You will be fine darling... Just dust your ass and move on.You will be fine darling... Just dust your ass and move on....

That means the woman don carry u for 9months and she still come deliver u

....

You did the right thing dear..

You can do anything to me but don't compare me with others,we are different people with different character,if I'm not good for you then go away.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

You did the right thing cos you will never win this battle. You will soon meet your man that will love you the way you are and appreciate your little effort. Men like your ex are emotional blackmailer. When he sees another girl that can spend more, he ll move on to her with the same excuse.

Don't allow a nobody to make you feel less important or valuable

lordnkem000:

What are the issues she created that he told her he doesn't like? Is she toxic?

From Her write up here I never read of any where She is toxic though She is only saying Her side of the story but why implying She is toxic since the 1st page? you are gaslighter and a Conclusionist!! See you saying you have a Woman you love Women blah blah

You can't be more than 25 years as You are a frustrated broke misogynist idiot and you are the toxic one here portraying your character on Her which Woman dey date you? This is why I rarely comment on this forum since most Guys here are underaged

If you can't console Her don't add to Her woes since on this forum everything must always be the Woman's fault let Her be!! Se Ori e o buru mo ti Ile?

ultraviolet27:


From Her write up here I never read of any where She is toxic though She is only saying Her side of the story but why implying She is toxic since the 1st page? you are gaslighter and a Conclusionist!! See you saying you have a Woman you love Women blah blah

You can't be more than 25 years as You are a frustrated broke misogynist idiot and you are the toxic one here portraying your character on Her which Woman dey date you? This is why I rarely comment on this forum since most Guys here are underaged

If you can't console Her don't add to Her woes since on this forum everything must always be the Woman's fault let Her be!! Se Ori e o buru mo ti Ile?

U must be mad to come in my mentions are be insulting me, who is 25? U are a big fool and a broke ass prostitute. You are angry because I didn't side with the op for spoiling her man in public abi? It's you who must be the underage smelly cu*t spitting nonsense. I have no issues with women because I'm inlove with one and I'm above 35 so why should I gaslight a small girl of under 24 like the op? Go and read well and you would see I gave her my advice. No relationship is perfect, she loves him and I guess he loves her too so as long as he's not beating her, comparison can be settled, whick is clearly her issues with her man. Is your own relationship perfect? We all make mistakes and she should call her man and fix things. That was my advice

OP

I am a man

But the truth is

You dodged a bullet... He dey find supportive woman and he can't support himself wella...

Ignore the crap most of these gold diggers here who support his behavior are saying...

He will also dump this one who helped him for another more supportive lady and that's how he will continue to dump... Highest bidder gold digger that's what he is


Ekwesuuu

Same here man...this bani offers me nothing, and she's currently going tru her hoe phase and I can't deal with the emotional stress, micro managing and all that. Detached emotionally a long time ago bt she can't just leave me. Bt I'm making the breakfast fully official this month. Don't wanna enter 2024 with her relationship wise, God willing.

Ferrous:
The same "breakfast" I'm preparing for my current girlfriend and it would be on the 31st of December. She doesn't just call to ask how I'm faring, no message from any platform - SMS, WhatsApp, Facebook messenger, she only call or text me when she wants to make a demand. I don't want to cross over to 2024 with a "terrible" liability. She's not helping matters.

AdisaOwala:


Haha

Are you okay?

Yes, I am.

femi4:
You did the right thing cos you will never win this battle. You will soon meet your man that will love you the way you are and appreciate your little effort. Men like your ex are emotional blackmailer. When he sees another girl that can spend more, he ll move on to her with the same excuse.

Don't allow a nobody to make you feel less important or valuable

Thanks

If this story is true you don't know what God has done for you that a blessing in disguise

Op is the definition of a low value female, and the boyfriend in the other hand hasn't climb the pedestal of a high value male, because if he has the op will work hard to attain the same pedestal to keep him, but her lazy ass won't do so, she want everything in a plata of gold, but unfortunately the world doesn't work that way mostly

Anny69:
I don't have an ex, be serious.

let's talk via pm then so I'll explain myself better

Better run ohh, that one is a saugerboy.
Them plenty for lekki. Lol

Broken relationship is better than a broken marriage...

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

my dear six months is long enough no waste your time with any useless nigga all in the name of dating, it's dating not marriage biko!!

I copied this your comment from one of your posts...sis please next time use your head.
You broke your own rules and dated for 9months

Jangolover:


my dear six months is long enough no waste your time with any useless nigga all in the name of dating, it's dating not marriage biko!!

I copied this your comment from one of your posts...sis please next time use your head.
You broke your own rules and dated for 9months

I was given him some benefits of doubts he has this tendency of emotionally blackmailing me.

BscHolder:
let's talk via pm then so I'll explain myself better

Explain yourself on a dead thread, if you can't au revoir.

Prettygirl200:
I was given him some benefits of doubts he has this tendency of emotionally blackmailing me.

Is good you let go.
Cuz he won't stop using those words against you.
Life is too short to allow things like this to bother us. If he thinks he has found the right woman for him then good and fine.
Just live your life and forget about him.

Anny69:
Explain yourself on a dead thread, if you can't au revoir.

bisexual Tonia.
Have you heard from boredberry?

