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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Scholace: 9:44am On Feb 16
easzypeaszy:
My wife manage 5k for 5mouths weekly
How much your own manage?
Make I kw if na Channels go hlp me hail my own wife b4 I come back hail your wife...
enemy of progress waka pass
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by adem30: 9:44am On Feb 16
Nonexisting:
Everything you said is okay except calling him a simp. Inside peace shows on the outside and sometimes can be expressed. I am always careful to call a married man simp because he may have a daughter and a good wife. There's nothing wrong in simping for your daughter and your wife especially if she is a good wife and gives you peace. In this case, the man is saying the wife takes care of his home with little resources he provides her and that she also makes everybody happy in the home. What else can a gentleman ask for? A good wife should be honored and if giving her some authority especially in the areas you're clueless on is simping, I approve it.

Brother, don't blame him. You should able to sense the way he was brought up, seems he was raise in a gbasgbos family

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Quebec91(m): 9:46am On Feb 16
Gbam 👍
tochez24:


An Epistle of a simp😁😁

Nigeria is the only part of the globe where they celebrate people for behaving like a normal human being or performing their duties⚠️

You will never see a white man, indian, Chinese or even an Arabian man with this kind of long epistle of jargon over a woman♂️

I have never come across a clip or text where foreign men are worshipping and praising their women, whenever i come online all i see is foolish African men disgracing themselves😔😔

Your wife is simply doing what you married her for and is no big issue you bloody simp💯

If you feel you need to show her love for being a good wife, please do that secretly and stop blocking our online space😡

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by BeigJawnson(m): 9:46am On Feb 16
Lalami3232:
Congratulations to you!!! But my aim here is to preach the good news to all men.

Oga if you know say you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted

Get lost

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by RevenuesBoost(f): 9:46am On Feb 16
OZIOGU1:
Of a truth, i don't know how she manages, but this woman find away to make us happy and manage what ever i give to her in this economy.

You see ehh, young men should endeavor to marry someone you believe is a friend no matter how long e get why and e get benefits.

I LOVE YOU INYA

You are the reason my house is peaceful and secured, abeg continue dey control me, e get why

May Allah S.W.T Bless you more, Ameen




You're very right
Don't just marry a wife, marry your best friend.

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by tochez24(m): 9:47am On Feb 16
Pimine:

First get rid of the emojis before telling us who's a simp or not. You sound too emotional and that's simping behavior.

Emotional you say?🙄

You have no clue of what I'm made of!!!
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Switinthemiddle(m): 9:48am On Feb 16
tochez24:


Whenever we alphas caution SIMPs, very loose lonely evening newspapers will be weting everywhere⚠️

If you think this is an appreciation, then you really need a thorough medical examination♂️

Exposed men and alphas know exactly how to appreciate their women, and jumping online at any slightest chance to type long epistles of baseless jargons is not one of them.

White/foreign men take their women out on a dinner date or get them flowers on their way back from work, they don't storm online with long epistles⚠️

We African alphas get our women g strings, take them to bush bars or Bleep them well until they cum... We don't storm online with long epistles too⚠️

Sometimes i wonder how these idiots in men's clothing reason??⚡
Ode and you go don pass 20 o. No be u be simp for following and trying to copy the white mans tradition. How many times u dn see ur papa buy ur mama flowers or take her out. Come out here and be forming fake life. Dunce

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Carlylepneuma: 9:50am On Feb 16
tochez24:



Nobody needs your approval oga⚠️

And he's a very foolish simp for bringing private matter online.

If he thinks he has a good wife, then he should keep it to himself or probably show her love or whatever offline!!!!
wetin u talk good for ur eye 👀 so disheartening... Whatever u do to others shall be done unto u

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Scholace: 9:52am On Feb 16
tochez24:


Like I'm trying so hard to convince you lots🙄

Please don't mention me again, i was not talking to you⚠️

By the way you can go tell your father to shut the Bleep up😕
Shut up

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Kajaard: 9:53am On Feb 16
OZIOGU1:
Of a truth, i don't know how she manages, but this woman find away to make us happy and manage what ever i give to her in this economy.

You see ehh, young men should endeavor to marry someone you believe is a friend no matter how long e get why and e get benefits.

I LOVE YOU INYA

You are the reason my house is peaceful and secured, abeg continue dey control me, e get why

May Allah S.W.T Bless you more, Ameen

You had to post this online? What are men turning into these days sef? undecided

Pathetic.

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Bluearrow: 9:53am On Feb 16
OZIOGU1:


I deliberately ignore that small boy, He is not worth my attention, even the one that said I should go for DNA,all these small boys are the reason we have bast*Rd kids all around...she is my wife, she is a member of this forum and I will continue to appreciate her...she is too good to be my wife infact
Even though their comments were rude, they are partially correct! There was absolutely nothing special about your wife doing in your post. Every family is managing in this economy, so no family is spending extravagantly in this period, except the wealthy. It would have been quite different, if u stated your wife was the one providing for the family, then it becomes worthy of praise. Your case is just the typical life of an average married man anywhere in the country.

