| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Dottune(m): 11:49pm On Sep 20, 2014 |
Heebucun: Some guys are actually shy actually but on here(nairaland)they are veri bold!Y the change in character? Probably cause we don't have to actually open our mouth to talk to you or look a girl in the eyes 1 Like |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by NnamdiN: 12:48am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Just show up nak..ed  |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by freshness2020: 3:09am On Sep 21, 2014 |
I need to go outta ma shell!
I need help here! |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Heebucun(f): 8:59am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Dottune: Probably cause we don't have to actually open our mouth to talk to you or look a girl in the eyes Is it that hard looking someone in the eyes?I hate having conversation with people that can't look into my eyes.Its a sign of lack of confidence.anytime this happens I had just device ways for them to do so.saying things like am going to miss u let me sEe ur face and bam I got my eye look or better still i had ask them jokingly is there dirt on my face?there are many things u can say if u have closer relationship with the person.things like I love it when u look into my eyes,it makes me feel loved or it makes u look more confident.I hate it when Ladies thinks shy Guys are stupid and vice versa 1 Like |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Dottune(m): 12:34pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Heebucun:
Is it that hard looking someone in the eyes?I hate having conversation with people that can't look into my eyes.Its a sign of lack of confidence.anytime this happens I had just device ways for them to do so.saying things like am going to miss u let me sEe ur face and bam I got my eye look or better still i had ask them jokingly is there dirt on my face?there are many things u can say if u have closer relationship with the person.things like I love it when u look into my eyes,it makes me feel loved or it makes u look more confident.I hate it when Ladies thinks shy Guys are stupid and vice versa Hmmm.... True, one thing I know for sure is Shy guys or girls are actually not Stupid, sometimes they are actually the Dangerous. BTW can I follow you, so I could receive more Lectures  |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by ayorwizz(m): 1:05pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Heebucun:
Is it that hard looking someone in the eyes?I hate having conversation with people that can't look into my eyes.Its a sign of lack of confidence.anytime this happens I had just device ways for them to do so.saying things like am going to miss u let me sEe ur face and bam I got my eye look or better still i had ask them jokingly is there dirt on my face?there are many things u can say if u have closer relationship with the person.things like I love it when u look into my eyes,it makes me feel loved or it makes u look more confident.I hate it when Ladies thinks shy Guys are stupid and vice versa Hmm...brilliant "Ammin lov wit dis woman" *in southafrican accent* 1 Like |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Heebucun(f): 3:10pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Dottune: Hmmm.... True, one thing I know for sure is Shy guys or girls are actually not Stupid, sometimes they are actually the Dangerous. BTW can I follow you, so I could receive more Lectures Tanx.ur welcome to  |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Dottune(m): 3:29pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Heebucun:
Tanx.ur welcome to Hope I will get a follow back, you'll be the 1st person I'll follow on NL |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by McWhillion(m): 9:33pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
temigracie: Bring me a shy GUY....I ll turn him into another thing within days!!!... I am here |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by McWhillion(m): 9:37pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Heebucun: Some guys are actually shy actually but on here(nairaland)they are veri bold!Y the change in character? Are you talking to me? |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by wizhaywhy(m): 9:59pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Hmmmm abeg kme use me do xperiment o. But if u fail chai u go see my blue eyes
but no b all of us feel thesame way as u hve stated above. 
