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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Thoughty2(m): 7:10pm On Dec 30, 2023
Brush her up if you see potentials in her. It is unfair to marry someone you know you don't love. It is even worse if you remind her of the hatred you have for her everyday of her life.

That girl could be the best thing yet to happen to you if you take your time to see the positives about her.

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by kernniejay(m): 7:11pm On Dec 30, 2023
Turquoiseee:
Eyaah! Check me out. Do you like what you see?
What I see is a beautiful lady carrying one big unnecessary load behind her.
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Badmashii(m): 7:12pm On Dec 30, 2023
Juliearth:
You should have used the study route to emancipate yourself from this dilemma from the get go. Exploring that option now may liberate you, but then again, your innocent wife would end up heartbroken. Time fixes all things, so I would implore you to give it a year. No woman is ugly, you can bring her fashionably up to speed

Stop deceiving yourself. Many women are ugly as f*uk.

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Renman: 7:13pm On Dec 30, 2023
kernniejay:

What I see is a beautiful lady carrying one big unnecessary load behind her.
Looking for customers like you with an enhanced behind!!!
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Turquoiseee: 7:13pm On Dec 30, 2023
Renman:
Going by your dp...Are you a Harlot
. Going by your comment are you a PSYCHO? Does my picture expose sensitive parts of my body? Last time I checked, I’m well covered
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by spiSeyi: 7:14pm On Dec 30, 2023
GeneralOjukwu:
Laughed a bit reading this 🤣

I believe a lot of you come here to catch cruise.

Your mum cares less about your happiness. That's selfish to me.

I trust myself. I put myself first. Don't give a ratass about how it makes anyone else feels.

Who would endure the unhappy marriage now for you ?

I encourage you to eat her smelly pussy.... this will force you to make her improve her personal hygiene grin
Badt guy grin grin grin grin
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 7:15pm On Dec 30, 2023
tochez24:



We in the city are already tired of these Jezebels without wombs... Yet another man is thinking of marrying them⚠️

This world is indeed a weird place to live in🥶🥶

Oga the partner you have just described are all illusions, i can guarantee you that they're no decent lady in the city!!!

What we have are hungry girls selling their bodies in the name of relationships, hookup and besties. Even married women sleep outside like dogs hoping to pin the pregnancy on their simp husbands.

Well back to your topic, NOBODY is entirely ugly. It's just that you have made up your mind that she's up to no good♂️

I will advise you to polish that girl up my brother and you will see the beauty in her!!!

Take Tu Face for example🙄
What if the girl is Scar faced? With scary scars. And walks with a limp?
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by BananaPeel(m): 7:16pm On Dec 30, 2023
egobetter4me:
I know a lot of you will blame me after reading this and even want to curse me, but this is my sad story and I just want to put it out there for people to learn. Don't ever let your parents decide your partner for you. Even if you have to run away, do it.

I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her, then we spoke and she came visiting. All these happened in the village.

When I went back to the city, I told my mom I wasn't interested in her any more, but she insisted I must marry her. My mom would always take my joy by telling me about the girl anytime she sees me happy. There was no breathing space. We live together and I pay the rent. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her. She once sold her wrappers/materials and jewelleries, to send me money for school fees.

Anytime she tries to talk to me about the girl, I will beg her and let her understand that young people like to marry who they truly love. I don't want her, I don't love her and I don't think I will ever will.
After all said and done, she still insisted, so I called my elder bro to come talk to her. He came in from another state and spoke with my mom for hours. She did as if she would allow me marry my choice, just for my brother to go. Immediately my brother left, she started again.

My mom has BP. She stopped using her medication and was ailing. she threatened that if she dies, that I killed her. I thought to myself, that if she truly dies, I might live with the regrets for the rest of my life. I really tried but I was defeated. I succumbed. But before marrying the girl, I spoke to her(the girl) that I don't love her and that I'm marrying her against my wish, but I guess she was desperate. She said I shouldn't worry, that the love would grow in the marriage.

We got married. She lives with me and my mom. Even my neighbours were disappointed in me, when they saw her. Church members and friends were all disappointed. I can't start narrating to them how I got here.

We are over a year gone now and she still irritates me. I so much hate to look at her. We've had sex only about 5 times or so and I have to get high to do this. I only kissed her once(at the alter and I cringed)

I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.

I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.

My life is so miserable!

Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.


Small pikin talk. Make I bend if I go marry her whether she stopped taking her drugs.
When she's tired, she resume taking the drugs.

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by kernniejay(m): 7:16pm On Dec 30, 2023
Renman:
Looking for customers like you with an enhanced behind!!!
Then she has missed the road, not here.

