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olisaEze:
He said he'd rather be a baby daddy, when that's what he was to the girl. I can bet my left balls (and that's the bigger one) that said lady is almost half his age. You can't date someone far removed from your age bracket and expect not to hear childish demands from time to time. A matured woman with her eyes on the price would get that same wig off this neegha without the wrong words. So broda keep on selecting. Till the day you start school runs and realize that all the other parents waiting for their kids along with you are not from your generation!

You are playing to think ladies of same age bracket don't do same, I laugh.

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

I love this response.
It is most likely that this is not the first thing
that she has asked from her ex that he's denied her.

Patience and good communication was key here but
the guy didn't quite get it here.

With hindsight, he must have been looking for one silly
excuse to end the relationship.

LoveJesus87:
u said u got up from the bed, which means u have been having sex with her, using her.
Now that u have called it quit, who do u expect to take up the used and valueless product, ehn?
Don't have sex yet until u marry, u people will not hear. After using yourselves worn out, then u see u are not compatible, then u break up and d cursed lady will be looking for an innocent man to take up d damaged goods and even giving attitude on top. Chai this life ehn
May God guide me in choosing a life partner because out there is polluted and over congested with used damaged products

The man did not use her , sex is for two people they were having sex with each other.

In a world where many dey find stable relationship...

The lady is wrong.
Because of wig 10kay.


But as the mature dude, you didnt sit her down to let out your mind (you just decided to call it quit). I don't think that was the first time he was doing that.

Relationship is built on communication.
what I understand from here is 'no gree them see you finish'
Ndi nka sef

Pecoleee345:
How is the guy wrong??

A lady placing a curse on him cos of wig and he shouldn't walk away??

Sometimes I wonder if this entitlement mentality is actually a society problem or family problem.

Once you aiin't able to give what they want next ting is to emotionally blackmail you.

leave that mumu man jare

OluwaSegun0509:
Don't date a broke minded girl who think that everything must be paid by a man. Team work makes the dream works.

My ex said and I quote ' I am not a team player I need a husband who can take care of all my needs and set up a business for me, he must be an Odogwu'.

I went further to interact with her in the need to build our financial base together if we ever settle for each other, she went further and I quote ' A man who can take care of his wife is worst than an infidel, you as a man must take care of everything about me your money is my money and my money is my money '
That was it for me, unknown to her she saw me as a minimum wage guy so she could freely express her innate mindset without hiding anything whatsoever. To her she was doing me a favor not knowing my reservoir is filled with plenty of water from the ocean.

I had to let her go, her selfishness and self centeredness is on another level. I can't start a life with someone who doesn't put me as priority never.

Jewessgratitud3:
The words were said out of anger. If you check well, she may not really mean it as a curse. She acted on her feelings at the time. She only needs to be corrected not thrown out like that.

What if she didn't say it out and is cursing him behind his back? That one too dey happen and the man will never know.

Abeg the lady spoke out of pain. The man too stingy

Out of pain for wig she can afford for herself 😂😂😂😂😂😂.

If she hasn't been cursing him at his back, she would curse him to his face.

And for the man to take it this far, it isn't the first time it is happening.

I'm glad for the man.

Sonnobax15:
. . The way some of una dey reason sometimes dey make me dey wonder if na pap dey inside una brains or e just empty throway

So simply because I'm in a relationship with a woman,she should now see it as a MUST-DO something that I must provide all her needs? . Come on nigha, which particular pap dey inside your brain exactly? Guinea corn,or custard?

bro, no be every body get common sense!

HisSexcellency:
A young Nigerian man narrates the tough decision of calling off his relationship with his fiancee after she made a hurtful statement to him about his inability to buy her a wig.

A social media user identified as I am Ekene took to social media to narrate the tale of his past relationship with an ex-fiancee.
According to the young man, his fiancee had pleaded with him to buy a particular wig for her but due to financial constraints, he couldn’t afford it.

His fiancee, however, made a statement in an attempt to guilt trip him into buying the wig, he immediately severed their relationship.

His post;


Credit: Fendi Ekene

Exactly why I failed to marry my first girl friend. Every girl friend or would be wife should show some level of capacity not emptiness or only sex ability

placeofallure:
Man, you did the right thing. What kind of entitlement mentality is that? She was so desperate she placed a curse on the man, no nah!

