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superlanny:
Trusting a Nigerian girl is as good as believing APC will change Nigeria, you are just wasting your time. Its being a while I heard the word virgin, and I can categorically state that being a virgin is totally useless in this times, only a fool and simp will believe all this virgin crap. Nigerian ladies are easy pickings for legit sex romps if you know how to go about.

MY BROTHER IF NOT THAT I AM NOT HAPPY, I WOULD HAVE ASKED ASKED YOU TO DROP YOUR AZA FOR CHRISTMAS TURKEY......

IF YOU DONT MARRY THEM...WAHALA........IF YOU MARRY THEM..... WAHALA RAISED TO POWER 9.

TenQ:
I think I now fully understand your point of view. You have frolicked a lot with loose women because this is your circle and thus, this is the only life you know.

My own circle is unfortunately (different from yours) more civil and less wild.

Most of my circle and people I relate with are not the wild, undisciplined, untrained or loose individuals.


Since we can only speak of what as a norm exists around us,
It would then be safe to say that you are not truely different from these adulterous women as this is your normal expectation : Is this view of mine correct?

I laugh at you in Swahili....

Talking about circles? I wouldn't want to talk much.

Brother, I probably have bigger circle than you, and I have them in different forms. I have circles just like yours; the ones you call trained and civil, and I have the ones you call untrained and loose, and these 'untrained' circle are some of the most wonderful people you will ever come across.

Me, unlike you, don't limit my experiences, my circles, and my reach. I like to explore. I mingle with people from all walks of life and I relate with everyone perfectly. This is why I have a better experience because I can see life from different angles. I am not redundant or stagnant. I am 100% flexible.

Come out of your shell man, dine and wine with the devil and angel and learn from all angles of life. This is important for your personal, financial and even marital life. You can always dodge a bullet before it is shot at you. Nuff said.

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

BUT HOPE YOU HAVE PREPARED YOUR HEART FOR THE EVENTUALITY, BECAUSE YOUR MIND SHOULD BE MADE UP ON HOW TO HANDLE IT IF IT GOES NORTH.............. GOOD LUCK.

Kai you married her as a virgin and after marriage two of you decided not to have babies cuz you wanted her to have education but now you are doubting paternity of the baby....oga last last na depression go solve the issue...

Efna55:
I tried to get counter DNA kit but no online store seems to sell it in Nigeria, pls can you suggest one?

Oga, any DNA test should be carried out by professionals in the hospital. Those kits are not 100% trusted

Everything we buy in life, we always want to test/check if it is okay.

You by a phone, you will always want to check if it's OK before you pay, no matter how much the seller tries to convince you that it's okay.

I don't understand why women are against men trying to check if a child is truly theirs.

Left for me, DNA should be done at the point of birth for two reasons.
1) to confirm paternity or maternity.
2) To avoid switching babies at birth.

Shalom

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Wow

This is a lie from the pit of hell!!!!!!!!!! How do you guys come up with this hasty conclusions that are not only misleading but also very appalling….

How do you put “Virginity till marriage” and “urge to explore” together in our sentence Such a paradox!!! What she didn’t do as a single for several years, na now wey she don marry she go start? That’s some “Discipline”, “Self control” and “decency” mixed together. This is 2023 and chastity is very hard to find!!!!

Let’s start applauding people that chose to stand out by doing the right thing regardless!!!!

saasala:
@TenQ

See this one.

Studies have shown that when women keep themselves as virgin until marriage, after being deflowered they start to long for other d1cks to make up for the years they have been chaste while their friends are riding several priks. They suddenly have this urge to explore and see life from different angles.

Your virgins wife who might have olosho tendencies might only be keeping herself till after marriage because her parent or pastor or wheoever told her its the right thing to do. After marriage, her real colour can show.

Dey play my fans.

PS: My claims are only valid for some virgins, not all.

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Guy

Pussy tightener dey now o


Forget anything virgin

Coder2Client:
What makes you doubt the the baby is yours?

Has she been walking and talking suspicious before she got pregnant?

Give us some hints...

He already gave you those hints in the post.

Finally, someone broke the world Record!!!! Congratulations Bro, you’re doing really well… Continue you hear? Repercussion and consequences dey wait you for front…. As you lay your bed, so will you lie on it….

The effrontery to even share this with world is what irks me the most!!!!

saasala:
See you analyzing a woman like mathematics. If 1+1 = 2, then 2+2 should be = 4. Sadly, they are different from mathematics.

Women cheat for several reasons, and some of the reasons are not even in your list.

And the truth remains that there are women who married as a virgin and still cheat. So why did they do it?

The same way men claim they like varieties, so do some women. Some women also get bored of the same thing and as humans, we love to explore and seek new experiences.