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by 22just: 7:17pm On Dec 30, 2023
Turquoiseee:
. Going by your comment are you a PSYCHO? Does my picture expose sensitive parts of my body? Last time I checked, I’m well covered

What's the fuss about? Everybody knows that pic right there ain't you

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Turquoiseee: 7:17pm On Dec 30, 2023
kernniejay:

What I see is a beautiful lady carrying one big unnecessary load behind her.
As if you will not cry 😭 like the day you were born if given an opportunity 🤣
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Renman: 7:17pm On Dec 30, 2023
Turquoiseee:
. Going by your comment are you a PSYCHO? Does my picture expose sensitive parts of my body? Last time I checked, I’m well covered
You enhanced your behind and still wore a tight short wear that shaped it out and you are still asking if your picture expose sensitive parts of your body So what was your intention of enhancing your buttock, wearing a tight short skirt to shape out your buttock and snapping it and post for people to see if you are not a Prostitute/Seductress
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by iyke2frankeze: 7:18pm On Dec 30, 2023
The fact that you hate someone so much to the point of irritation because of how God created her means that you mentally sick. When did physical appearance become enough reason to hate someone? What did she do to irritate you so much? It is better to marry someone who love you more than marry a woman that you love more than she loves you.
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by lekonso: 7:20pm On Dec 30, 2023
You did not say anything about her character which is the most important thing, only the physical attributes. So you want to marry physical attributes and not character, that is not wise. Does she give you peace, does she obey you and respect you, you didn't mention anything of such. If those ones are there, buy her fine clothes to wear, nice smelling perfume and take care of her, see it as your own contribution of helping God to beautify His creation and see whether God will not bless you back in return.
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by RonuRonu: 7:20pm On Dec 30, 2023
Op, what do you mean by City girl
So any mugu that travels to lagos is now a city girl
Remember, those girls you refer as city girls were once living in the village before they travel out.

Where do they even travel Is it not Yorubaland The last time i checked, Lagos is a Yoruba State. So any lady that travels to yoruba land is now city girl embarassed

To Slap Op dey hungry me embarassed

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by nedekid: 7:23pm On Dec 30, 2023
Picture of madam or idontbelieveit.. shocked
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Chasito(m): 7:24pm On Dec 30, 2023
This your story be like patience ozokwor, nollywood movie 😂😂

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by IamPlato(m): 7:25pm On Dec 30, 2023
egobetter4me:


My write up isn't funny. It is my true life story. You're welcomed to mock me though!
you are a fool bro...

Even if you had found a girl you loved you would still lose her because once your mother says jump, you will say how high.

Shame on you for failing masculinity.

Better divorce whatever you married and go live your happy life.


You just sound like a child I swear. God forbid men like you

If you like continue to weep.
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by kinokano(m): 7:26pm On Dec 30, 2023
RonuThings:
😎

Just Negodu 🙄

Bia Op, don't get me angry 😡

Who told you a City girl is better than a Village girl 🙄

All women are the same, no one is better than the other 💯

All ladies have the same kpekus, give birth the same way 🤔

All Ladies bleed Red 👅 no difference 😏
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Hungerbadoo: 7:29pm On Dec 30, 2023
lovewinner:
Sometimes is good to marry the classic we claim to love someday but she might bring us pains if they is no proper understanding.The mistake had been done.you need the way out.What you admired in other ladies do it for your wife.You can train her,invest in her as well as bring the beauty in her because she is now your wife and it doesn't change even if you live the county. sit her down and look into the good things you can put together to make her meet your taste.Take her out for shopping,playing.Get her classic movies and tell her you appreciate if she look like this for you.Get her cream,cloths and nice shoes.Dress her hair and change her taste. Tell her you love to love her.she will improve and before you notice she will give you a nice look.
Bless u
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by grandstar(m): 7:29pm On Dec 30, 2023
egobetter4me

It is a pity I can not give you an advice that is unscriptural. I would have said japa and forget her.

I would advise you to not to have a child with her. There's this operation men do so as not to have children. Perhaps go for one. You can store your sperm in a sperm bank. She might think you are sterile.

If she desperately wants a child and is pushed to the wall, she might go outside secretly. That could be grounds for divorce and for you to remarry. Pay her off with a tidy sum. She is someone's daughter.

The fault is really your mother's. This antiquated custom was common in the 70s and 80s but now quite rare

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by maasoap(m): 7:30pm On Dec 30, 2023
lovewinner:
Sometimes is good to marry the classic we claim to love someday but she might bring us pains if they is no proper understanding.The mistake had been done.you need the way out.What you admired in other ladies do it for your wife.You can train her,invest in her as well as bring the beauty in her because she is now your wife and it doesn't change even if you live the county. sit her down and look into the good things you can put together to make her meet your taste.Take her out for shopping,playing.Get her classic movies and tell her you appreciate if she look like this for you.Get her cream,cloths and nice shoes.Dress her hair and change her taste. Tell her you love to love her.she will improve and before you notice she will give you a nice look.