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by tochez24(m): 9:56am On Feb 16
Kajaard:


You had to post this online? What are men turning into these days sef? undecided

Pathetic.

Same reason I'm getting all these abuses bro😆😂😂

Most NIGERIANS are really stupid people⚠️

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Scholace: 9:56am On Feb 16
tochez24:


Thunder fire you there ⚡⚡

Idiot 🙄

It's my choice to fight dirty or ignore people if i want to, it's entirely my decision and not yours you fool♂️
Thunder fire your poor miserable father.

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by tochez24(m): 9:58am On Feb 16
Bluearrow:

Even though their comments were rude, they are partially correct! There was absolutely nothing special about your wife doing in your post. Every family is managing in this economy, so no family is spending extravagantly in this period, except the wealthy. It would have been quite different, if u stated your wife was the one providing for the family, then it becomes worthy of praise. Your case is just the typical life of an average married man anywhere in the country.

Thank you very much.... Few NIGERIANS with wisdom♂️

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 9:58am On Feb 16
FLYFIRE:
Madam, oga say make we join hand greet you. We thank you for how you take care of oga & the family. Madam please continue. And whenever crase enter oga head, abeg forgive him. May God bless you & your beautiful family smiley smiley smiley


Amen, thank you so much, God bless you
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 9:58am On Feb 16
Namigotalktru:
Congratulations to you and your spouse. May God continue to bless your union.





For the red pillars who are so pained, go and do your bobrisky lifestyle and give us peace. If a man celebrating a union of 10 years hurts you, go and hug transformer.

Amen thank you Sir

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Rejouir: 9:59am On Feb 16
Tell me why, he won't to spoil his wife on vals day, if he has the money.
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 10:00am On Feb 16
rajiedreez:
Hope you're letting her know you see and appreciate her efforts. It's very important for her to see that appreciation from you first before others.

Sure sir, she sees all my effort and her soothing words push me to even do more, reason i am appreciating her, some could just look away and think you are not doing enough.

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 10:01am On Feb 16
OZIOGU1:


I deliberately ignore that small boy, He is not worth my attention, even the one that said I should go for DNA,all these small boys are the reason we have bast*Rd kids all around...she is my wife, she is a member of this forum and I will continue to appreciate her...she is too good to be my wife infact
Those kind of person are dysfunctional
Come from dysfunctional homes
They strongly prefer baby daddy, baby mama, children out of wedlock, single mummy than a proper marriage.

So that is the reason he is reacting like that. He has not experienced real love like this, he is not capable of giving and receiving real or true love.

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by UptownVibes(m): 10:02am On Feb 16
OZIOGU1:


I was served breakfast before and I went to beg biko, life no hard na we think say to form who you are not online better pass
You go beg?

I am beginning to think you are just here for attention. Men that actually behave like this in real life,no dey get time come online. They are always looking for every means to please their woman,thereby depriving themselves of their purpose in life.. I hope you have not exchange your purpose in life for woman? grin

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 10:03am On Feb 16
Justdare:

Congrats my brother on finding a good one. Many more decades of joy and happiness in your home. Anyone who knows what it means sustaining a family will appreciate a helpful wife.
You have done well by ignoring the idi.ot. you can tell he is still getting pocket money from daddy. It's sad what we see on this forum all because it is faceless. Its the audacity for me just because they can afford a N500 data subscription they think they have an opinion on everybody's business.

Thank you sir, is really sad that people can talk down on others here simply coz is a faceless forum, My wife is reading all comments and i am sure she will just be laughing over some comments, but we agree she should remain mute sha

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 10:04am On Feb 16
Pablodreay890:
U should be grateful you have a supportive woman with unconditional love

The love was truely unconditional, i married her when my salary is 13k, it has been frm grass to grace ever since she came to my life.

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Scholace: 10:05am On Feb 16
Kajaard:


You had to post this online? What are men turning into these days sef? undecided

Pathetic.
you're expecting otherwise? Like his wife is cheating on him, sleeping around or with neighbor, fighting him and his family bla bla bla right?

I understand some of you men are raised in a dyfunctional home, but trust me you guys can make changes. You think all these men living happily with their spouses all came from good and loving home? Far from it. Some of them came from bad home like some of you guys but they chose to make changes to live a better life. If you wouldn't say this kind of comments if a man should brought his wife matter to nairaland that she's sleeping around or fighting him, then you're a big disgrace to humanity and a very big shame on you and your likes

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 10:06am On Feb 16
easzypeaszy:
My wife manage 5k for 5mouths weekly
How much your own manage?
Make I kw if na Channels go hlp me hail my own wife b4 I come back hail your wife...