Okay, I have a friend who slept with a married woman whose hubby disvirgined her. And she practically 'toasted' my friend. Her reason: "She felt left behind. She needed to taste another dick. She wanted to explore and see how another man tastes"

Virgins these days have high level of fantasies than the non virgins. They consume more porn than the non virgins and engage in other sexual acts aside penetration. These fantasies, they want to fulfil. It is only a matter of time before some of them (The ones who have olosho tendencies) go out and explore. Abu you don't know that some virgins have olosho tendencies?

I am not a kid in the game of women. I have deflowered three women, slept with four married women (Something I am not proud of and won't do again) and have two friends who have slept with married women who married as virgins.

Most of the ladies who stayed chaste from 16 to 24 as you claimed did so under some obligation, oath, churchy sh1t or whatever thing they believe in and not because they have some real values.

While I was in my early twenties, I was in the choir and was dating my pastor's 19 year old daughter who was a virgin. The only reason she stayed a virgin is because her Dad's biggest wish was to give his daughters hand in marriage as virgins, for his own pride and ego. But this girl will suck my d1ck, I will robb her cl1ts till she gets madly wets, gave me her bobbi to sock and all....And guess what, she still married as a virgin. But I know her too well, she was exposed to a lot of rubbish already and will likely cheat on her hubby to fulfil these fantasies.

There are a lot of ladies like this who are staying till wedding night to have sex just because of the pride, and so they can go around and say "I got married as a virgin" Make their parents proud and all that.....And after wedding, all hell can be let lose.

Bro, my body count is astronomically high, something I am not proud of tho, but thought me a lot of things about women, sex and life generally. I am most likely more experienced than you, so you listen to me. I have fvcked different kinds of women, from different age group, ethnicity, tribe, nationality and all. Married, single, engaged, name it, except olosho. I detest olosho. I have fvcked a woman a day to her wedding cos she needed to do send off for me. Three days after her wedding we continued

Life is not mathematics bro. No dey calculate am like that again.

So again, let me reiterate: Marrying a virgin lady does not guarantee fidelity. Don't lose guard because you married a virgin. They can fvck your wife 6 months after your wedding.

tetula123:
Check around you will see one to do without the mom. I had to ask another one after the first one refused without the mom’s consent.
I see dna like a must, before I got married I always told myself I was going to do dna for my kids it’s not about trust. I just feel it should be a must do. I did tell my wife I would have one after she gave birth in her words na me go waste my money she no get wahala. Later told my wife I did one, her reply was it’s a lie. I no even stress the matter my own is I have done what was on my mind. It’s expensive though

How much was it? Was it in Nigeria you did it?

I HOPE WE WILL NOT WAKE UP ONE DAY TO BE TOLD THAT DNA HAD BEEN A SCAM INTRODUCED TO AFRICANS (NIGERIANS) TO DEVELOP EUROPE'S MEDICAL BUSINESS.

Can you please tell me off these off the corner DNA kits, how can one get it.

linearity:
That is not true, the owner or Associate of that Clinic or Lab are sympathetic to the women getting a blow back as a result of these frauds.

At the most, what you will need is the birth certificate of the child showing you are the father and your ID, some clinics don’t even stress you to that level.

Find another clinic or buy these off the counter DNA kits to do the test.

liamjakes247:
Can you please tell me off these off the corner DNA kits, how can one get it.

This is what I am getting from Google:

https://www.easydnanigeria.com/home-paternity-test/

https://smartdna.com.ng/order-a-test/

https://dnatestnigeria.com/

There are many more, as with any DNA Test, do a confirmation test from another source before making your conclusions. You can also approach a reputable local Chemist store and ask if they have the kit. In the Western world, you can pick them up as you shop for groceries in the stores.

Disclosure:
I am not associated with any of the providers above, only got them through a Google serach.

saasala:
I laugh at you in Swahili....

Talking about circles? I wouldn't want to talk much.

Brother, I probably have bigger circle than you, and I have them in different forms. I have circles just like yours; the ones you call trained and civil, and I have the ones you call untrained and loose, and these 'untrained' circle are some of the most wonderful people you will ever come across.

Me, unlike you, don't limit my experiences, my circles, and my reach. I like to explore. I mingle with people from all walks of life and I relate with everyone perfectly. This is why I have a better experience because I can see life from different angles. I am not redundant or stagnant. I am 100% flexible.

Come out of your shell man, dine and wine with the devil and angel and learn from all angles of life. This is important for your personal, financial and even marital life. You can always dodge a bullet before it is shot at you. Nuff said.

I am not doubting your experiences o
This is probably why I've never eaten maggots with my food: I am choosey with what I eat and where I eat. Hence, it is impossible for me to relate to you eating ALL manner of food from all manner of locations.

You will agree with me that if you flock with people who eat all manner of things from any kind of location, you would encounter strange things (which of course would be your norm) but strange to me.

