lordnkem000:

My woman has everything I could ever want, but more importantly, she's not a keyboard feminist and she adores me. Money is not our problem and will never be. When I see lousy women like you talking trash about men online, I just realize I have a rare gem in my hands everyday

Money is not your problem?lol. I agree she's a rare gem but what are you? She has to keep up with your toxicity everyday,I hope she goes for therapy

Mhizzard:

i read it with calmness,so don't tell me that.there is a reason for me saying that.she may and may not because we are not the one that had relationship with her.that is why i included she should amend if she is not.

Did you ask her if she was toxic? Did you ask her if she was creating issues and so with the man? No man will force a woman away because she didn't give him money, unless she never gave him his respect
That's my point

sheeda995:

Money is not your problem?lol. I agree she's a rare gem but what are you? She has to keep up with your toxicity everyday,I hope she goes for therapy

You are just making yourself feel good when in reality you are a wreak, I pity your man because na retired olosho with 40+ body counts he inherited

DestinedForGrea:

What are the points that don't add up?

What are the issues she created that he told her he doesn't like? Is she toxic?

lordnkem000:

You are just making yourself feel good when in reality you are a wreak, I pity your man because na retired olosho with 40+ body counts he inherited

My man likes me because I advocate to clean the world of men like you who disgraced his gender with your toxicity

You are practically on nl to discuss women,you must be so tragic. I pity you

Prettygirl200:
Thank you are know am arent matured for any relationship i will take this your advice seriously make money forget about relationship and take care of myself. Tell him I said he should enjoy himself, I wish him well.

You haven't taken my advice before now in the comments so why take this one? Go back to your man and work things out since you love him. I can't tell him anything because I don't know him. These validation you are seeking here won't help you, you know the truth you didn't tell us and that truth will make you feel guilty as long as you ignore that truth

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

he sounds like a goldgigger. It is well. May you find peace.

sheeda995:

My man likes me because I advocate to clean the world of men like you who disgraced his gender with your toxicity

You are practically on nl to discuss women,you must be so tragic. I pity you

Trust me you have no man, I can bet it with my two balls. What you have is a customer and you the marketer
Go and look for your customers elsewhere I don't fvck sluts and ashawos

He cheated on you with two women but somehow flipped the script on you to blame you? Make that make sense. Girl, you should've done the breaking up. You need to up your standards and self-worth.

Is well dear is as one that carried a baby for 9months nd had miscarriage is well quote author=Prettygirl200 post=127475321]According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.
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lordnkem000:

Abeg help me tell her o, na the mumu wey dey listen dey wonder me. I don see why that girl bf follow another girl, she's not matured at all and truly can't offer anything

She kept saying he demands money from her.....na that part I dey think say she get comma.........why will any guy expect a girl in her early 20s with no money to give him money...

Prettygirl200:
That was why i left so he could be happy with the lady if shes supporting him like he said i csnt stop him or Force myself in. The girl in question already confessed her to love to him.

God will bring someone who will cherish and appreciate you unconditionally...your time will come!

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

I am glad you did block him for your sanity.
Those are the type that depend on women. Lazy bone.

Move on sis. Your perfect man will find you and you don't even need to support hm financially because he will be well- to-do.

My dear we are in the same boat..

Prettygirl200:

advanceDNA:


She kept saying he demands money from her.....na that part I dey think say she get comma.........why will any guy expect a girl in her early 20s with no money to give him money...

God bless you
When I read it I knew things didn't add up, I guess she had to use that "support and money crap" to get sympathy and destroy the man's image, and the gullible fell for it too. Comma full her character but na only few dey see am

very4tune8:



I am glad you did block him for your sanity.
Those are the type that depend on women. Lazy bone.

Move on sis. Your perfect man will find you and you don't even need to support hm financially because he will be well- to-do.

Lazy people calling others lazy.
He will be well to do
No go work

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Yes you did. According to your level. Because God help you that you don't have any ounce of feelings for him anymore. Mail me if you are fine too. Let's take it from there.

lordnkem000:

Trust me you have no man, I can bet it with my two balls. What you have is a customer and you the marketer
Go and look for your customers elsewhere I don't fvck sluts and ashawos

You are a disaster to mahood

Prettygirl200:
I want him to be happy with whomever is able to support him, i think leaving him is the best thing to do. I want peace of mind. I hope he's happy.

