MrPOTUS:



The problem with Nigerians (since we're here) is lacking of strategic spacing of their kids. Dey give birth like pigs.

Like d ones I saw yesterday, a mother and her children, 4 or 5 kids or so and the highest age isn't up to 10 years. You go think say na 7 days dem take senior themselves. All of them just small.


Birth spacing should be at least 4 to 5 yrs between siblings, so when you're having your third or last child, d older siblings will be a bit mature and less stress to you.

Ay04z:
Nigerian mentality is ..born wetin U wan born and rest asap ... ..

morgstreme:


"Professor Mature"...

I called you kid..

And you got internally"low esteemed" to call me fool,yet expecting a contrary opinion..

You are still a kid..

wunmi590:


You are right on this, but don't forget that there are alot of factors that might allow spacing once children very difficult, like getting married early and giving birth late, due to some circumstances..

My first child was 3years, before the second came.

So you never can blame women

MrPOTUS:





3 years is also great boss.

While I emphasized on much spacing is to enable d parents also plan things out.

Spacing can also help you reduce financial stress if u understand.

ferhyntorlah:


Your comment hits a nerve.

But you're right.

Thanks for letting us know children's can be trained to be well-behaved and composed wherever they may be.

I just refused to believe the stereotypic mindset that's been around for ages.

Thanks again

Ay04z:
Nigerian mentality is ..born wetin U wan born and rest asap ... ..

NOwazobia:
Nothing on earth is stopping my 6 kids target.

Adakintroy:
That's why poor people are the greatest. Them can have 8_10.

blingxx:


And overpopulate the country with little resources to support their future.. Sure why not

NOETHNICITY:
I want to have lots of kids

Minimum of 6

blingxx:


Yes and put them on the streets to survive on their own , the kids later become miscreants

Chivik93:
I want to have plenty kids and plenty money

blingxx:


You guys are making it sound like rich people who are having only two or three kids are stupid ok

blingxx:


A very reckless thing to say

wunmi590:


That's because majority of them either married late or started giving birth late..

It is well

meedoLock:
Happy weekend frnd
So, you are to holistically consider your mental state and imagine all the physical and mental stress having kids would make you go through. Most especially, women of this world.

I'm also expecting a first child, and I do feel for our mothers/women, they in most cases go through this children rough play torture alone, while men goes to the street of course to fend for their families.

Caaz:
I have 2 .... whenever I m not around them my heart keeps pounding.

Having and caring for kids is a big flex.

Ay04z:
. No be so jare....we too love knacking. ...and we believe family plan has side effects ,.so we opt for withdrawal methods..and it will keep on failing reason for more babies ....

meedoLock:


I bet you are right, imagine if you have 5 upwards. Ńa die

Babaibeji2020:

God doesn't permit no shit.....
Do what you can before you litter everywhere with hook ups and gee bois.....
Wisdom is very profitable, our forebears had lots of kids to work on farms,now no farm or probably the zeal to farm.......
Richest men across the world have one or two......

twilliamx:
I have 3kids and am intending to adopt 2 more.

Kingzjayzee:
like you were once

abbeyd2:
Sometimes when I see how my children are displaying I shout on them. My mother will say you do more than these when you are young. I will now ask myself Na so I dey behave? It's a karma no one can escape it 😂😂😂