of an Elder are words of wisdom your mum could have seen or notice something your sister didn't see or notice because she's in love, it can be spiritual and it can be something that would save and help your sister before she regret getting married to the man in question above all pray for your sister and commit her into God's hand its well. |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by franco3075q(m): 6:54am On Dec 01, 2023 |
HumbleTrader:Are the young men ready 2 settle down or even ready 2 marry a single mother? |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by franco3075q(m): 7:01am On Dec 01, 2023 |
HumbleTrader: |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by asakeaina: 10:57am On Dec 01, 2023 |
Lamanii22: Story their equation is balanced 🙄! Your sister too has baggage and should never be selected! Your mother is just being selfish! If the man is good there is no problem. They both have kids. On the notion that he is a second wife by default, there is nothing wrong with being a second wife if there is peace of mind. My 2cents |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by asakeaina: 10:59am On Dec 01, 2023 |
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Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by Steveagro: 12:12pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Is it confirmed that the man is divorced? If yes then they are almost in the same category and should be doing similar researches about each other. Pros if both of them hove healed from their past they are likely going to make it work Cons: Either or both of them will end enforcing Okafors law when their marriage faces a turbulent season |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by femi4: 8:41am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Lamanii22:No one size fits all. People are wired differently. Some still hold their ex close to their heart while others move on quickly |
Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Marrying A Divorced Man by ScamHunter: 9:01am On Dec 02, 2023 |
Tunagee: Marriage is far deeper that many of us realized. That's why many of us approached it carelessly. Divorces stem from marrying carelessly and without spiritual guidance (especially for a Christian). If you marry wrongly, your marital destiny has been destroyed unless the wrong spouse dies and you're free from them to now find the right spouse. If you plan to have a partner all the days of your life, you must marry only who God directs you to. Now to your question, the high standard of the word of God for the Chrstian dictates that they NEVER marry again if a former spose is alive. Even if that spose has remarried, they're not guided by the same law of Christ as the Christian is. The vision of the Chrsitan is to please God always and finally make it to that heavenly home. The unbeliver doesn't have that vision hence they can live in second and third marriages oblivious of the fact that they're committing adultery and on the broad road to hell. For the Christian whose partner divorced, they MUST remain unmarried as long as that partner is alive, even if they had remarried. That is God's word. 1 Like |
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