It feels good to collect money from your man, every woman loves that sense of financial security, but you won't have him break the bank for you. Especially when he doesn't have and it's not a life threatening situation. All through the yuletide season, I no make any hair o, I just comb my hair in a bun and I'm ready to go, it was my best Christmas ever cause I didn't lack anything. I just made the hair this Saturday in readiness for work this week. This is a big, huge, humongous red flag. Thank goodness he had the sense to leave.

Moreso, she should be able to buy the wig herself, that's what real slay queens do.

Women should be up and doing on their own. What if something happens to the man - sickness or death - will you go a begging for the rest of your life?

"What if something happens to the man, will she beg for the rest of her life ?"
Mehn, this is the most sensible comment i have seen so far...

.

OKOATA:
Oga I can bet it with you that you are a broke ass nigga, so you like to be in a relationship with a Naija girl and you expect not to atleast spend? I'm not saying he should buy the wig but give her what you can afford. So if you were rich and your lady tells you to buy her something you won't because you are forming Mr red pill or what? No be everything you go dey form hard guy for woman Mr dadandidin.

you are a man dieing of worthlessness, no prestige, no value and no dignity. A man that will give up everything for a woman
.

A man who thinks and believe that the loyalty and love a woman is a function of what he can give to her, the amount of money you can spend on her. A man who does not know that he is the king and the prize.

You most be a very inferior man, I won't advice you, my only advice to you is go and learn the hard way.

Raphsays:
I love this response.
It is most likely that this is not the first thing
that she has asked from her ex that he's denied her.

Patience and good communication was key here but
the guy didn't quite get it here.

With hindsight, he must have been looking for one silly
excuse to end the relationship.

And on a 2nd thought have you considered the possibility the guy can't afford that wig or you think guyz just enjoy denying there partners items they can afford

I laugh whenever i see netizens reminisce sit her down nd have a communication, sounds reasonable BUT what gives you the impression he asnt done that already

Humans don't just wake up and get fed up, there is always a build up and we all have gauge, patience with a materialistic gurl is a waste of time she will serve you break the day she meet one yahoo boy or rich man that can pay premium subscription

OKOATA:
Oga I can bet it with you that you are a broke ass nigga, so you like to be in a relationship with a Naija girl and you expect not to atleast spend? I'm not saying he should buy the wig but give her what you can afford. So if you were rich and your lady tells you to buy her something you won't because you are forming Mr red pill or what? No be everything you go dey form hard guy for woman Mr dadandidin.

Mr Rich bro, you had to do it with insults.
Unless you’re an imposter, that’s not how the rich do.

LoveJesus87:
u said u got up from the bed, which means u have been having sex with her, using her.
Now that u have called it quit, who do u expect to take up the used and valueless product, ehn?
Don't have sex yet until u marry, u people will not hear. After using yourselves worn out, then u see u are not compatible, then u break up and d cursed lady will be looking for an innocent man to take up d damaged goods and even giving attitude on top. Chai this life ehn
May God guide me in choosing a life partner because out there is polluted and over congested with used damaged products

what makes you conclude she met the gurl a virgin, if he could date her 'used" another person will take her in "Used" thats life

One man's poison is another man food

Who feels it knows it

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should have tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

E be like this one get brain tumor

Best decision 2023/2024

OKOATA:
Because of wig this one dey break up with his woman. In as much as I see some women as materialistic and golddiggers but as a man you should be able to take care of your woman in your own little way. No be everything be break up.

I think you mistunderstood the man. He broke up because she was placing a curse on him. Your complain should be "Because of wig his woman is pacing a curse on her man". No woman is entitled to any man's money. If he gives you anything, it's a gift, a privilege; not a right. For me, it is the entitlement mentality that is annoying. Some ladies won't even tell you a simple "Thank You" for doing anything for them because they believe they are your responsibility and that sex is a good enough payment for you.

Jewessgratitud3:
The words were said out of anger. If you check well, she may not really mean it as a curse. She acted on her feelings at the time. She only needs to be corrected not thrown out like that.

What if she didn't say it out and is cursing him behind his back? That one too dey happen and the man will never know.

Abeg the lady spoke out of pain. The man too stingy

Women and this word 'stingy'.

Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should have tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.

