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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by scribble: 9:56am On Sep 17, 2014

cococandy: It is guys like you that make people say all men are cheats. Now for your mind you're bragging but you don't know how silly you're portraying men to be with this your comment.

On another thread if a lady says all guys cheat,you'll carry your sword and start fighting as per the victim of male bashing.
But here you are lending credence to the voice of those who like to accuse all men of infidelity

Because you don't have self control doesn't mean other men are like you.
Stop deceiving impressionable young boys into thinking that self control is impossible.
And stop excusing your lousiness by making it seem like every other man is like you.

You're on your own.
If you can't keep it in your pants,go for counseling or wait until you've gotten the randiness out of your system before you think of settling down.

Don't get married with your p5nis controlling your reasoning and then make an innocent girl's life miserable with your designers collection different STIs and STDs

Delusional much?

Madam cococandy or whatever you fancy yourself, the men that don't cheat are the men that don't get caught.

And it's not all side chicks that have stds...just fyi

Since keeping it real is now bragging I overstand you. You're the type that think men cheat just to count scores...

No we are wired to want as many beautiful women as we can afford....

Men that don't cheat with random ratchets are the ones with successful homes

Eg. Can you imagine Senate president screwing some random ratchet hole?

His wife knows how far but his heart is as large as his political canvass and my dear that is enough for any real woman....

How can I only descend in one womanliness all the days of my life....

St Peter no go happy with me Sef. Nonsense.

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Godmystrength: 9:56am On Sep 17, 2014

scribble: I take delight in being a man and doing manly things.

Cheating is now a MANLY thing? shocked

scribble: Besides cheating is such a strong word.

So what is the right word?

scribble:
If a man is uber responsible and ALL the needs at home are met and he decides to have an extra marital affair that doesn't infringe on his wife's sensibilities. Ie because she doesn't bloody know, then fine and dandy.

Please educate me more on this. and is there any extra marital affair that doesn't infringe on a wife's sensibilities?
So are you saying that any cheating that is bloody not know is fine and dandy?

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Godmystrength: 9:58am On Sep 17, 2014

scribble:

The next thing na lesbianism

You women leave all these unAfrican things alone but una no go hear word.

So working towards your success now translates to approaching lesbianism??

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by scribble: 9:59am On Sep 17, 2014

Godmystrength:
Cheating is now a MANLY thing?

So what is the right word?

Please educate me more on this. and is there any extra marital affair that doesn't infringe on a wife's sensibilities?
So are you saying that any cheating that is bloody not know is fine and dandy?

First of all you have to comprehend that men and woman are wired differently.

If I explain from now till rapture, you won't understand and your anger fit make you miss heaven.

All men get it or 99% do.

Good luck looking for the 1% that don't agree with me.

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by NIGERIALOLoCOM(m): 9:59am On Sep 17, 2014

iceberylin: THESE WH0RES AIN'T LOYAL

Once upon a time, I never understood what the above meant, until the scales fell off my eyes.

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by naijaboiy: 9:59am On Sep 17, 2014

Many of them know they are side chicks and are comfortable with it

Well,,what can a man do but to flow with life

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by scribble: 10:00am On Sep 17, 2014

Godmystrength: So working towards your success now translates to approaching lesbianism??

Good luck and I wish you success.

Let be be more candid with you...

Can you be more successful than beyonce or Oprah

Beyonces man is cheating whenever he can...

Oprah has no man but licks Gayle kings box...she is bi...

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by cococandy(f): 10:01am On Sep 17, 2014

Lmao.

Carry go bro. Nothing do you.
Even HIV is afraid of you

scribble:

Delusional much?

Madam cococandy or whatever you fancy yourself, the men that don't cheat are the men that don't get caught.

And it's not all side chicks that have stds...just fyi

Since keeping it real is now bragging I overstand you. You're the type that think men cheat just to count scores...

No we are wired to want as many beautiful women as we can afford....

Men that don't cheat with random ratchets are the ones with successful homes

Eg. Can you imagine Senate president screwing some random ratchet hole?

His wife knows how far but his heart is as large as his political canvass and my dear that is enough for any real woman....

How can I only descend in one womanliness all the days of my life....

St Peter no go happy with me Sef. Nonsense.

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by IyawoToBe(f): 10:06am On Sep 17, 2014

Mynd44: These ladies are pissed.....

lol. You can say that again angry

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Nobody: 10:10am On Sep 17, 2014

50calibre: Having a side chic is like having a spare vehicle, it's advisable.

