dovelike:
Hmmm,you are following lots of girls...your whatever (the one that is not your supposed wife to be) has ample ukwu...you are not getting married yet...

What's ample ukwu?

scribble:



Why all this tylenol for my own headache....madam shift Abeg

I know you're her assistant vagin.a but one would think with all the traffic your own va Jay jay has been getting you would calm down

its not my headache that you live in your own little non-existent world its just hilarious! i'm not her assistant vagina but neither are you living in the real world. I have not been with a lot of men, trust me I would never marry a douchebag all in the name of getting a husband. I have better to offer therefore I know I deserve something better in a man.

When someone is brought up in a broken home, he will always think that whatever he grew up seeing is all there is to life. Some grew up seeing their mothers being mistreated and they grow up believing that's how a woman should be treated, its really sad that people grow up with such a shallow mentality.

Just letting you know you are what you attract, if you think life will give you more than you deserve you are on a long thing. the truth is rarely pure and never simple like Oscar Wilde said

scribble:



I love her o


I just find myself falling in love with others too


But what has love got to do with it...


DELUDED peeps everywhere

no bro. You don't love her. You can't love someone you have no respect for. If you were still in dating phase, I wouldn't have any problem with your stance... But marriage?

Anyway, heart break is one of the major reasons many men would flirt till death.

Mondisweets:
jesus help me! thats a woman getting a fair share of her own fun on the side too and you are busy thinking she is just keeping herself for you alone?
Hilarious!
Just when we thought its only toddlers that believe in disney fairy-tales. Well here is a grown asssss man who does too


And you on the other hand a like a child who believes toothfairies exist

What of if I told you this whole thread is a social experiment?

I've gleaned your thoughts and those of your peers in order to advance my own agenda.

Have a nice day #missiamtheleaderofNLexpatriatecommunity

scribble:

i i believe my wife to be knows this too

sai!

emusmith:
Hector...lol...u nor well o

hahahahahaha naughty me

emusmith:
What's ample ukwu?

That's relative. Enough @$$

scribble:



What of if I told you this whole thread is a social experiment?

I've gleaned your thoughts and those of your peers in order to advance my own agenda.

Have a nice day #missiamtheleaderofNLexpatriatecommunity

social experiment indeed I hope know you have learnt that you are more naïve than you think women are

dovelike:
Hmmm,you are following lots of girls...your whatever (the one that is not your supposed wife to be) has ample ukwu...you are not getting married yet...

Hehehe I cannot get over this your comment. I for pm you too but it's more refreshing meeting women in the real world

But u look like u have some serious ukwu too baby

Mondisweets:
social experiment indeed I hope know you have learnt that you are more naïve than you think women are

I own you.

You must be Ghanaian.

scribble:



I own you.

You must be Ghanaian.

and what will be wrong with being Ghanian?

2sexi:
no bro. You don't love her. You can't love someone you have no respect for. If you were still in dating phase, I wouldn't have any problem with your stance... But marriage?

Anyway, heart break is one of the major reasons many men would flirt till death.

What do you know about love, marriage or heartbreak

You sincerely think telemundo is a good source of information

Perhaps you should reverse out of this thread please, especially if you have nothing beyond childish cliches to bring to this forum....

Mondisweets:
and what will be wrong with being Ghanian?

U would perhaps have lots of ample

Unless your last name is Nelson


Remember: I have your medicine

3cycle:

Your wife to be is the main?
She is actually someone's side babes but your main chic....
Height of ignorance

one dude nearby is busy fucking his wife.I can tell she is a side chick yo someone else.

So Muslims that have more than one wife, don't love all their wives?

The way some people reason eh.....


Africans were living like Muslims before the missionaries came with their straight hair and fibroids causing relaxers....

Intruding on our land today with terror, even biological weapons....

And we embrace the Hollywood effect of their gospel without once stopping to think.

I wonder why people are asking him to free the lady, didn't you all read where he said she knows his weakness? She knows yet decided to marry him, that's her beeswax.

freecocoa:
I wonder why people are asking him to free the lady, didn't you all read where he said she knows his weakness? She knows yet decided to marry him, that's her beeswax.

It's the delusion part...

People know the truth but always hope it will be different with them

They aspire to save others yet are lost themselves

And then these women being nosy is not new at all

zeb04:
one dude nearby is busy fucking his wife.I can tell she is a side chick yo someone else.

Nice try

Some great Nairalanders are gracing my thread...

I see LM Ayedun is here

Welcome.

scribble:



It's the delusion part...

People know the truth but always hope it will be different with them

They aspire to save others yet are lost themselves

And then these women being nosy is not new at all

I agree, although I must say ask, did you promise to be faithful at any point?

Would you feel betrayed if your intended ever cheats on you?

scribble:




Nice try

you welcome

scribble:



What do you know about love, marriage or heartbreak

You sincerely think telemundo is a good source of information

Perhaps you should reverse out of this thread please, especially if you have nothing beyond childish cliches to bring to this forum....

lol. What have I said to make you this pained or angry. Sorry o. No vex o.

But let me ask... If she in turn goes on fvcking spree or keeping a side bobo...? What will be ur reaction.?

No vex o. Na question I ask o.

Happy Married life in Advance.

freecocoa:
I agree, although I must say ask, did you promise to be faithful at any point?