Young woman, Nairaland is the worst place to bring your relationship to as a woman. Most men here are under 25 with not enough life experience. They talk down women and make you feel worthless. Next time, do not bring your topic here...And yes, I'm a man.

As for your case, you are a good woman and that guy does not deserve you in his life. He is a user. He is only looking for people to use and dump. He has done a lot of damage to your self esteem, making you feel useless. Don't mind him. He's the loser. You will meet someone who appreciates you and love you for who you are.

Move on with your life. The modafoka is a modafokn gold digger

sheeda995:

You are a disaster to mahood

You shouldn't be advising even kindergarten kids, you have no character or lifestyle worthy of emulation

Prettygirl200:
So you are advicing I unblock him? I honestly do not want to go back because all of that comparison my efforts are seen as acting up or pretending.

You already know all these, then my question is for what reason did you create this thread in the first place. Since you already made up your mind on what you want

Sincerely Frustrated is d least word to describe toxic men portraying themselves as woke men on here

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Bounce. Add values to yourself
Don't be mad at yourself
Work on your lapses
Have a good life

Johnycastro18:
"According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional...."

No man would want to continually date a liability....

If the above statement from him is true,
Then you self, you no try

What his parents can't do for him, she should do for him? He needs parents, not a girl in his life.

She should build his life, for what in return? He has financial issues, but he says she's there for the benefits. What benefits?

If he's such a good guy, why didn't he marry all those supportive ladies? He's a nairaland (m). You can't please him. He's still in the indoctrination camp.

lordnkem000:

Did you ask her if she was toxic? Did you ask her if she was creating issues and so with the man? No man will force a woman away because she didn't give him money, unless she never gave him his respect
That's my point

we can judge this unless we are feed from the both side.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

Let him go, for me caring is having the mind of doing even if you don't have. From all what you are saying is, he doesn't really love you that much hence he sees all your flaws. You should started preparing yourself when all the complain started, I mean you tried swallowing up being compared to an ex husband in bad light. Anyhow just let that be in the past.

lordnkem000:

Madam stop attacking a man who you don't know because what you read here. Why would she try to adjust if he was a bad person to her or if she felt he didn't love her? Is that how u make your conclusions? That girl has issues she's not telling us and you are here picking sides. Her loss is the other girl's gain so let the man breathe. Na she break up and not the man according to her story so it means the man didn't throw her away, she had too many inner thinkings and she decided to act on one of them so how is the man's fault? Myself I try to work hard to keep myself upgraded for my gf so another mothafka don't take her away, she should do same or let the man be

I didn’t mention u , did I? Pls get off my mention…U advised her, I did d same too….U are entitled to ur own opinion so am I…..Don’t mention me abeg

My question is are you the demanding type? If your the type that is always collecting and never supporting then I guess his tired of you...for him to be telling you wat other ladies do for him..but breaking up with him is d best for you..am a guy but according to your story seems the guy needs a sugar mummy and not a girlfriend

amadiama:
My question is are you the demanding type? If your the type that is always collecting and never supporting then I guess his tired of you...for him to be telling you wat other ladies do for him..but breaking up with him is d best for you..am a guy but according to your story seems the guy needs a sugar mummy and not a girlfriend

He should get with a guy who will support him. Men can uplift men and be the head without too many complaints.

sheeda995:

Because they are fools. Are you new to nairaland? Even if you say your boyfriend beats you when sleeping with no offense with pictures and video evidence, nairaland men will say you are the cause and you should be ashamed of yourself. Most of them are frustrated boys,broke and have no life

So apt….Real men don’t make noise, their actions speaks louder….I for one hate clout chasers, I hate noise makers…..Unfortunately, na them full here pass
I pity unlucky ppl that ended up being some ppl’s spouse/partner….Sorry case gidi, may we not be unfortunate