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It's like moving to the UK ends up turning off Nigerian women from their husbands.

In Nigeria, their husbands were in their element and were somebody in society.

They come to the UK and the men end up being out of their depth, being unemployed and having to job hunt, sharing house chores and childcare. They go from king of the jungle to conquered house mouse.

All these can end up being a turn off to their wives.

Well.

press9jatv:
"Since we moved to the UK, I’m no longer attracted to my husband or black men"- Nigerian lady seeks advice.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jr8Q-DAagys?si=UnIB34_jNXiDmEQj

This MAY be because your husband, doesn’t want to be the in the UK. He has left all that made Him feel like Himself behind. Now He is starting from scratch, in a manner of speaking. He is having to deal with new kinds of issues , And He is becoming a shadow of Himself, he is losing his energy and zest for life , thus becoming unattractive.

Or your eyes are seeing more attractive things

Or both

Or not.

Divorce the man and leave. Which kind of attention seeking content is this one again? She don see say men outside dey live for gym, e dey make her feel insecure with her original selection. Them no dey look BBW/thicc/foodie/chubby/voluptuous/meaty woman that way especially if she black. You’re better off sticking with your husband or a homeless Caucasian. To start in the dating game, befriend a gym for months first.

TheGift:
This MAY be because your husband, doesn’t want to be the in the UK. He has left all that made Him feel like Himself behind. Now He is starting from scratch, in a manner of speaking. He is having to deal with new kinds of issues , And He is becoming a shadow of Himself, he is losing his energy and zest for life , thus becoming unattractive.

Or your eyes are seeing more attractive things

Or both

Or not.

I don’t know why women always behave this way, and some people will be telling me that women are good. Abeg Na all of them good nii

1Sharon:
It's like moving to the UK ends up turning off Nigerian women from their husbands.

In Nigeria, their husbands were in their element and were somebody in society.

They come to the UK and the men end up being out of their depth, being unemployed and having to job hunt, sharing house chores and childcare. They go from king of the jungle to conquered house mouse.

All these can end up being a turn off to their wives.

Well.

yes, I think you are very right

Ashawo dey your 👁️

press9jatv:
She’s asking for help from Nigerians 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

Eh, waiting be this o?
Why is it that Nigerians Ladies, Africans only look for Opportunities to jet abroad with their Families, that Women begins to tell us stories that tells but while in Nigeria ,so many pretences that ' they love '.
This new Marriage Slippery is becoming a norm in USA, and many European Countries because of better lives in the Oyinbo lands!
This is different from the Indians,who remained loyal to their husbands,no matter what!
What is wrong with the Black People?
Just see the above lady - Nonsense she is talking about!

Bluntemperor:
Eh, waiting be this o?
Why is it that Nigerians Ladies, Africans only look for Opportunities to jet abroad with their Families, that Women begins to tell us stories that tells but while in Nigeria ,so many pretences that ' they love '.
This new Marriage Slippery is becoming a norm in USA, and many European Countries because of better lives in the Oyinbo lands!
This is different from the Indians,who remained loyal to their husbands,no matter what!
What is wrong with the Black People?
Just see the above lady - Nonsense she is talking about!

hmm 🤔 very unfortunate

I pity men that use their hard earned resources to bring over prostitutes like these that they call wife abroad. Probably married to a simp.

Raalsalghul:
Mehn, una get bad mouth.

Not like he's lying. Saw one fine girl last night as I left my estate to get cigarettes at Aboki shop. She slim but thick so I walked slowly behind her. Turns out were going to the same place. She came to buy ₦100 garri, ₦50 sugar and pure water. The girl's sweat was distinct and horrid. If person decide to upgrade am na breakfast she go serve me last last

If she wasn't married I would have encouraged her to try her options but since she is married and was broke and unexposed until her dear husband married and relocated with her to the UK all that is wrong with her is oju kokoro.

God1000:
But why are Nigerian women behaving behaving like that

You hardly hear such thing about women in other countries.

Men need to wise up, I don't like hearing such sad stories which some people try to justify and rationalize.

ask jennyclay when you marry her and mistakenly take her abroad

ShadowMan667:
Gees OLOSHO don get freedom



WTH MAN!

Na Siofra and Jennyclay type

Vinnie2000:
95% of our Nigerian Ladies do NOT love their husbands @all.

They marry for convenience Sake.

When they get to 26,27yrs and have seen Time is Going,
They pick any Ready Made man from their Workplace or Church and start forming Good Girl and finally Deceive the Brother to Marry them.

na baby mama thing’s straight up.

IT PAINS ME THAT WE HAVE SO MANY USELESS BLOGGERS IN THI COUNTRY... NO BE EVERY THRASH WE HAVE TO ADD VOLUME TO....

NIGERIANS NEED TO GROW UP OR

WE REGULATE SOCIAL MEDIA

Thundafireseun:
Awon attention seeker

Gbamsulotely, the gif Below is for the woman

Talking like she is reading from a script or teleprompter.

Everyone is chasing clout, even the jappa ones.

muyico:
olosho travel out! dump that ass and start ur olosho business in full times, fast money making business

me i confuse is this an advise or insult or sarcasm

Boondocxs:
Inukwa
She outgrew her husband good for her

just the way girls will out grow your brothers and male relatives and play them for foolss

Na so.
It is not unusual.

Money wey the man suppose take train goats him go waste am on ungrateful woman

press9jatv:
yes now, besides, the lady in question ask for advice on what should be done. Can’t you read from her post that she doesn’t have any affection for her husband again. Very sad one there

Ok I thought u were abusing that woman on the video who read d story. ✌️

U go suffer Tay,ur friends wen dey advise u nor wish u well. If dem be married women dem nor go advise u such. UK men go use and dump u den u go know racist still dey. Stupid woman get the boldness coming out here saying this. I pray ur husband finds out and pull the trigger on your small fish brain. U never know say marriage hard now. Nor worry just live ur husband ,den u go see women wen dey queue to take ur place.

A Predatory woman

press9jatv:
"Since we moved to the UK, I’m no longer attracted to my husband or black men"- Nigerian lady seeks advice.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jr8Q-DAagys?si=UnIB34_jNXiDmEQj

She's no longer attracted to her husband, what is the issue? Let her get a divorce and they try other people.

Your love is wicked

She doesn’t know stress could make a man lose focus and concentration. If you live a free life in Nigeria 🇳🇬 I can bet UK 🇬🇧 is likely goin to set u into depression if your mind is not strong enough. Work Work Work just to meet up with ur bills and have something in savings.

pocohantas:
Abi na. Nothing them go write wey we never read before. In Nigeria, women are doing strong things already. What holds them back here is lack of finance and stigma. It is not even about love to me. Because you may not love a man/woman, but be determined to make it work. You can love, but not have the determination to make a marriage work. The concept of love is new, as many of our parents never knew themselves for long before marrying. So all this love talk doesn't move me except when backed by excellent family values.

Most of us know jack shyt about love. We think we do but we don’t. Like you said, core family values is what keeps a relationship. A man needs a woman that is loyal and nurturing and a woman needs a man that protects and provides…every other thing na just jara.

What's that annoying shaking logo on the video for?

press9jatv:
"Since we moved to the UK, I’m no longer attracted to my husband or black men"- Nigerian lady seeks advice.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jr8Q-DAagys?si=UnIB34_jNXiDmEQj

She is a covert prostitute.

babajero:
She is a covert prostitute.

I strongly believe that she’s a coded prostitute why in Nigeria