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Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by BigBashiru: 10:09pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
the issue of side chicks is an interesting one. OP while i understand where you are coming from in need for variety, the women cause men to have this side chick mentality. Men like em young and hot. period. Men also like variety. If you dont want a man to have variety then he needs to be married to some 21 year old, 23 max. Side chick comes in because when women are young they are not ready for marriage... do you honestly want me to settle for 32 year old and ignore 21 year olds all in the name of marriage? You must be kidding me. For me, I dont ask for too much. Just one main young chick that is 21 or 22 max. Its just to avoid cheating. but then again, at this age, they dont want to marry. so maybe modern marriage just cant work? |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 10:13pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:Including your wife to be? |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by 100Cents: 10:23pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
pweetixandy: Supported. That a lady chose to be with you doesn't mean you should trample her. Everyone deserves some form of respect even if she is crying to keep your love. There is a bad guy somewhere called KARMA... |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by zeb04(f): 10:23pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
I have learnt that the reason why most girls don't get angry when they find out the cheating story is because they do it hemselves. Guilty conscience won't even let you talk. Its possible the lady is only interested in the marriage yo bear Mrs while still doing her own stuff. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 10:32pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
zeb04: thats fine too... frankly i wouldnt give a damn |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 10:34pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
100Cents: oh u mean Karma is not a bad chick...ah and there i was thinking i had located another side piece |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 10:35pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
dovelike: pls dont quote me if u have problems with comprehension my wife to be is the main, im casting nets for the side surely u see the logic now |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by pweetixandy: 10:35pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:good for u 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by zeb04(f): 10:38pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:Mr stop your lies. you are not getting married Next time come up with a better lie You don't even reason or talk like one who is getting married. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 10:42pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
zeb04: lol ok delude yourself or embrace reality, there are men that think and reason like this everywhere many men see marriage as a chore especially the ones that been dating a long time but its wisdom that allows us still go ahead and marry because eventually the new chick becomes a chore too...its a vicious cycle really and its understandable why women detest it...y'all cannot compete with the new chicks as u age and your bodies sag... u try to manipulate the man to seeing you as the all in all meanwhile the wool has since fallen off his eyes Solomon the wisest man that lived, had a few bad side chicks its the way of the alpha male but there is a way out...just be a good wife and give him a reason to love you every so often he will stay married to you...or just put otapiapia in his food |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by chymystique(f): 10:47pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble: *continues smh*.. Am sure you will give a damn when she gives birth to another man's baby as yours 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by zeb04(f): 10:50pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:a chore? Why do you want to displease your self for a very long period of time to please someone else? Why do you want the bondage......don't you like to just be single and shag everywhere, anyhow? I feel sorry for you.you are not alpha enough with your bondage mentality You think wools don't fall of the eyes if women? With your big tummy, shrinkled dic.k I bet your d wool covering your lady's eyes will fall before you say jack You know why I don't have problem with your type, cause I know pple come from dysfunctional home so it's OK to be stup..id. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 10:56pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
zeb04: 1. its called sacrifice 2. i love her more than most so i will marry her, she is a really good woman my tummy and shriveled cockadoodledoo will never overshadow my bank account its not just my family thats dysfunctional, its society...if not why will u come on my post with ur strong face and be spewing garbage because it dawns on u that the man u marry may reason just like me or even worse.... u'd be surprised that im the good guy u women dont understand that men dont even talk as much as i am about these issues, most men just take it as given... abi u nor dey visit Linda or Stella? |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by zeb04(f): 11:01pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:hahaha I guess your bank account will be having sex at night with her. Don't bother yourself about my man .he has a good head on his neck |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 11:21pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
SMH scribble: |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by karmaleon: 11:34pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Wonder why marriage scares the shit outta some men... What cld be so dreadful in living with your fellow specie whom you feel u've got a connection/compatibility b4 exploring the route of marriage? The money? Kids? Sex? Wth? If u never ready, ride on the d association of unmarried men... There is always room you all! |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by segzicres(m): 2:25am On Nov 06, 2014 |
women just don't like to hear the truth. evident on this thread, I assure you that this op has said far more than he should, y'all women are bloody hypocrites men will cheat deal with it. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 6:18am On Nov 06, 2014 |