If you don't love someone, you don't love her or him. He didn't find the girl himself, he didn't like or love her at first sight, so nothing can change that.
If you find classic yourself and she later causes you pains, you know that it is yourself you will blame and not your parents
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by tochez24(m): 7:31pm On Dec 30, 2023
VeeVeeMyLuv:

What if the girl is Scar faced? With scary scars. And walks with a limp?

Well OP never made mention of any scars or deformity, he just Said she's ugly and short⚠️⚠️

For me i don't care how a girl looks now.... If i can find a well trained virgin girl in this lost generation, that is loyal and respectful and can raise my children up properly. i don't mind polishing her to my taste and build life with her♂️

All my life i have been with many beautiful girls and still nothing come out.... These girls are DANGEROUS🥺

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Princelumide: 7:32pm On Dec 30, 2023
How I wish I can see the picture of the both of you... Cos with that, I will be able to give you my own coin of advise... wink wink
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by InvertedHammer: 7:36pm On Dec 30, 2023
egobetter4me:


I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her...



/
Can we just let 2023 pass?

It is too late in the year to laugh grin grin

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by DDIA: 7:36pm On Dec 30, 2023
Jeon:
Is she not loyal?
Is she not a village girl?
Remember you men always advice yourselves to wife a village girls. They are more wife material than city girls.



If so the Op wouldn't be here crying.


Mothers know the best
What is your excuse? Or is it because you have never lived in a city? grin
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by laivwire(m): 7:39pm On Dec 30, 2023
@egobetterforme is the lady in question hardworking and compliant?

If you find no other fault in her other than her beauty or lack of it, then you should adopt a positive mindset. Is there any reason why your mother wants you to marry the girl, she must have said something. Sometimes it's best not to fiddle with destiny, you never know if the girl is there to bring you good luck, security or peace of mind.

You can touch her up, send her to school, get her beautiful clothes and social etiquette.
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by kernniejay(m): 7:41pm On Dec 30, 2023
Turquoiseee:

As if you will not cry 😭 like the day you were born if given an opportunity 🤣
tufia kwa. cry that how did I descend so low to be offered this kind of luggage? but wait, what opportunity?
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by Boomboost(m): 7:42pm On Dec 30, 2023
egobetter4me:
I know a lot of you will blame me after reading this and even want to curse me, but this is my sad story and I just want to put it out there for people to learn. Don't ever let your parents decide your partner for you. Even if you have to run away, do it.

I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her, then we spoke and she came visiting. All these happened in the village.

When I went back to the city, I told my mom I wasn't interested in her any more, but she insisted I must marry her. My mom would always take my joy by telling me about the girl anytime she sees me happy. There was no breathing space. We live together and I pay the rent. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her. She once sold her wrappers/materials and jewelleries, to send me money for school fees.

Anytime she tries to talk to me about the girl, I will beg her and let her understand that young people like to marry who they truly love. I don't want her, I don't love her and I don't think I will ever will.
After all said and done, she still insisted, so I called my elder bro to come talk to her. He came in from another state and spoke with my mom for hours. She did as if she would allow me marry my choice, just for my brother to go. Immediately my brother left, she started again.

My mom has BP. She stopped using her medication and was ailing. she threatened that if she dies, that I killed her. I thought to myself, that if she truly dies, I might live with the regrets for the rest of my life. I really tried but I was defeated. I succumbed. But before marrying the girl, I spoke to her(the girl) that I don't love her and that I'm marrying her against my wish, but I guess she was desperate. She said I shouldn't worry, that the love would grow in the marriage.

We got married. She lives with me and my mom. Even my neighbours were disappointed in me, when they saw her. Church members and friends were all disappointed. I can't start narrating to them how I got here.

We are over a year gone now and she still irritates me. I so much hate to look at her. We've had sex only about 5 times or so and I have to get high to do this. I only kissed her once(at the alter and I cringed)

I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.

I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.

My life is so miserable!

Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.


Boss, make NO WOMAN decide what's best for you forever and ever.
Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by elevated2: 7:44pm On Dec 30, 2023
As usual the writer will be blamed by people who have never been in such a position.
Dear poster, see how you can pick up your life again. Don't give up yourself. Cheers

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Re: My Mom Has Made Me Miserable! She Denied Me Happiness by aimmoney9: 7:46pm On Dec 30, 2023
RonuThings:
😎

Just Negodu 🙄

Bia Op, don't get me angry 😡

Who told you a City girl is better than a Village girl 🙄

All women are the same, no one is better than the other 💯

All ladies have the same kpekus, give birth the same way 🤔

All Ladies bleed Red 👅 no difference 😏
All women don't have the same pussy point of correction, there are fat and slim pussy, saggy, deep and non deep pussy...... grin grin grin grin grin

The mileage also matters..... grin grin grin grin grin

Also some come with small clit and others big clit..... grin grin grin grin grin

They are never the same...... grin grin grin grin

You have not heard of the saying two pussies are not equal..... grin grin grin grin

Some carry grace while some carry doom....... grin grin grin grin

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