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Gadafii:
Help a woman when she needs help, she will only remember you when next she needs help again

You can give a man 1k and he go hail you like say help am secure visa, women are not that appreciative, they can even insult you on top “no be your mate dey dash girls 200k?”

That’s why I don’t have any financial dealing/relationship with anyhow girls, girls I have sent money to without expecting anything in return are girls that have shown me how valuable they are

If girl message me she needs urgent money, it’s because I give her that space, because I have benefited from her before, not necessarily by sexx. Otherwise if you need urgent 2k from me I will need urgent doggy from you as well, I no Dey shame for that one

When dealing with the shameless,one has to be shameless.

Haylel:
Kinda looked here and there and i've come to a conclusion not to help anybody, man or woman.
Charity? NO!
Pious giving? NO!
Help anyone? NO!
Let's be honest, most of the time, the helper gains nothing.

People have always took advantage of the fact that I'm kind and easily give that i decided to change and be less concerned and care less bout people until a day my kind gesture opened a door to an astronomical increase in my finances.

Be kind but always use ur head is my advice for you ensuring you make the asker knows you're doing out of sacrifice not out of abundance

Gadafii:
Help a woman when she needs help, she will only remember you when next she needs help again

You can give a man 1k and he go hail you like say help am secure visa, women are not that appreciative, they can even insult you on top “no be your mate dey dash girls 200k?”

That’s why I don’t have any financial dealing/relationship with anyhow girls, girls I have sent money to without expecting anything in return are girls that have shown me how valuable they are

If girl message me she needs urgent money, it’s because I give her that space, because I have benefited from her before, not necessarily by sexx. Otherwise if you need urgent 2k from me I will need urgent doggy from you as well, I no Dey shame for that one

This stark PDP man, you're here

It took a couple of harsh experiences for me to learn this. I was a goody two-shoes before, always willing to offer help to anyone I believed needed it.

After a particular public embarrassment from a girl last year, I realized I had to stop. Helping people is great, but then, limit it.

tyup:
People have always took advantage of the fact that I'm kind and easily give that i decided to change and be less concerned and care less bout people until a day my kind gesture opened a door to an astronomical increase in my finances.

Be kind but always use ur head is my advice for you ensuring you make the asker knows you're doing out of sacrifice not out of abundance

@JustPowerApps
There's a book called No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. I think you'll find it valuable. You can get the pdf version online.

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

Men or women doesn’t matter, nobody likes to be the Receiver, but it’s better to be the Giver.

Help a man and you are indirectly helping a multitude and he'll always appreciate you. If a man and a woman needs my help, I won't even think twice to help that man. Before I go help woman then there are no more men in sight that needed that help.

Dizzyyish:
@JustPowerApps
There's a book called No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. I think you'll find it valuable. You can get the pdf version online.

Thanks my man, I will get it⚡

I'd rather help my fellow man even if he doesn't tell me thank you.. women don't appreciate help, they have short memory. Just a very select few are worth it

I rather help my fellow guy than to help a lady who sees you as a fool for helping her.

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

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Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

I can relate with this

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

You don't have to do the redpill but what most men don't know is that the knowledge helps.

Having knowledge of Redpills will help you in various aspects even if you don't use it.

Gadafii:
I will disagree with you slightly on your submission

I carefully select my girls, the type that are valuable and can take care of their basic needs
My girl for example has spent more on me that I have, she gifts more and some times I collect money from her to fix stuff and later send to her, with interest

I don’t have problem helping my girl, because of value we have added to each other, but you see all these entitled ones, Dem no fit see my five naira

Continue that practice make her invest in the relationship very well, the other thing that can make a woman stay very long in a relationship is if she have really committed a lot of things and invest.

Proserpina:
This is coming from a man who wants to get rid of misogynists and bring women/ladies back to his forum.


Interesting.

So he isnt supposed to have and air his opinion on this

U people are worst...Live and Let Live no dey una dictionary

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

some women appreciate you by showing respect instead of gratitude, maybe thats the difference.

Nothing but the truth ....💯

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

💯 right.

I need an android phone to learn copywriting and other digital skills.
Nobody has help me since but, if i were a lady, i would have been gifted an Iphone.


Men don't help themselves, crazy world!

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

Not true,most ex has been fixing there guys on big jobs nd contract especially if una breakup amicable,all niggaz I helped bro,all be baller no one send me,one was even begging me soup,detergent, toothpaste,as nigga pick big fund as in big money for street,abobi looseguide me ooh change cartel,I lock up shaa,so wetin u fit talk on this one

emperor4love:
Not true,most ex has been fixing there guys on big jobs nd contract especially if una breakup amicable,all niggaz I helped bro,all be baller no one send me,one was even begging me soup,detergent, toothpaste,as nigga pick big fund as in big money for street,abobi looseguide me ooh change cartel,I lock up shaa,so wetin u fit talk on this one

we're not the same in this world

Summary

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short while. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal.

Only help if you know she worth it. Else, your efforts will be in vain if you were actually doing all in expectation of something in return.

Proserpina:
This is coming from a man who wants to get rid of misogynists and bring women/ladies back to his forum.


Interesting.

The precise thought I had. This our nairaland oga is not serious.

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

So right...

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

Seun
Seun
Seun

Oya show me love wether I'll not be forever grateful to you.

Seun ooooo . Make I drop aza?

Front page material. Oga in the house don post.

Animegirl:
Is not about helping a woman, you men still want something more under her legs. You always feel entitled to her body, marriage, even her time, is only few good men that don't ask anything in return.

As a lady I always go back to appreciate, is not even a gender thing. But anytime I go back to appreciate is when can we see

Learn to read well first... He didn't say u won't appreciate but it's like subscription.. You guys forget easily...

Same happened to me, although I don't regret helping those ladies just that I cut communications with her..

I didn't even want sex, It was genuine but she showed me shege

I jejely delete her number and put her in her space.. Although there are sumtyms she approached me for help and I still give her but jsut that I can't make big sacrifice for her again...

Ladies don't know what appreciation is unlike men

StrongAlphMale:
Exactly my point 💯

This is exactly what redpillers have been preaching on nairaland for ages, but SIMPS just like the SIMPLETON above won't listen.

A woman's love for you is conditional, she only loves you because of the gifts and money she's getting from you. The moment you stop giving her gifts and money, her love for you reduces and fades away, there she goes looking for another Scape goat to manipulate and cash out from.

Helping a woman, esp a gf is like throwing your money away. Once you stops giving, she forgets everything you have done for her in the time past, she'll even ask you "what exactly did you do for her" 😂 This is exactly why I have no pity for SIMPS who literally jump up at any given opportunity to please and impress a woman into loving them

Na Seun you dey call simp? Wetin you dey fear? Talk am with your full chest na 😅

It's good to help people irrespective of the gender,but men will appreciate more than women do and some woman can even insult you even if you helped her before.

Haylel:
Kinda looked here and there and i've come to a conclusion not to help anybody, man or woman.
Charity? NO!
Pious giving? NO!
Help anyone? NO!
Let's be honest, most of the time, the helper gains nothing.

Na only you talk facts. Man, woman. All are the same. Man wey you go dash money today, tomorrow he go expect you to dash am again. You no give am, then you become enemy number one. All of them are the same. Broke people are very wicked and ungrateful

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Animegirl:
Is not about helping a woman, you men still want something more under her legs. You always feel entitled to her body, marriage, even her time, is only few good men that don't ask anything in return.

As a lady I always go back to appreciate, is not even a gender thing. But anytime I go back to appreciate is when can we see

Wetin dey under woman leg? Toto? Na under your leg your toto dey