You invited me to feast with you in the name of freeing my mind. Thank you!
I have never complained of what I eat and where I eat them.
What do you think would happen when a Pig invites a cat to feast.?

I asked you a question before you start judging virgins

Since we can only speak of what as a norm exists around us,
It would then be safe to say that you are not truely different from these adulterous women as this is your normal expectation : Is this view of mine correct?

DeclutterMarsh:
This is a lie from the pit of hell!!!!!!!!!! How do you guys come up with this hasty conclusions that are not only misleading but also very appalling….

How do you put “Virginity till marriage” and “urge to explore” together in our sentence Such a paradox!!! What she didn’t do as a single for several years, na now wey she don marry she go start? That’s some “Discipline”, “Self control” and “decency” mixed together. This is 2023 and chastity is very hard to find!!!!

Let’s start applauding people that chose to stand out by doing the right thing regardless!!!!

Don't mind them.
What do you expect of pigs?
Filth is very normal to them!

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Check for another centre and do it there.

Efna55:
I tried to get counter DNA kit but no online store seems to sell it in Nigeria, pls can you suggest one?

There are organizations against paternity fraud, look for them, and they can lead you to their own partners to run it. Don't let your wife to know about it.

Or

Tell your wife you're trying to raise some money to move she and her baby abroad. But one condition for visa application is marriage certificate, some test and prove that your wife is your wife and the baby is a product of your loins.

Do this and watch her turn in. Women love enjoyment. Show love while trying to get her to do this.

gbaskiboy:
Why don't you confront her about the paternity of the child. For clarity sake man up and both of you should go and do DNA test whatever result that comes you both can determine how you want to seetle it. Instead of letting fear of unknown to ruin your marriage do the needful and allow peace of mind to reign in your life

lol! Sorry but that’s a bad step to take. Once a married woman knows that her husband is trying to find out the paternity of her child, if she is guilty, she can kpai the man to prevent him from knowing the truth. Dem no dey tell person

gbaskiboy:
Why don't you confront her about the paternity of the child. For clarity sake man up and both of you should go and do DNA test whatever result that comes you both can determine how you want to seetle it. Instead of letting fear of unknown to ruin your marriage do the needful and allow peace of mind to reign in your life

Keep quiet simp

DeclutterMarsh:
Finally, someone broke the world Record!!!! Congratulations Bro, you’re doing really well… Continue you hear? Repercussion and consequences dey wait you for front…. As you lay your bed, so will you lie on it….

The effrontery to even share this with world is what irks me the most!!!!

Stop crying jare...

DeclutterMarsh:
Finally, someone broke the world Record!!!! Congratulations Bro, you’re doing really well… Continue you hear? Repercussion and consequences dey wait you for front…. As you lay your bed, so will you lie on it….

The effrontery to even share this with world is what irks me the most!!!!

Will you keep quiet? Oga fuckaroo dey talk and small boy like you dey chuk mouth? Better prostrate and beg for his forgiveness.

@saasala.... Na man you be!!!😛

writeprof:
How much was it? Was it in Nigeria you did it?

yes. Nigeria. 180k or so

which road, so i no fit carry my baby

Edipet:
how did you carry the baby alone on the road, Because in some areas man is not allowed to Carry a New born baby alone, if Police catch you, you go explain tire

tetula123:
Check around you will see one to do without the mom. I had to ask another one after the first one refused without the mom’s consent.
I see dna like a must, before I got married I always told myself I was going to do dna for my kids it’s not about trust. I just feel it should be a must do. I did tell my wife I would have one after she gave birth in her words na me go waste my money she no get wahala. Later told my wife I did one, her reply was it’s a lie. I no even stress the matter my own is I have done what was on my mind. It’s expensive though

In all your doing don't hurt your wife's emotions, especially if she's innocent.

sharap

lonelydora:
What formed your opinion that the baby is not yours?

Stop looking for what is not lost.

sarap

dominique:
I'm not against DNA testing but with the way but with the way people are doing DNA tests at the drop of a hat, I'm getting concerned about the efficacy of tests they're doing. It's looking like every roadside diagnostic lab is now doing "DNA tests". Are you sure these labs are well equiped enough to carry out qualitative tests? Same labs that have not successfully conducted blood genotype tests? My biggest worry is that these labs and hospitals will take advantage of this paternity fraud wave to conduct faux tests and release false results. I really hope people take their time to do due diligence before going to any random lab to conduct something as life changing as paternity test

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

guy go to another enter before with some ladies

She might not be a virgin as you marry her

Some ladies use medicine to tighten der Virgina

Guy go for DNA test ASAP

No carry Olosho keep for house


Where is your location

If one diagnostic centre said so, move to another one. Where you don't you wife to know.

Confirm clearly

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Which rubbish mother's consent?

Biko find a better DNA center.