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In the intricate dance of love, our commitment is often defined by the sacrifices we're willing to make. Whether grand gestures or subtle acts of kindness, we journey through the realm of affection with open hearts and eager spirits. Yet, amidst this exchange of giving and receiving, there's a question that remains unspoken: What significant gift or financial sacrifice have you offered in the name of love?

In today's discourse, discussions often revolve around a man's role as a provider, with expectations of financial support and material gestures. But shouldn't true feminism advocate for equality in all aspects, including reciprocity in relationships? If we expect to receive, shouldn't we also be willing to give in return?

I find it absolutely ludicrous for a lady to hinge her decision to date a man on the criterion that he must be able to take care of her or place her on a monthly salary in the name of monthly allowance even when some of these ladies do not have any tangible income but then as they say, it is all about preferences.

This reflection prompts me to create this piece and to ask this vital question that delves into the essence of partnership, equality, and the profound depths of devotion.

"Ladies, What is The Biggest Gift Or Financial Sacrifice You've Made For Love?"

Holly Gram This matterz go long oo!


The matterz go even TIE WRAPPER


Anyways make I LITE UP my WEED and observe..


WTF MAN!

dkidd:
Money when she still dey collect times 10 from the poor guy till now

lol

My dear brother, I think you are mistaking. This kind question is not meant for 9ja girls.

9ja girls are all useless ashawo that uses love as a code to live off our men. They believe, relationship/marriage is a poverty alleviation program.

Sacrifice her and not for her

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram This matterz go long oo!


The matterz go even TIE WRAPPER


Anyways make I LITE UP my WEED and observe..


WTF MAN!

puff am idan
Pass am

Answering his calls and chatting with him at odd hours 😁

EreluRoz:
Answering his calls and chatting with him at odd hours 😁

The OP said biggest gift or financial sacrifice.Not this.

otherway:
The OP said biggest gift or financial sacrifice and not this.

That's the biggest sacrifice I have given so far

EreluRoz:
Answering his calls and chatting with him at odd hours

STINGY

EreluRoz:
That's the biggest sacrifice I have given so far

Lol!

I can imagine. I'm not surprised

otherway:
Lol!

I can imagine. I'm not surprised

😂😂😂

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ItisWell22:
200k to add to his business, following the Covid lockdown.

Wawu!

Are you a Nigerian? Just curious

And did you loan it to him or give him outrightly?

Daniel7543:
Sacrifice her and not for her

LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣

Toks2008:
Wawu!

Are you a Nigerian? Just curious

And did you loan it to him or give him outrightly?

Money when she still dey collect times 10 from the poor guy till now

EreluRoz:
Answering his calls and chatting with him at odd hours 😁

See urself?

dkidd:
Money when she still dey collect times 10 from the poor guy till now

LOL!

Toks2008:
Wawu!

Are you a Nigerian? Just curious

And did you loan it to him or give him outrightly?

And you believed , someone who doesn't have up to 100k in her account.

I guess it will be nice to see what ladies have done.

lalastiiclala, myn44 what do you think?

Savedday2:
My dear brother, I think you are mistaking. This kind question is not meant for 9ja girls.

9ja girls are all useless ashawo that uses love as a code to live off our men. They believe, relationship/marriage is a poverty alleviation program.

Lol 😂 we actually capitalize on your FOOLISHNESS to alleviate poverty.


I hope you know that you men have sacrificed for nyash more than you ever did for you mothers as well as have received gifts from which you have never and will never give your poor mums.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Lol 😂 we actually capitalize on your FOOLISHNESS to alleviate poverty.


I hope you know that you men have sacrificed for nyash more than you ever did for you mothers as well as have received gifts from which you have never and will never give your poor mums.

Good news is y'all will be mothers, With sons who will spend more on yansh than y'all. Vicious cycle.

God is not mocked😔

annayawchee:
Good news is y'all will be mothers, With sons who will spend more on yansh than y'all. Vicious cycle.

God is not mocked😔

That's exactly what we are telling you. Guys will spend on nyash than on their mothers.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
That's exactly what we are telling you. Guys will spend on nyash than on their mothers.

the same matter na... Your son will do the same to yoi

annayawchee:
the same matter na... Your son will do the same to yoi

That's exactly what I have been saying. Am glad you got my point. Men will always do anything for nyash above their mothers. It's an inherent FOOLISHNESS that they can't change.

.

Waiting...

I stayed with him when he was nothing.. 🤡

Thread about to get messy


Ladies that are always broke

Only ass and brest

Lol

Savedday2:
My dear brother, I think you are mistaking. This kind question is not meant for 9ja girls.

9ja girls are all useless ashawo that uses love as a code to live off our men. They believe, relationship/marriage is a poverty alleviation program.

Not all women are the same.

I know of a woman that solely sponsored his husband's Japa school runz. Both school fees and accommodation. Over €30,000.

The husband was in an Audit firm while the lady works with an oil company. She earns much than the man though.

Please pray you marry a good and understanding woman.