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| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by herald9: 10:27pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
#Drags Francistony into the thread...#
Oya do the summary for me... |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by mstik(f): 10:44pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Shy guys are so adorable   |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Nobody: 12:38am On Sep 22, 2014 |
temigracie: Bring me a shy GUY....I ll turn him into another thing within days!!!... Hehehehe. U spoilt child. Ur cute and rotten #MeLikey |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Nobody: 6:17am On Sep 22, 2014 |
herald9: #Drags Francistony into the thread...#
Oya do the summary for me... I be babe nau |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by herald9: 6:35am On Sep 22, 2014 |
FrancisTony:
I be babe nau triangular madness
Your moniker combinations can't even make a good female.... xo hommie just giveup... |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Nobody: 6:48am On Sep 22, 2014 |
herald9:
triangular madness
Your moniker combinations can't even make a good female.... xo hommie just giveup...  |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by johnstar(m): 7:50am On Sep 22, 2014 |
hmm. . I think im in d ryt thread, cool *seun abeg bring dat long bench* |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by johnstar(m): 7:53am On Sep 22, 2014 |
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| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by johnstar(m): 7:56am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Dottune: Probably cause we don't have to actually open our mouth to talk to you or look a girl in the eyes #gbam, u said it all, some tyms I prefer chatn wit a gal dan facing her 1 on 1, I ll b 2 shy 2 tel her wts on my mind.. lol |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Dottune(m): 8:50am On Sep 22, 2014 |
johnstar: #gbam, u said it all, some tyms I prefer chatn wit a gal dan facing her 1 on 1, I ll b 2 shy 2 tel her wts on my mind.. lol Yeah true and that moment after talking to her, u get to finally be with her 1 on 1 and u can't tell her all what you've been telling when you guys were chatting and she'll be like "Are you sure you Love me or you're just playing me?" |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by lawrenceunaa: 10:57am On Sep 22, 2014 |
ladies don't want anything that will stress 'em out They want guys to do all the chasing after we hear comments like 'womwn wrapper' as compliments |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by tobiboss(m): 11:44am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Front page |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by emmygr8(m): 4:36pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
Heebucun: 6)Ask about his interests
.Ask what he likes to eat or what sports, hobbies, or movies he enjoys. Once you find something in common, ask him if he’d like to get together some time to pursue it. Shy guys can be very interested in you, but petrified to make the first move. It is very easy to open the door to a common interest by asking about food, hobbies or other fun activities. When you hit on something you both love, you will instantly become more bonded as similarities are a key way of cementing connection between people. It is easy, then to make the first move and ask about doing the activity together.
This is a good litmus test that will show if he is interested or not. When you're opening the door that much, if he does not respond and make the date, chances are he is not into u
7)Try writing notes.
If either of you love to read and write, exchange notes or meet online and chat with text. It moves a little more slowly, so it gives you both time to compose your thoughts and it gives you both a chance to throw out anything that seems to come out wrong.
 Touch him gently or even give him a mini massage
.Making physical contact actually releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone, so he may feel closer and start responding to you immediately through the power of touch. Gently grasp his arm or relax him by giving him a mini neck or shoulder massage. This relaxes him so that he is less up-tight and fearful. In addition, making physical contact often opens the door to him making an affectionate gesture towards you later on—where he holds your hand, puts his arm around you or kisses you.
Ask permission first, and make sure he's open to that sort of attention. A mini massage might be considered too forward or intimate in some circles.
9)Make the first move yourself.It's not illegal or even off limits, and it may come as a great relief to a guy who's a bit reserved if you ask him out. You don't have to call it a date if you don't want to. You can also be the one to broach the subject of romance, or to give (or at least offer) that first kiss or hug. Spell it out when you're ready. Some guys don't catch hints, no matter how many you drop, but don't give up.
10)Bepatient, and don't rush things
He's not going to change overnight, and there will likely be vestiges of his shyness for some time to come. Hurrying may only intimidate him, so as your relationship grows, suggest the next move, but try to take his pace. Work to build a trust that will make you both confident with yourselves and with each other when you're together.
Be aware that he may seem awkward around you at first. Be persistent and compassionate.
Source:wiki
Heebucun: 6)Ask about his interests
.Ask what he likes to eat or what sports, hobbies, or movies he enjoys. Once you find something in common, ask him if he’d like to get together some time to pursue it. Shy guys can be very interested in you, but petrified to make the first move. It is very easy to open the door to a common interest by asking about food, hobbies or other fun activities. When you hit on something you both love, you will instantly become more bonded as similarities are a key way of cementing connection between people. It is easy, then to make the first move and ask about doing the activity together.
This is a good litmus test that will show if he is interested or not. When you're opening the door that much, if he does not respond and make the date, chances are he is not into u
7)Try writing notes.
If either of you love to read and write, exchange notes or meet online and chat with text. It moves a little more slowly, so it gives you both time to compose your thoughts and it gives you both a chance to throw out anything that seems to come out wrong.
Touch him gently or even give him a mini massage
.Making physical contact actually releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone, so he may feel closer and start responding to you immediately through the power of touch. Gently grasp his arm or relax him by giving him a mini neck or shoulder massage. This relaxes him so that he is less up-tight and fearful. In addition, making physical contact often opens the door to him making an affectionate gesture towards you later on—where he holds your hand, puts his arm around you or kisses you.
Ask permission first, and make sure he's open to that sort of attention. A mini massage might be considered too forward or intimate in some circles.
