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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by 3ice9ce: 11:45am On Jan 06
Women behave better in polygamous environments than monogamous environments.

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by chukskafor(m): 11:46am On Jan 06
#NOGREE4ANYBODY

Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by 3ice9ce: 11:46am On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
Can you sacrifice what you ain't good at ? There are other ways to show love and why do you assume all women can cook? There are homes where the man is in charge of the cooking and they are waxing stronger

Be like na this one papa dey wash plate for house. grin
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by Juniorangel(m): 11:47am On Jan 06
Some women no send you ooo, if you like cheat on her with Hilda Baci them no kuku send you. I know of a married woman that can't even cook for her children, she prefers to buy cooked food or noodles for her children, common Egusi Soup is like a big task for her.

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by nonhuman(m): 11:48am On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
Why do you think I'm speaking for myself?
he gave you a good advice if you are speaking for yourself, if you arnt speaking for yourself give the advice to whomever you think you are speaking for

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by Bellotelli: 11:48am On Jan 06
I have a friend that the wife hardly cooks for him

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by 3ice9ce: 11:51am On Jan 06
bukatyne:
@OP:

I believe there is this instinct to 'protect' what is ours.

I remember when a colleague's wife started making a type of salad for her hubby because he bought custom home made salad from another female colleague.

A married colleague collecting specially made meal from another colleague is actually crossing boundaries.

If it once stemming from a discussion or the colleague has become a friend of the family, it is a different case.

Since the wife doesn't care whether he eats, she should also not care where he gets whatever he eats.

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by IamAtikulate: 11:53am On Jan 06
Nairaland and f00lishness.

Why not copy and paste the full story. The woman these frustrat.ed Nairalanders are insulting is now a millionaire just because of that one tweet.

Always give complete information
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by GreatOchuks: 12:00pm On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
I know it's wrong and I did acknowledged that in my first post. But then women have other ways of showing love. I know some few women who doesn't cook and their marriages are still intact while those great cooks have lost theirs due to other qualities they lack. So we have to learn how to find a balance with our partners, we must learn to overlook that side they are lacking. Cooking is what every
Woman should master but then it shouldn't be a strong factor in disqualifying her as a good wife
A woman that cannot cook for her Man isn't worthy to be wifed in the first place, she's better off a placeholder..


If she cooks but not too good in it , that's understandable, she can always improve but saying she doesn't enjoy cooking and so the Man should start cooking for 2 , live on fastfoods or starve is a no no ...
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by captaininiobong(m): 12:02pm On Jan 06
nlfpmod:
Viral 2 spoons story in Nigeria: A man’s female coworker cooks & brings extra homemade lunch & 2 spoons so they can share everyday.

Man’s wife started cooking & packing his lunch to stop that.

A social media user, MumZee Debbie, who shared the 2 spoons story wrote:





Another lady, Ms. Nadi Madisha shared:



What's your response to this?

You are lucky she didn't take ur husband. You thought marriage is not hard work to keep it going.
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by Quebec91(m): 12:03pm On Jan 06
As a man, i categorically tell you even after the wife gyms up and fit, with flat tommy and lost weight, doesn't stop the husband from casanovering.

She's just stressing herself, if shes doing it for her own well being then it's fine but to keep husband for house na no no 🤣🤣🤣
turmacs:
Very useless women. As a man, this is how you know you've married nonsense. I don't just know why some women will know what is right for their husbands and for the sake of their marriage, but they will want to wait first and see if the man will start getting it from outside or not, before they sit up, useless women everywhere. That's how one of my neighbor suddenly started going to the gym to reduce her weight and fat tummy, because e be like say her husband don begin dey romance other gials outside 😹 but the mumu was waiting for her husband to start cheating before she does the needful, nonsense.

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by BloomingDale(f): 12:04pm On Jan 06
bukatyne:


cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin grin

Speaks more about your decision making skills.

You couldn't/ can't pick a man worth it.

What the husband needs is a cook if ordinary food can split up his marriage. And Nigerian women will wonder why they are all miserable in the marriages.

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by GreatOchuks: 12:07pm On Jan 06
nonhuman:
he gave you a good advice if you are speaking for yourself, if you arnt speaking for yourself give the advice to whomever you think you are speaking for
Gbammm !!!
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by Watinhapen(m): 12:14pm On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it



You don’t need to enjoy cooking before you cook for your husband. This woke generation of ladies have made marriage something else. Cooking is a duty you owe your husband and household as a married woman. It’s not what you need to enjoy doing before doing it.

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by sonofthunder: 12:14pm On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it


You think the man enjoys answering yes sir and working extra hours?

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by Lamasta(m): 12:17pm On Jan 06
turmacs:
Very useless women. As a man, this is how you know you've married nonsense. I don't just know why some women will know what is right for their husbands and for the sake of their marriage, but they will want to wait first and see if the man will start getting it from outside or not, before they sit up, useless women everywhere. That's how one of my neighbor suddenly started going to the gym to reduce her weight and fat tummy, because e be like say her husband don begin dey romance other gials outside 😹 but the mumu was waiting for her husband to start cheating before she does the needful, nonsense.
Too much sense will not kee you
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by omolola12345(m): 12:19pm On Jan 06
Hmmm... Food palaver. A woman making 3 million per month or even more or celebrities earning more than that in a month will not have time for cooking. Those working in banking industry, big engineering or pharmaceutical companies or medical Doctor etc might not have time to cook. They will only get a cook and pay. Even taking care of children and other house chores. Except full time housewife, those women are exempted. Man must work harder to provide for his wife that is number one then if the woman insist that she wants to work the man and the woman must agree to get a maid that will assist them in cooking and other house chores.
And I don't see any reason why it's only the woman that we must label as a cook at home once the men are married to them. Even when they are pregnant and have no much strength to cook. The men must assist the women and I believe there will be balance with time.