Would you feel betrayed if your intended ever cheats on you?

ah free cocao... The ever sugar lady already ask same question I just asked. God bless u

. Mehn, nairaland don make me see things

2sexi:
ah free cocao... The ever sugar lady already ask same question I just asked. God bless u

. Mehn, nairaland don make me see things

My dear, the things I've learnt from here, although you have to really use your head when reading stuffs on here, most of it is just talk.

Still, it's a great place to learn.

freecocoa:
I agree, although I must say ask, did you promise to be faithful at any point?

Would you feel betrayed if your intended ever cheats on you?

ur question is technical. i like intelligent people

ofcourse i promised to be faithful

i would feel pained maybe but certainly not betrayed. betrayal is such a strong emotion.

i may also choose to feel liberated unless the kids are involved and too young to deal...



but biko you that act like sexual infidelity is the all in all of making or breaking relationships and fiduciary duties...

ever heard of the term "swingers"

how would u classify them?

scribble:



It's the delusion part...

People know the truth but always hope it will be different with them

They aspire to save others yet are lost themselves

And then these women being nosy is not new at all

Bro, I have read through ur post, and I must confess I have been laughing all through, ur reasons and some of ur post seem cogent... I for one am someone that never have and still don't believe in love. I know it doesn't exist (it's only a delusion women claim they suffer from, when they have seen a potential financial Provider) but they re things I believe in and it's called RESPECT, that is something I have always brandished and it pays in no small way..... Every thing in life has its pros and cons, and you should be aware of it/them before u venture into it so as to make an informed decision ....... and also I'll plead with you, never get married out of pity or what people will say, it is a perfect condiment for failure and mockery
Moreso just on the side note , hope you know ST'S really exist, especially the most dreaded hiv/aids ( for what shall it profit a man to have the whole punny's , and suffer his life in mystery of infections.... just so u know

scribble:


ur question is technical. i like intelligent people

ofcourse i promised to be faithful

i would feel pained maybe but certainly not betrayed. betrayal is such a strong emotion.

i may also choose to feel liberated unless the kids are involved and too young to deal...



but biko you that act like sexual infidelity is the all in all of making or breaking relationships and fiduciary duties...

ever heard of the term "swingers"

how would u classify them?

Okay then, I hope you don't mind further questions.

If you promised to be faithful and won't even make an effort to try to keep that promise, doesn't that make you feel guilt?

Why would you feel pain? I like that you think betrayal is too strong an emotion to feel in such instance, makes me think you have some fairness in you.

Liberated? So you think marriage is/ should come with some confinement?

Actually people now define how the want their marriage to be as opposed to what our ancestors made it out to be, so I can't say what the making/breaking of a relationship is/should be as I believe people have a right to how they choose to live, provided their partners are in the know, I believe we should treat people the way we want to be treated.

Ofcourse I've heard of swingers, what I think of them? I think they are a bunch of people who have chosen a path and should live with whatever comes with it.

scribble:




Not all beautiful women are whores


You sound like a Yoruba or urhobo woman

Or Edo. #JustSaying

2sexi:
OP. Why do you want to marry someone you don't love?

Dude let's not talk about something as fleeting, erratic and as unreliable as love. Instead talk about more dependable factors such as level of understanding, compatibility, friendship, etc.

I hate that word oloun.

freecocoa:
Okay then, I hope you don't mind further questions.

If you promised to be faithful and won't even make an effort to try to keep that promise, doesn't that make you feel guilt?

Why would you feel pain? I like that you think betrayal is too strong an emotion to feel in such instance, makes me think you have some fairness in you.

Liberated? So you think marriage is/ should come with some confinement?

Actually people now define how the want their marriage to be as opposed to what our ancestors made it out to be, so I can't say what the making/breaking of a relationship is/should be as I believe people have a right to how they choose to live, provided their partners are in the know, I believe we should treat people the way we want to be treated.

Ofcourse I've heard of swingers, what I think of them? I think they are a bunch of people who have chosen a path and should live with whatever comes with it.

i didnt promise to be faithful when i asked for marriage, i promised no outside pregnancy and no second/third/fourth wife

when we started dating i promised faithfulness, i was young and naive then

ask any honest man, most will say, yes! marriage confines...although some are indifferent to the confines because of financial independence

i would feel pained (not pain), pained because she doesnt strike me as the type to do such a thing and i normally do not chase after promiscuous women unless i had envisioned a sharp sharp transaction not a life time affair like marriage

Actually people now define how the want their marriage to be as opposed to what our ancestors made it out to be, so I can't say what the making/breaking of a relationship is/should be as I believe people have a right to how they choose to live, provided their partners are in the know, I believe we should treat people the way we want to be treated.


you have a lot of depth. the woman knows my P and has accepted, sad how ppl falling over themselves to criticize and reprimand, mean while they are the ones that are in dire need of relationship counseling

we must each walk the path that we have chosen.

waywardpikin:


Dude let's not talk about something as fleeting, erratic and as unreliable as love. Instead talk about more dependable factors such as level of understanding, compatibility, friendship, etc.

I hate that word oloun.

delusional peeps

my boo is so real, she asked me what i would love about her, after love has faded 3 years ago

i think thats where the real foundation is when we get past the superficial, the 4 letter emotion that is subject to change

emusmith:
What's ample ukwu?

Ask the OP oo. Na him talk am.