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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Iamblessed85: 5:26pm On Jan 05

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. ;DA week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

You thought the people that push the redpill teachings don’t have time abi 😂😂. If you were part of that thread, you would have been sufficiently armed to go through what you’re dealing with right now.

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by DenreleDave(m): 5:36pm On Jan 05

Jewessgratitud3:

Really? .

How are you?

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Jewessgratitud3: 5:37pm On Jan 05

DenreleDave:

How are you?

I'm good.

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by bukatyne(f): 5:54pm On Jan 05

Tranquility2345:

Na only you spit facts. Man, woman. All are the same. Man wey you go dash money today, tomorrow he go expect you to dash am again. You no give am, then you become enemy number one. All of them are the same. Broke people are very wicked and ungrateful

Na woman show Seun shege; Na broke person show you shege...... grin

Every mallam with im kettle cheesy

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by bukatyne(f): 5:57pm On Jan 05

maestro299:
Oga Seun, wetin happen?

His post script has told you the problem na.

Oga Seun would be alright cheesy

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by cococandy(f): 6:40pm On Jan 05

Proserpina:
This is coming from a man who wants to get rid of misogynists and bring women/ladies back to his forum.

Interesting.

Seems like desperation is getting the better of him.

His number patrons on this forum are men who hate women and their pick mes. Now that it seems his forum is lagging, he might want to dance in the street for them so they can come back to sleep on the forum as they usually do

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Odunharry(m): 6:56pm On Jan 05

let the argument begin.. Lmao

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by benqo01(m): 7:18pm On Jan 05

Seun you are speaking facts

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by kkins25(m): 7:24pm On Jan 05

bukatyne:

Na woman show Seun shege; Na broke person show you shege......

Every mallam with im kettle

This had me grin

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Blitzking: 7:53pm On Jan 05

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Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

Welcome boss...just noticed its oga seun himself

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Blitzking: 7:54pm On Jan 05

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

But wait oo who broke oga seuns heart

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Irupetepete: 8:42pm On Jan 05

James39:
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your help to a lady is like a subscription
Cracked me up

Seun Don chop breakfast lowkey, this one pain am

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by MrAgbako: 8:47pm On Jan 05

Dizzyyish:

Psychologically, emotions are strongly tied to memories. If you positively stimulate a woman's emotions well, you've etched yourself into her mind (that's why some exes can bed them after relationship has ended [even in marriage] ). And it's the same for (strong) negative emotions.

Gratitude is a virtue, not an emotion, so they're quick to forget it.

you know them well😂

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Chevrolet076(m): 9:38pm On Jan 05

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

Lol. Funny how something similar happend to me today.
I was in a bus and a woman stopped to enter with her kids. One small boy around 3 or 4 plus the one she was backing and then the carton of Indomie she was carrying. Immediately I saw her struggling, I carried the boy and put him on my laps. Even the simplest acknowledgement did not come from her to even think that I helped her or something. No thank you, no single word, just like it never happened. Just for the woman to get to her stop and the driver gave her less than she was supposed to collect as change while shouting at her and she was all smiling at him.

Whatever girls get, I think they deserve sha. I just carried the small boy because I'm a would-be father soon. May God bless me with my own son embarassed

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Jeferious: 12:04am On Jan 06

StrongAlphMale:

You'll hardly see a girl using that phrase for a guy. Like I said wether she invest in that relationship or not Dude she's keeping her options open.

No be today girls start to ask guys for advice. And how does that makes her your girl? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland? Is she your wife yet or what exactly?

When was the last time we see a girl using the phrase "my guy my guy or my man my man? They don't even use the word "my" na guys dey always dey excited to use that word. It's Simpson in nature Dude. Make Una stop am! Worst of all, she isn't your wife yet. If she mistakenly becomes your wife that means you'll start screaming my mama my mama everywhere.

Oga, e be like say you dey new to this game. How would you address a babe who's your love interest, and who's also romantically interested in you? Do you have to act cold and bland so that you'd be seen as the ultimate redpiller? To achieve what na?

The "My" is a possessive pronoun showing that you're entitled to this person in a way. I have also heard my own girlfriend address me as "my man" when I was trying to reassure her that I'm not flirting with her friend. I wonder if you expected him to address his girlfriend as "one of dem girls"...or "the girl wey I dey f##k".

The principle still remains: don't fall HOPELESSLY in love. No cross bridge for who no fit cross gutter for you. If she starts acting funny, show her who the chief clown is. Till then, I don't mind making my girlfriend feel special

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by thrillionaire(m): 12:15am On Jan 06

StrongAlphMale:

Limit the attention you give to her or rather just dump her and end the relationship.

Broke girls thinks they're doing a guy a favour by dating him. They believe the guy is the reason they're poor. They believe they have no problem being broke themselves.

They see nothing wrong dating a rich guy, they think they're in the same level with him. Broke girls are delusional

You couldn't have said it any better. I've since moved on. Just ignored her and let the relationship die naturally.

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Bettergoat: 5:20am On Jan 06

This is an igbo proverb

48noble:

Whatever you do for your fellow man... Is only keep for me

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Silentgroper(m): 7:12am On Jan 06

DenreleDave:

Who doesn't know you?

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Negroid001(m): 7:33am On Jan 06

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

I'm really glad this is coming from you.

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by StrongAlphMale: 7:33am On Jan 06

Jeferious:
Oga, e be like say you dey new to this game. How would you address a babe who's your love interest, and who's also romantically interested in you? Do you have to act cold and bland so that you'd be seen as the ultimate redpiller? To achieve what na?

