my parent will never tell me who to marry ..they know me say I no go hear/gree...

na Jesus Christ dey handle that dept..

the only one who sees the heart and knows the mind of all...
na the only person wey fit choose wife for me be that...


I thank God for the woman he gave me....I will forever be glad ...thank you Jesus.


see, a lot of people don't knw why they go to school....you are educated and matured so you will be able to make decisions yourself and not somebody else doing that for you esp in an area of marriage.

u don forget say na u go live with her and not ur mum

jubrilELsudan:
YOUR MOM IS REALLY VERY STUPID

INFACT YOUR MAMA NA CONFAM WINTCH PLUS EXPIRED VILLAGE ASHY

YOU AND YOUR MAMA IS MOST STUPID OF DA STUPID

Lol
You be weyrey

She her pics, one man's poison is another man's food. 😁

Just for someone happiness you decided to be unhappy and with marriage at that....
You did something too costly.
Your Mum is alive but you that is supposed to give her Joy is unhappy and she is happy...?
Seriously, the deed is done sha
Na pity l just pity you
You go soon do that thing wey you dey fear to do. Trust me you go soon do am
Because you deserve happiness too.

That she sold this and that to sponsor you to school, is her duty and responsibility, na she born you, you no owe her anything.
If she no do am
Wertin go be, go be
No be to dey use that one
BLACKMAIL YOUUUUUUU
You sef go do for your own children.

Jeon:

This is why I laugh out loud whenever Men said "looks doesn't matter, it's all about character"


Looks matters, if you like call me shallow, IDC.

Looks matter, but purity and character matters the most.
An ugly, clean and modest virgin girl is far better than the most beautiful olosho or girl with numerous BODYCOUNT.

You're not a man till you accept responsibility for everything that happens to you.
Your mum is manipulative, if you had let her know long ago you'd do what's best for you not what she manipulates you to this won't have happened.
It's clear you're indecisive.
Your mum did not deny you happiness, change the title to
"I have made myself miserable and denied myself of happiness "

When you can fully make peace with that statement you'd know what to do without seeking the input of strangers

You should have asked your mum what she sees in her that made her kept forcing you to marry the 'ugly, smelly , black village gurl'.

She smells, buh you dey Bleep her 😹😹

I use to advise guys stop taking advice from women
Be it your mother, sister or babe because they are so manipulative
Sense is always far from women

jubrilELsudan:



THUNDER FIRE YOU WITH YOUR MUST YOU GO THIS FAR?.....HABA!

.....you for get sense, but na impatient kill you

zcee:
I use to advise guys stop taking advice from women
Be it your mother, sister or babe...
Sense is always far from women

so my mother advice, she is a woman a good one. But she always told me never to trust a woman.
In memories of her

Is this a real story? Because if it is, you're a very funny person. Every description of your torture elicits laughter.

I don't believe there's a woman as terrible as this one you've described. It's too much for one person. Funny, wicked man.

You can blend the gal to your taste. quote author=egobetter4me post=127695790]I know a lot of you will blame me after reading this and even want to curse me, but this is my sad story and I just want to put it out there for people to learn. Don't ever let your parents decide your partner for you. Even if you have to run away, do it.

I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her, then we spoke and she came visiting. All these happened in the village.

When I went back to the city, I told my mom I wasn't interested in her any more, but she insisted I must marry her. My mom would always take my joy by telling me about the girl anytime she sees me happy. There was no breathing space. We live together and I pay the rent. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her. She once sold her wrappers/materials and jewelleries, to send me money for school fees.

Anytime she tries to talk to me about the girl, I will beg her and let her understand that young people like to marry who they truly love. I don't want her, I don't love her and I don't think I will ever will.
After all said and done, she still insisted, so I called my elder bro to come talk to her. He came in from another state and spoke with my mom for hours. She did as if she would allow me marry my choice, just for my brother to go. Immediately my brother left, she started again.

My mom has BP. She stopped using her medication and was ailing. she threatened that if she dies, that I killed her. I thought to myself, that if she truly dies, I might live with the regrets for the rest of my life. I really tried but I was defeated. I succumbed. But before marrying the girl, I spoke to her(the girl) that I don't love her and that I'm marrying her against my wish, but I guess she was desperate. She said I shouldn't worry, that the love would grow in the marriage.