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't don't know if I did the right thing?.

Someone is meeting other girls, chopping them and telling you how the other girls are, and you are still asking if you did the right thing??

HE WHO FINDS A WIFE ,FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINED FAVOUR FROM GOD.
MARRIAGE IS NOT MADE BY HUMAN LOGIC OR EMOTIONS,IT IS MADE BY GOD FAVOURING YOU AS A SEEKER OF GOOD THING.
SO STOP THE FLIMZY WANDERING ABOUT FANTASY AND SEEK GOD TO FAVOUR YOU WITH A WIFE .

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

You have tried
He complains that you don't support him

I am not surprise, he came into the relationship with high hope of support from someone who is also looking for support

Just move on with your life

Someone out there has been willing and ready to have you, wait for him to come

Prettygirl200:
The times i demanded he never gave me alwaga telling me he doesnt have and when i get angry he calls me toxic, he tells me i dont respect him, he tells me that non of his ex ever talked down on him because of money, he starts telling me how all his exes where with him when he had nothing how theu supported him and all, making promsies of things he will do all that for over 9 months, the circle comtinued.

Obviously the guy is looking for who to carry his responsibility. Leaving him was the best for you.he should go look for a sugar mummy or become a transgender He isn't worthy to be a man.. babe you did the right tin..

Tonytonex:
send money. If you know you just want help

who I will send the money you?

BscHolder:
bisexual Tonia.
Have you heard from boredberry?

Ori e o pe. This would be my last response to you on this forum.

It is right for a woman to want a man who can support and cater for her dreams but it is wrong for a man to have such standards. I wasn't surprised at what the feminists said but shocked at how the so-called men destroyed a man based on one sided story. Seeing all these saints commenting has really taught me a lesson, it's why I love Nairaland. This was how online in-laws destroyed yul edochie after hearing a one sided story and just like then, I never bought the bullshits of that woman because I felt the story no clear. I hope the op now accepts one of the good men here sending her pms and dms since they are saints. That her guy is lucky she left. If you can't fix your relationship, but can come online to spoil your man and berate him, then you are as guilty as him. Know this and know peace prettygirl200

Prettygirl200:
He didn't really have to tell me, it was all ovee his doings his statement to me his constant attack, telling me am acting up and prettending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him? Why fighting a lost battle or fighting for what isn't there? I just want my peace of mind I know very well later in the future all of those will be a reminder, it's better he is with whom actually supports him so it will be a reminder of thank you to that person.

Do you still get angry for no reason?

https://www.nairaland.com/7560809/nairalanders-dont-understand-myselfdo-need#120749269

FarmBusinessNG:
Sorry dear. Heal first and don't blame yourself for everything. In relationship failures, both parties make mistakes. Also circumstances may not be right. Give yourself time. Get out, go out. Enjoy even the breeze. Who knows, better maybe ahead

God Bless You.

lordnkem000:

U must be mad to come in my mentions are be insulting me, who is 25? U are a big fool and a broke ass prostitute. You are angry because I didn't side with the op for spoiling her man in public abi? It's you who must be the underage smelly cu*t spitting nonsense. I have no issues with women because I'm inlove with one and I'm above 35 so why should I gaslight a small girl of under 24 like the op? Go and read well and you would see I gave her my advice. No relationship is perfect, she loves him and I guess he loves her too so as long as he's not beating her, comparison can be settled, whick is clearly her issues with her man. Is your own relationship perfect? We all make mistakes and she should call her man and fix things. That was my advice

Oloriibu Omo irankiran!!! See the Juvenile delinquent talking rubbish? which 35 years are you above??late 30 years Man reasoning like an slowpoke!! You Can't even be up to 30 yrs because only underaged Guys insults Women with their Body counts and your Mum must be the LovePeddler you called yourself up there Sha

You hateful frustrated Bloody Proverty stricken misogynist!! You couldn't even mask your hatred for Women behind the unsolicited advice you thought you were dishing Her.

ultraviolet27:


Oloriibu Omo irankiran!!! See the Juvenile delinquent talking rubbish? which 35 years are you above??late 30 years Man reasoning like an slowpoke!! You Can't even be up to 30 yrs because only underaged Guys insults Women with their Body counts and your Mum must be the LovePeddler you called yourself up there Sha

You hateful frustrated Bloody Proverty stricken misogynist!! You couldn't even mask your hatred for Women behind the unsolicited advice you thought you were dishing Her.

I've got no time to exchange words with a LovePeddler, your powers lie here online and your so-called feminism ends online so why should I blame you? Stinking pvssy with bad breath pls check next door

Prettygirl200:
Won't unblocking him be harmful? I just want to forget about him. Unblocking him will make me want to go back or if he messages me I wil want to reply him, according to him when the lady confessed she loves him he told her that he has a girlfriend and the lady to him to leave me that since I couldn't support him that am a leach, u see it has always been like this whenever a lady happens to fall for him they tend to do all of these and the comparison will start whenever he does that I always try to leave because I want his happiness, I don't want him to use it against me in the future.

Unblock him, He will still come around but I pray he won't be too late. The basic point here is that try as much as possible to be helpful to people generally.