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Aurelius1:
You may think he's talking nonsense but he's saying the truth. It would be difficult getting a woman without kids to love your 3 kids as her own. Even women who had kid(s) in their earlier relationships often maltreat their step kids. My cousin is a living witness. The woman came into the marriage with 2 kids she had in an earlier relationship. My cousin had 4 kids before they met while she had 2. They have a daughter together. This woman made sure my cousin sent his own children away from the house while her own remained. To cut long story short, she finally divorced him after he lost his job and fell sick..................
.this is not meant to discourage you because who knows, you might just be lucky to meet a good woman. Good luck in your search.

The guy you're supporting is not on this same page with you. Go back and read his comment, and this time with much patience. The experience your cousin (sorry about his experience)had doesn't rule out the fact that, there are good spirited women out there(with/without kids).

He outrightly said a single father shouldn't date any lady without kids, like he is an authority!

So YOUR TRUTH is single parents shouldn't date someone that's no kid? Pls, explain?

But, I am yet to see where I stated I needed someone that's been or never been married before.

or have you seen where I said I needed a virgin?

People can really JUMP into conclusions sha...

are there no divorcees and single mothers that are working classes, financially stable, educated, know what it means to love and be loved? Are those features peculiar to single ladies alone?

Like primarily we shouldn't be dragging this issue cos I wasn't specific about it at all... and If it happens who can stop it?

Interesting but OP, just curious to know what could have caused the divorce that couldn't be resolved, you are in your early 30s, I am guessing your ex is in her early 30s or 20s too, hmmn.

This Op is very BRILLIANT, Omo see how he dey attack like AK 47
You passed through school, your school fees ain't a waste at all. Some of your Big Big grammar sef, I haven't heard it before

boldx:
You need some time out to reflect on lessons learnt or what went wrong.

who says he hasn't learned reflected enough .
Are you him ??

Ishilove:
No it isn't. I pointed it out for ladies that may be interested. My contribution to your search

well, they would have dm'd if they were curious.

faithfull18:
Interesting but OP, just curious to know what could have caused the divorce that couldn't be resolved, you are in your early 30s, I am guessing your ex is in her early 30s or 20s too, hmmn.

Life happens

missyojo:
This Op is very BRILLIANT, Omo see how he dey attack like AK 47
You passed through school, your school fees ain't a waste at all. Some of your Big Big grammar sef, I haven't heard it before

my sister how I for do na... to every gbas, there must be a commensurating gbos

Op,
This was a year ago and on my birthday for that matter.
I meet all these qualities except that I'm also divorced.
Unfortunately age is an issue for me.i prefer 40+ .
I hope you find what you are looking for.
Goodluck

@oakson
This was a year ago and on my birthday for that matter.
I meet all these qualities except that I'm also divorced.
Unfortunately age is an issue for me.i prefer 40+ .
I hope you find what you are looking for.
Goodluck

oakson:
I quite understand the intricacies of a faceless and public forum such as this. So, if I say I am what I am; don't doubt me, I Am!

BTW; is that a subtle interest ?

Divorcee with 3 children... that's alot of baggage son
Plus you in early 30s so you never wise, and the mouth on you... smh!
Still very vain because you have small raba and live 'above average '.
If you so fly, why did your first marriage not work out? what aren't you telling us? Better climb down your high horse a couple of notches. You not all that. In fact, a single lady with all the properties you listed up there will not touch you with a long stick!

Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Now I see the comment of mine that has galvanized your irrational volcanic eruption. Since the meaning of my first post has been unable to penetrate your mind like water on the back of a duck it is needless to offer you clarity. Furthermore, your vituperation has lost its purpose on me. Unlike you, I am not chockfull of acrimonious bile waiting to slip at the slightest hint of antagonism. Nah, I won't smear you with dirt because I have none to give.[/color]

No vex jare, na small boy e be.

oakson:
Read your signature and see the contrast in your comment. Must you NL folks really show how petty you are? These coming from men shows how warped and condescending most males on this forum are...

kilode, must you folks spit? Can't you just read, swallow and go in peace or pieces?

Read, swallow and go in peace ke? Are you paying for anyone's time here? Or did you buy their data that you presume to tell them what to do with it? If you don't want unsolicited comments and advice, then don't put your business in public domain for everyone to read! Once you do that, all bets are off, you get the good, the bad and the ugly and it shows a great deal of immaturity that you choose to fight everyone who expresses an opinion different from whatever you had in mind when you cooked up this post. If you can't stand the heat, carry yourself and your post out of the kitchen joor

[author=Mims007 post=132258961]Op,
This was a year ago and on my birthday for that matter.
I meet all these qualities except that I'm also divorced.
Unfortunately age is an issue for me.i prefer 40+ .
I hope you find what you are looking for.
Goodluck[/quote]Hi Mims007, sorry I had to bid this post farewell because of the headless morbid trolls(You know NL trolls na) lol! Soothing to know it coincides with your birthday.

Thanks for your kind words and prayer... they mean so much to me

Mom007:
Read, swallow and go in peace ke? Are you paying for anyone's time here? Or did you buy their data that you presume to tell them what to do with it? If you don't want unsolicited comments and advice, then don't put your business in public domain for everyone to read! Once you do that, all bets are off, you get the good, the bad and the ugly and it shows a great deal of immaturity that you choose to fight everyone who expresses an opinion different from whatever you had in mind when you cooked up this post. If you can't stand the heat, carry yourself and your post out of the kitchen joor

Who let the dogs out.... smh

Mom007:
Divorcee with 3 children... that's alot of baggage son
Plus you in early 30s so you never wise, and the mouth on you... smh!
Still very vain because you have small raba and live 'above average '.
If you so fly, why did your first marriage not work out? what aren't you telling us? Better climb down your high horse a couple of notches. You not all that. In fact, a single lady with all the properties you listed up there will not touch you with a long stick!

Are you sure you've not skipped your medications again.... The stress you gave your family members the last time was out of this world. Please don't add to their pain, not anymore dear....

Obviously, their daughter has gone M^D again

oakson:
Are you sure you've not skipped your medications again.... The stress you gave your family members the last time was out of this world. Please don't add to their pain, not anymore dear....

Obviously, their daughter has gone M^D again

*smiles

Small boy.
I saw your track record so I was expecting your juvenile response. You didn't disappoint. Ladies, see the boy behind the puffed up profile... proceed at your own risk!

Mom007:
*smiles

Small boy.
I saw your track record so I was expecting your juvenile response. You didn't disappoint. Ladies, see the boy behind the puffed up profile... proceed at your own risk!

Even in my generosity and goodwill you are still picking offense... Haba

Hello Op, any update as regards this thread. It's more than a year now, hope you have gotten your better half

missyojo:
Hello Op, any update as regards this thread. It's more than a year now, hope you have gotten your better half

Are u ready for him either?

Tayorshd87:
Are u ready for him either?

Lol 🤣

Are you his spokesman

missyojo:
Lol 🤣

Are you his spokesman

No because I needed such too so I don't know if u will be available for me 😔

Op let's talk

Neptunium:
After u done born 3kids u dey find somebody's daughter to do wetin wit? U are mad. Nobody wants used toilet paper. Na ur type dey feel entitled to virgins after u don sleep wit everything in skirt.

If not for anything else, I love this thread as a token towards a more equal society for men and women.


Looks like I've even added my own two cents before lol.

missyojo:
Hello Op, any update as regards this thread. It's more than a year now, hope you have gotten your better half

Becoming a better half for the half too

verminnel:
Op let's talk

Ok...

[quote author=oakson post=132319307]Becoming a better half for the half too [/quote

That's good 👍