We got married. She lives with me and my mom. Even my neighbours were disappointed in me, when they saw her. Church members and friends were all disappointed. I can't start narrating to them how I got here.

We are over a year gone now and she still irritates me. I so much hate to look at her. We've had sex only about 5 times or so and I have to get high to do this. I only kissed her once(at the alter and I cringed)

I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.

I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.

My life is so miserable!

Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.

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Turquoiseee:
Eyaah! Check me out. Do you like what you see?

I see a Prostitute/Seductress!!!

Your story is incomplete if you don't post the picture of that girl that you used all sorts of derogatory names to qualify as if you are the best in every way and stop the attitude of referring to people as village girl, it is absurd and you need to grow up I swear, majority of foods we consumed comes from the village and it is all these villagers that processed all the foods we eat... Stop village racism

Lol lamba

egobetter4me:


I have stopped for sometime now.

Most importantly, loving someone is a choice we make so find yourself a reason to love her. If you can't and don't want to continue with the marriage, please, divorce her. Don't just leave her like that in your house because it's not fair to her.

For the records, you are the selfish one who decided to go ahead to marry her when you knew you wouldn't love her and not your mom.

You're a mummy's boy.. If you travel out your mum will still convince you to bring her over..

I know my responses to your message would seem absurd and you will find it difficult to believe what I am about to say.
Why on earth would your mother choose that kind of lady for her dear son, did you think she doesn't know the lady isn't good enough for you. Why did you think your mother threatened to die if you refuse. Of course she would have died if you eventually did not marry her but it won't be by any ailments.
If you are smart, by now you will know exactly where I am headed to....
A promised had been made by your mother to a sect of powerful people which your mother belong to and refusal to fulfill them will lead to consequences and it would definitely affect you. This is beyond the natural.
You need spiritual liberation.God will set you free

😎

Just Negodu 🙄

Bia Op, don't get me angry 😡

Who told you a City girl is better than a Village girl 🙄

All women are the same, no one is better than the other 💯

All ladies have the same kpekus, give birth the same way 🤔

All Ladies bleed Red 👅 no difference 😏

Explain everything to your wife and let her know you don't love her. A wise vaginarian will pack her bags and leave. Please let her go. She can marry another village man and leave you city man alone. I hate how you described another person's daughter, it's very wrong. A village vaginarian can turn to city vaginarian tomorrow, it's all about life opportunities.

egobetter4me:


Yes, I accept all the blame.

You don't love her but you've slept with her 5 times. Better invest in that lady and watch yourself loving her gradually

egobetter4me:
I know a lot of you will blame me after reading this and even want to curse me, but this is my sad story and I just want to put it out there for people to learn. Don't ever let your parents decide your partner for you. Even if you have to run away, do it.

I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her, then we spoke and she came visiting. All these happened in the village.

When I went back to the city, I told my mom I wasn't interested in her any more, but she insisted I must marry her. My mom would always take my joy by telling me about the girl anytime she sees me happy. There was no breathing space. We live together and I pay the rent. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her. She once sold her wrappers/materials and jewelleries, to send me money for school fees.

Anytime she tries to talk to me about the girl, I will beg her and let her understand that young people like to marry who they truly love. I don't want her, I don't love her and I don't think I will ever will.
After all said and done, she still insisted, so I called my elder bro to come talk to her. He came in from another state and spoke with my mom for hours. She did as if she would allow me marry my choice, just for my brother to go. Immediately my brother left, she started again.

My mom has BP. She stopped using her medication and was ailing. she threatened that if she dies, that I killed her. I thought to myself, that if she truly dies, I might live with the regrets for the rest of my life. I really tried but I was defeated. I succumbed. But before marrying the girl, I spoke to her(the girl) that I don't love her and that I'm marrying her against my wish, but I guess she was desperate. She said I shouldn't worry, that the love would grow in the marriage.

We got married. She lives with me and my mom. Even my neighbours were disappointed in me, when they saw her. Church members and friends were all disappointed. I can't start narrating to them how I got here.

We are over a year gone now and she still irritates me. I so much hate to look at her. We've had sex only about 5 times or so and I have to get high to do this. I only kissed her once(at the alter and I cringed)

I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.

