Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders,please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank.Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though. So their is this lady banker I like so much.I do go on errands for her.She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do.I love her but I don't know how to tell her.I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect
Please what should I do
Seun,Mynd44,nlfpmod

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

I actually meant you should hustle and have a good source of income first.
I'm far older than you, that's why I'm advising you.
I learnt through experience, it's hard to get a nice girl to date you and remain faithful if you can't take care of her. Channel your energy and attention on standing up yourself first, girls can only weigh you down. Besides you can't keep a girl you can't take care of.
If you are doing well financially you can have any girl you want.

outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth

Please what do you mean by this

outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

is he not a human being? na una type they push youths into crime

I'd advice you shoot your shot, highest you will get a no.

Talking about she casting you, if she's the kind that talks too much you can abort mission

This is what happens when you watch those youtube Nollywood movies like "How A Poor Cleaner Captured D Heart Of Her Banker Boss". Try your luck. Na slap you go chop.

TheFreshVanilla:
This is what happens when you watch those youtube Nollywood movies like "How A Poor Cleaner Captured D Heart Of Her Banker Boss". Try your luck. Na slap you go chop.

Exactly

Op , you no serious at all better chase the bag before the girl ,you no get money you wan go toast banker 🤕

outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

Should he go and thief?

There is always someone who will do the menial jobs, and for now, it is him. His situation can change for the better, and such is life.

Dont shame a hardworking person, its disgusting.

Hahahaha…If you are very handsome or notice the green light, go ahead. If not, don’t approach her. If you do, the rest of your short stay at the bank will become very unbearable. It is certain, you will become the object of ridicule.

Weigh the risk and the reward and make your move. As for me not taking a shot at something I want is a no no no no, I do not give a fùck what the consequence is going to be, I just do it. Till today, I have never regret any of my decisions even though most turned out to be very bad.

You are a Man, make your move.

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders,please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank.Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though. So their is this lady banker I like so much.I do go on errands for her.She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do.I love her but I don't know how to tell her.I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect
Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it.Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time
Please what should I do

Love or lust?

If she ask you to donate your kidney after toasting her, will you? God forbid she has an accident, and will be on wheelchair for the next five years. Will you still love her and push her around?

If not, then you don't love her. You are probably lonely, horney, or both.

This generation have made a caricature of the word ''love'' and ''friend''. We call lust love and call even enemies a friend, just because you guys watched football together.

If you are sure you love her and can give her your kidney, then approach her. I dont know how you will do it, chance are very high that she will reject you, but its about you, not her.

Its about giving her a chance to onboard and become a beneficiary to the beauty of love, of which you are the vessel/carrier. Becuse it is he that has love to give is the one with strength. Givers are the catch, not the receivers.

Its about not dealing with the guilt of not trying, even when the odds are against you, afterall, miracles do happen. She most likely will reject you, but on the flip side, she will know how you feel about her.

And maybe later in the future, can be six months, a year or five, she will remininsce on all the guy that truly loved her, and if you are the one, she may reach out to you. Then you win.

The office may now become so uncomfortable for you after her rejection, but that is the price you have decided to pay if you approach her for a relationship.

Guy, no mind that guy wry dey ask why you be cleaner. Cleaner is a job. If you find out he could be a thief. There is dignity in labour. It is good you want to develop yourself. Office romance is a big risk. Talkless of banker with cleaner. Save your job and free your mind from the love you have for that banker. Crushing or lusting don’t risk your job. You can be sacked. There are millions of young ladies out there you can choose from. Fear bankers especially female bankers. Work hard go school more even if it is to borrow or get sponsor. No ruin your life because of woman.

You can actually show her care and attention without saying anything! Your actions will let her know u like her, it's now left for her to reciprocate. If she does then you shoot your shot if she doesn't then calm down and look for someone in your league. Except maybe she is a contract staff i doubt she would want to date you.

Rule of thumb

Don't shit where you eat. Be focused and stop fooling yourself. D day you utter dat shit called "love" to her then it would be the beginning of your end on dat job. If 4uck dey hungry you, gals full outside your work environment.

Hypocrites and two face people full this forum.
He can't have a relationship with her cause she's a bank and he's a cleaner? But, a male banker can have a relationship with a female cleaner abi.
Try being friends with her, you can also compliment her on so many things.

Just be nice and friendly towards her in particular. Drop hints from time to time. If she digs u she will meet u half way but u sef face ur hustle naaa... all these girls get pride oo and if only u were a cleaner/ errand boy somewhere else she for fit consider but this one too close make she no pour u hot water or start to frustrate u hustle there later

U wan toast d person wey dey send u errand?

U get mind o

What if she no gree?

She go use errand frustrate u

Use ways to secretly collect her number and text her yuur thoughts


If she no gree , find where she lives



If she lives alone, best to break into her house when she's not around and wait for her then you do the needful



Remember to disguise your appearance

Don't think about it.

She would reject you. Nigeria ladies especially ones with career are very hypergamous. You can't blame them tho.

illicit:
U wan toast d person wey dey send u errand?

U get mind o

What if she no gree?

She go use errand frustrate u

This comment got me laughing 😂 😝 😂 😂

Stamina777:
Please what do you mean by this

Try to build yourself first, that's what I mean,

😂 😂 😂 24 yrs old boy, instead of planning to go back to school na to embarrass yourself dey hungry you.

Let me advise you. That lady will not accept you number one, because of class. Her class is higher than yours and she'll be looking for someone with same or higher class not you who's just a school cert holder worse is you're even working in her office as a cleaner and errand boy.if you were working somewhere else, it would have been better.

Lastly, if you still love your job, just abort mission because it might take a bad turn and affect your job.

Please work on going back to school or at least learn a skill. Just develop yourself before talking about relationship.

Focus ahead leave women behind for now.

face front and mind yo biz.Hope you won't go commit SUICIDE wen she tell Ngozi and Ngozi tell Sarah and Sarah carry am knack funmi and funmi gist Bayo/Philip.Banking Hall is the Hqtr of gossip ..Some will use/spend 40 mins to makeup 💄, adjust etc.I'm insider.Mind ya biz

You better face your job

Focus on your life and your goals. This should not be your priority. You dey think of your condition so?

Office Romance ehn. 😏🙂

I Remember when one of my Female Colleagues in my Workplace doz days used to disturb me every Afternoon,
to buy her Banga Rice and Kpomor Sauce.🙂

Later on, she visited me and bought 'Kpomor' for me to chop. 😊😊😎

A stalker and psycho is already in the making here...!

Admiring, liking, even lusting after someone way out of your league is okay, as long as you don't delude yourself into thinking too much about it.

Where you will seriously have problems is when you start fantasizing and obsessing about her... That's where you are about to really put yourself in problems.

Misplaced priorities are a real menace to a lot of young people of today. SMH.

Instead of focusing hard on education and financial growth, you are wasting your late youth and early adulthood with silly daydreaming.

You have your school start?
Then continue your school
At this stage of your life,all you need is self development not poing old kpekus

Dey play

outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

are you normal? What sort of talk is this? So he should kill himself because he works as a cleaner?

Broke men no dey date ..

You better learn from men's mistake and face ur work