Chics behave better when they know they have competition.

Your head is there.

Ladies come online to say rubbish. But it's none of my business

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Nobody: 10:12am On Sep 17, 2014

evegran: All the guys on this thread calling females, esp generalizing that "all girls have fish brain and blah". I'm guessing it is the females in your families that poses "fish brains"? Most of you guys on here claiming to have "main chicks and side chicks", majority of you don't even deserve to have any chicks. Bunch of worthless MOFOS! Sadly some extremely lame girls out there actually respond to you guys and paint girls as "easy". Well I expected the sensible guys to realize and even state that girls are different, not sit in your village and assume every female s nature based on the females in your village. Jokers! When you haven't been in the ocean, you'd sit in your little pond and assume what the ocean is like.

I can bet you.have four boyfriends grin

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by warrior01: 10:14am On Sep 17, 2014

teeo:

I can bet you.have four boyfriends

For a Nigerian girl, that's even an understatement.

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Ayostically: 10:14am On Sep 17, 2014

standd: @Aisha2, I have also watched 'the other woman'
I think Nollywood should start replicating such movies. Maybe some Naija gals will start to have some sense.

Dont worry, trust naija. They'll soon come out wil their version bt dont b surprised cos theirs wil b: the other woman 1&2, the first woman fights back3&4 n the return of the other woman5&6

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Nobody: 10:18am On Sep 17, 2014

I laugh reading most ladies comments here. Una never jam correct bobo wey wind your head. I have met very intelligent and classy women who would say they won't confront another woman because of a guy,story,but they will wage a mental war that even in the air is so palpable, professor-X has nothing on such women. Women should stop denying it,your Feelings will always be your weakness,always. And this is worst exhibited by the so called feminist. But btw,GUYS find one woman who is worth it,if she has the basic qualities u seek in a woman make an effort and stay,for your own peace of mind,if u choose to Love,u would. We are quick to find out nothing is out there but we still dey chase. A bird at hand na the very bird finally,nothing dey inside bush.

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Nobody: 10:23am On Sep 17, 2014

biafransoul: Why wouldn't a Nigerian guy not have a 'side chick'? Nigerian girls ain't loyal. The same girls that will easily dump a loyal guy on the premise that he is not ready ( financially buoyant) How many Nigerian girls are ready to stay with their poor loyal guys? Abeg, tell me another story.
My advise to guys, if you've got the wads, try and have as many holes as possible and don't even take any serious cos they're ain't loyal. They want the money, you need the sexx, so be it.

calm down bro...

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Nobody: 10:27am On Sep 17, 2014

warrior01:

For a Nigerian girl, that's even an understatement.

One for Recharge cards,
one for movies
chief to buy iphone6 and the steady boyfriend for sex. God go punish them sha ni

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by iceberylin(m): 10:29am On Sep 17, 2014

NIGERIALOLoCOM:

Once upon a time, I never understood what the above meant, until the scales fell off my eyes.

Thank God u nw know

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Godmystrength: 10:29am On Sep 17, 2014

scribble:

Good luck and I wish you success.

Let be be more candid with you...

Can you be more successful than beyonce or Oprah

Beyonces man is cheating whenever he can...

Oprah has no man but licks Gayle kings box...she is bi...

How does this your post address my question o. na wa. see my question again

Godmystrength: So working towards your success now translates to approaching lesbianism??

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by LogoDWhiz(m): 10:29am On Sep 17, 2014

From my own perspective and experience about this kind of situation, although the guy might tend to like the main chick more, but they are all the same to him, main chick and side chicks.
There is this quote I'll like to use, "If you truly love Tue first, there won't be a second" (something like that).

More so, gals need to start respecting themselves, and believe they deserve more.

When some gals see a cute guy who has money, that's okay for them, as long as they are d main chick, and then they will console them self with the fact that I can't get a better person. No one will love me like he do, no one will date me, no one will be as cute and rich as he is. And so on.
But they should know that, they can get a better person, and who will love them for who they are.

Although it might be more complicated when the girl has sacrificed a lot, this kind of situation requires proper consideration.
But all in all, you can leave the guy and you'll surely get a better person

Respect yourself first and guys will respect you.

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Dreyl(m): 10:29am On Sep 17, 2014

cococandy: Lmao.

Carry go bro. Nothing do you.
Even HIV is afraid of you

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Godmystrength: 10:30am On Sep 17, 2014

scribble:

First of all you have to comprehend that men and woman are wired differently.