It doesn't matter sir, appreciate her, women are a product of sound and men are product of actions..God bless her for you
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 10:06am On Feb 16
HarunaWest:

Lol
Sannu Ozi Otaiki

Avor Adayi
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 10:07am On Feb 16
ambient:





awwwww,it is always good seeing a man appreciate his wife.madam na woman you be....thanks for keeping a happy home

Thank you so much, she mean a lot us his children
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 10:07am On Feb 16
ambient:





awwwww,it is always good seeing a man appreciate his wife.madam na woman you be....thanks for keeping a happy home

Thank you so much, she mean a lot us her children
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by VULCAN(m): 10:08am On Feb 16
I estimate you to be 24 or less.

At that age you think you know everything.

You believe you are wiser than all those who are older than you.

Lol

The days are soon coming when you will realise that the entire body of knowledge you have cannot even begin to resolve the issues of your life.

I can tell that you first heard the word simp on Nairaland not long ago and haven't bothered to research beyond a few kid's description of what the word means.

I know you have not read any of Ubunja's Miseducations otherwise you may have risen above your childish understanding of what a simp is.

For avoidance of doubt, a simp is a man who is unaware that he is being completely manipulated by the women in his life- whether Mother, Wife, Sister or Daughter.

A simp is unaware that the female gender are the most manipulative creature that God ever made with the possible exception of the Cat.

A simp has no means to ward off manipulation for he isn't even aware it is happening.

A simp is not a man who commends his wife for prudently managing resources in the midst of the greatest hardship Nigerians have ever experienced in our history.

Despite claims to the contrary, women are not automatically wise and prudent allocators of resources.

They are prone to social pressure, comparisons and low self esteem which leads them to buy expensive things in attempts to boost their poor self image.

A good manager of resources should be commended- regardless of their gender.

Reading your write up I can also tell you are unmarried.

Don't ask me how I know.

tochez24:


An Epistle of a simp😁😁

Nigeria is the only part of the globe where they celebrate people for behaving like a normal human being or performing their duties⚠️

You will never see a white man, indian, Chinese or even an Arabian man with this kind of long epistle of jargon over a woman♂️

I have never come across a clip or text where foreign men are worshipping and praising their women, whenever i come online all i see is foolish African men disgracing themselves😔😔

Your wife is simply doing what you married her for and is no big issue you bloody simp💯

If you feel you need to show her love for being a good wife, please do that secretly and stop blocking our online space😡

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by tochez24(m): 10:08am On Feb 16
VeeVeeMyLuv:

Those kind of person are dysfunctional
Come from dysfunctional homes
They strongly prefer baby daddy, baby mama, children out of wedlock, single mother than a proper marriage.

So that is the reason he is reacting like that. He has not experienced real love like this, he is not capable of giving and receiving real or true love.

Lol 😆😆

You have experienced real love abi

Continue to fool yourself in this 21st century⚠️

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Kajaard: 10:09am On Feb 16
Scholace:
you're expecting otherwise? Like his wife is cheating on him, sleeping around or with neighbor, fighting him and his family bla bla bla right?

I understand some of you men are raised in a dyfunctional home, but trust me you guys can make changes. You think all these men living happily with their spouses all came from good and loving home? Far from it. Some of them came from bad home like some of you guys but they chose to make changes to live a better life. If you wouldn't say this kind of comments if a man should brought his wife matter to nairaland that she's sleeping around or fighting him, then you're a big disgrace to humanity and a very big shame on you and your likes

You must be very silly and a nincompoop with zero brain cells. If you don't know things that should not be brought to the cyber space then I have absolutely nothing else to tell a dunderhead like you.

Now fvckoff and stay off my mentions.
Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by Jerk1: 10:09am On Feb 16
OZIOGU1:
Of a truth, i don't know how she manages, but this woman find away to make us happy and manage what ever i give to her in this economy.

You see ehh, young men should endeavor to marry someone you believe is a friend no matter how long e get why and e get benefits.

I LOVE YOU INYA

You are the reason my house is peaceful and secured, abeg continue dey control me, e get why

May Allah S.W.T Bless you more, Ameen
After going through this, the only place you made a mistake is the last paragraph. The first and second paragraph is good and a way of advising bachelor's on the importance of choosing a home builder and supportive wife. The other things you wrote is not necessary, it makes you look childish.

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Re: Help Me To Appreciate My Wife In This Tough Period by OZIOGU1: 10:10am On Feb 16
RevenuesBoost:





You're very right
Don't just marry a wife, marry your best friend.

This is actually the reason for the post, but someone is deralling it, if we cant learn from others here of what benefits is the forum?

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