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Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 2:55pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
oluwaseyi0:Marriage is no cure for loneliness. Go ask the many married who can't even stand the sight of their own family for reasons best known to them. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 2:57pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Ohislee:The good book said that only of Adam. Otherwise, what you insinuate is that Jesus Christ, along with all the other prophets, including His disciples who chose not to marry did that which is evil in the sight of God. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 2:58pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
DrAda:Essential? LOL. . Nigerians ehn! |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 2:59pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
scrupulousblog:God washed His hands off marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16. Your marriage is of this world and not of the Kingdom of God . |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 3:01pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
easzypeaszy:This one dey blame social media for wetin human nature dey responsible for. Lol.. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by franksam209: 3:17pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
It helps fulfill your purpose, old age is no joke, you will need people around you, family, children, grandchildren and a partner, these are the joy of old age else you will be empty, lonely and bitter and end up crying like those YouTube feminist who didn't get married |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Niyi4321: 3:18pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Men feels uneasy and desperate when they need s*x. Women blames their poverty/insecurities on the absence of an able manfriend. In my humble opinion, marriage is more of a compromise than choice for both men and women. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by clearcrystal: 3:18pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
aribisala0: Yes the kids won't be with you forever but what is yours is yours. They remain your kids no matter their age. Don't deceive yourself, we are 'wired' this way. As you grow old, you will keep having this growing urge to have a family. I really need to know your age. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by clearcrystal: 3:20pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
cucumbar: It's not about my circumstance, it's just the way we are 'programmed'. The urge increases as you grow older except you aren't no.rmal. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 3:21pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:Tell that fable of yours to the many men/women out there who died alone even in their old age, this all after marrying and having kids here and there. Many of you too dey like to hide una head for sand like ostrich. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 3:23pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:Una too dey lie! Which urge? The same urge wey so many older folks out there who are single even in their 60s do not have? |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by clearcrystal: 3:28pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Don't use the word many, they are very few. Most of them desire to marry and have a family but events and circumstances never make it happen. For sure some people will not get married till they die which may be by choice or by circumstance beyond their control. Older feminist are regretting their foolish decisions when they were younger. I repeat, the urge/desire to have a family increases when you become older except you aren't no.rmal.It's just the way we are programmed. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by clearcrystal: 3:30pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: How many How many do you know? How many can you count in your immediate environment? |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 3:34pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:So we should feign ignorance of the existence of hundreds of millions of adults mind you who live without ever getting married, all because you would rather believe all are programmed to marry? This programming you speak of, who is it by? Parents or what? Who is responsible for programming everyone you know to marry? |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by clearcrystal: 3:34pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 'Many men/women who died alone after marrying and having kids' From your statement, those you were referring to actually got married and have kids, which means they made an attempt... |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by clearcrystal: 3:35pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Where did you get your statistics from (hundreds of millions) |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 3:36pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:At least 5 in their 40s, why? |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 3:37pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:World census of unmarrieds who are at least 40. In the US, alone, the percentage is about 16% according to fortune magazine. Please answer the question. Who programmed all to marry? |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by aribisala0(m): 3:38pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal: MY age is not important or relevant and do you have to marry to have kids? You are not making sense What exactly is Family? what does that mean? To you it can mean Marrying one woman and having 4 children To another it can mean not marrying anybody and having 18 children You are just talking from assumption Not life experience When you experience life you will know it is not by theory If you marry a woman you have no control over what she will do in future or when she will die How are children YOURS ?? What does that mean ? That they will like you or love you or be your pension plan? Nobody owns anybody . That is an illusion All those people having multimillion Naira Burial ceremony do not assume their children cared for them in their last days You are programmed to make children like all other animals . It is not designed for your benefit . It is just a follow come APP you are running |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 3:43pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:But you meant for us to believe it is some sort of cure for loneliness and a fact of life since you equally claim that it is part of our programming when in fact it comes with no guarantees of any kind. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by aribisala0(m): 3:47pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:That is easy in countries that keep records All marriages and divorces are recorded so you can easily check in many countries Just Google search Marriage Rate by Country That thing inside your head just apply it a bit |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by clearcrystal: 3:48pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The way you make your bed is the way you will sleep in it. If you made a wrong choice of partner you will live to regret it. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by clearcrystal: 3:50pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
aribisala0: They actually gave it a shot but weren't lucky enough. If you made a wrong choice of partner you will live to regret it. Believe me, a lot of people are enjoying their marriage, don't be deceived by what you read on social media. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 3:53pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
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Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Kobojunkie: 3:54pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:So the programming does not offer any guarantees after all -- it is all dependent on choices we make --- , yet you have all along been selling it as something that does? Again, who programmed that shit? |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by aribisala0(m): 3:55pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
clearcrystal:I agree I said so already if you read So what is your point? I think you have a comprehension problem I am not against marriage It is not for everybody As far as making children is concerned that is the design of Nature . It is not for enjoyment Now 100 years ago population of Nigeria was 11 million today we are 200 million I am surer there is a limit to how many of us there can be before we start eating each other Look at what is happening in the World Covid Ukraine , Globa;l warming etc. We are not put here for ourselves . Many bloodlines are wiped out in a single day of war. So that illusion that you will achieve immortality by having children is deception of Nature If Marriage was useful when there were 10 million people on earth when we reach 100 billion it will be less so |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by BALLOSKI: 5:23pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
ChiomaMee:Procreation in a responsible way! |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Uchesis: 7:02pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
MaxInDHouse:what losses are you living with because you didn't marry as a virgin (male)? i'm eager to know |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by MaxInDHouse(m): 7:19pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Uchesis: Apart from what religious books say i spent a lot on STDs, and after spending so much in the process of seeking permanent cure i lost self respect and that of others looking up to me, the lady i love so much her parents objected to our relationship the business deals her father wanted to seal with me was withdrawn i had to go from one herbal cure home to another, after getting the cure permanently the feelings my friends who married as virgins have i continue spending money to restore my own system so as to enjoy it. All because i didn't wait for the right time! |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by kernniejay(m): 7:50pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
ogawisdom:You are either a product of a dysfunctional home or you obviously have a terrible experience about marriage, it is easy to know people like you. |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by easzypeaszy(m): 8:18pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:if wetin comon to humans comon to you.. U fr kw say u need better flogging |
Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by Uchesis: 10:01pm On Dec 30, 2023 |
MaxInDHouse:so according to you, only those who married as virgins are enjoying their marriages. STDs is for non virgins or unmarried couples. You were unlucky bro. Don't generalize |
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