If I explain from now till rapture, you won't understand and your anger fit make you miss heaven.

All men get it or 99% do.

Good luck looking for the 1% that don't agree with me.

Godmystrength: How does this your post address my question o. na wa. maybe i am the one with comprehension problem

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by PerfectlyPerfect(m): 10:38am On Sep 17, 2014

50calibre: Having a side chic is like having a spare vehicle, it's advisable.

Chics behave better when they know they have competition.

true talk bruv. dats the right logic to keep them on a straight path.
these hoes ain't loyal at all

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by pappyrose(f): 10:52am On Sep 17, 2014

Y do ladies allow guys to call them 'chick'? I still don't get it. Abi dy are chickens?

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by Nobody: 10:54am On Sep 17, 2014

teeo:

I can bet you.have four boyfriends

Continue seeking for the attention you obviously lacked whilst growing up. Nuisance! Oh plus, if assuming people's lives helps you continue living that miserable, empty life of yours- knock yourself out!

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by mejai(m): 10:57am On Sep 17, 2014

so because my wife is cooking DAT Delicious meal (main chic) at home means I won't chop gala (side chic) b4 I reach my hood, mgbo? a beg make una free us o. Hey! bring #100 gala now. grin

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by deboraha(f): 10:58am On Sep 17, 2014

Men are like, women are the biggest cheats. Women are like, men are all cheats. You cannot define every man or woman in nigeria as cheats bcs U have one or some experience of cheating from ur vicinity. You also cannot vouch for any oda human being but yourself. I believe faithfulness is achievable whether you are male or female. It is possible to be faithful.

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by babestell(f): 10:58am On Sep 17, 2014

Once again I reiterate my comment. Work hard for yourself and make your life count. Determine what is happiness for you and strive towards it.

And like some posters have said keep your eyes open to the reality of true love. Tell yourself what you can or cannot be. I personally CANNOT be a main/side chick/wife. No need to exchange words or fists, thank God Nigeria is gradually approaching the point where the stigmas of divorce/singleness is losing sway. (btw I don't support divorce)

Also I refuse to believe all/99% men cheat. I know a lot of men who do not cheat, men with money, power and opportunity. It isn't easy for them but they go an extra effort to stay faithful.

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by 50calibre(m): 11:00am On Sep 17, 2014

cococandy: That's for women with low self esteem.
For me,I'll break up with a guy who's double dating me than live my life trying to out do another lady on the side.

Which mouth will I even use to ... You know

When I can't for the life of me imagine where it has been dipped into.
Yuck!

Hahahaha that's so not true. I will have to see a serious level of respect & commitment if I'm not to keep side chics, else I don't care.

Polygamy is very much part of African culture, I've seen many men with multiple wives & they all gracefully play their various roles. Does it mean these women have low self esteem? Polygamy was never a problem before, why should it be now? People up their game in the face of competition.

A woman has got to be special to claim exclusive rights to a man, that's our culture.

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by babestell(f): 11:00am On Sep 17, 2014

scribble:

The next thing na lesbianism

You women leave all these unAfrican things alone but una no go hear word.

Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by 50calibre(m): 11:02am On Sep 17, 2014

PerfectlyPerfect:

true talk bruv. dats the right logic to keep them on a straight path.
these hoes ain't loyal at all

Lol you already know! grin

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Re: The Logic Of "Main Chick" And "Side Chicks" by cococandy(f): 11:05am On Sep 17, 2014

Na you sabi.
I'm speaking for myself.
There are women who will fight over a man as we all know.
There are those who will endure polygamy because they feel they can't help it.

But for myself,I'll only share a man unknowingly. That's if I never find out.
But if he's the type that considers philandering part of his culture,I'm out.

I won't suck a diick I know very well that's been in another woman's pucci
(Forgive my language)

The thought disgusts me.

If you want the days when polygamy wasn't a problem,you can buy a time machine and go back in time or convert to islam.
That's the only way you can have 'peaceful' polygamy cheesy

I'm sorry things have changed. Just get with the times already

50calibre:

Hahahaha that's so not true. I will have to see a serious level of respect & commitment if I'm not to keep side chics, else I don't care.

Polygamy is very much part of African culture, I've seen many men with multiple wives & they all gracefully play their various roles. Polygamy was never a problem before, why should it be now? People up their game in the face of competition.

A woman has got to be special to claim exclusive rights to a man, that's our culture.

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