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udemzyudex:
They'll grow old and die alone.

So your children are gonna die with you

I am 39, 2 kids
I have a car
I have a house to be completed this year.
I have 10 years professional banking experience and I'm still counting.

Do wetin you wan do on time. Do not wait for money.
I got married when I was a private school teacher in a local private school.

toujurs:
You are smart, how come you are still single?

He's single because of his smartness.

Rexymania:
Me wey get children, if you know wetin I dey face? I'm just grateful to Allah. If you're not mentally ready, don't venture into it. Life no be competition

You were not mentally ready when you married and it took toll on you?

oluwoleife:
Panic say wetin happen?

I wonder o

okunwaye:
So your children are gonna die with you

You lack wisdom.

udemzyudex:
They'll grow old and die alone AND HAPPY

FIXED

here is a simple clue: while you spend money on food for kids, toys for kids, school fees, higher education, time/energy raising children etc, these people who dont want kids have enough time/money to live their single lives indulging on whatever they desire in their single life.
nobody should pretend that EVERYBODY wants to be a married nor that EVERYBODY want/need to have kids. thats a lie from the pit of hell.
to each their own.

NairalandGOAT1:
The thread ends officially after this comment!
I don't care to read anything others are writing or typing after this!!!

I'm out!!!!!

Honestly, the Guy KILLED the Guy.

In Ijaw language, they call it 'Egberi Fade' i.e. the Talk don Finish.

udemzyudex:
You lack wisdom.

That doesn't answer the question.

So your children are going to die with you?

Will be forty this year not married never dated I am not interested in any of those things kini big deal

okunwaye:
That doesn't answer the question.

So your children are going to die with you?

You expect me to answer a stupid question? You forget that if you grow old without having children, who will bury you or you don't like to see your children and grandchildren visiting you for holidays when you grow old?

That's why i said you lack wisdom to understand what I wrote up there.

MrBrownJay1:
FIXED

here is a simple clue: while you spend money on food for kids, toys for kids, school fees, higher education, time/energy raising children etc, these people who dont want kids have enough time/money to live their single lives indulging on whatever they desire in their single life.
nobody should pretend that EVERYBODY wants to be a married nor that EVERYBODY want/need to have kids. thats a lie from the pit of hell.
to each their own.

You lack wisdom oga.

Dundalk:
stop painting kids on people's faces, some kids are to send you to early grave.. Seems like u are woman,
No condition is permanent though

Some married ones are craving for divorce and thinking had i know..

Life no balance...

Some jumped in and wanted out immediately.
Some got in early and are either enjoying the experience or are silently suffering and wishing they had maybe waited for who knows what..

Some got in late and are currently wondering why they didn't do this earlier or are cursing the village people that made them change their mind..

People should just focus on experiencing life. It was never meant to be the same for everyone.

The day the collective consciousness regains one single mind, reality as we know it will seize to exist, in other words, we'll all kick jerrycan in a most vawulent of ways as Existence would end us all.

Society and it's so-called norms. And humans with mumu rigid thoughts sef..

SMH

udemzyudex:
You expect me to answer a stupid question? You forget that if you grow old without having children, who will bury you or you don't like to see your children and grandchildren visiting you for holidays when you grow old?

That's why i said you lack wisdom to understand what I wrote up there.

The question is still unanswered

So your children are gonna die with you?

Vergovert:
He's single because of his smartness.

it's a she, i saw an "f"

Chingyyy878:
Liar 😀

Most of them are always sad/depressed seeing their younger ones kids

Mumu! Let them be, wetin concern you? Na you get their live for them?

The men don’t really bother

I used to feel bad, till I started getting calls from friends about school fees, at least I'm almost stable to afford kids, cuz I'm broke at this point. But God dey

Yankee101:
The men don’t really bother

Women have it easier, they can just pick the best suitable and rich partner and settle down. No one is gonna pick someone not financially stable.

Every man can find a wife with any amount
Maybe not just the exact woman you want

qtguru:
Women have it easier, they can just pick the best suitable and rich partner and settle down. No one is gonna pick someone not financially stable.

okunwaye:
The question is still unanswered

So your children are gonna die with you?

Go back and read the first post I quoted, that's if you will still understand it after reading it again.

You expect me to spoon feed you with answers, if you can't reason on your own, that's your problem.

udemzyudex:
Go back and read the first post I quoted, that's if you will still understand it after reading it again.

You expect me to spoon feed you with answers, if you can't reason on your own, that's your problem.

You're still dodging the question

So your children are gonna die with you?

Yankee101:
Every man can find a wife with any amount
Maybe not just the exact woman you want

I agree with this wholeheartedly

God will help us 🙏

okunwaye:
You're still dodging the question

So your children are gonna die with you?

Clown.

udemzyudex:
Clown.

That's not an answer

So your children are gonna die with you?

udemzyudex:
You expect me to answer a stupid question? You forget that if you grow old without having children, who will bury you or you don't like to see your children and grandchildren visiting you for holidays when you grow old?

That's why i said you lack wisdom to understand what I wrote up there.

So burial is the reason for marriage?

Those that got married and couldn't have kids because of fertility issues and died, who buried them?

Vergovert:
He's single because of his smartness.

Exactly

Though it's not good to marry late in this evil world

But most don't have the means while few are just flagrant

udemzyudex:
You lack wisdom oga.

thank you sir, you sound as intelligent as a narrow minded pastor trying to force feed his nonsense to sheeples.

VinnyBaba:
It is Actually, The cost of Maintaining a Home.😒

Rent
Electricity bills.
GOTV
Gas
Diaper
School fees.
Etc.😟

Young Men should be very Financially Ready before going into Marriage,
because in Africa, All Responsibility is for the Man.

Woman own na to Born pickin and Nurture.

And give disrespect

jmoore:
So burial is the reason for marriage?

Those that got married and couldn't have kids because of fertility issues and died, who buried them?

Another unwise post.