There are some red flags you don't need to give a second consideration...The bible says out of the heart the mind speaks. So every attitude both in words and actions is being nursed nor nurtured inside. 10years relationship and she still could not fit in to being an understanding girlfriend

He should have done this a long time ago

This is the story of the life of most people nowadays, you have to regularly renew your love subscription with cash and material gifts or else wives would withdraw their love or support. It is very ridiculous and disheartening as women are becoming crazy. I wish I could say more. The institution called marriage is becoming meaningless by the hour.

HisSexcellency:
A young Nigerian man narrates the tough decision of calling off his relationship with his fiancee after she made a hurtful statement to him about his inability to buy her a wig.

A social media user identified as I am Ekene took to social media to narrate the tale of his past relationship with an ex-fiancee.
According to the young man, his fiancee had pleaded with him to buy a particular wig for her but due to financial constraints, he couldn’t afford it.

His fiancee, however, made a statement in an attempt to guilt trip him into buying the wig, he immediately severed their relationship.

His post;


Credit: Fendi Ekene

U and i both know that u never intended to marry that lady lol

u just needed an excuse.

Truth is all women are the same. Period.

Only lazy lady does that...
Kudos to hard working girls out there

olisaEze:
He said he'd rather be a baby daddy, when that's what he was to the girl. I can bet my left balls (and that's the bigger one) that said lady is almost half his age. You can't date someone far removed from your age bracket and expect not to hear childish demands from time to time. A matured woman with her eyes on the price would get that same wig off this neegha without the wrong words. So broda keep on selecting. Till the day you start school runs and realize that all the other parents waiting for their kids along with you are not from your generation!

Happiness is more important than any of those things you’ve written up there. He chose happiness.

DaddyRochie1642:
You be correct woman wrapper

Lmao.... My belle go burst with laugh o!

You made a nice decision....let her go and work and buy the expensive wig..if it's easy to make money in this hard economy,...not just lazily sleeping in the house expecting to have everything

Jewessgratitud3:
The words were said out of anger. If you check well, she may not really mean it as a curse. She acted on her feelings at the time. She only needs to be corrected not thrown out like that.

What if she didn't say it out and is cursing him behind his back? That one too dey happen and the man will never know.

Abeg the lady spoke out of pain. The man too stingy

if the lady didnt mean it as a curse, am sure the guy didnt mean the break up. he acted on his feelings at the time.

he only needed to be corrected by the lady when he said he didnt have money for wig.

what if he broke up with her behind her back? that one too de happen and the lady will never know. she go just de ready for wedding wey no go hold.

the man ran so that he will live to fight another day in order not to die today on a woman whose worth is not more than a wig.

but by the way, how is the guy stingy?

if he lady is not stingy to herself, why cant she gather money to buy wig that she will wear?

HisSexcellency:
A young Nigerian man narrates the tough decision of calling off his relationship with his fiancee after she made a hurtful statement to him about his inability to buy her a wig.

A social media user identified as I am Ekene took to social media to narrate the tale of his past relationship with an ex-fiancee.
According to the young man, his fiancee had pleaded with him to buy a particular wig for her but due to financial constraints, he couldn’t afford it.

His fiancee, however, made a statement in an attempt to guilt trip him into buying the wig, he immediately severed their relationship.

His post;


Credit: Fendi Ekene

U’ve made a wise choice Baba, God nor go shame us nor be for pelsin wey dey carry too much women palava for head😃

olisaEze:
He said he'd rather be a baby daddy, when that's what he was to the girl. I can bet my left balls (and that's the bigger one) that said lady is almost half his age. You can't date someone far removed from your age bracket and expect not to hear childish demands from time to time. A matured woman with her eyes on the price would get that same wig off this neegha without the wrong words. So broda keep on selecting. Till the day you start school runs and realize that all the other parents waiting for their kids along with you are not from your generation!

how do you know that the lady is half his age?

LoveJesus87:
u said u got up from the bed, which means u have been having sex with her, using her.
Now that u have called it quit, who do u expect to take up the used and valueless product, ehn?
Don't have sex yet until u marry, u people will not hear. After using yourselves worn out, then u see u are not compatible, then u break up and d cursed lady will be looking for an innocent man to take up d damaged goods and even giving attitude on top. Chai this life ehn
May God guide me in choosing a life partner because out there is polluted and over congested with used damaged products

how has he been using her because he got up from the bed?