You think she will just fold hands and pray for you while you cheat on her? You must be a learner... Before you might even think of sleeping with 5 side girls, she must have slept with 10 young guys including your boss The measure you give, is what you should expect bro. So your home will actually turn to a godless family of hoes.... Husband.... Useless Wife.... Hoe Children.... Bastar.ds I don't envy you... Hml in advance 4 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by zeb04(f): 6:31am On Nov 06, 2014 |
3cycle:so right.. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Tymax(m): 6:54am On Nov 06, 2014 |
passionate88:@ the emboldened; you have said it all! Gbam! @ Topic: OP you should be wary of the silence of your fiancée. You think any woman would gladly permit cheating in her marriage? She may be planning something big. Bro, just try to reciprocate her faithfulness. For your own good and that of your unborn children. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by wordbank(m): 7:00am On Nov 06, 2014 |
Babes wey op dey follow hia sef na die! 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 7:29am On Nov 06, 2014 |
chymystique: Grounds for divorce? So I can tell the world I tried but my wife.... Nothing like freedom baby |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 7:32am On Nov 06, 2014 |
3cycle: Clown...U need to go and have a long talk with your father and mother.... Let your mom tell you the truth A lot of you guys don't know how far.... Me personally I'm not the type of man a woman just open eye and cheat on...for several reasons.... I'd let you in on a few but that would be bragging |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 7:34am On Nov 06, 2014 |
Tymax: What she doesn't know won't kill her A lot of the happily married women in Nigeria have learned to turn a blind eye Go and seek advice from elders Only if the man is broke but why should a broke guy even have a mistress? 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 7:45am On Nov 06, 2014 |
Ppl dey carry my matter for head I understand why the babes are doing it I understand why the broke niggurs, hypocrites and NL romance seekers are doing it But my wife to be gave me the ground rules: Don't get any ho pregnant, Don't marry wife no. 2 And what u do is none of my business. Is she tryna kill a niggur? Lolz U guys never jam love...love is blind....marry the woman that understands you Some ppl r in relationship where the babes na lez and the husband dey encourage am (albeit for selfish reasons) But he doesn't trip....U have to understand your spouse and marriage is acceptance. She has known from day 1, I will not let any prominent ukwu willing to mingle pass me by unless she is physically present A lot of the women acting like their husbands are saints, na their damn biz...I saw a Bella naija groom once who spent at least 16m on wedding Next weekend he was calling our most popular bachelor friend to organize those "Moremi hall shawties again" Not up to one month after marriage....Make I hear word plz |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Tymax(m): 7:45am On Nov 06, 2014 |
scribble: Bro, I can't pardon a cheating partner and I don't expect my woman to pardon it too. Let's call a spade a spade. This thing is called "CHEATING". Guy, if she cheats on you, hmmm e go pain you o. Better calm down and dump the side chick. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by pweedyuz(f): 7:45am On Nov 06, 2014 |
BigBashiru:what is dis one saying ni "if you dont want variety,,den marry dem young---22/23 nd dis is ur own opinion on y guys cheat on dia wives because dey marry a 32yr old woman..... nd whu gave u d idea dat most older women dont look young nd hot as if dem girls wey u go marry at age 22 no old again..... na young forever!!!!!!! |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 7:46am On Nov 06, 2014 |
BigBashiru: Even if u marry 18, one day she go 30 and u go sight another 18, in fact after 5 to 6 years of that 18, u go dey reason like bachelor again |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Missonas(f): 8:00am On Nov 06, 2014 |
scribble:Even though i think you are selfish i think you are truthful and sincere.What's more your women agree with 'your idea of commitment'. Why don't you suggest an open relationship cos I know you won't like her having various commitments like you intend to #teamonemanonewoman 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by pweedyuz(f): 8:03am On Nov 06, 2014 |
scribble:My dear,,,just because u nd d frnds u roll with nd also d little stories u listen to hear nd dere cheats/suggests dat all men cheat does nt conclude dat dere r no faithful guys on this planet earth RARE? yes...but dem fathful guys r around.. to b candid with u,,no one loves a cheating partner. ur fiance will tell u shes o.k wid it nd give u ground rules as u listed above..#buh truth b told,,,evri girl wants to b d only lady in her man's life## dis is whu u are nd she respects dat,,,,#Why,,,probably she is "too" inlove with u nd feels she can change u....or she really wants to get married nd ur available....cos no girl will c a caring,loving partner*man of her dreams*nd just decide to end up with a cheat.....#IMOO# if u tink she is nt worried atall den u r a blind man yes,,,,she gave u rules,,,but in her mind she feels d opp......ur wife is burdened..find her best frnd,,im sure shes tired of hearing ur story! i wish u a very fruitful marriage but note dis #na open relationship u dey enter so...as u've told ur wife say u will have side chicks wen u r married,, expect side cocks from her too# |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 8:23am On Nov 06, 2014 |
scribble:Dog.... My dad never cheated on my mum for the years They lived together until his demise. Yes my dad is one man on planet earth I could vow in his life never had any thing to do with a mistress all his married life and I know we still have such men in our days.. Stupiditi... No one can cheat on you but you can cheat on others? Keep lying to you, let me tell you something, the real reason she agreed to maarry you is because she found out both of you are birds of same feathers, she probaably has a sugaar daddy meeting all her needs while keeping a single guy just so she can get married and be tagged mrs, asides that she might be staying for other benefits. Stop parading yourself as a player because you just met someone who is like you or better. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 8:28am On Nov 06, 2014 |
scribble:Your wife to be is the main? She is actually someone's side babes but your main chic.... Height of ignorance |
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