The "My" is a possessive pronoun showing that you're entitled to this person in a way. I have also heard my own girlfriend address me as "my man" when I was trying to reassure her that I'm not flirting with her friend. I wonder if you expected him to address his girlfriend as "one of dem girls"...or "the girl wey I dey f##k".

The principle still remains: don't fall HOPELESSLY in love. No cross bridge for who no fit cross gutter for you. If she starts acting funny, show her who the chief clown is. Till then, I don't mind making my girlfriend feel special

You're not entitled to her Dude, and hence the phrase "my" is irrelevant.

You can use "my" or "mine" for possession such as your house, your car, your money etc, not for a human being let alone a girl who isn't even your wife. U dey whine me?

This isn't a matter of redpiller or not, how can you ascribed her as yours even though multiple dudes are also chopping her back to back? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland abeg?

Girls hardly Use that phrase for a guy physically let alone using it online. They're of course keeping their options open as stated above. Make una stop am! All these my girl my girl on nairaland is becoming increasingly worrisome, you hard see a girl using that phrase for her boyfriend here on nairaland, dey know exactly what they're doing. Always keeping their options open. But guys all over nairaland go dey halla my girl my girl everywhere. How is she your girl? Are you her father? Abi na your wife she be? Dude you don't owe her and she's not your girl. Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland?

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Seun(m): 8:03am On Jan 06

Women use the term, "my man" or "my guy" all the time.

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Remijuice: 8:37am On Jan 06

Seun:
Women use the term, "my man" or "my guy" all the time.

StrongAlphMale:

You're not entitled to her Dude, and hence the phrase "my" is irrelevant.

You can use "my" or "mine" for possession such as your house, your car, your money etc, not for a human being let alone a girl who isn't even your wife. U dey whine me?

This isn't a matter of redpiller or not, how can you ascribed her as yours even though multiple dudes are also chopping her back to back? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland abeg?

Girls hardly Use that phrase for a guy physically let alone using it online. They're of course keeping their options open as stated above. Make una stop am! All these my girl my girl on nairaland is becoming increasingly worrisome, you hard see a girl using that phrase for her boyfriend here on nairaland, dey know exactly what they're doing. Always keeping their options open. But guys all over nairaland go dey halla my girl my girl everywhere. How is she your girl? Are you her father? Abi na your wife she be? Dude you don't owe her and she's not your girl. Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland?

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by godwinstringed1(m): 8:40am On Jan 06

Animegirl:
Is not about helping a woman, you men still want something more under her legs. You always feel entitled to her body, marriage, even her time, is only few good men that don't ask anything in return.

As a lady I always go back to appreciate, is not even a gender thing. But anytime I go back to appreciate is when can we see

Your statement here is not wise.

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by triangulation: 8:42am On Jan 06

Seun:
Women use the term, "my man" or "my guy" all the time.

Don't mind the alaseju jare.
He claimed we can only use "my" for things and not people, imagine!
What happens to "my brother", "my mother" etc

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Jeferious: 8:51am On Jan 06

StrongAlphMale:

You're not entitled to her Dude, and hence the phrase "my" is irrelevant.

You can use "my" or "mine" for possession such as your house, your car, your money etc, not for a human being let alone a girl who isn't even your wife. U dey whine me?

This isn't a matter of redpiller or not, how can you ascribed her as yours even though multiple dudes are also chopping her back to back? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland abeg?

Girls hardly Use that phrase for a guy physically let alone using it online. They're of course keeping their options open as stated above. Make una stop am! All these my girl my girl on nairaland is becoming increasingly worrisome, you hard see a girl using that phrase for her boyfriend here on nairaland, dey know exactly what they're doing. Always keeping their options open. But guys all over nairaland go dey halla my girl my girl everywhere. How is she your girl? Are you her father? Abi na your wife she be? Dude you don't owe her and she's not your girl. Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland?

What if the dude in question addresses dozens of other girls as "my girl" too? Words mean nothing, my brother. Na action be the main koko

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by dhiqson(m): 8:54am On Jan 06

Wise Man dey let una know say women keep their. Options open
Hence they don't personalize nobody!! Even if he's always in her gut

But you people, blinded by love and wet hole just want to argue grin

Fr tho, I've never read a lady here saying "my guy"
She'll rather say the guy I'm seeing grin

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Tunde835(m): 9:46am On Jan 06

Oga Seun is now redpilled. Women are like DSTV subscription.

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Jeferious: 10:05am On Jan 06

dhiqson:
Wise Man dey let una know say women keep their. Options open
Hence they don't personalize nobody!! Even if he's always in her gut

But you people, blinded by love and wet hole just want to argue
Fr tho, I've never read a lady here saying "my guy"
She'll rather say the guy I'm seeing

I just want to believe that you're talking out of your own personal experience. Women are very territorial, unless she's just managing you grin

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Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by 2special(m): 11:12am On Jan 06

eclatante:

This story isn't complete

I think it must be lalasticala

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by Emma513: 12:11pm On Jan 06

Akano5:
I need an android phone to learn copywriting and other digital skills.
Nobody has help me since but, if i were a lady, i would have been gifted an Iphone.

Men don't help themselves, crazy world!

true

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by StrongAlphMale: 12:23pm On Jan 06

Jeferious:
What if the dude in question addresses dozens of other girls as "my girl" too? Words mean nothing, my brother. Na action be the main koko

How can a Dude address dozens of girls as "my girl" ?

You can only say my wife because you're both married, not using the phrase "my" for a mere girl who isn't really yours.

Words means everything to a girl bro. A girl can easily be deceived with words, so it means a lot

Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by sisqology(m): 12:26pm On Jan 06

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