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texazzpete:
Imagine you trying to victim blame.

In a patriarchal society, you’re trying to tell me that a woman will be insulting her fiancé and openly flirting with other guys weeks to her marriage?

Imagine trying to claim that wife beaters who beat their wives for no reason suffer from mental health issues. When they are everyday people who have been conditioned to see women as inferior to them.

We condone this rubbish all the time. You need to outgrow this

1. If u have not heard of insulting/flirting or sex with an ex on same week of wedding, then I think you are yet a young man! You have not seen anything.

2. Wife beaters conditioned by what exactly?
Are you among the wife beaters gang?
Do you agree that madness is of various degrees?

Before you insult me again,try to seek the opinion of sane friends around please.

valentinos22:
1. If u have not heard of insulting/flirting or sex with an ex on same week of wedding, then I think you are yet a young man! You have not seen anything.

I’m most certainly older than you.

I used the word ‘openly’ for a reason. Why will you not read ?

valentinos22:
2. Wife beaters conditioned by what exactly?
Are you among the wife beaters gang?
Do you agree that madness is of various degrees?

Ah. I see that your issue is from comprehension, not the reading part.

I suggest you re-read what I posted when you’ve sobered up

immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.

ADDED:
I have gotten 21 quotes and have no time to reply to the quotes one after another. Fools attack me because of my last paragraph where I addressed the lady's publicity of the case. The stupid attackers ignored where I say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. My last paragraph implies that she herself should not be abusive in her marriage since she left an abusive man. If she becomes abusive in her own marriage, this publicity will work against her. Tonto is an example. Tonto left her marriage and made the world see her estranged husband as a beast. The man has been living peacefully with another woman and Tonto has failed in her second marriage. This does not mean Churchil is innocent of her accusation. She might have said the truth against Churchil. She might have lied against Churchil. I was not there to know the truth. But whether she lied or not, her failed second marriage went viral because of her publicity against Churchil. So, if you publicize the weakness of your ex, be careful in handling your next partner, be you a man or a woman. The stupid attackers who accept only one-sided judgment and hate a balanced judgment should hug live energy transformers.

"If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him." If this bolded part is more reason the stupid attackers are angry, I can justify the bolded part. If not for material benefits or for getting an orgasm, what will make such a lady date the highly abusive man for more than a year? We can see the man's picture. We can see he is not all that physically attractive. So, what kept her in the relationship for more than a year? Any lady that decides to date a highly abusive man for up to a year does it either for material benefits or for sexual satisfaction, and such a lady will have interest in the man for a long time even after a breakup. If not that common sense is not common, those attacking me would have asked themselves why she dated him for more than a year. She claims she was hoping he would change, this is a lie. Or, are there not men she dated for less than a year? Why didn't she give those ones more than a year to know if they would change?

I know this is a two year old post but I'll still go ahead and say what I want to say which is 'YOU ARE A VERY BIG FOOL FOR MAKING THIS TYPE OF COMMENT

badblackgod:
I know this is a two year old post but I'll still go ahead and say what I want to say which is 'YOU ARE A VERY BIG FOOL FOR MAKING THIS TYPE OF COMMENT

Are you wise in this response?

Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...

Why do people make excuses for bad behaviour? It seems this guy is one of those violent types of guys.

A man who abuses his partner will always find a reason to justify his actions. There are women who are not troublesome at all, yet they still face violence from their partners. Some men resort to hitting their partners due to their own insecurities and jealousy, some may even become violent when their partner discovers their infidelity.