I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.

My life is so miserable!

Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.

We in the city are already tired of these Jezebels without wombs... Yet another man is thinking of marrying them⚠️

This world is indeed a weird place to live in🥶🥶

Oga the partner you have just described are all illusions, i can guarantee you that they're no decent lady in the city!!!

What we have are hungry girls selling their bodies in the name of relationships, hookup and besties. Even married women sleep outside like dogs hoping to pin the pregnancy on their simp husbands.

Well back to your topic, NOBODY is entirely ugly. It's just that you have made up your mind that she's up to no good♂️

I will advise you to polish that girl up my brother and you will see the beauty in her!!!

Take Tu Face for example🙄

egobetter4me:


I have stopped for sometime now.

So you be dey fvck the short ugly black girl? Your beans don done na. You for nor ever sex the girl if I were you if she like make she naked my preeq not go stand for her and I nor go ever sleep in the room or bed with her. Na she go use her leg run. You for nor even marry her sef. You dull yourself big time

Goalnaldo:
taaa, that's not you.

I won’t waste my time arguing with you. Do all those pretty girls out there have two heads? So you mean I can’t be beautiful and appealing in peace again? Or do you want to tell me nairaland is devoid of beautiful girls? It’s certain you feel honored to have my kind on this forum

egobetter4me:
I know a lot of you will blame me after reading this and even want to curse me, but this is my sad story and I just want to put it out there for people to learn. Don't ever let your parents decide your partner for you. Even if you have to run away, do it.

I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her, then we spoke and she came visiting. All these happened in the village.

When I went back to the city, I told my mom I wasn't interested in her any more, but she insisted I must marry her. My mom would always take my joy by telling me about the girl anytime she sees me happy. There was no breathing space. We live together and I pay the rent. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her. She once sold her wrappers/materials and jewelleries, to send me money for school fees.

Anytime she tries to talk to me about the girl, I will beg her and let her understand that young people like to marry who they truly love. I don't want her, I don't love her and I don't think I will ever will.
After all said and done, she still insisted, so I called my elder bro to come talk to her. He came in from another state and spoke with my mom for hours. She did as if she would allow me marry my choice, just for my brother to go. Immediately my brother left, she started again.

My mom has BP. She stopped using her medication and was ailing. she threatened that if she dies, that I killed her. I thought to myself, that if she truly dies, I might live with the regrets for the rest of my life. I really tried but I was defeated. I succumbed. But before marrying the girl, I spoke to her(the girl) that I don't love her and that I'm marrying her against my wish, but I guess she was desperate. She said I shouldn't worry, that the love would grow in the marriage.

We got married. She lives with me and my mom. Even my neighbours were disappointed in me, when they saw her. Church members and friends were all disappointed. I can't start narrating to them how I got here.

We are over a year gone now and she still irritates me. I so much hate to look at her. We've had sex only about 5 times or so and I have to get high to do this. I only kissed her once(at the alter and I cringed)

I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.

I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.

My life is so miserable!

Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.

SOLUTION

Before I advice you, does your lovely wedded wife have big nyash ??.....

You did the right thing, for the love of your mom, the only thing u did not do right is not pimping her to your taste, women don't have sense it is men that give them sense and shape them in their own image, since she is timid it is easier and she has been waiting for you to do this.....

For the kissing issue, take her to a dentist and Whitten her teeth, kissing issue gone.....just you doing this alone you will see change in her.....

Attractiveness, make her change her hair every week, three way puff puff parting, ponytail, all back are the cheap and sexiest including dying of her hair, more; get her attachments for fringes, fowl nyash etc so she looks too pleasing even all those niggas forming disappointment in you go wan knack her......

Get her tight sexy gowns to wear at home so when she bends down in the kitchen or anytime you see her panties......for going out madam trendy gowns, sneakers, jeans trousers........the most important are new sexy pants, make sure she wears two pants a day changing it each time she baths twice a day.......a woman is her pant......

For the issue of love, you only love what you fvck with everytime, change and up your fvcking game have sex with her fvck her at least once every day even if it is quickie.....

How? form the habit of her sitting on your lap even when you guys go out and use public transport let her sit on your lap feel her ass on your dick you can play with her breasts.....