9)Make the first move yourself.It's not illegal or even off limits, and it may come as a great relief to a guy who's a bit reserved if you ask him out. You don't have to call it a date if you don't want to. You can also be the one to broach the subject of romance, or to give (or at least offer) that first kiss or hug. Spell it out when you're ready. Some guys don't catch hints, no matter how many you drop, but don't give up.
10)Bepatient, and don't rush things
He's not going to change overnight, and there will likely be vestiges of his shyness for some time to come. Hurrying may only intimidate him, so as your relationship grows, suggest the next move, but try to take his pace. Work to build a trust that will make you both confident with yourselves and with each other when you're together.
Be aware that he may seem awkward around you at first. Be persistent and compassionate.
Source:wiki
Heebucun: 6)Ask about his interests
.Ask what he likes to eat or what sports, hobbies, or movies he enjoys. Once you find something in common, ask him if he’d like to get together some time to pursue it. Shy guys can be very interested in you, but petrified to make the first move. It is very easy to open the door to a common interest by asking about food, hobbies or other fun activities. When you hit on something you both love, you will instantly become more bonded as similarities are a key way of cementing connection between people. It is easy, then to make the first move and ask about doing the activity together.
This is a good litmus test that will show if he is interested or not. When you're opening the door that much, if he does not respond and make the date, chances are he is not into u
7)Try writing notes.
If either of you love to read and write, exchange notes or meet online and chat with text. It moves a little more slowly, so it gives you both time to compose your thoughts and it gives you both a chance to throw out anything that seems to come out wrong.
Touch him gently or even give him a mini massage
.Making physical contact actually releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone, so he may feel closer and start responding to you immediately through the power of touch. Gently grasp his arm or relax him by giving him a mini neck or shoulder massage. This relaxes him so that he is less up-tight and fearful. In addition, making physical contact often opens the door to him making an affectionate gesture towards you later on—where he holds your hand, puts his arm around you or kisses you.
Ask permission first, and make sure he's open to that sort of attention. A mini massage might be considered too forward or intimate in some circles.
9)Make the first move yourself.It's not illegal or even off limits, and it may come as a great relief to a guy who's a bit reserved if you ask him out. You don't have to call it a date if you don't want to. You can also be the one to broach the subject of romance, or to give (or at least offer) that first kiss or hug. Spell it out when you're ready. Some guys don't catch hints, no matter how many you drop, but don't give up.
10)Bepatient, and don't rush things
He's not going to change overnight, and there will likely be vestiges of his shyness for some time to come. Hurrying may only intimidate him, so as your relationship grows, suggest the next move, but try to take his pace. Work to build a trust that will make you both confident with yourselves and with each other when you're together.
Be aware that he may seem awkward around you at first. Be persistent and compassionate.
Source:wiki
nice threa! How about How to stop being shy? that's for a shy Guy , especially when it's about dating babes, especially an introvert type ? |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Heebucun(f): 6:47am On Oct 05, 2014 |
wizhaywhy:
Hmmmm abeg kme use me do xperiment o. But if u fail chai u go see my blue eyes
but no b all of us feel thesame way as u hve stated above. Explain the differences dear |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Heebucun(f): 6:58am On Oct 05, 2014 |
emmygr8:
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nice threa!
How about How to stop being shy?
that's for a shy Guy , especially when it's about dating babes, especially an introvert type ? Am going to create a thread on dat later.sowie for d late response.bin busy with exams |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by wohlay24(m): 8:50am On Oct 05, 2014 |
temigracie:
Bring me a shy GUY....I ll turn him into another thing within days!!!... m a shy guy |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Dottune(m): 3:41pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Heebucun:
Am going to create a thread on dat later.sowie for d late response.bin busy with exams where have you been? I've not been able to start my lectures with you like you promised |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Heebucun(f): 6:09pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Dottune:
where have you been? I've not been able to start my lectures with you like you promised It is exam oh |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Dottune(m): 6:12pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Heebucun:
It is exam oh Eyaah hope it has been good? When will you be thru or are you thru? |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Heebucun(f): 6:14pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Dottune:
Eyaah hope it has been good? When will you be thru or are you thru? Almost tru just dat some has bin shifed.can spare some time on tym.yeah it has |
| Re: How To Bring A SHY Guy Out Of His Shell by Heebucun(f): 6:15pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Dottune:
Eyaah hope it has been good? When will you be thru or are you thru? Almost tru just dat some has bin shifed.can spare some time on NL.yeah it has |