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by Mayeldah(m): 12:20pm On Jan 06
So someone cannot share food with his colleague at work again?

Na food them chop, no be the other food

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by Watinhapen(m): 12:21pm On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
I know it's wrong and I did acknowledged that in my first post. But then women have other ways of showing love. I know some few women who doesn't cook and their marriages are still intact while those great cooks have lost theirs due to other qualities they lack. So we have to learn how to find a balance with our partners, we must learn to overlook that side they are lacking. Cooking is what every
Woman should master but then it shouldn't be a strong factor in disqualifying her as a good wife


A woman that can’t cook is not qualified to be a married woman. She can continue to be a slay queen but not a married woman. A woman that can’t cook is like a man that can’t provide for his household, both are not supposed to be married. Cooking is the number 1 primary responsibility for a married woman. It has been so for generations, we can’t change it now just because of modernisation.

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by ogaontop(m): 12:22pm On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
Can you sacrifice what you ain't good at ? There are other ways to show love and why do you assume all women can cook? There are homes where the man is in charge of the cooking and they are waxing stronger
People learn how to cook because of their husbands, many men stop or minimize drinking and smoking because of their wives. An uncle of mine entirely stopped late nights for the sake of his wife even when his fellow night crawlers laughed at him, he doesn't care!
What is love without sacrifices
It is not all about what I can do or what I enjoy doing!

PS: Even when the man enjoys and is in charge of cooking, the woman should trade with caution to avoid some other ripple effects.
As a woman, know how to cook and be ever ready to cook, let it be the man's choice to be in charge of the kitchen, let it not be because you can't do it!!

Just like cooking in the case of women, A man provides for the home but there are marriages where the woman is the provider and are waxing strong, very strong, but deep down my dear, that man is not entirely happy!!

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by bolademi(m): 12:24pm On Jan 06
nlfpmod:
Viral 2 spoons story in Nigeria: A man’s female coworker cooks & brings extra homemade lunch & 2 spoons so they can share everyday.

Man’s wife started cooking & packing his lunch to stop that.

A social media user, MumZee Debbie, who shared the 2 spoons story wrote:


I like this kind of competition


Another lady, Ms. Nadi Madisha shared:



What's your response to this?
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by ExudeLoveToAll: 12:25pm On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
Not all women enjoys cooking, which means a woman might love you and still struggle to cook for you because she doesn't enjoy doing it


Let's put it this, not every man likes to provide money which means a man might love you and still struggle to provide money for the woman to use at home because he doesn't enjoy providing. grin.

How does it sound in your ears? That's same way what you wrote sounded in my ears grin
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by frazee: 12:25pm On Jan 06
So,if the colleague had not brought 2 spoons thats how you will be denying him lunch because of laziness.
This is what is obtainable in marriages today. Because he is not complaining you think its normal to deprieve him certain things..
Sleep is the order of the day for some wives and they keep telling you i dont get enough sleep...
Abeg do what gives you joy to stay alive....

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Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by Blackdisciple(m): 12:26pm On Jan 06
No oo keep feeling lazy to wake up early to prepare his lunch you will learn..

The other one says she don't cook for her husband and he doesn't complain y'all will learn
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by explored(m): 12:36pm On Jan 06
GreatAchiever1:


Not all men enjoy going out to hustle to provide for the family, but they do it regardless. We don't get to do things because we enjoy doing them, we have to do things because it is our role to do it.
This is not an excuse. Change this attitude if you're speaking for yourself.


your comments sounds familiar
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by warrifinest1985: 12:39pm On Jan 06
nlfpmod:
Viral 2 spoons story in Nigeria: A man’s female coworker cooks & brings extra homemade lunch & 2 spoons so they can share everyday.

Man’s wife started cooking & packing his lunch to stop that.

A social media user, MumZee Debbie, who shared the 2 spoons story wrote:



Another lady, Ms. Nadi Madisha shared:



What's your response to this?
you for non set your alarm na foolish woman! Soon na 2 condom she go dey bring come non be spoon again. I swear to God marriage has really lost it's sanctity compared to the time of our parents
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by AyeMoJuba: 12:40pm On Jan 06
EreluRoz:
Can you sacrifice what you ain't good at ? There are other ways to show love and why do you assume all women can cook? There are homes where the man is in charge of the cooking and they are waxing stronger

Waxing stronger ko
You better stop self delusion this 2024

A woman who doesn't know how to cook is a recipie for disaster.
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by GreatAchiever1: 12:41pm On Jan 06
explored:



your comments sounds familiar

Lol, from where?
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by smartasuen(m): 12:55pm On Jan 06
turmacs:
Very useless women. As a man, this is how you know you've married nonsense. I don't just know why some women will know what is right for their husbands and for the sake of their marriage, but they will want to wait first and see if the man will start getting it from outside or not, before they sit up, useless women everywhere. That's how one of my neighbor suddenly started going to the gym to reduce her weight and fat tummy, because e be like say her husband don begin dey romance other gials outside 😹 but the mumu was waiting for her husband to start cheating before she does the needful, nonsense.

Wow! This is coming from a lady?

Greetings Lovely.
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by seunayantokun(m): 12:58pm On Jan 06
Two spoons enough to scoop her husband away. Ló bá tán.
Re: A Woman Brought 2 Spoons For My Husband At Work by izubext007: 1:07pm On Jan 06
The two spoons 🥄 🥄she heard about delivered her from her laziness

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