At home when you make her sit on your lap, when you are sitting on the bed or couch with your legs facing forward let her sit both asses on your left leg with her right leg on the bed the other on the floor then you fvck her in this position, you can also raise that her right leg around your neck and the fucking continues.....

While she sitting on your laps with your legs facing forward and hers facing forward with all her ass on your dick raise her legs to be on your knee respectively put her right hand around your neck slot it in and tell her to go up and down......also while she is sitting on your lap with all her ass on your thing raise her two legs apart with your legs still in the middle and hers apart ontop yours and fvck her ...... Tell her to lie down flat facing the bed you lie down ontop her completely and fvck her till you cum women fall in love from this position, standing missionary whisper in her ear say hmmm, hmmm look into her eyes possibly put her forehead on yours Bleep her straight tilt to the right or left and f her too, genoflect and fvck her while she is kneeling down with her legs apart from the front and back, wheelbarrow position that is placing one o r two of her legs on your shoulder with her back on the bed and fvck her senseless alternating those sweet legs in between the action, have her ride you too both on bed and chair.....

While she is watching TV tell her to stand up with you standing with your back facing the chair let her face you raise her left or right leg and put it on the chair at the same time slot it in and f her ,also let her f you while smacking her ass in the same standing position with one of her legs on the chair facing you, have her put her hand on her knees and squat a little and f her from the back, f her from the back many times and always rub and squeeze her ass during sex....early in the morning when she greets you always squeeze and rub her ass also when u come back from work......

Don't let anybody tell you u did wrong we all do alot for love you did the greatest for your mum and it is something to be proud of......

Just make your wife your woman.....

Apply the above for two months and see changes.....

The catch; don't drink and f her, instead bring the drink home let both of you drink and f when both are tipsy......

If it doesn't work call me out for being fake on naira land.....

The best things in life are free....

egobetter4me:
I know a lot of you will blame me after reading this and even want to curse me, but this is my sad story and I just want to put it out there for people to learn. Don't ever let your parents decide your partner for you. Even if you have to run away, do it.

I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her, then we spoke and she came visiting. All these happened in the village.

When I went back to the city, I told my mom I wasn't interested in her any more, but she insisted I must marry her. My mom would always take my joy by telling me about the girl anytime she sees me happy. There was no breathing space. We live together and I pay the rent. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her. She once sold her wrappers/materials and jewelleries, to send me money for school fees.

Anytime she tries to talk to me about the girl, I will beg her and let her understand that young people like to marry who they truly love. I don't want her, I don't love her and I don't think I will ever will.
After all said and done, she still insisted, so I called my elder bro to come talk to her. He came in from another state and spoke with my mom for hours. She did as if she would allow me marry my choice, just for my brother to go. Immediately my brother left, she started again.

My mom has BP. She stopped using her medication and was ailing. she threatened that if she dies, that I killed her. I thought to myself, that if she truly dies, I might live with the regrets for the rest of my life. I really tried but I was defeated. I succumbed. But before marrying the girl, I spoke to her(the girl) that I don't love her and that I'm marrying her against my wish, but I guess she was desperate. She said I shouldn't worry, that the love would grow in the marriage.

We got married. She lives with me and my mom. Even my neighbours were disappointed in me, when they saw her. Church members and friends were all disappointed. I can't start narrating to them how I got here.

We are over a year gone now and she still irritates me. I so much hate to look at her. We've had sex only about 5 times or so and I have to get high to do this. I only kissed her once(at the alter and I cringed)

I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.

I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.

My life is so miserable!

Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.

First off, your mother is manipulative and you should move her out of your house. Secondly, it's not late to get out of thr marriage. It is not a do or die affair.

De way u usef derogatory words bashing her nd all that is not okay ,ur mom knows wat is good fr u,most city gals no get joy nd hope u c rate of divorce here nd here

Turquoiseee:

I won’t waste my time arguing with you. Do all those pretty girls out there have two heads? So you mean I can’t be beautiful and appealing in peace again? Or do you want to tell me nairaland is devoid of beautiful girls? It’s certain you feel honored to have my kind on this forum

Going by your dp...Are you a Harlot

Chispa:
kill her.

Cai!!!